Finally a push back on the guilt trips - Page 14

Originally posted by: spelano.ws

You know, the reason I think she didn’t come out very well with some people was because the tripathis had us fooled with their happy go lucky exterior as well. Here was this girl, going through a rough time acting out at random things when her anger was obviously at something else and these people either treated her like an inconvenience or diverted the situation or her attention towards something else, they never really tried to listen to her or actually help her. She’s living in a limbo, why aren’t they getting her divorced? The tripathis for all the love they claim to have are any other typical family here who refuse to listen to their own children’s pleas to maintain a certain image of a perfect family to themselves and everyone else.

Yeah I kinda agree with you that the T’s want to maintain their image of a happy perfect family in society. It’s still sad though to see them doing the same mistake twice; with Rupi and Adi. Both deserves or actually need their family’s support but unfortunately they don’t seem to get it. Isliye toh yeh dono don’t seem to be a part of the family at times. Feels like they are distant; born toh hue in this family but were never actually a part of the family because both have been/going through rough times and nobody seems to understand or care for them. Logically, they will feel like outsiders or just don’t care to share their problems with their family because nobody will give them that supporting hand anyway ...

Also, just imagine the relief and confidence Adi wil get after he gets to know that Rupi knows. That feeling of finally having that support of a family member is sukoon wali feeling.

I saw that clip🤣

Okay the most funny thing I found that during the sequence when BS was to collide with some man😆 it was like he held that man going side se 🤣usko samne laya 😆fir act kiya k takrate takrate bachna h😆

oMG🤣

It was actually 🤣

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Oh then it will be " that's my imlie " Oh GoD that was sounded so gaoat that day itself from.her mouth and now even more given how the whole.purpose was to steal.her success ka credit when actually she thought what's the big deal mannerless naukrani 2nd hi toh aayi hai but in the moment she didn't wanted her to even get appreciated for 2 mins for her success too so it all became about my imlie..

You know the poor girl never has gotten one single FULL memory of happiness EXCEPT for those few days BS stayed in PD.

Be it her Vazifa day, when tore her certificate, her marriage has been on gun point, her birthday was royally demented by Mrs C ke drama, even her welcome home party by Ts after she was shot.

Then her result day, her admission, her first interview, her first day at college...everything was badly marred by didi and her tantrums

That is my point,Anu chahe kitni hi irritating ho but hamesha she supports her daughter against Adi,Imlie Tripathis and the world.On the other hand tripathis always blame their own children,never try to understand things from their perspective which gives other log power to blame n humiliate them, infront of them even.Aisi situation me kaise confide karenge bache chahe Rupi di ho ya Adi.

I believe one should trust his/her upbringing n stand by ones children against the world,aise even if children are wrong they will confide in parents n be persuaded to correct things n lead a peaceful life free of guilt else they would be forced to lie!

In the long run T people will def be enlightened ones,a better family to Adi with Imlie as their knight in shining armour❤️

Malini k euphoric stance need to be broken more!

Aparna n malini relation is based on superficial things,darr hai us relation me k oonch neech na ho...like they need to make har dafa extra efforts for its maintenance ..aise relations tikao hai nahi...Doomed to not sustain for long!

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Originally posted by: FlowerHater

I saw that clip🤣

Okay the most funny thing I found that during the sequence when BS was to collide with some man😆 it was like he held that man going side se 🤣usko samne laya 😆fir act kiya k takrate takrate bachna h😆

oMG🤣

It was actually 🤣

kisi ne sumbull ki story dekhi kya guitar vali??

new hai kya?

Originally posted by: guneet001

kisi ne sumbull ki story dekhi kya guitar vali??

new hai kya?

Yes it's new😆

Originally posted by: FlowerHater

Yes it's new😆

hayee.. mtlb finally college sequance.. bchgye.. kuch to acha milega.. becahri kahi to khush rahegi

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: So true....I again keep coming back to the concept of "Saath" that Malini and others are DEMANDING from Adi but you can't have true saath without UNDERSTANDING....and there is none between Adi-Malini. Saath takes on meaning only in Adi-Imlie's case cuz they have that connect/understanding even when they are apart.

Imlie probably is wary of ever taking support from anyone cuz it's never lasted in her life na? She's had a life that has always been filled with uncertainties....so who can even blame her for not knowing how to accept any certainty even if Adi is vowing to give it to her? That is why she tries to find contentment in the promise of saath rather than saath itself....she knows the situation that they are in makes it very tough for that saath to happen without causing unhappiness to others....that is why she holds back....but that is what she also has to understand ki saath mann se aata hai....jahaan mann na jude, wahaan koi saath nahin.

I keep remembering this moment from the PD track....I feel like that's still where Adi-Imlie are....even though Adi has told her he will give her saath HUMESHA, the harsh reality is now brushing up against that vow in different ways.....

@bold: ek dum true! These two created that understanding and saath within a few months which Adi and Malini couldn't even create in 7 seven years! Just by the current situation, one can tell how good these two got to know each other in all those years 🙄

@bold2: Yes, mujhe bhi lagta hai that these two are still in that zone. At least, Imlie toh hai. Adi wants and knows very well that she has his saath. Just imagine, how hard it is for someone who has always supported herself through the difficulties of life, gets this saath and affection from someone who might not even be able to fulfill that promise in the first place.

Oh those PD days and moments. Truly so beautiful and ek dum sukoon wala moments 😳 I totally agree with you on the fact that Imlie is not used to having that support, saath from anyone. It has always been her Amma, Dadda and Sita Maiya. That was her world, until destiny slapped her in the face and send her off in a totally new and different world. She had made peace that Adi would never be able to give her the status of his biwi, let alone fall in love with her. She was easily able to make herself understand. But that change in Adi and whatever happened in PD, was something she wasn't ready for at all. And that is the turmoil in and of her heart that she is fighting with ever since her BS is showing interest in her, like real wala care, concern, interest and even love (she knows damn well). Isliye that saath is not easy for her to accept and she made it so clear by asking ''kab tak?'' She is legit scared of losing that saath because her heart won't be able to take it, not this time...

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: So true....I again keep coming back to the concept of "Saath" that Malini and others are DEMANDING from Adi but you can't have true saath without UNDERSTANDING....and there is none between Adi-Malini. Saath takes on meaning only in Adi-Imlie's case cuz they have that connect/understanding even when they are apart.

Imlie probably is wary of ever taking support from anyone cuz it's never lasted in her life na? She's had a life that has always been filled with uncertainties....so who can even blame her for not knowing how to accept any certainty even if Adi is vowing to give it to her? That is why she tries to find contentment in the promise of saath rather than saath itself....she knows the situation that they are in makes it very tough for that saath to happen without causing unhappiness to others....that is why she holds back....but that is what she also has to understand ki saath mann se aata hai....jahaan mann na jude, wahaan koi saath nahin.

I keep remembering this moment from the PD track....I feel like that's still where Adi-Imlie are....even though Adi has told her he will give her saath HUMESHA, the harsh reality is now brushing up against that vow in different ways.....

Indeed!! Even though they want to be " saath" together forever caz they have found the home in.each other and adi is willing to Stand behind her to give her support at every step the reality is their saath has the looming uncertainty. They both have no bloody idea until when that will last..yes 2e know.it is for a lifetime but they don't yet.. such tragedy hai isme.. jahan saath dene ke liye you are dying you are In it for.real you have been doing it since the moment you bumped into each other with the rishta or not you want to walk alongside her wahan nahi de paa raha and on the other end it has been made a joke a transaction ke.do do do..joote ki nok pe.and you just cannot give that due to the forcefulness of it. Force se kuch nahi haasil hota.

This and then his other one at the sindoor scene ke yeah she may not need it now or think she will.manage one day when.she will she will be prepared he will still be there . It is such a lovely follow up.to her akhir kab tak.. the interior flips on him she has waited this long for just the haq and now saath ka.intezzar flips on him..if that makes sense