Adi's candid confessions and clarifications - Page 9

Originally posted by: _Seera_

Imlie needs to stop taking decisions for her and Adityas relationship.. they need to do things together else whats the difference between this and the failed one we all just witnessed..

This is the harsh truth in a nutshell then, isn't it? How is it a viable relationship if they can't even support each other in this adversity? Imlie continues to make decisions unilaterally without accounting for Adi's feelings anywhere.....so because this mess was all failaaoed by Adi, he is destined to be cut out of any decisions in his relationship with Imlie? 😆

He's already raised this issue many times with Imlie before that she never keeps him in the loop on anything, never feels the need to discuss anything with him, tries to make it seem like he has no place in her life and Imlie never pushes back to deny any of this.....I'm at a loss for why she feels the need to not clarify this to Adi even now when Didi knows the truth....toh kisse chhupaane ke liye Imlie is trying to keep Adi away from herself? 😕 What is being achieved by letting Adi feel hurt about his lack of standing in Imlie's life? Suhaag and sindoor jaap karne se woh standing nahin prove hone waali, Imlie. Where is the actual sense of communication and partnership now? Ironically it seemed to be more existent when Adi hadn't accepted this marriage with Imlie😕😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol! Could care less about the clothes. It was an awful promo confirming my priors. It also seems like she is back at the Ts. Similar to Malini se sach keh denge track that just ended, we will now get a rinse repeat of family ko sach keh denge. With Aparna being the next in-house AC.

I was just telling KKji yesterday that the guy has to literally die for Imlie to actually get that the man is important and not the sindoor. Zindagi bhar guilt mein dabi reh jaayegi. The only hope again is Aditya having his senses around him to an extent but who knows 🤷🏻‍♀️

Malini settling down is none of her business really but that is the rope they all want to take toh what can the audience really do. I am beyond done with wanting to write about those two seconds of Aditya Imlie scenes in every episode, one that ends up being all “door rahiye hum se”

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Lol! Could care less about the clothes. It was an awful promo confirming my priors. It also seems like she is back at the Ts. Similar to Malini se sach keh denge track that just ended, we will now get a rinse repeat of family ko sach keh denge. With Aparna being the next in-house AC.

I was just telling KKji yesterday that the guy has to literally die for Imlie to actually get that the man is important and not the sindoor. Zindagi bhar guilt mein dabi reh jaayegi. The only hope again is Aditya having his senses around him to an extent but who knows 🤷🏻‍♀️

Malini settling down is none of her business really but that is the rope they all want to take toh what can the audience really do. I am beyond done with wanting to write about those two seconds of Aditya Imlie scenes in every episode, one that ends up being all “door rahiye hum se”

Yeah, Adi is the remaining voice of sanity right now but unless they show him doing something definitively on his own to get Imlie her respect/standing in the house, it will all remain moot only. He's such an expert at finding loopholes na toh dhund le loophole of how to give Imlie her standing in the house even if ghar basaana allowed nahin hai as per Imlie Maata😛......that is the only thing that will make the episodes bearable warna daily depression ke liye mera bhi patience limited hai ab.

As for Imlie thinking Malini's remarriage will solve everything....lol well again she belongs to that old school way of thinking so not surprising that she thinks settling Malini will ensure her happiness....it should be Malini stepping up to assert what she wants in life rather than again blaming other people for supposedly "making" her get married.....Nobody is holding her hand and forcing her into another marriage....it is her choice....but she will scapegoat Imlie and Adi for it again if they are the ones to encourage her to get remarried.....lol

The other thing that drags all this down is how khokhla the behen prem is but we still must be subjected to long bhaashans from Imlie about "aurat ke mann ka dard"😆

All I can hope for is some good cranky/frustrated Adi scenes along the way....baaki toh these people have decided to make our pyari Imaliya pakaau too....us baat ka dukh toh rahega mujhe *sigh*

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeah, Adi is the remaining voice of sanity right now but unless they show him doing something definitively on his own to get Imlie her respect/standing in the house, it will all remain moot only. He's such an expert at finding loopholes na toh dhund le loophole of how to give Imlie her standing in the house even if ghar basaana allowed nahin hai as per Imlie Maata😛......that is the only thing that will make the episodes bearable warna daily depression ke liye mera bhi patience limited hai ab.

As for Imlie thinking Malini's remarriage will solve everything....lol well again she belongs to that old school way of thinking so not surprising that she thinks settling Malini will ensure her happiness....it should be Malini stepping up to assert what she wants in life rather than again blaming other people for supposedly "making" her get married.....Nobody is holding her hand and forcing her into another marriage....it is her choice....but she will scapegoat Imlie and Adi for it again if they are the ones to encourage her to get remarried.....lol

The other thing that drags all this down is how khokhla the behen prem is but we still must be subjected to long bhaashans from Imlie about "aurat ke mann ka dard"😆

All I can hope for is some good cranky/frustrated Adi scenes along the way....baaki toh these people have decided to make our pyari Imaliya pakaau too....us baat ka dukh toh rahega mujhe *sigh*

Serial ka naam Imlie na hoke AKT rakh dena chahiye. Especially if we are going to get an Imlie who fights for herself only once every blue moon. I only see a frustrated Aditya who will again say my hands are tied because this is what you want to do. Yeh jo unilateral decisions leti hai Imlie, sabse zyaada nuksaan toh usi ka hota hai. I hope he can find ways to keep up his word this time but I do not know. Getting the truth out to PD was always going to be the easiest task for him.

Re Malini: wohi toh. It is not Imlie’s job to ensure Malini is happy. Guilt hai, theek hai. Lekin what is with this I know she loves only you nonsense. Karne do na jo karna chahti hai. If Malini does not care about her own agency, who is Imlie really to be wanting to take that responsibility. Selfless hai, nature hai but inadvertently khud ke liye hi problems create kar rahi hai. Oh definitely, Malini is going to use it on them at a later date. Relationship toh koi bhi ho, she is not one to know how to nurture one. Toh if there is a next one it is not going to work out either.

It’s such a simple and obvious thing but why can’t the writers show Adi being more focused on giving Imlie happiness through other gestures if indeed he is feeling so torn up over all the pain she has suffered cuz of being with him? That should be the obvious next thought na? Wanting to give someone happiness to make up for their pain?

Why can’t we ever be shown a promo where someone talks about giving Imlie happiness rather than the gazillionth promo on how Imlie is either being tortured or how she’s sacrificing for Malini?

I think the writers just want to have the T's blaming Imlie & Adi for having an EMA. That is why they have to dumbofy Imlie to keep the family from finding out the truth.

But is that even required now?

The Ts are already suspecting them of having an EMA, though they have not worded it that as of yet & have even taken drastic action like sending Imlie to stay at C house, she is already unwelcome at T house especially for Aparna & Radha. So just show them accusing Adi-Imlie of this when they return from their trip to PD. Why do you have to mess with Imlie's characterisation & make her dumb to do that?

I can find no other reason for this. I hope this is a very short track of 10 epis😆. I know my hope is futile but still putting it out in the universe😉. Maybe they can give meaningful content Adi-Imlie wise where they talk about their own relationship & themselves. But promo main toh aisa nahin lag raha😭. Humare haath toh babaji ka thullu hi aana hai😆.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Serial ka naam Imlie na hoke AKT rakh dena chahiye. Especially if we are going to get an Imlie who fights for herself only once every blue moon. I only see a frustrated Aditya who will again say my hands are tied because this is what you want to do. Yeh jo unilateral decisions leti hai Imlie, sabse zyaada nuksaan toh usi ka hota hai. I hope he can find ways to keep up his word this time but I do not know. Getting the truth out to PD was always going to be the easiest task for him.

Re Malini: wohi toh. It is not Imlie’s job to ensure Malini is happy. Guilt hai, theek hai. Lekin what is with this I know she loves only you nonsense. Karne do na jo karna chahti hai. If Malini does not care about her own agency, who is Imlie really to be wanting to take that responsibility. Selfless hai, nature hai but inadvertently khud ke liye hi problems create kar rahi hai. Oh definitely, Malini is going to use it on them at a later date. Relationship toh koi bhi ho, she is not one to know how to nurture one. Toh if there is a next one it is not going to work out either.

I mean if malini loves only BS so is she going to donate him in a gift wrap ? I don’t understand her way out if she gifts also she doesn’t want BS to get along with DD else he is dhokebaaz... seriously now she is getting on every1’s nerve

Originally posted by: AreYaar

This is the harsh truth in a nutshell then, isn't it? How is it a viable relationship if they can't even support each other in this adversity? Imlie continues to make decisions unilaterally without accounting for Adi's feelings anywhere.....so because this mess was all failaaoed by Adi, he is destined to be cut out of any decisions in his relationship with Imlie? 😆

He's already raised this issue many times with Imlie before that she never keeps him in the loop on anything, never feels the need to discuss anything with him, tries to make it seem like he has no place in her life and Imlie never pushes back to deny any of this.....I'm at a loss for why she feels the need to not clarify this to Adi even now when Didi knows the truth....toh kisse chhupaane ke liye Imlie is trying to keep Adi away from herself? 😕 What is being achieved by letting Adi feel hurt about his lack of standing in Imlie's life? Suhaag and sindoor jaap karne se woh standing nahin prove hone waali, Imlie. Where is the actual sense of communication and partnership now? Ironically it seemed to be more existent when Adi hadn't accepted this marriage with Imlie😕😆

I think Aditya ko apne aap se kiya hua wada todna hi padega.. usse apne decisions Imlie pe thopne hi padenge.. warna jo Raita ladki ne soch liya hai na failane ke liye.. that will be too much to sameto..

On side not.. achcha hoga agar didi ki shaadi hogi toh.. fir uska suicide kaand inki jimmedari nahi hogi.. 😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

It’s such a simple and obvious thing but why can’t the writers show Adi being more focused on giving Imlie happiness through other gestures if indeed he is feeling so torn up over all the pain she has suffered cuz of being with him? That should be the obvious next thought na? Wanting to give someone happiness to make up for their pain?

Why can’t we ever be shown a promo where someone talks about giving Imlie happiness rather than the gazillionth promo on how Imlie is either being tortured or how she’s sacrificing for Malini?

+1000. Bechari bacchi ko jeene do yaar. Yes she is selfless & sacrificing but now when apparently Dementor Didi also has no problem in divorcing Adi why does Imlie have to care about getting her settled with someone else. She might not want to get into another marriage after her divorce so quickly. This is such a logical thing. But no, Imlie has to take decision for even her life.

Arey yaar concentrate on disentangling & living your own life. Sabki Panchayati kyu karni hai. Dadi Amma nahi hain woh. She has a lot to live for herself. Adi-Imlie trying to live as a couple can also have many interesting tracks. Family drama included. Why stretch the old things unnecessarily & make her so masochist?

I just want to see Adi-Imlie happy now. They have been separated only since their marriage. No further separation is required now. Need of the hour is to unite them & let them be a unit. But God only knows writers ko kya karna hai?

Dementor Didi ka drama toh chalta hi rahega with her being Imlie ki half sister. No need to stretch divorce & family ko sach ka reveal drama for that.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

I think the writers just want to have the T's blaming Imlie & Adi for having an EMA. That is why they have to dumbofy Imlie to keep the family from finding out the truth.

But is that even required now?

The Ts are already suspecting them of having an EMA, though they have not worded it that as of yet & have even taken drastic action like sending Imlie to stay at C house, she is already unwelcome at T house especially for Aparna & Radha. So just show them accusing Adi-Imlie of this when they return from their trip to PD. Why do you have to mess with Imlie's characterisation & make her dumb to do that?

I can find no other reason for this. I hope this is a very short track of 10 epis😆. I know my hope is futile but still putting it out in the universe😉. Maybe they can give meaningful content Adi-Imlie wise where they talk about their own relationship & themselves. But promo main toh aisa nahin lag raha😭. Humare haath toh babaji ka thullu hi aana hai😆.

Short track of 10 episodes 🤣🤣

Kuch aur ho na ho, I do not want any compromises with the AC dhulayi by Aditya. That is a confrontation that has to happen and it better be strong. Her behavior cannot go without being called out. Repercussions toh hone se rahen, but she needs to be told in no simple terms that she better not even think about lifting a finger again.