Contrasts in Understanding and Communication - Page 9

Originally posted by: AreYaar

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All roads lead to Didi-land.....end mein sab Didi hi ban jaate hain, haan?🤣.....Zor se bolo - DIDI HI SANSAAR HAI🤣

J/K....chill maar yaar....yeh discussions kahin nahin bhaagi jaayengi.....aage plenty of Didi bakwaas coming up so you will have enough opportunity to rant😆

kya karoon main didi sirf joynahi life hi kaha gayi meri ... i am vaguely reminded of woh nazar wala promo iski nazar se na bacha koi and that music... that is didi.. sari lehrati aaa jaati hai toh lagao sabko apne kaali nazrein.. on and off

Originally posted by: Lodestar

I just don't want to see Didi bhakti done by Adi-Imlie for no reason. What ehsaan has she done on them for them to be indebted to her for a lifetime. Just because she agreed to give a divorce to Adi? Jaise Didi initiate nahi karti toh Adi divorce proceedings start nahi karta.

First of all just to give leverage to Didi makers do not give clarity about the legality of the marriages. Why Adi doesn't have his own legal counsel? Isn't KC only Didi's lawyer? Don't both the parties need to have legal counsel? Yah aisa chalta hai to have only one lawyer for both the parties? And does KC even know ki Adi-Imlie are married before AM? I can't keep track of how much Didi hides or lies a per her convenience. So legality ka issue is never touched so that it becomes that Adi requires the divorce more than Didi.

Then all the people feel oh so sorry for Didi that they are ready to bend backwards to accommodate her. No one expects her to take accountability of her actions. She is free to reveal other people's secrets without them being angry about it. Matlab if she even murders someone people will be ready to give her a clean cheat because she is so mature understanding individual. Hadd hai😡.

Adi-Imlie are kept blind to all her faults. Just when the writers want to show AM fighting Adi points out her obvious faults but then they as usual make it no fault of Didi & Adi has to grovel in front of Didi. This is a trick that has been used many times. Imlie ke liye toh Didi will be always pyaari. Also she is welcome to overshadow her moments to shine & make everything about her. Bechari Imlie is always made to feel dejected & crying at all momentous occasions be it her birthday, result day, first day of college, felicitation ceremony by minister, etc. This trick is also continuously used.

If the makers really cannot let go of Didi why don't they give her a good story line making a life of her own & moving on. Why the need to insert her in Adi-Imlie life? I am just fed up of these tricks to keep Didi relevant in their lives. Baksh do hume 🙏

pretty much same page on all .. + 100but nahi baksheinge caz didi is SAAKSHAAT DEVI .. GODDESS as per Gm too who has no flaw bas undimensional and boring hai rofl. Guts hi nahi hain kisi main and they cannot make her paralllel leas by showing her Moving on caz what they want is essentially her as dusri aurat always but keep her negativity and bitchines and vmaogiri hideen under oh so nice wala saccherine mask.. they will keep going with 2 auratein ek aadmi trope but will never show her beign called out caz of their need to be "different and non cliche"

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Yes, Aparna is now evil saas/twin and AC is the best character.....please try to keep up, Sandy....Rishton ke bhi roop badalte hain yahaan roz ke roz aajkal.....the woman who literally called Imlie a jungli billi yesterday is now being considered one to admire.....go figure.

Arre Loservediyo ko sab maaf hai woh jitna marzi ghatiya bol lein it will come out of hurt don't ask me kaunsa hurt caz mujhe nahi dikhta kisi ka bhi and they will remain Best Caz woh Loserrvedi hain and imlie ke saache admirers and welll wishers dekho an unki wajah se sach bhi pata chala imlie ke sage wale hai woh khoon wale so doesn;t matter if they treat her like dirt

but those who actually care for her and have always have and ab are hurt out of genuine reasons are evil.. let's all forget that in the twisted act too kahin na kahin pyar tha hi let's overlook ke abhi toh they havent't danced together and log kitna suna ke chale gaye kar lete toh kya hota wala line.. it is a collective face saving not just them but imlie tooo as it was shown throughout and is maintained that when she is called as chori hui by pati and all toh uske liye bhi ura lag raha hai T's ko and aparna is crying.. but woh sab evil hai caz Tripathi's are plain EVIL baaki sab ache and they are Evil caz pappi Adi ke parents and Fam... and baaki sab ache caz Goddess devi ki maa unhe janma hai Mother Mary ne

Originally posted by: Lodestar

Fandom is too extreme. I toh have stopped reading other threads daily. Just visit our thread & spoiler thread & sometimes CC if something from spoiler thread needs to be discussed. Otherwise the hyper reaction about the competition & the elder Ts is too much to handle. Kyu khud ka dimaag kharab kare.

Sometimes on Sunday when I get time then I read through the other threads for TP & laughs. Otherwise the extreme views of the fandom has made it impossible to have dhang ke discussions.

THANK YOU ... I am glad am not alone in this!! as it is one can't have decent discussions o se hyepr reactions kill whatever little there might be

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL I think we are the only ones who are seeing Aparna this way.....baaki sabne toh usko evil twin, evil saas and pata nahin kya kya label kar diya hai over just the act of locking Adi into a room😆......aajkal toh evil ke maayne hi badal gaye hain, bhai......lol Didi apni kalaayi kaat ke bhi saint hai and Aparna ek confused Maa hokar bhi evil hai.....waah ri duniya. 😳didi toh goddess hai na and aparna ek insaan *shrugs* didi ko toh sabko pain inflict karna is jaayaz.. and pretending ke asal force shaadi toh uski hui thi let's all forget that she had consented too and didn't bother recaping and touchign base with adi every again ke tumne kyabola tha and kyon even after her tabiyat was fine.. woh sab adi ka kasoor hai tab toh fancy dress ki jaldi thi na

@bold: Yes, Aparna is very much behaving in a similar manner as Adi did in the early epis.....he also constantly just wanted Imlie to leave and go back to PD, no? Aasaan raasta toh tab Adi ko bhi chahiye tha😆.....and aaj uski Maa ko chahiye.....cuz she is also still going through her journey of denial and anger.....she just wants Imlie gone cuz she thinks that will make their lives go back to as they were before......Adi bhi yehi sochta tha in the beginning...... yes and matter of fact remains ke she is still bas shaadi wali jhutla do toh we are your parivaar again🤣matlab she doesn't actually wanna give up imlie too aise hi bol rahi ke chali jao but neever actually said ke challli hi jao.. uppar uppar se.. i mean yeah in this scene she did ke chali jao PD but honestly that came more as ghusse main retort than actual mean it way main ke meri jaan chodo jao way main..

Haha@ Aparna being like tune dhoka diya, toh maine bhi dhoka diya.....lol.....also hilarious was Aparna-Radha discussing ki bachpan mein bhi Aparna locked Adi into a room to make him think over whatever wrong thing he had done😆.....Maa ki daant wala angle de diya is baat ko.....lol but frankly mujhe toh itna badaa kuch lagaa bhi nahin.....ghar ke room mein hi band kiya, kaunsa kidnap karva diya ya baandh diya kahin😆.....woh toh humein bura lag raha hai ki he couldn't get to Imlie in time but the rest is just making me laugh ki Aparna apne confused bachpane mein kar rahi hai yeh sab. i actually found that tidbit intresting ke that was her momma flex 😆ke shayad aise problem solve ho jaaye and abhi bhi adi itna hi bacha hai ke lock hoen se acknowldge karke nikal jaaye .. it is her bholapan and absolute denial and desperation and need to feel that she is doign right.. it was such a harmless sa thing caz agar asli vamp giri hi akrni hoti toh like anywehre else she would be causing physical harm to separate and hurt but then her internal achai takes over and her simple sa "evil"/"mean" move is ke bete ko hi kamre main band kar do.. caz kamra toh aise bhi lock ho sakta hai 😆 matlab hardly anything to nikalo morcha over mujhe toh hassi hi aayi ispe... and maine toh nahi feel kia kuch bhi offensive even on the drama side too ke aayega nahi aayega it was ehh .. ke nahi bhi aaya toh no Big deal lol

As I said in a previous post, Aparna ka main issue is more about her anger over feeling betrayed by Adi-Imlie since they lied to her and then the other major issue is society ke taane....a lot of what she is doing is over being upset with the position Adi-Imlie have put her in by revealing their marriage.....so she's not focusing on the fact ki marriage toh fact hai ab......she just wants to zone it out cuz is feeling upset by society waale using it to make her life hell with their taunts.....all this can only be overcome when her love for Imlie-Adi makes her strong enough to stand up to society ki bakwaas too. Ditto! her issues are being betrayed upon more then The BG the society the Sharam and khandaan pe kalanka dn most of all HER ADI Lied to her and usse bhi aage the girl she considered her daughetr.. it is the LIE for so long she cannot come to terms with along with ofcourse the perception issues and how to see the girl they alll thought till yesterday is their kid as ghar ki bahu...

This is an unpopular opinion but yeah I can also take Aparna ka yeh confused/delusional zone over Didi bakwaas......baaki sabke liye Ts intolerable honge is waqt but mere liye toh nothing beats Didi's ability to ruin an achha bhalaa show......she is a permanent black mark on this story that ruins everything with her presence.....Ts toh sudhar jaayenge but Didi toh shameless hi rahegi......and that is a longer problem than getting worked up over Aparna ke random confusions😆 Ditto atleast apara has a base to react the way she is reacting and it is believable and convincing even if unpleasant and agar woh bhi side main rakho toh bhi atleast Ritu can act and make it watchable by adding nuances and give a takkar ka scene something Loservedis all of them can never do

finally mila yeh dobara kab se dhoond rahi thi main yeh lol... 😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Ditto! her issues are being betrayed upon more then The BG the society the Sharam and khandaan pe kalanka dn most of all HER ADI Lied to her and usse bhi aage the girl she considered her daughetr.. it is the LIE for so long she cannot come to terms with along with ofcourse the perception issues and how to see the girl they alll thought till yesterday is their kid as ghar ki bahu...

She has definitely been hit hard by the DHOKA as she sees it....the son she loves the most having lied to her about such a big thing....that's the basis of why she is totally off balance.....but society ke taunts also twist the knife for her.....it's like insaan already ek shock ko process kar raha ho aur society waale roz aakar tumhein khanjar bhi maarte rahein.....that is Aparna's haalat right now.

At her core, yes she is a society conscious lady.....as many middle class women are.....she gets affected by what people in society say....but that does not make her an elitist/classist person like the Loservedis......the difference is there in the nuances if people don't paint her with a broad brush....all her actions in the past have to be factored in for the overall picture.

She loves Imlie....yes, I will still maintain that....she loves Imlie not as an ehsaan/taras on someone from a poor background - she's loved Imlie like a daughter ekdum mann se.....koi bhi taras mein kisi se itna mann se nahin judta agar woh use mann se apne baraabar na samjhe.....she only "other-izes" Imlie when she feels her family's stability is being threatened....that is her character flaw - her hyperness when it comes to protecting her family from real or perceived threats.....it's not being classist.....she also has a brand of tunnel vision just like her son.....he's got tunnel vision about different things, she's got tunnel vision about different things....but he clearly gets his stubborn nature from her only😆......which is why despite her being all mean and confused right now, I enjoy watching her tashan mode with Adi....lol it's like Adi is having to deal with his own mirror image😆

So yeah, overall she's in a very confused state where she just wants things to go back to the way they were......change isn't easy to accept for many people....especially a change this big....that is Aparna's struggle right now.....but she's an emotional person.....when the flip happens, she will embrace Imlie wholeheartedly too and then love her fiercely as part of her family.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

oh let me check but interesting.. maybe she will share her cooking wala medal ya koi aur caz our girl is achiever and share how she is feeling low ke uski win bhi maatam hi laayi.. she was pretty upset while walking towards his room ke aaj pehli Baar T's have not celebrated her win and i liked that bit.. her primary focus was still ke uski win isn't bringing the joy that she wished and hoped for and then by extension didi ka faltu lines that honestly i have forgotten now ..and then only took a pause ke adi miyan hi busy hain didi bhakti main and ranting away how he hurt his *FRAAND* but i guess she just wanted to have thoda sa moment with him to share.

jo bhi hai can they cut the didi crap and get to apni baat and apna focus over competition..adi ka ho gaya hai ab aur kya yeh bhi kalaayi kaat le apni kar dia message call text ab aag lage didi ko plz piroritize yourselves.. ihave no umeed but oh well won't mind being pleasantly surprised didi kabhi kuch nahi hai no matter jitne token Line main lag jaayein on surface to please her Andar kuch nahi hai.. honestly it is amusing for me caz i have experienced this tokenism a lot we see it everyday *ahem ahem* adi ka kitna focus tha woh we have seen it is so clear but i would prefer him to zip his mouth too actually both of them just zipping it...

@bold: Haan kisi type ka medal lag raha hai but I'm not sure......if it leads to setting up a decent convo between Adi-Imlie at the beginning of the next epi, toh that will be small mercies.....lol but yeah we shouldn't hope for much

Here's a cap for reference

Toh dekhte hain if they manage to bring some focus back to the last round of the competition.....baaki Goddess Didi ka toh wohi level chalta rahega....sab bhakt jaate rahenge worship karne unki "perfection".....khair chhodo.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Haan kisi type ka medal lag raha hai but I'm not sure......if it leads to setting up a decent convo between Adi-Imlie at the beginning of the next epi, toh that will be small mercies.....lol but yeah we shouldn't hope for much

Here's a cap for reference

Toh dekhte hain if they manage to bring some focus back to the last round of the competition.....baaki Goddess Didi ka toh wohi level chalta rahega....sab bhakt jaate rahenge worship karne unki "perfection".....khair chhodo.

yup she had it more clearly in the hallway while she is staring at it nd saying ke pehli baar nobody is ahppy for her in thsi family and ab toh mahaan didi bhinaraaz ho gayi SM hum kya kari ghar ke bade humse naaraz hain and maatam manaooing awww but if you watch carefully her prime focus is still Family small mercies didi indeed came as afterthought.. so i hope they don't fixate on her "gham" and adi ka gham and inkapart is not just precap jitna but am sure humari hi chop karine and toal opposite hoga so..

anyways few gif's on our Girl's Brilliant Act caz that got totally sidetracked

such lovely expressions along with lipsync.. such joy to watch it esp on TV

My sister and I talked for an hour today and ranted about didi, now I come to the forum and see you all ranted about her as well.. we are all virtual sisters dear 🤗 Didi’s presence on screen itself just spoils the mood. What would happen to the makers, if didi atleast grows some spine and has some self respect and she moves on respectfully. She is such a pathetic character, for god sake woman you are an educated, working woman, your life need not move around one man who doesn’t love you. Would have loved it, if she showed Adi the middle finger and left him, but know she is only happy guilt tripping him and making him grovel at her feet, and he would do it too because it doesn’t mean a thing to him.. Looks like makers are doing a thesis on how to spoil their own show.. If they don’t grow a brain atleast hope the actress decides goes on a good long vacation. I bet there would be so many people who would sponsor her vacation.. I would definitely be first in line.