Adi's candid confessions and clarifications - Page 10

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I'm really struggling to figure out how they will show the atmosphere in T house going forward....

The Ts all hate Imlie now and blame her for AM falling apart.....Imlie herself just wallows around in guilt and makes mopey faces all day.....Adi is not allowed to tell the truth to the Tripathis either.

So then how exactly are any of these people expected to function in that house? And around what?😕

Matlab koi toh ek dynamic functioning dikhaa do. When Adi hadn't accepted his marriage with Imlie, she still atleast had all the Ts to interact with and build bonds with. Right now even though Adi has accepted his marriage with Imlie, it feels like Adi-Imlie ka bhi koi real support nahin aapas mein and Ts ke saath bhi Imlie ka sab kuch khatam hai....toh if there is no bonding from either side, what are they all going to interact over? Just talking about Didi ka divorce ya Didi ki shaadi all day?😕

I'd thought they would go with the contrast that atleast Adi-Imlie can support each other even if the whole family is against them....but Imlie is least interested in even doing that bare minimum....then what's the point I wonder. Didi bhakti karne se koi nahin rok raha but who says you can't even give basic support to the husband you claim is your everything?😕

I wouldn't say all T's hate Imlie, it is the matrons of the family. Whenever I think about it, I remember Lagaan movie promo of "Baar baar yaar bolo yaar ha", where each person is going and standing behind. AK. So we have BK and Rupi Di on one side and the two matron on the other. Pankaj is neutral and I feel he will be the first one to find the truth out of the remaining ones and hence might support Aditya. Nishant is again a wild card because of the leukemia thingy.

Having said that, I am really not surprised Imlie is still on "Didi ki khushi pehle" mode because thats how she is and hence the next agenda on Aditya list is "Get Malini married"😆. He knows Imlie and he knows how stubborn she is, how devoted she is to the marriage thing so he will see that there is no point in arguing with her and start the process to bring the other two together.... Do i really need to say that this is another way to make Malini mahaan because Malini will sacrifice and Imlie will sacrifice for each other..The T's environment of being not very nice to Imlie will be perfect for the TRP people but depending on how bad they are, Adi might blurt out the truth to his family.

Word on the bold... It almost looks like this is Aditya's solo fight to win back the wife that he had rejected so callously and Imlie is still stuck on her vachan that she gave to Malini during her marraige that your happiness will always be first.

Unless Meethi calls her bailbuddhi once more for overlooking BS' persistence in the fact that the guy came all the way for her, got whipped, considered her views more imperative 😆, I feel sorry for "Kismat-ji" for doing all the hardwork in these recent lot of episodes.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

It’s such a simple and obvious thing but why can’t the writers show Adi being more focused on giving Imlie happiness through other gestures if indeed he is feeling so torn up over all the pain she has suffered cuz of being with him? That should be the obvious next thought na? Wanting to give someone happiness to make up for their pain?

Why can’t we ever be shown a promo where someone talks about giving Imlie happiness rather than the gazillionth promo on how Imlie is either being tortured or how she’s sacrificing for Malini?

You really do not seem happy about the promo.... I can feel your frustration through your words...Same to Same there is just no progress in Adi-Imlie relationship since the PD track which was almost 50 episode back. They are still where they are. I am Ok with her being all sacrificing but what is the goal here. What are the writers thinking here? We get that they cannot build their happiness on Malini tears but why can't they show it along with their own development? What is this need to center their relationship around Malini?

Frankly, I am so confused about the promo, what is Imlie thinking here.... Does she still want Adi to continue his marriage with Malini and then get upset when he does the same? or does she wants him to nibao his marriage with both of them? If that is the case, I would not mind a bomb blast from Aditya if that will help her open her eyes or something that will make her realize that Aditya cannot make Malini happy because he loves Imlie. This is her journey right so show her realize this fact that rishta zabardasti nahi nibaya jaata. As it was true for her, it is true in Malini's case too.

Originally posted by: pamk06

You really do not seem happy about the promo.... I can feel your frustration through your words...Same to Same there is just no progress in Adi-Imlie relationship since the PD track which was almost 50 episode back. They are still where they are. I am Ok with her being all sacrificing but what is the goal here. What are the writers thinking here? We get that they cannot build their happiness on Malini tears but why can't they show it along with their own development? What is this need to center their relationship around Malini?

Frankly, I am so confused about the promo, what is Imlie thinking here.... Does she still want Adi to continue his marriage with Malini and then get upset when he does the same? or does she wants him to nibao his marriage with both of them? If that is the case, I would not mind a bomb blast from Aditya if that will help her open her eyes or something that will make her realize that Aditya cannot make Malini happy because he loves Imlie. This is her journey right so show her realize this fact that rishta zabardasti nahi nibaya jaata. As it was true for her, it is true in Malini's case too.

All of Imlie's maturity about relationships has gone with the wind now. She was shown as so wise about such matters but now she is being unnecessarily naive & childish in not wanting anyone to be hurt.

About last- I don't think she wants him to be with Dementor Didi as well. Otherwise why the dhokebaaz drama? She is just being so masochist that she cannot accept her relationship with BS & be happy until Dementor Didi is also happy. Now added to that list is family Ka happiness🤪.

I just want someone to shake Imlie & tell her to wake up to reality. Meethi or Adi better do the honours.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

All of Imlie's maturity about relationships has gone with the wind now. She was shown as so wise about such matters but now she is being unnecessarily naive & childish in not wanting anyone to be hurt.

About last- I don't think she wants him to be with Dementor Didi as well. Otherwise why the dhokebaaz drama? She is just being so masochist that she cannot accept her relationship with BS & be happy until Dementor Didi is also happy. Now added to that list is family Ka happiness🤪.

I just want someone to shake Imlie & tell her to wake up to reality. Meethi or Adi better do the honours.

Exactly my point but she was still saying in the promo that she believes Malini still loves Aditya and aurat apna dukh chupane ke bahot rashte dhunti hain.... So in her mind, Malini happiness is with Aditya so what to do we decipher so my confusion, unless this is one of those truth promos that went ty ty fish in the past. 😆.

Aditya ka to uspe assar hone se raha... Mithi and SK se hi umeed hain ab to make her realise that in the long run Malini's happiness will be by getting separated from Aditya.

Originally posted by: pamk06

Exactly my point but she was still saying in the promo that she believes Malini still loves Aditya and aurat apna dukh chupane ke bahot rashte dhunti hain.... So in her mind, Malini happiness is with Aditya so what to do we decipher so my confusion, unless this is one of those truth promos that went ty ty fish in the past. 😆.

Aditya ka to uspe assar hone se raha... Mithi and SK se hi umeed hain ab to make her realise that in the long run Malini's happiness will be by getting separated from Aditya.

LOL no, Imlie is not saying that she wants Adi to STILL go and be with Malini😆.....what she's saying is that she feels Malini still isn't being able to get over Adi and is hiding her real pain over her heartbreak so it's better for her own sake that she gets married to someone else so that it will help ease her pain😆.....

The way they make Imlie mouth the lines just keeps it vague so I can understand your confusion since Imlie has indeed just been mouthing the "Aap Malini didi ke paas jaayiye" line for so long that anytime she talks about Didi ka pyar, Didi ka dard, one will think she's still wanting Adi to go to Malini....but that isn't what she's saying anymore......she just wants to see Malini happy and since throwing Adi at her doesn't seem like an option anymore, Imlie is looking for other options....lol

I could have understood and appreciated Imlie ka badaa dil on this if she could still atleast give regard to her relationship with Adi in parallel....but the promo isn't giving any indication she will do that since fixation is again only on Didi jaap....hence my frustration😆

Anyways, ab toh rest of the week ke epis dekh ke hi pata chalega where this is going.....this promo stuff won't start until next week most likely.

Originally posted by: pamk06

You really do not seem happy about the promo.... I can feel your frustration through your words...Same to Same there is just no progress in Adi-Imlie relationship since the PD track which was almost 50 episode back. They are still where they are. I am Ok with her being all sacrificing but what is the goal here. What are the writers thinking here? We get that they cannot build their happiness on Malini tears but why can't they show it along with their own development? What is this need to center their relationship around Malini?

Frankly, I am so confused about the promo, what is Imlie thinking here.... Does she still want Adi to continue his marriage with Malini and then get upset when he does the same? or does she wants him to nibao his marriage with both of them? If that is the case, I would not mind a bomb blast from Aditya if that will help her open her eyes or something that will make her realize that Aditya cannot make Malini happy because he loves Imlie. This is her journey right so show her realize this fact that rishta zabardasti nahi nibaya jaata. As it was true for her, it is true in Malini's case too.

@bold: +1 Exactly....no one is saying they need to be all giddy in love while Malini's heartbreak is still fresh....it's totally understandable there is lots of collateral damage to manage here but why can't Adi-Imlie still be developed in parallel to the Malini drama? This total fixation on them not having anything to discuss but Malini all the time is what's killing the vibe. Matlab they both act like they are actually Malini's parents and must manage their naazuk toddler all the time😕.

The other frustrating thing is that we as the audience can see very easily that Malini is NEVER going to be happy....she will always remain fixated on Adi and keep doing nautankis to show she's moved on but still keep coming back around to guilt trip and blame Adi-Imlie for every mess in her life....so it feels like even more of a drag that Imlie will hinge her life's happiness on that of a woman who refuses to be happy and will always want what she can't have - Adi.

As for Imlie ki journey....lol bhool jaao, man....in logon ne humara kya popat kiya when we were expecting that all this faltu dhokebaaz sidetrack might lead to something worthwhile for Imlie to realize/confess.....but nothing came out of it😆.....toh aage bhi ghanta journey....Imlie is not allowed to realize anything about rishte zabardasti nahin nibhte.....whatever she applied in her case, she never applies in others.....everything has flipped ever since Adi decided to give her what she never thought in her wildest dreams would actually be hers....his love😆.....as Imlie ko woh pyar sambhaalna nahin aa raha toh guilt ke peechhe hide kar lo ya naye naye darr banaa lo😆.

It's a pity when they reduce her to this rather than showing us the shining light that Adi fell in love with....they've kept her in this pakaau mode for so long, insaan bhool hi jaaye the reason we fell in love with our Imaliya😆

Originally posted by: _Seera_

I think Aditya ko apne aap se kiya hua wada todna hi padega.. usse apne decisions Imlie pe thopne hi padenge.. warna jo Raita ladki ne soch liya hai na failane ke liye.. that will be too much to sameto..

On side not.. achcha hoga agar didi ki shaadi hogi toh.. fir uska suicide kaand inki jimmedari nahi hogi.. 😆

LOL I don't intend to be mean but Didi is shameless enough to still blame any future suicide kaands on Adi-Imlie. Yeh dusri shaadi kar bhi legi toh bhi she will find ways to whine and taunt both of them about the past.

I just find it so hard to imagine her having the token self-respect also to let go of Adi....the way she is behaving right now, she will never stop making those despo faces at him....I'm feeling doubtful if even another marriage will cure her of this obsession....she will just keep oscillating between her obsession with Adi and her hate for Imlie taking away what she wanted the most in life.

Anyways, clear idea toh post divorce Malini ko dekhne ke baad hi hoga....lol at the bare minimum she needs to stop saying "Adityaaaa" in that weird creepy tone like he's her fav. toy😆....dhang se baat karna seekho please, Didi.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL no, Imlie is not saying that she wants Adi to STILL go and be with Malini😆.....what she's saying is that she feels Malini still isn't being able to get over Adi and is hiding her real pain over her heartbreak so it's better for her own sake that she gets married to someone else so that it will help ease her pain😆.....

The way they make Imlie mouth the lines just keeps it vague so I can understand your confusion since Imlie has indeed just been mouthing the "Aap Malini didi ke paas jaayiye" line for so long that anytime she talks about Didi ka pyar, Didi ka dard, one will think she's still wanting Adi to go to Malini....but that isn't what she's saying anymore......she just wants to see Malini happy and since throwing Adi at her doesn't seem like an option anymore, Imlie is looking for other options....lol

I could have understood and appreciated Imlie ka badaa dil on this if she could still atleast give regard to her relationship with Adi in parallel....but the promo isn't giving any indication she will do that since fixation is again only on Didi jaap....hence my frustration😆

Anyways, ab toh rest of the week ke epis dekh ke hi pata chalega where this is going.....this promo stuff won't start until next week most likely.

Ahh understood... as you said, we have heard her saying that so many times that it’s just seemed like that is what she is saying. But totally with you that even with two NDE’s, she is still where she is. I just hope that this time she stands with Aditya and as a team they try to make sure that Didi’s find her happiness with the non existent person rather than Aditya doing his “ Sach bolna hain” to parivar ( progress there as it’s moved from Malini 😆) , Imlie doing her “ Didi khushi pehle (progress there too as Aditya should be with Malini 😆) and T’s with Adi and Malini are made for each other. Now that I am writing it, I feel that this is what we are going to get.

Having said that, does Imlie even realize that with being fixated upon Didi’s happiness and not telling the truth, she is putting herself in the “ other women category” for the T’s and opening herself to be get maligned for EMA. She already got that idea from last week on what T’s are thinking but now by not telling the truth, Malini leaving, isn’t she attesting tot he fact that she is reason for the breakup.

Originally posted by: pamk06

Having said that, does Imlie even realize that with being fixated upon Didi’s happiness and not telling the truth, she is putting herself in the “ other women category” for the T’s and opening herself to be get maligned for EMA. She already got that idea from last week on what T’s are thinking but now by not telling the truth, Malini leaving, isn’t she attesting tot he fact that she is reason for the breakup.

So what I think may happen is Aditya and Malini will say they do not want to be together anymore. Malini will probably ask for the real reason to not be revealed - she wants to be the one leaving him remember. But Aparna will not believe it (because didi can only give mixed signals) and instead try and push them together. The women already believe that Imlie’s the reason so her attesting it really does not matter anymore.

Inn sabke beech Aditya pisega from all sides. Imlie will continue listening to taunts and one fine day he will end up saying out the truth aloud.

In between all this nonsense we will get a healthy dose of behen nonsense drama too.