Contrasts in Understanding and Communication - Page 7

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Ditto.....kal ka episode again has put me in the zone of wanting to start skipping episodes😆.....I'd done that in between pehle also and Fary was dragging me back to watching the epis warna meri himmat beech mein jawaab de chuki thi😆

Ab shaayad phir se skip maarna pade if Didi bakwaas hi hai on the horizon....can tune back in if/whenever Adi-Imlie get something coherent or poignant.

Doesn't seem like it will be this week..kuxh login ki shakal hi itni off-putting hoti hai..serious ghin man serious ghin..I feel michmichi intensified and agar shakal leke get out bhi ho jaayein toh unke tareefon ke pull over nothing makes it more exhausting ab toh mera hosla bhi ek.dum.jawab de raha hai....as it is the episodes are bad and then all the rest of the bullshit makes it really hard to sail through that is equally working to detach

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Yeshiva toh hota aaya hai hamesha iss liye he is like bas bheek hi maangte raho.. aisa kua galat bol dia tha devi ko ke bas phir maafi maang maang je maarr jao..agar bola tha tob bol dia sorry ab uski marzi maane ya na maane..I was so so so pissed by the entitlement ke maine sab kia main sab karti hoon adi never says sorry he uses me hain? and then thr lame ke main chup.karke aa gayi oh teri shakal aur chup.rahe pulled. Choice kya thi tere paas dafah hone ke siva to save your face..it was like she wanted to fight and be like nahi main lol. Sounded so weird and what was the nonsense to imlie for..she didn't eve said anything or did anything but she was being unreasonably cold and mean na uske hi ka jawab dia na kuch aur oh yeah right caz adi praised her and her koshish few mins ago and said he needs to be with her and she heard her say ke adi is her saath mann se ...bas itne main didi ki jal gayi so kuch for bada dil..

She legit threw that main nahi maano gi ab jaise abbi bhi iska koi adhikaar hai 🤣 and ke adi mera phone nahi uthathe reply jahi kia mere text ka mere phone ka mujhe ignore kar dia arre kyon kare woh tujhe reply .. tujhe calls naukar hai tera.. and the lame dost toh life share karte hain he ignored me hmmm as if dosts ki aoni life nahi hoti and apni ji huzoori main hi lage rahe it just showed clearly isko dost ka label bhi sirf life Mai interference ke liye hi chahiye so she can still kabza karke rakho and ungliyon pe Nachho aur kis nahi

Madam dost woh bhi hote hain jo understand ke dost have their own lives and responsibilities and aapke slave nahi hain

Word to the bold.....yes, she very clearly WANTED to get his attention or pick a fight....isliye aayi uske ghar.....the way she was acting entitled like he still better pick up her calls.....lol dost wala haq nahin, biwi wala haq jataane ki koshish kar rahi thi when they frankly have neither relationship.....sab artificial hain aur uske basis pe yeh tamaashe kar rahi hai.

Anyways we had predicted this only when Adi insisted on offering her "gehri dosti" ka lollipop ki Didi aage usi cheez pe yeh entitled tamaashe karegi ....and wohi ho raha hai.....so Adi is reaping what he sowed....*shrugs*

And yes as usual, she barely glanced at Imlie, her so called "pyari behen" even after she saw that Imlie lost the competition and was feeling bad......"best character" AC also pointed out how khokhle this behen and dosti jaap are but conveniently apni beti ki taraf se nahin, Adi-Imlie ki taraf se.....lol

I just disliked that they panned the camera to Malini ki sadi hui shakal when Imlie was displaying her faith in Adi and talking about how husband-wife don't need to be in front of each other all the time to be together....mann se saath hote hain......is baat pe Didi ki shakal dikhaa ke kya point prove kiya makers ne? Was she jealous? Was she bitter as usual? We will never know cuz we just got fed another round of her victimization bakwaas instead. 🤢

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Doesn't seem like it will be this week..kuxh login ki shakal hi itni off-putting hoti hai..serious ghin man serious ghin..I feel michmichi intensified and agar shakal leke get out bhi ho jaayein toh unke tareefon ke pull over nothing makes it more exhausting ab toh mera hosla bhi ek.dum.jawab de raha hai....as it is the episodes are bad and then all the rest of the bullshit makes it really hard to sail through that is equally working to detach

Yes, ab definitely woh ulti level wala feeling reach ho gaya hai Didi ke case mein....uski shakal dekh ke hi automatically throw up karne ka mann hota hai.....🤢😆.....toh if makers ka intent here is to put us off from the show for good by forcing her face into every scene, they are deffo on track to achieve that goal👍🏼😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL irony yehi hai ki Adi never wonders why his first reaction is to think Malini would do something in childish ego😆......they always brush it aside as Adi having thought this in anger bina soche samjhe.....but sacchaayi hi thi na? She IS childishly egotistical.....always has been....but everyone keeps brushing it aside to always claim she is mature.....lol

Wasn't she childishly claiming this only on the phone to KC ki she will retaliate by wasting Adi's time too? Matlab just cuz she didn't get to the point of doing some harkat doesn't meant that isn't where her mind was na? So why was it so far fetched for Adi to make that presumption?

And Adi ke yeh sab direct taunts are useless now.....ek minute bolega you are behaving like your mom's daughter, dusre moment slavish groveling shuru phir se.....mehh.....this was just another bait and switch like they did the time of Adi calling her dusri Mrs. C.....jab tab koi farak nahin padaa toh ab ghantaa padega in the story.

AM ki aisi interactions dekh kar again clear ho jaata hai what a joke their relationship was.....Adi always knew she has childish egotistical traits but kabhi sahi point pe convey nahin kar paata tha and agar kuch bol bhi de toh aage se madam ki self victimization shuru.....aise hi kaate hain 7 saal and they are pathetic as friends too......kab milega break is bakwaas se, man......smh

Ofcourse he knows it but he also knows her childish suicide kaaands to yeh bolke immediately jaata hai aone maathe se peecha uttarne ke bas ghussa tha and mujhse naata na todo bhai kyon? ..woh mujhe samjhh nahi aata. Aise kaunse here jade hain iss friend main ke iske bina life nahi chalegi..as if we can see you are not even bothered in anyway about the so called friend ohor kyon saath jod ke rakhna hai ek tag se and jaiise hi saamne aao Aarti start karni hai.. they want us to forget this very dost gave him ghuttan 🤷‍♀️Jab tu jaanta hai always have known it subconsciously and it comes out ek dum andar se ke you are a *BEEP* krh ke nikal bhi jaata hai but nahi then he has to apologize ca the woman who can cut herself up cannot do childish Ness as locking the door sure. KuCH bhi.. when you have a valid reason you heard her say being a cheap insaan ke mujhe nahi leke gaya toh KY get back is waste hi time caz this is not important as it should be. Kyon important hai. As if he didn't communicate with her ke do it tomorrow no emergency. She waited and waited despite him telling her clearly ke leave and then was blabbing her revenge plans but sorry adi ho caz didi 2 min besharam ki tarah khadi rahi not only that then after him telling her off followed him too caz besharami FTW ..HE DIDN'T tell her to come along she did out of jealousy. It was so simple she couldn't take ke adi is with imlie. When they both came too she was avoiding to loon and displaying gain with her nostril flares and not looking at them but sure they are meant to do their bhajahan Aarti..

Kyon bole adi maafi bhai bol de ke mistake ho gaya but I wasn't wrong in assuming that as I heard you say such bullshit..I had my reason and get on witb life even that would be better then this I need to bheek maango jaan ki amaan paaaon nonsense and ab toh humein dil nikal ke djdi ke Charan mainr rakhna hoga. How dare us think about us on a day that was ours . Instead of didi asking sorry ke she bloody fudging ruined it they are doing that amazing

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, ab definitely woh ulti level wala feeling reach ho gaya hai Didi ke case mein....uski shakal dekh ke hi automatically throw up karne ka mann hota hai.....🤢😆.....toh if makers ka intent here is to put us off from the show for good by forcing her face into every scene, they are deffo on track to achieve that goal👍🏼😆

Bruh anyone who has known me ittu sa bhi is well aware of my thing with extras but woh toh cheeni kam chai hai hai ab in front of this..atleast usme iss level ka bhakti tih nahi tha..groupbaazi was so mild and ab bachon ka khel in front of this woman's need to insert herself in any situation on and off screen ..yuck..I kid you not I felt like actually hitting my head into something..😆 she makes me want to do dangerous things and inflict pain on myself caz even that is mild then seeing her ghatiya bhakti..

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Word to the bold.....yes, she very clearly WANTED to get his attention or pick a fight....isliye aayi uske ghar.....the way she was acting entitled like he still better pick up her calls.....lol dost wala haq nahin, biwi wala haq jataane ki koshish kar rahi thi when they frankly have neither relationship.....sab artificial hain aur uske basis pe yeh tamaashe kar rahi hai.

Anyways we had predicted this only when Adi insisted on offering her "gehri dosti" ka lollipop ki Didi aage usi cheez pe yeh entitled tamaashe karegi ....and wohi ho raha hai.....so Adi is reaping what he sowed....*shrugs*

And yes as usual, she barely glanced at Imlie, her so called "pyari behen" even after she saw that Imlie lost the competition and was feeling bad......"best character" AC also pointed out how khokhle this behen and dosti jaap are but conveniently apni beti ki taraf se nahin, Adi-Imlie ki taraf se.....lol

I just disliked that they panned the camera to Malini ki sadi hui shakal when Imlie was displaying her faith in Adi and talking about how husband-wife don't need to be in front of each other all the time to be together....mann se saath hote hain......is baat pe Didi ki shakal dikhaa ke kya point prove kiya makers ne? Was she jealous? Was she bitter as usual? We will never know cuz we just got fed another round of her victimization bakwaas instead. 🤢

About the camera bit my interpretation is slightly different I think they wanted to show to show contrast to spoonfeeding wali junta jinko didinke asli rang nahi dikhte but it was badly shown contrast anybody with half a brain doesn't need the visualization but others do . The whole point I felt they were trying to make was that very faith plays in binding you strongly that psace and respect and understanding something didi never had matlab this is the woman jo abhi bhi sirf iss baat pe tantrum throw kar rahi hai ke adi said wait or postpone your stupid task and get out .. not today .. that she is still being so so clingy jab uska pati hai bhi nahi but she wants to control and mutrhi main karo ke ek finger bhi na chute jitna space bhi nahit oh it was meant to fail.. jis aurat ke liye text back na karna is cancel it all on surface but phir bhi bhaag bhaag ke aana and pretending ke wohi hai bas sab in her head and then imlie who doesn't need tante and uska faith is bigger and that very thing keeps adi jodke. But yes it was wasted in execution and waise bhi kisko dekhni hai isko manhoosat we already know that and do not need reminders caz uske liye bhoolne to do .🤷‍♀️

Ofcourse she was jealous 5hat was her primary emotion yesterday feeling that which is why she was being all nakhre intensified ke hai mera friend is happy with his wife how dare him . Jitna act kar le she doesn't want them to get acceptance caz that means her patta cut toh even though inlie did not win first adi made her the priority then ran for her then she heard the MC and the judges praise her and then imlie ka we are together mann se saath. Kaise bardasht kar leti. Wohi ego bruise hofi ke a girl beneath her is smarter and can manage on her own with her smartness and her presence of mind and ace it..yeah she won't win the prize but was still the stand out and best as they said..and isko aisi superficiality ke baad bhi trophies nahi mile . 🤷‍♀️ caz she lives for them she represents that shallowness

Adi better should shove that dosti apne ghamche main lapet ke in his jeb ...

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Ofcourse he knows it but he also knows her childish suicide kaaands to yeh bolke immediately jaata hai aone maathe se peecha uttarne ke bas ghussa tha and mujhse naata na todo bhai kyon? ..woh mujhe samjhh nahi aata. Aise kaunse here jade hain iss friend main ke iske bina life nahi chalegi..as if we can see you are not even bothered in anyway about the so called friend ohor kyon saath jod ke rakhna hai ek tag se and jaiise hi saamne aao Aarti start karni hai.. they want us to forget this very dost gave him ghuttan 🤷‍♀️Jab tu jaanta hai always have known it subconsciously and it comes out ek dum andar se ke you are a *BEEP* krh ke nikal bhi jaata hai but nahi then he has to apologize ca the woman who can cut herself up cannot do childish Ness as locking the door sure. KuCH bhi..

If that is what he's scared of and it's keeping him stuck to this "dosti", they need to show him saying it clearly again.....cuz otherwise he just looks like a moron blinded in guilt mouthing token sorrys. 🤔

If he KNOWS she is a childish egotistical brat, KISI se toh share kare....Imlie toh maha Didi bhakt hai toh phir Nishu se share kar lo bhai...but nahin, utna bhi nahin dikhaana....sab humare liye hai hi hai to fill in the blanks of this pakaau bakwaas.

I just have one question.....woh Adi jo Imlie ko pravachan deta hai ki apni zindagi jeena shuru kar do, kya saari zindagi aise hi dukhi rehna hai? etc. etc.......woh Adi se mein bhi puchhna chahti hoon ki kis angle se aap ko lag raha hai aapki zindagi mein khushi hai aapki so called "gehri dost" se naata banaa ke rakhne mein? Remind me of ONE incident where having MALINI in your life actually gave you JOY🤔......answer is going to be NO only.....but you insist on keeping the delusion going.....lage raho.

Didi sach mein hadh level ki Dementor hi hai....ek episode mein ghuskar hum sabki khushi nigal gayi.....like I've literally lost all hope for aage ki storyline😆.....that's her level of power as a Dementor🤔

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, I very much felt that the dance was shortened to accommodate Didi related drama.....ST did a great job of what she got but all the intercuts of different reactions made the dance feel shorter and overall also it felt like they cut out some portion taaki they could fill the rest of the epi with lame Didi drama.

As always praan jaayeim but didi ki screenspace na jaaye🤷‍♀️ aur koi bechara dikhe na dikhe "focused" didi ka toh contract hai bar episode main ghussana hi hai as she is the most hardworking you see. Aur kaun hardwork karta hai in phulaooing their nostrils itne focus ke saath needs to be shown in detail

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: LOL yes, I got that sense from your posts the few times you dropped in😆

And as I was watching today, I instantly remembered our discussion from earlier in the day and you got proven right on it completely😆.....aap inka Didi obsession hum sabse achhe se samajh chuke ho....they did indeed force her into a whole track where she had no point being involved in.....friggin inserted her into the bahu competition too for a token guilt trip and apology tour....what maha crap.

I was hoping against hope ki kal jo shakal dikhaane aayi hai, utna dikha ke dafaa ho jaaye but I expected too much I guess.....she didn't just stay, she checked off all her worst boxes....ranting, whining, self-pitying, delusional tantrums about how she supposedly is TOLERATING others.....lol good god, the irony. Koi humse puchhe hum ise kitna TOLERATE karte hain....

Re: other contrast.....haan woh toh I guess has been getting reiterated since a while now....Imlie has never let Adi grovel even when she was actually upset with him.....lol while Malini thrives on humiliating and guilt tripping him......that's how it's always been.

Le le badla bhai.....Adi toh waise bhi ever-ready hai to grovel in front of her....if she wants Adi to beg her for the divorce, woh bhi kar lega I suppose? lol waise bhi ab yehi dekhna baaki reh gaya hai.....😆.....deffo seems like more "gehri dosti" convos are on the horizon.....dosti ghanta hai but uske upar token drama jitna marzi karva lo

Anyways Adi's gehri dosti jaap is meaningless so I don't even care much....just wanted this competition to be focused on Imlie but now we have to sit through Didi ke bakwaas tantrums again.....hope Adi does her chop even in the middle of whatever groveling she demands of him😆

Where I think they’re steering this towards is tilting the scales completely. Ab tak Imlie kar rahi thi Didi didi aur ab Aditya karega dosti dosti. They want to build into Imlie’s insecurities by adding Malini into the mix as the friend that Aditya is always going to be available for. Token hi sahi lekin puke inducing dialogues tolerate karna padega. April se jo tolerate karte aa rahe hain, uska kya 🤢

How could the makers leave the competition blemish free? The venom Aparna was spewing was not enough that they had to bring in Malini. And I doubt that any of the processes they are talking about is completely mandatory in the real world. Bas Didi ko dikhane ke liye kuch bhi.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Adi better should shove that dosti apne ghamche main lapet ke in his jeb ...

ROFL oh thanks for reminding me of that random GAMCHA again.....KYA THA WOH BHAI🤣.....He literally carried it around for TWO WHOLE EPIS and we still have NO idea what the point of that was😕😆......matlab agar performance ke liye tha toh token reference dikhaa dete bhai about why he's holding it rather than showing him carrying it around pointlessly for so long......matlab itna bakwaas execution.....AC ke ghatiya dialogues likhne mein yeh kabhi nahin thakte....Adi-Imlie ke scenes ka justification dikhaane mein inka jee jalta hai