Finally a push back on the guilt trips - Page 16

Can’t thank you enough! 🤗

Hands down, one of the best AdiLie scenes ever ❤️
It’s his way of saying; I do want you feel you, touch you, be with you ... tumhe mehsoos karna chahta hoon (without the vulgarity) so allow yourself to get lost in my embrace 😍

So I took a vachan to pray to all Gods to make your dreams come true 😅 but please don’t knock on my door if some don’t come true 😂

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL does anyone here remember that Adi has already answered the question of what his reaction would be if Malini had someone else in her life? 😆

Memory reel rewind karein to the jealousy discussion wala FB😆.....Malini ne kaafi elaborately jealousy coax out karne ki koshish ki thi Adi se by asking him if it makes no difference who she's going with and where....and Adi was all like, nope, it's all good🤣

Iske baad bhi abhi bhi doubt hai what Adi would do if he was in Malini's place? Do minute mein exit ki taraf head karta and baat khatam kar deta😆.....Still it's amusing to read people applying generic speculations like this is some typical "cheating" wala case where husband feels he is free to go to other women but won't stand for wife doing the same😆. Adi has only ever felt that posessiveness for Imlie....not for Malini.

Adi made it clear to Malini even during their dating period just how much he cares and she still insisted on imagining some "grand love story".....lol so why the expectation now that Adi will care if she leaves him for any Tom, Dick or Harry? 😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Haha this.....yes, Imlie has never really needed anyone to fight her battles...woh kar leti hai jaise bhi manage karna hota hai, sehna hota hai.....but right now, she's dealing with someone who can't fight her own battles but will assemble a proxy army to harass Imlie on her behalf. Imlie is too naive to deal with this proxy war situation toh iske liye Rupi di is needed in her corner....

Once again worth noting ki Imlie never asked for anyone to be in her corner, she didn't do twisted nautanki to milk sympathy out of others like a certain someone does in this story😳......yeh sab khud hi Imlie ko mil raha hai.....Rupi di is Sita Maiyya ki proxy in Imlie's life right now to give a dose to those looking to scapegoat Imlie😆

As for Tripathi elders ka support.....I think it's going to be a mixed bag.....Aparna/Radha will definitely be more hypersensitive to cater to Malini now so quite possible that they will want Imlie to join them in doing ji huzoori of bahurani.....lol....Tripathi Papas I do think will show more kindness to Imlie....Brothers mein toh filhaal Nishant hi hai yahaan Hyd mein to do Didi ki chamchagiri.....lol

Waise yeh sab bhi backfire hi karega on Didi.....lol if Imlie is isolated or neglected by the Tripathi elders, it will just create more scenarios for Adi ka protectiveness for Imlie😆....cuz right now toh he steps back a bit when the rest of the family fusses over Imlie....but if they isolate her, how will he hold himself back from going to her? Rupi di will step in to fill the void and likely keep finding ways to get Adi-Imlie together😆

Word at bold and what a admiring quality that is. One thing that was so notable is that Imlie thinks that suicide is wrong as she told SM, but she did not use that to berate Malini for being weak or taking this extreme step. she was all about finding excuses for her action but Malini Di would have pointed that out to all and sundry.

I think whatever anybody says or he decides, Aditya will not be able to step back. He will try but his impulsive nature is always going to push him to do things for Imlie or stand in front of her. His protectiveness will always be first for Imlie and then the rest. Even yesterday when Malini was in that state, his first worry was about Imlie. Pyaar aur zimmedari mein, Aditya's priority has always been love, but he has never stepped back from zimmedari, even when things were the other way round and I doubt he will do it now. He will fulfill his zimmedari of being the supporter of Malini, give her saath till its required but humsafar to woh hamesha Imilie ka hi rahega. he will never let her go, he cant let her go.. She is his that weakness who is his biggest strength and without her Adi cannot survive...😆.

Like he said initially there will be lot of problems but once they cross the bridge, it will be a smooth ride... So right now is the problem phase and even though they might not be together, they will always fight through it together and that is the sheer beauty of their relationship. This reminds me of the initial days after their marriage when they were at the opposite side of the spectrum but still together because of the secret that they shared.😊It is almost same now even though times have changed.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL does anyone here remember that Adi has already answered the question of what his reaction would be if Malini had someone else in her life? 😆

Memory reel rewind karein to the jealousy discussion wala FB😆.....Malini ne kaafi elaborately jealousy coax out karne ki koshish ki thi Adi se by asking him if it makes no difference who she's going with and where....and Adi was all like, nope, it's all good🤣

Iske baad bhi abhi bhi doubt hai what Adi would do if he was in Malini's place? Do minute mein exit ki taraf head karta and baat khatam kar deta😆.....Still it's amusing to read people applying generic speculations like this is some typical "cheating" wala case where husband feels he is free to go to other women but won't stand for wife doing the same😆. Adi has only ever felt that posessiveness for Imlie....not for Malini.

Adi made it clear to Malini even during their dating period just how much he cares and she still insisted on imagining some "grand love story".....lol so why the expectation now that Adi will care if she leaves him for any Tom, Dick or Harry? 😆

He would have not fainted 🤣😆, heard the truth and done what is the right thing to do and that is to let the person go.😊

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I'm actually very doubtful they will ever show Adi referring to her as his wife or even calling her "Moon" again.

I'd briefly wondered if the heavy guilt after this suicide attempt from Malini will push him into possibly saying all this to pacify Malini again....but based on the precap, Adi still seems to be sticking to his basic stance....she is still Malini to him, he is still trying to tell her the truth.....so now I'm again skeptical about what level of token husband concern he will be able to give her even after this suicide show she's put on.

Would be extra ironic if all Malini gets out of this suicide attempt is a token re-entry back into T house without Adi having changed his behavior towards her much😆

I really hope so. I did not think he would flip wrt how he feels - but suicide :( - thats like the worst kind of emotional athyachar - and I wondered if Adi did not give in with some token show of affection - he would be perceived as brutal...and since CV's went to extreme lengths to keep Adilie apart emotionally - if they would make him cave in a bit with external pressure. I would really like to see Adi not give up on that front - makes for a better character sketch.

If even after Adi not giving any token return of affection - Malini still goes back to T's - as you mention it will be pathetic - but will convey the right message overall - that suicide should not be shown to encourage change of behavior...my respect for makers will be restored. (I don't blame them for T's family behaviour to Imli or even showing Malini's perspectives - thats their character sketch being executed - but the intentional separation of Adilie's emotional connect before the suicide was a wrong call I feel. Yesterday they redeemed themselves with all the subtlety - but Adi not giving in to MAlini's expectations - will be icing on the cake. If they show T's actually seeing through Malini - now that is wishful thinking :) )

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL here you go😆

Aditya lets go of the breath he is holding as if the weight of world is lifted rom his shoulder... one of the most beautifully shot/ enacted scene in ITV.

Originally posted by: pamk06

She is all this and delusional too. In simple sense as long as things are going as per Malini and she is the center around which things happen, she is happy and nice and sweet but the moment she sees that the things are not like she wants them, that the attention is on someone or someone else is getting praised then she becomes this manipulative person who is able to use any means to make it so be it self pity, anger, niceness or taking the extreme step to bring the focus back on her. If you go back and see, all her actions and words have always been to elevate herself be it being nice to Imlie or be it when she was not being nice to Imlie. It has always been about her. Her delusions are her way of justifying her own actions to herself.

Her perfect love for Aditya is also a delusion because she wanted a life which was not like her parents. So she changed herself and made it so that Aditya sees her as this perfect, calm and understanding person, avoiding all scenarios where there can be fights or arguments between them. It was all Malini where she made it sure that everyone saw and thus think how perfect they are, how, similar they are, how are their thoughts match, how understanding she is about his work, how calm she is against his anger, etc.

But delusions are not reality and now because her perfect world that she envisioned and build up is not holding up against it, she is at a loss and hence her decision to take her life. She preferred to take the extreme step against knowing that her dream of having a perfect marriage, which is not like her parents, is crashing into pieces. Its really not about Aditya or love, its all about this perfect marriage that she desires and Aditya was just the person she choose to be because he was the best choice being her best friend. She made him the center of her own dream world and now when the center is not behaving as she wants him to and she has no clue how to fix it, we are seeing shades of the real Malini.

All true - but this is how we as audience perceive it - my question is - is this an intentional conscious portrayal of makers to make her this way OR was it their intention to create simply a mahaan weak but well intentioned person only with no such complications and we the viewers are seeing all this based on pattern. I ask this because to date in storyline - no actor has ever acknowledged this behavior of Malini - Rupi di came the closest to it today and Adi maybe as well with his line of 'revenge' . Will they take this any further? My question is will the makers ever get any one in the show to acknowledge Malini's issues and give her a chance to improve - or will she always continue to be whitewashed and none of her problems acknowledged in the story. Will we ever see Adi and Imlie for example, understand and voice what she is really like or will it always be Adi saying I am not worthy of you and Imli saying - her mind is strong :( because of their collective guilt.

It will make for a much better watch if her issues are highlighted in the show story and she slowly understands them and her path to changing herself is shown as opposed to continuing to be a weak interfering person in Adilie life.

The episode cemented a key fact very subtly - Imlie and Aditya’s faith in their relationship. Albeit in their own ways.

Imlie’s stance on the sindoor turned from faith in SM for binding her with it to faith in Aditya the moment he willingly gave it to her. People can say a thousand things to her about it’s ehmiyat etc but none of it is going to matter. Will their words hurt, obviously. But she will always safeguard it, irrespective of what people’s views are. Her determination about staying in Aditya’s house but not with him is a separate issue altogether.

Aditya’s truth is Imlie. The Ts and Cs of the world, including Malini, can try to guilt him as much as they want to but it is not going to matter. It does not matter because they do not matter. Atleast not where his reality is concerned. He does not feel worthy of people trying to give up their lives for him but that is also only because he feels responsible for the circumstances to have deteriorated so far. Not because he has some remnant hitherto unknown feelings for Malini.

There was a sliver of doubt about where he would be with regards to drowning in guilt after this self harm incident but the precap could not have made that more clear. He is never going to be Malini’s Aditya even if she wants him to be.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL does anyone here remember that Adi has already answered the question of what his reaction would be if Malini had someone else in her life? 😆

Memory reel rewind karein to the jealousy discussion wala FB😆.....Malini ne kaafi elaborately jealousy coax out karne ki koshish ki thi Adi se by asking him if it makes no difference who she's going with and where....and Adi was all like, nope, it's all good🤣

Iske baad bhi abhi bhi doubt hai what Adi would do if he was in Malini's place? Do minute mein exit ki taraf head karta and baat khatam kar deta😆.....Still it's amusing to read people applying generic speculations like this is some typical "cheating" wala case where husband feels he is free to go to other women but won't stand for wife doing the same😆. Adi has only ever felt that posessiveness for Imlie....not for Malini.

Adi made it clear to Malini even during their dating period just how much he cares and she still insisted on imagining some "grand love story".....lol so why the expectation now that Adi will care if she leaves him for any Tom, Dick or Harry? 😆

Lol! At times I feel we are all watching different shows at the same time with the same actors 😆

Originally posted by: PPak

All true - but this is how we as audience perceive it - my question is - is this an intentional conscious portrayal of makers to make her this way OR was it their intention to create simply a mahaan weak but well intentioned person only with no such complications and we the viewers are seeing all this based on pattern. I ask this because to date in storyline - no actor has ever acknowledged this behavior of Malini - Rupi di came the closest to it today and Adi maybe as well with his line of 'revenge' . Will they take this any further? My question is will the makers ever get any one in the show to acknowledge Malini's issues and give her a chance to improve - or will she always continue to be whitewashed and none of her problems acknowledged in the story. Will we ever see Adi and Imlie for example, understand and voice what she is really like or will it always be Adi saying I am not worthy of you and Imli saying - her mind is strong :( because of their collective guilt.

It will make for a much better watch if her issues are highlighted in the show story and she slowly understands them and her path to changing herself is shown as opposed to continuing to be a weak interfering person in Adilie life.

I do not think they want to. We will have to make peace with the fact that they are going to leave Malini’s shortcomings untouched. A section of the audience is seeing her for what she is because the makers have scattered her characterization all over from the beginning but there is a section that is going to like her even if she murders someone. And I think the makers are fine with this limbo.