Contrasts in Understanding and Communication - Page 5

Waise last scene mein it looked like Imlie was holding some kind of medal jaisi cheez in her hand.....I saw a red ribbon dangling from whatever she was holding.....toh lag toh medal hi raha hai.

Maybe they will talk about it once the conversation shifts back over to the last round of the competition instead of fixating on Didi bakwaas.

So much for Adi being upset over Didi ki naraazgi.....lol precap mein he seems to have gone back to focusing on motivating Imlie for the competition. Didi ke liye sab reactions token hi rahengi but makers will drag it on for contrived drama.

I just don't want to see Didi bhakti done by Adi-Imlie for no reason. What ehsaan has she done on them for them to be indebted to her for a lifetime. Just because she agreed to give a divorce to Adi? Jaise Didi initiate nahi karti toh Adi divorce proceedings start nahi karta.

First of all just to give leverage to Didi makers do not give clarity about the legality of the marriages. Why Adi doesn't have his own legal counsel? Isn't KC only Didi's lawyer? Don't both the parties need to have legal counsel? Yah aisa chalta hai to have only one lawyer for both the parties? And does KC even know ki Adi-Imlie are married before AM? I can't keep track of how much Didi hides or lies a per her convenience. So legality ka issue is never touched so that it becomes that Adi requires the divorce more than Didi.

Then all the people feel oh so sorry for Didi that they are ready to bend backwards to accommodate her. No one expects her to take accountability of her actions. She is free to reveal other people's secrets without them being angry about it. Matlab if she even murders someone people will be ready to give her a clean cheat because she is so mature understanding individual. Hadd hai😡.

Adi-Imlie are kept blind to all her faults. Just when the writers want to show AM fighting Adi points out her obvious faults but then they as usual make it no fault of Didi & Adi has to grovel in front of Didi. This is a trick that has been used many times. Imlie ke liye toh Didi will be always pyaari. Also she is welcome to overshadow her moments to shine & make everything about her. Bechari Imlie is always made to feel dejected & crying at all momentous occasions be it her birthday, result day, first day of college, felicitation ceremony by minister, etc. This trick is also continuously used.

If the makers really cannot let go of Didi why don't they give her a good story line making a life of her own & moving on. Why the need to insert her in Adi-Imlie life? I am just fed up of these tricks to keep Didi relevant in their lives. Baksh do hume 🙏

Originally posted by: Lodestar

I just don't want to see Didi bhakti done by Adi-Imlie for no reason. What ehsaan has she done on them for them to be indebted to her for a lifetime. Just because she agreed to give a divorce to Adi? Jaise Didi initiate nahi karti toh Adi divorce proceedings start nahi karta.

First of all just to give leverage to Didi makers do not give clarity about the legality of the marriages. Why Adi doesn't have his own legal counsel? Isn't KC only Didi's lawyer? Don't both the parties need to have legal counsel? Yah aisa chalta hai to have only one lawyer for both the parties? And does KC even know ki Adi-Imlie are married before AM? I can't keep track of how much Didi hides or lies a per her convenience. So legality ka issue is never touched so that it becomes that Adi requires the divorce more than Didi.

Then all the people feel oh so sorry for Didi that they are ready to bend backwards to accommodate her. No one expects her to take accountability of her actions. She is free to reveal other people's secrets without them being angry about it. Matlab if she even murders someone people will be ready to give her a clean cheat because she is so mature understanding individual. Hadd hai😡.

Adi-Imlie are kept blind to all her faults. Just when the writers want to show AM fighting Adi points out her obvious faults but then they as usual make it no fault of Didi & Adi has to grovel in front of Didi. This is a trick that has been used many times. Imlie ke liye toh Didi will be always pyaari. Also she is welcome to overshadow her moments to shine & make everything about her. Bechari Imlie is always made to feel dejected & crying at all momentous occasions be it her birthday, result day, first day of college, felicitation ceremony by minister, etc. This trick is also continuously used.

If the makers really cannot let go of Didi why don't they give her a good story line making a life of her own & moving on. Why the need to insert her in Adi-Imlie life? I am just fed up of these tricks to keep Didi relevant in their lives. Baksh do hume 🙏

This! In the process of making didi relevant in the story, they have messed up the whole thing. The fact is didi is not needed once the divorce is over- so unfortunately I don’t see them stopping with their tricks with these contrived misunderstandings and guilt trips.

Just caught up on all the discussions. I 100% agree on how Apu is acting like how Adi did in the first 50 episodes/ it is so clear she loves imlie and is affected by her but she in denial brings up all this nonsense And Malini talk. She is not evil lol - ppl actually think that?? Her words are harsh - fine- but remember she is Adi’s mom 😆

NM - word on how a show titled imlie cannot give due importance to that same character. Thanks for the lovely caps too 🤗

I am so dreading this guilt trips - she seemed determined not to forgive Adi according to the last scene but jn all probability she will flip tomorrow 😆 She is not going to leave us alone- she is there in the police station too according to the spoilers- SM please watch over us in these stressful times 🙏🏽🙏🏽😆

Originally posted by: Lodestar

I just don't want to see Didi bhakti done by Adi-Imlie for no reason. What ehsaan has she done on them for them to be indebted to her for a lifetime. Just because she agreed to give a divorce to Adi? Jaise Didi initiate nahi karti toh Adi divorce proceedings start nahi karta.

First of all just to give leverage to Didi makers do not give clarity about the legality of the marriages. Why Adi doesn't have his own legal counsel? Isn't KC only Didi's lawyer? Don't both the parties need to have legal counsel? Yah aisa chalta hai to have only one lawyer for both the parties? And does KC even know ki Adi-Imlie are married before AM? I can't keep track of how much Didi hides or lies a per her convenience. So legality ka issue is never touched so that it becomes that Adi requires the divorce more than Didi.

Then all the people feel oh so sorry for Didi that they are ready to bend backwards to accommodate her. No one expects her to take accountability of her actions. She is free to reveal other people's secrets without them being angry about it. Matlab if she even murders someone people will be ready to give her a clean cheat because she is so mature understanding individual. Hadd hai😡.

Adi-Imlie are kept blind to all her faults. Just when the writers want to show AM fighting Adi points out her obvious faults but then they as usual make it no fault of Didi & Adi has to grovel in front of Didi. This is a trick that has been used many times. Imlie ke liye toh Didi will be always pyaari. Also she is welcome to overshadow her moments to shine & make everything about her. Bechari Imlie is always made to feel dejected & crying at all momentous occasions be it her birthday, result day, first day of college, felicitation ceremony by minister, etc. This trick is also continuously used.

If the makers really cannot let go of Didi why don't they give her a good story line making a life of her own & moving on. Why the need to insert her in Adi-Imlie life? I am just fed up of these tricks to keep Didi relevant in their lives. Baksh do hume 🙏

I guess some of these are rhetorical questions, Lodestar? 😆.....Cuz hum sab log bahut time se yeh questions puchh rahe hain but it's obvious makers don't care to address these.

Re: ehsaan.....lol they've jumbled up the timeline of events so much since the suicide track ki kiske ehsaan aur kiske jhoote dikhaave.....sab kuch khichdi hai.

Didi is able to jataao ehsaan cuz sab log bhool gaye hain why she initiated the divorce....lol Adi literally just told her the truth and then didn't ask anything of her.....she still tried after that also to ask him to forget Imlie and come back to her😆....when he refused that also, then she started giving attitude about wanting to end a kaagzi rishta and even then Adi was like jaise aapki marzi😆......He's never asked anything of her but now that very thing is being used against him ki isne nahin maanga par phir bhi maine DIYA toh MAIN tyaag kar rahi hoon😆.....jabki she initiated everything for her own ego and retaliation.....yeh FACT hai that she mentioned divorce to RETALIATE and get a REACTION from him......but he was like WHATEVER😆

Jin writers ko apne hi episodes bhool gaye hain, woh memory refresh karne ke liye dekh sakte hain phir se:

https://www.hotstar.com/us/tv/imlie/1260048110/aditya-searches-for-imlie/1000261519

Didi is being given a free pass to twist the facts as she wants to because no one pushes back on her twisted version of the events that actually took place😕......isne bol diya ki maine divorce initiate kiya cuz it's more important for Adi and that now seems to be taken as fact.....lol when that just wasn't the case......she put the wheels in motion cuz of her own anger to save face and now Adi is simply requesting her to see the divorce through....so then how does the divorce become more important for him alone? lol

I've also wondered about why Adi doesn't have his own legal counsel....lol is that just to show ki he is THAT indifferent about the divorce and couldn't care less kaise hota hai?😆......well that is as usual leaving him vulnerable to being manipulated by Didi....now she can twist the narrative, the timeline of the divorce as per her whims.....and wohi ho raha hai......but he will still not be bothered cuz he thinks Malini is innocent mahaan devi who is doing so much for him and Imlie😆

Re: KC.....well they are indicating that he does know everything and knows Adi married Imlie before Malini.....yeh baat toh Adi waise bhi puri society ko bhi declare kar chuka hai😆.....toh KC ko kyun nahin pata hoga? lol everyone knows and everyone is all chill about it😆.....they aren't getting into legality.....bas general dhoka and phasaana pe taunts karke drama chalaa rahe hain.

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

Just caught up on all the discussions. I 100% agree on how Apu is acting like how Adi did in the first 50 episodes/ it is so clear she loves imlie and is affected by her but she in denial brings up all this nonsense And Malini talk. She is not evil lol - ppl actually think that?? Her words are harsh - fine- but remember she is Adi’s mom 😆

@bold: Yes, Aparna is now evil saas/twin and AC is the best character😆.....please try to keep up, Sandy😛....Rishton ke bhi roop badalte hain yahaan roz ke roz aajkal😆.....the woman who literally called Imlie a jungli billi yesterday is now being considered one to admire🤔.....go figure.

The other bizarrely funny thing to me yesterday was the way Malini kept repeating ki Aditya ko kya lagta hai ki woh galti karenge and bas ek sorry bolenge toh main maan jaaungi? lol ......this is such a PATHETIC relationship they've had.....GOD......will no one EVER call it out?

What kind of relationship is it where one person feels entitled to always being in the right and "deigning" to "forgive" the other? The fact that Malini by default always presumes ki Adi aayega hi isko sorry bolne......does no one see the problem in that? Why is Adi SUCH a loser in this matter ki itna sorry bol bolke is psycho itna sar pe chadhaa liya hai? 🤢

Most of their fights always go like this only.....he says something to her bluntly (which many times is the harsh truth that she can't face) and then later on he goes and says a token sorry which she accepts after doing some meethi chhuri taunts......woh admission form ka fight was also like this only where she just kept going on and on about "ek sorry bolne se sab theek ho jaayega?".....arey if you think his sorrys are meaningless, why do you even WANT them, you psycho aurat?

So WHY doesn't Adi for once and for all say ki theek hai nahin bolta main sorry......bhaad mein jaao....KAASH yaar.....KAASH.....matlab kya bakwaas hai ki bas yeh KHOKHLE Sorrys wala rishta chalaate raho aise hi.....Adi ko aadat ho gayi hai of just doing automatic sorrys to her and he also seems to not see the problem with how that has made her feel more entitled to it too.

He did one wrong thing and now that has painted him a permanent culprit in the story ki kisi bhi random cheez pe bas sorry hi bolte raho in guilt all your life? Aise toh koi bhi nahin jee sakta phir bhai......

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Yes, Aparna is now evil saas/twin and AC is the best character😆.....please try to keep up, Sandy😛....Rishton ke bhi roop badalte hain yahaan roz ke roz aajkal😆.....the woman who literally called Imlie a jungli billi yesterday is now being considered one to admire🤔.....go figure.

LMAO what?

See I try to only read things that are logical 😆 that’s prob why I must have overlooked other things. Clearly some have not seen and understood the story of Imlie so far.

Haan I should do a better job keeping up 😆

When imlie started dancing, you could see in Apu’s face that she was actually proud and showed respect to what imlie did on stage. At least that’s what I got from yesterday.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

The other bizarrely funny thing to me yesterday was the way Malini kept repeating ki Aditya ko kya lagta hai ki woh galti karenge and bas ek sorry bolenge toh main maan jaaungi? lol ......this is such a PATHETIC relationship they've had.....GOD......will no one EVER call it out?

What kind of relationship is it where one person feels entitled to always being in the right and "deigning" to "forgive" the other? The fact that Malini by default always presumes ki Adi aayega hi isko sorry bolne......does no one see the problem in that? Why is Adi SUCH a loser in this matter ki itna sorry bol bolke is psycho itna sar pe chadhaa liya hai? 🤢

Most of their fights always go like this only.....he says something to her bluntly (which many times is the harsh truth that she can't face) and then later on he goes and says a token sorry which she accepts after doing some meethi chhuri taunts......woh admission form ka fight was also like this only where she just kept going on and on about "ek sorry bolne se sab theek ho jaayega?".....arey if you think his sorrys are meaningless, why do you even WANT them, you psycho aurat?

I So WHY doesn't Adi for once and for all say ki theek hai nahin bolta main sorry......bhaad mein jaao....KAASH yaar.....KAASH.....matlab kya bakwaas hai ki bas yeh KHOKHLE Sorrys wala rishta chalaate raho aise hi.....Adi ko aadat ho gayi hai of just doing automatic sorrys to her and he also seems to not see the problem with how that has made her feel more entitled to it too.

He did one wrong thing and now that has painted him a permanent culprit in the story ki kisi bhi random cheez pe bas sorry hi bolte raho in guilt all your life? Aise toh koi bhi nahin jee sakta phir bhai......

@bold: the writers do not have the guts to show that- they are hell bent on propping up Malini - and I remember they clearly said that Adi Imlie cannot be justified unless Malini is happy and settled. I mean why?? Why give her a free pass in everything?

They can only see the ONE mistake Adi did- and that’s it. And they are never going to call it out - and I am confident that majority of the viewers see it the way we do- so I do not understand what they are afraid of?

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

LMAO what?

See I try to only read things that are logical 😆 that’s prob why I must have overlooked other things. Clearly some have not seen and understood the story of Imlie so far.

Haan I should do a better job keeping up 😆

When imlie started dancing, you could see in Apu’s face that she was actually proud and showed respect to what imlie did on stage. At least that’s what I got from yesterday.

We should all try to develop our selective reading skills better😆.....

Aparna really seems to have become a trigger point for many people.....lol but the nuances are all there if anyone wants to see them.....yes, she was actually touched and impressed by Imlie's performance when she saw her on stage.....but then she kept trying to look away cuz her anger also kept coming back over feeling betrayed.

And the rest of the stuff she's saying is also mostly coming from her frustration over being targeted by society waale.....she is a lot like Adi but her triggers are different from Adi....Adi's frustration was not society related but otherwise he was also being driven by not wanting his life plan to be turned upside down with Imlie now being in his life.....Aparna ka bhi same hai....she had envisioned her life a certain way with Malini as her bahu and ab woh nahin ho raha toh she is lashing out upset.....I still don't think she is classist as people are presuming.....she wouldn't be so affected by Imlie still if that was the case....this is Maa ka gussa/anger, not classism.....naukrani/najayaz waale taunts bhi bas bolne ko hain iske....she doesn't really think that about Imlie......and this will all get proven in the long run.....Aparna is just digging in stubbornly for now ki aise kabhi nahin ho sakta ki woh Imlie ko accept kar le.....she will have to eat humble pie on those words big time.....sharminda hogi yeh aur maanegi bhi.....guaranteed. 😆.....

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

@bold: the writers do not have the guts to show that- they are hell bent on propping up Malini - and I remember they clearly said that Adi Imlie cannot be justified unless Malini is happy and settled. I mean why?? Why give her a free pass in everything?

They can only see the ONE mistake Adi did- and that’s it. And they are never going to call it out - and I am confident that majority of the viewers see it the way we do- so I do not understand what they are afraid of?

LOL what? Yeh kaisa faltu logic hai inka?

Was Malini happy even before Imlie came into Adi's life? lol not really.....wasn't she still clingy as hell and always speculating about how he will leave her someday? lol toh phir Malini ki happiness ka theka Adi-Imlie pe kyun daala jaa raha hai? Get her institutionalized....maybe meds will make her happy since she is beyond reason and dignity anyways.

If majority of the viewers see it like us, then why is the minority being pandered to with all the characters ki Malini bhakti in the story? They all literally act like she is the Queen of Sheba........really don't know what story the writers are expecting to sustain like this.