Anika has trust issues

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Why does Anika have trust issues? She is ready to die and kill for the people she loves- sahil om Rudra gauri Bhavya and most importantly Shivaay then why does she not trust them?
She tries but a strong wind comes and her trust crumbles even when her heart says to stop she runs why???

She should have stayed...should have doubted...not believed everything she saw... should have doubted when Roop stopped her from talking to Shivaay...should have...I don't know...

Ok she has never received love or family to understand or learn how to trust but.
.I don't know...

But now Shivay has cleared the misunderstanding...now it's her turn to say her insecurities...stay and clear his doubts Anika...


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Posted: 7 years ago
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It is extremely hard to be in situation where one is starved beaten abused by the people who was supposed to take care of them.. She was left alone on a street, she didn't know where her father had gone why did he abandoned her and her sister... She was taken to a orphanage where she was beaten during night by the people who are supposed to protect her, she craved for a simple thing like toffee.. She was then adopted only to lose her adoptive parents.. She was left with responsibility of a child and also an aunt who abused her.. People looked down on her because she didn't have a surname.. After all this it's really applaud worthy that she only has trust issue.. She did not know back then that her father had not abandoned her, she was afraid that one wrong thing she will be beaten for that.. She was worried about her aunt will take away one person who genuinely loved and cared about her..

Her issues are genuine and valid.. And no its doesn't fade away with one assurance.. It has taken years to form those is issues and it will take years to overcome that..
But I agree that it's Annika's job to overcome that..

Ps:not meant to offend..

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: nakshatra72

It is extremely hard to be in situation where one is starved beaten abused by the people who was supposed to take care of them.. She was left alone on a street, she didn't know where her father had gone why did he abandoned her and her sister... She was taken to a orphanage where she was beaten during night by the people who are supposed to protect her, she craved for a simple thing like toffee.. She was then adopted only to lose her adoptive parents.. She was left with responsibility of a child and also an aunt who abused her.. People looked down on her because she didn't have a surname.. After all this it's really applaud worthy that she only has trust issue.. She did not know back then that her father had not abandoned her, she was afraid that one wrong thing she will be beaten for that.. She was worried about her aunt will take away one person who genuinely loved and cared about her..

Her issues are genuine and valid.. And no its doesn't fade away with one assurance.. It has taken years to form those is issues and it will take years to overcome that..
But I agree that it's Annika's job to overcome that..

Ps:not meant to offend..


Agree 100%! Her scars run pretty deep! And her defensive shields go up many times! Whenever she feels comfort and lowers the wall a little, some raita phaelayaa then smack goes the wall up again with a huge lock! She feels good things are not supposed to come to her! Poor girl!
Will be years before she feels really safe! Her sleeping with lights at nights are another indication of her troubled childhood!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Shivaay's temper is right at its place. Anika felt that Shivaay was hiding something from her. But she should have waited for Shivaay and talked to him before taking this step. Anika had definitely gone to the cop station but didn't lodge a complaint.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: nakshatra72

It is extremely hard to be in situation where one is starved beaten abused by the people who was supposed to take care of them.. She was left alone on a street, she didn't know where her father had gone why did he abandoned her and her sister... She was taken to a orphanage where she was beaten during night by the people who are supposed to protect her, she craved for a simple thing like toffee.. She was then adopted only to lose her adoptive parents.. She was left with responsibility of a child and also an aunt who abused her.. People looked down on her because she didn't have a surname.. After all this it's really applaud worthy that she only has trust issue.. She did not know back then that her father had not abandoned her, she was afraid that one wrong thing she will be beaten for that.. She was worried about her aunt will take away one person who genuinely loved and cared about her..

Her issues are genuine and valid.. And no its doesn't fade away with one assurance.. It has taken years to form those is issues and it will take years to overcome that..
But I agree that it's Annika's job to overcome that..

Ps:not meant to offend..


You have put it so brilliantly

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