Adi's candid confessions and clarifications - Page 11

Originally posted by: pamk06

Ahh understood... as you said, we have heard her saying that so many times that it’s just seemed like that is what she is saying. But totally with you that even with two NDE’s, she is still where she is. I just hope that this time she stands with Aditya and as a team they try to make sure that Didi’s find her happiness with the non existent person rather than Aditya doing his “ Sach bolna hain” to parivar ( progress there as it’s moved from Malini 😆) , Imlie doing her “ Didi khushi pehle (progress there too as Aditya should be with Malini 😆) and T’s with Adi and Malini are made for each other. Now that I am writing it, I feel that this is what we are going to get.

Having said that, does Imlie even realize that with being fixated upon Didi’s happiness and not telling the truth, she is putting herself in the “ other women category” for the T’s and opening herself to be get maligned for EMA. She already got that idea from last week on what T’s are thinking but now by not telling the truth, Malini leaving, isn’t she attesting tot he fact that she is reason for the breakup.

No, she clearly doesn't realize that.....as usual, Adi will have to SPELL it out for her at some point that while she's busy waiting around for Didi ka ghar basna, people in the meantime will keep calling her the "other woman", "homebreaker" and god knows what all.....phir baith ke royegi Imlie ki why are sheheri log saying all this to me🤔😆. I wish they granted her a few more brain cells than that atleast but looks like we are expected to keep swallowing it as part of her "naïveté" that she let other people slander her like this while she's busy fixing Didi ka rishta somewhere else😕.

Yeh toh kuch realize karne se rahi.....Adi hi khud frustration mein blurt out kar dega that she's his wife cuz people will keep trying to slander her with EMA talks etc. etc.

I could have lived with this interim EMA MU wala phase if again, there was still a sense of Adi-Imlie communicating and supporting each other otherwise....but uska bhi clear sense nahin aa raha so far.....all depends on how long they want to drag this for more rounds of humiliation for Imlie from Ts and Cs.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

So what I think may happen is Aditya and Malini will say they do not want to be together anymore. Malini will probably ask for the real reason to not be revealed - she wants to be the one leaving him remember. But Aparna will not believe it (because didi can only give mixed signals) and instead try and push them together. The women already believe that Imlie’s the reason so her attesting it really does not matter anymore.

Inn sabke beech Aditya pisega from all sides. Imlie will continue listening to taunts and one fine day he will end up saying out the truth aloud.

In between all this nonsense we will get a healthy dose of behen nonsense drama too.

@bold: But so far she seems to be acting like she's cool with Adi revealing the truth to his family waale about Imlie being his rightful wife😆.....I guess Imlie's intervention with not letting Adi reveal the truth to the family will help Malini's case here to provide her own reason for leaving him.....she will do some gol mol talk as usual leaving the door open for the family to continue blaming Imlie.

Aditya mujhe pisne wala nahin lag raha, auron ko peesega😆.....family waalon ka lihaaz yeh waise bhi barely karta hai and Malini ko sach bataa diya hai toh uska bhi lihaaz utna hi hoga😆.

Pisegi toh Imlie mainly....in many ways cuz of her own masochistic streak. Adi toh bas frustrated rahega more than pisoing😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: +1 Exactly....no one is saying they need to be all giddy in love while Malini's heartbreak is still fresh....it's totally understandable there is lots of collateral damage to manage here but why can't Adi-Imlie still be developed in parallel to the Malini drama? This total fixation on them not having anything to discuss but Malini all the time is what's killing the vibe. Matlab they both act like they are actually Malini's parents and must manage their naazuk toddler all the time😕.

The other frustrating thing is that we as the audience can see very easily that Malini is NEVER going to be happy....she will always remain fixated on Adi and keep doing nautankis to show she's moved on but still keep coming back around to guilt trip and blame Adi-Imlie for every mess in her life....so it feels like even more of a drag that Imlie will hinge her life's happiness on that of a woman who refuses to be happy and will always want what she can't have - Adi.

As for Imlie ki journey....lol bhool jaao, man....in logon ne humara kya popat kiya when we were expecting that all this faltu dhokebaaz sidetrack might lead to something worthwhile for Imlie to realize/confess.....but nothing came out of it😆.....toh aage bhi ghanta journey....Imlie is not allowed to realize anything about rishte zabardasti nahin nibhte.....whatever she applied in her case, she never applies in others.....everything has flipped ever since Adi decided to give her what she never thought in her wildest dreams would actually be hers....his love😆.....as Imlie ko woh pyar sambhaalna nahin aa raha toh guilt ke peechhe hide kar lo ya naye naye darr banaa lo😆.

It's a pity when they reduce her to this rather than showing us the shining light that Adi fell in love with....they've kept her in this pakaau mode for so long, insaan bhool hi jaaye the reason we fell in love with our Imaliya😆

So true, the Imlie that we know is lost somewhere. Instead of she being the guiding light, her whole focus is “Didi”. I really though that at the end of this track, we will get out Adi-IMlie back as one team fighting for the same cause i.e to get their relationship the respect and haq that it so deserves alongside making sure that Malini gets her due for the heartbreak. As you said, it need not be explicit but it’s needs to start having substance instead of both them working at cross- purposes and being in status quo.

Malini will always be a problem but now it’s high time that they stop using her as a hindrance but rather as a point where resolving her issue becomes a way to strengthen their relationship where they both work together to resolve it in a way that the guilt is minimized and the relationship is becomes stronger.

They really need to focus on how on Imlie and making her the center and the shining light rather than what ever they have reduced her to after the second PD trip till AC confrontation.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: But so far she seems to be acting like she's cool with Adi revealing the truth to his family waale about Imlie being his rightful wife😆.....I guess Imlie's intervention with not letting Adi reveal the truth to the family will help Malini's case here to provide her own reason for leaving him.....she will do some gol mol talk as usual leaving the door open for the family to continue blaming Imlie.

Aditya mujhe pisne wala nahin lag raha, auron ko peesega😆.....family waalon ka lihaaz yeh waise bhi barely karta hai and Malini ko sach bataa diya hai toh uska bhi lihaaz utna hi hoga😆.

Pisegi toh Imlie mainly....in many ways cuz of her own masochistic streak. Adi toh bas frustrated rahega more than pisoing😆

@bold - correct. She has always wanted to control the narrative and she has been unable to do so far with Aditya. Malini throws her darts all over lekin uska ek hi aim hai - Aditya. I still think she’s trying for this whole divorce thing because she thinks Aditya might say no to it when it actually comes to getting one going. Imlie’s silence is going to be the window she will leverage. Problem yeh hai didi ke liye - Kunal Chauhan. Because she said that and cannot accept she lied, Aditya will capitalize on trying to find the guy.

Aditya thodi der toh pisega 😆 Two wives at the Ts last time we all saw what happened 😆Frustrated toh he has constantly been. But agree obviously ab it will dial up significantly. Malini he just stopped caring anyway and now when Imlie uses her again he will totally not bother 😆 He is going to have some serious clashes with Aparna looks like.

Imlie ka pisna is almost perennial right now 😆 It is as though she wants to keep testing her tolerance. Last time koi nahin tha toh AC managed to hit a tubelight. This time Nishant, Aparna and Radha will leave no stone unturned. Verbal abuse is as bad as physical

Beautiful analysis from everyone and thank you for the wonderful discussion on the show 🤗 this whole week has been a treat with being so behind and being able to see the show through the eye of this thread and others while I am still to catch the actually episodes is such a treat.

thank you so much to everyone for this it makes one sad angry and joyful at the same time and yet we can only root for these two to be together in all means. 😊

I am not sure whom said it before but we have seen Aditya spiritual awakening and journey development throughout each track I still believe from what all have said that we are yet to see imlie fully realise what he means to her and why she cannot let go. I feel she has tagged her love for him with the sindoor she values and her faith but I miss the girl whom would question her emotion sickness and why his presence mattered. Yes I have read that’s she has claimed that his life is her right to cherish but she is yet to claim the right on him his soul and all else he as to offer. For one I want a mirror reflection of what Aditya was given by satyakaam to be given by either her mother or Rupi di I don’t believe she will realise what she is putting him through until she is shown the error of her ways. Some I feel is still tied to the fear of abandonment because she has been searching for acceptance for so long and know she had of she fears it may not last. The simple fact is she has never known why her father left her mother and these why and ifs have battered her soul for so long that her pain has become her source of strength and also her greatest weakness I feel.

The problem with Maline is she has always been made to feel important and know that she is not she cannot hack the fact she is left behind. I always believe her act of self harm was more of a sign of danger coming in imlie and Aditya life and as I read the updates I feel she has set her plan in motion in all angles. She has played her cards well so far but I feel that as Aditya will grow impatient his patience to ignore her flaws will fall as well and her motivations will be questioned. This is a scene I cannot wait to see for from what I have read happened today and the lovely caps shared it shows the man is no dev who will let this woman walk over him throughout this journey. Imlie may not like it but she will have to learn that sometimes you have to be fearless and selfish to take back what was hers all along.

In no way is Maline ever going to let imlie have him without a fight. The step has been taken with the divorce but that as well with the whole dev thing I feel he may ask imlie to sacrifice. Wonder how she may react when she learns that he was the father that left her mother behind will she be so forgiving then? Will she be able to give Aditya up?

I don’t know but I feel imlie has to learn that there is a time when she will have to decide if she wishes to keep turning the page or simple close the book. There is no two ways about it she will have to either take the leap of faith and own there relationship or simply let him know we’re she stands. Speak her heart out with him and address the issues she has.

She has these expectations that she will be treated the same by all but she will have to learn as Rupi said that she will have to fight far harder for her haq then Maline and we have seen that already with the root aparna has taken. Not sure how imlie will deal with this here I hope satyakaam upbringing will sooner or later come to the for front. That’s the imlie I want to see as we saw in the beginning one that takes a stand for her self respect. Fights for the truth above all else. Maybe it high time she fights for her own truth. I do see that time coming in the future but by then I feel we will be so done with the whole didi love saga

these web of relationship seem to have become far more tangled then they started but what I loved from everyone takes is that Aditya has been allowed to have a fair hearing a chance to speak his truth and own his flaws. I wish we get to see imlie have her day too. To me there seems to be more sacrifices ahead coming from imlie and i also wonder if anyone remembers when nishant mother said that she would do anything for her sons happiness. I feel the reintroduction of his illness will have a major role to play how and where not sure but I am sure it will set the motion for several paths ahead.

one thing is for sure imlie needs a heart to heart either with her mother or Rupi and maybe her mother marriage in the future with satyakaam may lead her to the path that Aditya is one today. I hope when she gets there she shows him exactly what he has come to mean to her. I feel her stubbornness may still keep Aditya fear inside at bay for until her hears her say it as he has he won’t be in peace. The truth has set him free but it has yet imlie. Once they both are on the same page will they be able to fight off any storm. The nde have proven this that they might try to part but they will never because there souls have been bound as have there hearts it just that there minds have to follow what they feel within. Aditya had taken that step let’s see what we get from imlie moving forward.

I pray to the gods that we have some postive development even if that means tolerating extra didi drama 😔

But for now can we please have Aditya telling anu and his family some home truths. Please I need them to be made aware of there errors in the treatment this girl has received. That will be such a delight to watch.

I feel that story is looping the same point again and again. Adi and his firm resolve to reveal the truth to everyone has been the only driving point for the story until this point. The only reason Adi was able to reveal the truth because Imlie was out of sight. She was not in the picture.

Initially she was scared to reveal the truth to malini and once revealed she now has to consider Malini’s happiness and also her future. So she can’t move forward with Adi. Now, she is also scared to reveal truth to T family. I am sure Adi will be one who would be revealing the truth once again and this happens only when Imlie is away.

In a relationship if one person is taking all the heat and responsibility, that would make him very much worn out. Adi have many things to take into account like Imlie’s fears, her feelings, her guilt and also take the heat from the families. It would be very burdensome for anyone. He has already been tested by the situations and also faced the consequences from SK’s anger.

If the story proceeds to show Imlie as she is now that is caring more for didi and others than her own relationship the show will loose its charm.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: +1 Exactly....no one is saying they need to be all giddy in love while Malini's heartbreak is still fresh....it's totally understandable there is lots of collateral damage to manage here but why can't Adi-Imlie still be developed in parallel to the Malini drama? This total fixation on them not having anything to discuss but Malini all the time is what's killing the vibe. Matlab they both act like they are actually Malini's parents and must manage their naazuk toddler all the time😕.

The other frustrating thing is that we as the audience can see very easily that Malini is NEVER going to be happy....she will always remain fixated on Adi and keep doing nautankis to show she's moved on but still keep coming back around to guilt trip and blame Adi-Imlie for every mess in her life....so it feels like even more of a drag that Imlie will hinge her life's happiness on that of a woman who refuses to be happy and will always want what she can't have - Adi.

As for Imlie ki journey....lol bhool jaao, man....in logon ne humara kya popat kiya when we were expecting that all this faltu dhokebaaz sidetrack might lead to something worthwhile for Imlie to realize/confess.....but nothing came out of it😆.....toh aage bhi ghanta journey....Imlie is not allowed to realize anything about rishte zabardasti nahin nibhte.....whatever she applied in her case, she never applies in others.....everything has flipped ever since Adi decided to give her what she never thought in her wildest dreams would actually be hers....his love😆.....as Imlie ko woh pyar sambhaalna nahin aa raha toh guilt ke peechhe hide kar lo ya naye naye darr banaa lo😆.

It's a pity when they reduce her to this rather than showing us the shining light that Adi fell in love with....they've kept her in this pakaau mode for so long, insaan bhool hi jaaye the reason we fell in love with our Imaliya😆

Have been reading the discussions and with you all and how she needs to start realizing adi's worth and not just keep thoppoing all her decisions based on what didi ka life agenda should be. And that the unit feel needs to come.. what I fail to.udneratand is what does she want really? How will she ever get out of this.. ab aur kaise bole isko koi ke get out of this.. adi has been screaming clearly she is his wife and it is time they forget others and think about themselves yet iski Sui phass gayi hai. What about all those disligues then ke saath se darr nahi lagta.. she wants to nibhao rishta yada yada.. aise hi toh nibhtha na imli what rishta are you nibhaooing when you can't do bare minimum and atleast start calling your husband your own when he gave you the full permission and rights and stand by his side.. baat wohi hai ke imlie ko sach main aadat hi ho gayi hai har waqt adi ko and rishte ko neecha dikhane ki.. and I am sorry then her whole obssession with sindoor does become funny kyon lagana hai jab pati ya rishte ka hi koi matlab nahi hai.. they need to give her some brain..I get she can't hurt people but can she be a tad hit more realistic am not saying go and Start hurting people but atleast give adi the regard and understanding he reserves. And stop being so ziddi in every matter and wanting to keep the upper hand where he cannot do anything as per his wish and everything has to be according to her.. why can't decisions be mutual ? She can't just keep ordering and then being mad at him not agreeing on things

You have made a lovely point her whole point value the value of her sindoor and trust becomes mute if she goes back to her original resolve. She has to decide what role she wishes to take either way she has to turn a new leave or except that no one waits for someone forever. Yes she has seen her mother yearn and wait is she willing to be her too. I thought her vision was to move forward and proof that she is more then what people think of her.

She has seen that a relationship unfortunately is valued in society by the status and tag it carries. One way or another she has to offer him the support he needs because at the end of the day they can trust each other all the want but that fear never leaves until it comes to the forefront.

Aditya learnt he needed to change but has imlie really overcome her hurt to how much will she be willing to bare before she says enough is enough. Her willingness to do so much more for others has made her lose foresight of what is really important which his her togetherness with Aditya.

The darkest hour has just begun for the truth has set him free but she needs to chose him because she understands where he comes from and realise that she has someone whom loves her more then anything else. She has to realise that the strongest battles you win which you never excited. Aditya has shown that battle and has dealt with it head on.

Sindoor as Rupi said once before is simply a symbol if nor claimed. She cannot claim she understands when she is simply not willing to claim a moment of there’s as there own.

For me she has to know show him the faith and fight the battle even if that means stepping on didi happiness for either she choses Maline or Aditya but can this girl decide to Aditya is able to show her the way forward.

I just hope in all this she doesn’t lose focus of what really matters.

Originally posted by: Myrah_2020

Unless Meethi calls her bailbuddhi once more for overlooking BS' persistence in the fact that the guy came all the way for her, got whipped, considered her views more imperative 😆, I feel sorry for "Kismat-ji" for doing all the hardwork in these recent lot of episodes.

Ironically, Imlie was the one who once said kismat only does half the work and we have to do the other half. Ab khud hi bhul gayi yeh.😆 She has zero interest in putting work into her relationship with Adi.