i get it ahaan is hurt and is good at heart but... - Page 2

Originally posted by: kankabhor

I absolutely agree with everything you said. Ahaan needs to change for real and repent for years to become worthy of ishqi. Ishqi can forgive him but it would not be easy to be with him as a partner. It is not healthy for now. The biggest problme I have in Ishqi accepting Ahaan is their power dynamics.

This time Ishqi did not do mistake but he thinks he did and she is not telling the truth so he used his power to make her life miserable. In future, if Ishqi ever does mistake, doesn’t not follow him, he would again have power to destroy her. How can she trust him that he won’t do it again.

Before anything, Ahaan needs to gain ishqi’s trust that he will never ever do it to her or anyone even if she commits any mistake or crime. He is not god to give anyone any punishment. Revenge is not justice. After that only he can repent more and show real growth in character and ishqi can think of dating him. Marriage should not be no cards for now.

exactly ishqi can't either forgive or accept ahaan this soon - the redemption has to last for years but considering this is a show we might not get it.

@bold: i completely agree w the fact that he has to earn ishqi's trust. after everything he did to her, ishqi would always feel that he'll still be able to do so in future. i don't want their marriage, as well and neither their love story as of now. they should show the redemption first and their conflicting ideologies and how they work upon them - i'd rather want a happy marriage w consent.

honestly, i totally agree with you. but i feel the forum activities have made me realised, that gul has somehwhat did justice in bringing up these trivial issues. her ways are negative and i hope she shows proper track of correcting the wrongs. but i had reservation about what impact would it create ingeneral, except for nincompoops who cant see distinction b/w actor n character. She has actually done a good job in bringing up the issue. now i realise that excess of drama in a sensible way , makes people discuss about these isssues and be effected by them in a more conscius way without experiencing it. So i know ahaan, is welll, whatever u said..but now i think they sorta did a good job, with sonu, mayank and a bit with ahaan tooo

Yes and that's my main concern because for me being traditional is okay but being toxic is not acceptable