Personal attacks in Posts. Edited - Page 4

Originally posted by: rima

i just recently made friends with the victim of a henious crime. i felt for her and this post is for people like her

Originally posted by: Firebolt

I agree with what you say.. Everyone needs to realize that there are actual people behind the computers...

But yes i fall into the category of 'simply entertainment' ... with that said to all those people who have gone through difficult times... Please don't take offence to something told by some anon in the internet.. it honestly isn't worth it...

Originally posted by: Dalmuthuya

I am seriously glad you're standing up for this. There are many things which are fictional that relates to people. For me Khushi and Arnav relates to me a lot due to my past. It gives me a sense of peace. Such as Harry Potter always related to me, it helped me heal too. I am glad you understand this and was brave enough to post this. I hope your friend is alright too <3

Originally posted by: CDlove

I think pepole are forgetting the message this post is trying to give as personal attack has already begun; Irony is on this very thread.

Please people let it go. And yes Im saying directly to the member who has posted an opinion here. Personal scars or no scars, let it go. Let bygone's be bygones. No need for rash language.

Take a deep breath and calm yourself down.

Yeah dear i got the message & ll stop spamming this thread. But such issues come only when people preach but dont practice. Else i wouldnt ve bothered 2 reply 2 the post. I neither preach & never claim that i practice.

Ppl like me try & give our real life experience only when ppl on the other side r v obtuse & refuse 2 understand the rationale behind an argument put fwd by us. In my case it was KKG playing with food. Ppl like the TM justified it & hence ppl like me were forced 2 give real life examples to make them understand the repercussion. We are not here 2 try garner sympathy or pity frm ppl whom v dont even know. What ll i achieve by that. Plz tell me?

But sadly in that thread it all degenerated into fist cuffs & if u c since then i ve learnt a lesson & stopped posting bt KKG. Since my opinions r getting tinged by my personal views & realizing my fallacy i refrain frm posting these days.

So yeah peace. No intention frm my side 2 bash. Just requesting ppl 2 either practice what they preach or stop preaching.

Anyway enuf of my spamming. Have already clarified to the TM via PM so my last reply me on this thread.

Wish u guys a nice weekend 😊

Originally posted by: music1

This is and will always remain a fictional story for me...I do not relate to ASR or Khushi in any way neither have I met anybody who does...I totally totally agree personal attack is not healthy..but if people take these characters as fictional ones there won't be any attacks...why do u need to bring ur personal thing into a public forum where there are hundreds of unknown unseen faces???Ofcourse u can share ur trauma with people who understand u...sharing relives pain..but dear gals...a total stranger who has lead a comfy life will not understand ur frustration...neither will she be bothered about it...that's how this world is...share ur pain with people who understand u..there is the PM facility for u...there are many who will understand u...but my request to all...public debate forum will not help u heal ur pain...another time u try to lash out ur frustration..many might bash u..coz they donot know u ,so my dear friends...be very careful...u do not want to get hurt again in the hands of unknown strangers...

Originally posted by: Lyraa99

Totally agree with you.. if someone disagrees with the other there is a way of saying it without offending the other person... Sometimes members bash and healthy discussions get closed and sometimes members discuss and it is termed as bashing...

If only everyone could give their opinion without turning the forum into a battle field

Yah i completely agree with u bc often some people really turn this forum into a battle field and just never stop which is not why we are here. We just wanna discuss and give our opinions not bash anyone

Originally posted by: Angels11

Yeah dear i got the message & ll stop spamming this thread. But such issues come only when people preach but dont practice. Else i wouldnt ve bothered 2 reply 2 the post. I neither preach & never claim that i practice.

Ppl like me try & give our real life experience only when ppl on the other side r v obtuse & refuse 2 understand the rationale behind an argument put fwd by us. In my case it was KKG playing with food. Ppl like the TM justified it & hence ppl like me were forced 2 give real life examples to make them understand the repercussion. We are not here 2 try garner sympathy or pity frm ppl whom v dont even know. What ll i achieve by that. Plz tell me?

But sadly in that thread it all degenerated into fist cuffs & if u c since then i ve learnt a lesson & stopped posting bt KKG. Since my opinions r getting tinged by my personal views & realizing my fallacy i refrain frm posting these days.

So yeah peace. No intention frm my side 2 bash. Just requesting ppl 2 either practice what they preach or stop preaching.

Anyway enuf of my spamming. Have already clarified to the TM via PM so my last reply me on this thread.

Wish u guys a nice weekend 😊

Originally posted by: rima

thanks but i just completely got absorbed with her pain. she is a part of this forum. the crime was so henious she is not out of it but she has moved on in life

It is sad that person has to go through such trauma and thanks for making me realise that people can relate to this extent with the character.. personally speaking ..I was really annoyed with one person in this forum whose posts are always negative on ASR and I was thinking what problem she cud really have with this fictional character..Well I never got personal with people here and replied very decently to her on that post...Well now your post makes me understand her to sum extent...and I am at peace now...Thanks..

Originally posted by: adrenaline

Rima for you

Pot calling the kettle back

Practice what you preach

Saw choohay kha ke billie haj ko chali

and stop making this type of silly post. Mods know what to do. Report topics u don't like.

Do what you do well , pleasing asr and khushi fans.

And those who see asr in your husbands, stop mixing personal life with show

I am silent member here, but had to say this

appreciate the special effort buddy for breaking the silence. i will continue to do everything i believe in. pleasing asr and khushi fans and making such posts. don't like it don't read it. simple

you didn't preach.

you made an apt point clearly. compellingly.

i never thought about the personal trauma of people in the forum. though i realise over these few months of viewing, the show has entered my personal space and i relate to it more deeply than i ever imagined i would with a tv serial.

thanks for your words of caution and consideration.

this is a lively and intense and fun forum, at least that's what i found in the month i've been here. i'm sure we'll keep the spirit.

so looking forward to next week.