Finally a push back on the guilt trips - Page 18

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Wohi toh....remember how much we were discussing this even during the hut scene? That hug that day was about heartbreak more than anything else.....they very well know the sense of uncertainty they are living with.....Yes, Adi has vowed to himself to set things right, give her her due rights over him, her due place in his life.....but that sense remains ki koi nahin jaanta kaise kar paayenge.....meanwhile the heart will always want what it wants.....that is what that hug had signified that day also....ek sukoon bhi tha aur heartbreak bhi.....they know their only happiness is with each other but usko haath badhaa kar fully thaam bhi nahin sakte.

Yehi journey toh ab travel karni hai....how their bond sustains even in the midst of so much uncertainty....even after having due rights as husband-wife with each other, usko fully claim nahin kar paayenge for quite a while.

Waise since we are on the hut scene topic, I'm reminded again how blown away Adi was by Imlie's beauty without any embellishments....no makeup on her face either and he was so enchanted by her that day.

Meanwhile Didi precap scene mein bhi full makeup poth ke baithi hain hospital mein😆....Pran jaaye par makeup kabhi na jaaye😆....and iske baad bhi Adi ko kuch notice nahin hota.....lol

Caz adi ke liye none of it matters 🤣 no matter how many times people would want to give that idea ke oh he is smitten by her new looks or hairstyles or kapde iske liye bas simplicity chahiye.. didi ka post suicide look hai woh psst..🤣 itne Neela neela makeup toh show her weak except she looks sweaty lol. Again imlie goli ke baad bhi looked naturally sick while yahan bana ke bhi nahi lag paa rahe sick...

Oh man that HUG.. ☺️ will I ever completely get over it nope.. the beauty that had easily my most fav set along with the gunshot caz they got it so right on every level.. that uncertainty about the future that sukoon of getting unburduned by telling the other what they mean giving the haq and hug wanting to.hold the other forever. Ahhb things of beauty

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: 🤣🤣🤣

And I still can't stop laughing at Malini's delusions that Adi liked her in saris/makeup/saji dhaji dulhan look.....lol puri story mein ek baar bhi Adi ne aisa kuch nahin bola😆.....the actual day of their wedding also, I don't recall Adi making any special comment about how she looks great as a Dulhan, did he?😕😆....and then woh V-day pe bhi Nishant ke force karne pe diye gift Malini ko of that sari and all.....she was preening in front of him toh compliment bhi de diya hoga I guess....but I never got the sense that he wants to see her all saji dhaji all the time as she's claiming😕😆

Meanwhile can't help but recall ki V-day pe despite saji dhaji Malini, Adi's eyes warmed up more on seeing Imlie wearing the suit he gifted to her😆.....and then hut scene mein, Adi was clean bowled seeing Imlie at her simplest with no makeup and just a simple sari/open hair.

Also, wasn't it like the one time Imlie put on a little extra makeup and bright lipstick for the Adi-Malini engagement, Adi was put off by how heavy it was all looking? 🤣.....toh phir kahaan se aa raha hai yeh special delusion of how Adi likes sajna sawarna on women? 😕😆

Waise did you notice how much she was doing, "Aapki Moon, Aapki Moon" in the build up to her suicide drama? 😆.....like she was willing him in guilt ki bol do mujhe Moon ab, dekho main marne waali hoon....lol but Adi ne phir bhi nahin bola🤣

Rofl yeh saji Dhani wala misconception bhi didi ne khud banaya hua hai si she can get a reason to continuously do fashion parade in the show and kisi kaam ko haath na lagana pade 🤣 Aditya ne toh kabhi notice nahi kia kabhi passing .e bbi nahi bola ke she looks pretty caz she wire a specific sari ya specific look banaya even that whole imlie getting her ready for reception too she had to ugalwao ke threefold nahi karoge look how pretty I look all thansk to imlie and he was like yeah yeah whatever get rid if it we will go to parlor 🤣 but uska reason alag Tha then and well reception tha toh tayar toh hona tha na more like in a routine way tha.

Omg yes that aapki moon aapki moon was another big turn off for me.. God can we never get that back plz in any form it just makes me sick the whole moon thing. Aditya can do whatever token stuff he has to do with malini only.. plz no moon sun .. waise that reminds me isne poori galaxy banayi hui thi ghar main moon yeh sun adi then she used to call woh sunny twinkle star and something too.. matlab aur kitni wannabee hogi aap madam it used to sound so ridiculous to me then too bhai seedhe seedhe naam lo sunny twinkle lol

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Caz adi ke liye none of it matters 🤣 no matter how many times people would want to give that idea ke oh he is smitten by her new looks or hairstyles or kapde iske liye bas simplicity chahiye.. didi ka post suicide look hai woh psst..🤣 itne Neela neela makeup toh show her weak except she looks sweaty lol. Again imlie goli ke baad bhi looked naturally sick while yahan bana ke bhi nahi lag paa rahe sick...

Oh man that HUG.. ☺️ will I ever completely get over it nope.. the beauty that had easily my most fav set along with the gunshot caz they got it so right on every level.. that uncertainty about the future that sukoon of getting unburduned by telling the other what they mean giving the haq and hug wanting to.hold the other forever. Ahhb things of beauty

Wohi toh😆.....I know itne saare shows mein wohi typical scenes dekh ke ki ladki ne baal khol liye, kuch chamakta outfit pehen liya toh hero flat ho gaya😆....yeh sab dekh dekh ke, logon ko Adi-Imlie se bhi yehi expectation ho rahi hai for some reason but again, they are just not that kind of pair/story😆

Everytime they've shown Adi feeling notably drawn to/attracted to Imlie has been in instances where she has a raw earthiness about her....ekdum simple waali raw beauty.....like the most recent scene when she let her hair open to show him the sindoor, he noticed it more cuz she had that bikhre huye se baal....kuch formal sa nahin tha properly put together.....that is when he's most drawn to her I feel. And kapde toh yeh barely notice karta hai kisi ke bhi🤣.....Imlie ke case mein bhi kuch khaas comment nahin karta.....for him, all her beauty mainly lies in her personality, the fierceness of her convictions, her fighter spirit....usi pe ghaayal hain Babusahib😆

As for this Hug....Word again....lol what a pinnacle it was ....been more than a month since it aired, phir bhi uska itna impact hai.....despite the fact that they never even show either of them remembering that moment aajkal even in FBs😆.....bas humein hi yaad hai.....haha hum log thesis jo likh rahe hain in dono pe baith ke😆

Originally posted by: pamk06

Currently her role in the story to create issues and problems in Adilie life...In future if the the plot requires her to have that change then the makers will bring it out which I believe will happen, long time in future but there will no separate track which will be concentrated on her journey. Even her issues and addressing of those will be used to bring about a change or development in Adilie's relationship.

The problem is people think that this is Malini story and have this weird expectations but it is actually Imlie's story and how she navigates through life with her mix of old and modern thinking inspite of all the problems life and fate throws at her and her journey of achieving her dreams without compromising on her cultural beliefs. Malini will always be used as a plot point to bring changes/problems in Adilie life and how they handle or navigate through it.

Bahahah kya hi kehna delusion ka uska koi ilaaj nahi hai.. malini ki story hoti toh show ka naam imlie nahi hota malini hota and the focus would have been her bechaargi and mummy mummy help.me story hota main bechari dukhon ki maari not imlie and her strength since day 1

Basically they are using as the vamp but not that clear cut pointing out unlike other places where there are always 2 candidates and the 2nd candidate does everything knowingly . Here yeah she coaxes she manipulates she does all that a normal vamp do but they are able to cover it under oh poor sweet malini mahaanta ke under she can do all that a lot more smoothly. One can see her connivingness more clearly sly Hai yeh sab karti hai but just goes oh I am doing it caz poor me. Which doesn't make her a straight up vamp too but usse kam bhi nahi hai.. that unawareness in her own actions saves it from being a typical vamp jahan her plans are laid out with proper evil music and VO's her plans are more in the moment like sari.dedi phone karke moment kharab kar dia which all may look more coincidental but actually hote nahi hai Co incidences lol

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Wohi toh😆.....I know itne saare shows mein wohi typical scenes dekh ke ki ladki ne baal khol liye, kuch chamakta outfit pehen liya toh hero flat ho gaya😆....yeh sab dekh dekh ke, logon ko Adi-Imlie se bhi yehi expectation ho rahi hai for some reason but again, they are just not that kind of pair/story😆

Everytime they've shown Adi feeling notably drawn to/attracted to Imlie has been in instances where she has a raw earthiness about her....ekdum simple waali raw beauty.....like the most recent scene when she let her hair open to show him the sindoor, he noticed it more cuz she had that bikhre huye se baal....kuch formal sa nahin tha properly put together.....that is when he's most drawn to her I feel. And kapde toh yeh barely notice karta hai kisi ke bhi🤣.....Imlie ke case mein bhi kuch khaas comment nahin karta.....for him, all her beauty mainly lies in her personality, the fierceness of her convictions, her fighter spirit....usi pe ghaayal hain Babusahib😆

As for this Hug....Word again....lol what a pinnacle it was ....been more than a month since it aired, phir bhi uska itna impact hai.....despite the fact that they never even show either of them remembering that moment aajkal even in FBs😆.....bas humein hi yaad hai.....haha hum log thesis jo likh rahe hain in dono pe baith ke😆

Hahahab yup kapde bhi notice kiye the one time he did was caz suit phat gaya tha 🤣 not caz he found them on so good and all isko apni jhalli aose hi pasand hai which is why after her bikhre baal after running behind the kids too he is like achi lag rahi ho hahah in her everyday kapde in that bhutiya look of sort as the kids would say 🤣 woh realness pasand hai isse hahah yup he noticed caz choti nahi ki thi .. that got his attention in first place but other than that he really doesn't give a farak.. people think that lame dupatta scene meant so much and pata nahi kya lya meaning nikale hai usse but it just felt so weird but also a very generic tboda sa event appropriate kuch kar lo caz you are VIP . Other Other that he never bothers about appearances. Haha

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Not once do I remember him telling anything at all about Malini’s appearance voluntarily. Kabhi shaayad 7 saalon mein keh diya ho guilt mein aake and didi thought he likes her dressed like a bride 🤷🏻‍♀️ 😆 That VD we all know how interested he was when he just dropped dead on her shoulder in whatever dance that was supposed to be 😆

Re Imlie: Exactly. In fact if he has said anything about clothes or appearance on his own it has been to Imlie. Once during that engagement and once during that forest scene. Ladkon ke kapdon mein cute lagti hai. Simplicity is what he has always admired. That hut scene ❤️

@bold - oh yeah 😆! The desperation in Malini. I agree they needed to give a build-up to what she intended to do but all dialogues just came out as pseudo desperation more than anything else. And the whole incident still felt forced ki miss me nahin bola toh let me harm myself.

@bold: 🤣🤣 Still holds the record for one of the weirdest things he did in PDA mode😆

Waise since Rupi di ab jaag gayi hain, can they PLEASE revisit her V-day convo with Imlie? Matlab come on, man....the whole situation is too strong a parallel not to revisit....it will show Rupi's evolution as a person if she realizes what Imlie told her that day is just as valid for Malini too.

Re: appearances....lol waise speaking of him commenting on Imlie's appearance at the engagement.....AGAIN, can we take a moment to pause here and note that the guy was getting engaged to someone else and appearance yeh IMLIE ki notice kar raha tha? 🤣.....Sure, his comment was the usual cranky wala but fact remains ki shaadi kisi aur se ho rahi thi and focus tab bhi Imlie pe hi tha.....LOL this delusional bailbuddhi....tab dimaag lagaa leta ki Imlie pe kyun rehta hai iska dhyaan toh yeh sab mess nahin failaata😆......

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Wohi toh😆.....I know itne saare shows mein wohi typical scenes dekh ke ki ladki ne baal khol liye, kuch chamakta outfit pehen liya toh hero flat ho gaya😆....yeh sab dekh dekh ke, logon ko Adi-Imlie se bhi yehi expectation ho rahi hai for some reason but again, they are just not that kind of pair/story😆

Everytime they've shown Adi feeling notably drawn to/attracted to Imlie has been in instances where she has a raw earthiness about her....ekdum simple waali raw beauty.....like the most recent scene when she let her hair open to show him the sindoor, he noticed it more cuz she had that bikhre huye se baal....kuch formal sa nahin tha properly put together.....that is when he's most drawn to her I feel. And kapde toh yeh barely notice karta hai kisi ke bhi🤣.....Imlie ke case mein bhi kuch khaas comment nahin karta.....for him, all her beauty mainly lies in her personality, the fierceness of her convictions, her fighter spirit....usi pe ghaayal hain Babusahib😆

As for this Hug....Word again....lol what a pinnacle it was ....been more than a month since it aired, phir bhi uska itna impact hai.....despite the fact that they never even show either of them remembering that moment aajkal even in FBs😆.....bas humein hi yaad hai.....haha hum log thesis jo likh rahe hain in dono pe baith ke😆

Seconding that point that MB made that do people watch the show.... Didnt Aditya himself gave an explanation why he likes Imlie and nothing in that speech was about the outer beauty... Its about the inner beauty.... In his own words, he find her most beautiful when she fights for her usool....... I think they should start showing the FB so people will remember why Aditya like Imlie and why she like him despite of their rocky start.. Their connections since the beginning that been about right, values and convictions.

Word about the bold. .

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Rofl yeh saji Dhani wala misconception bhi didi ne khud banaya hua hai si she can get a reason to continuously do fashion parade in the show and kisi kaam ko haath na lagana pade 🤣 Aditya ne toh kabhi notice nahi kia kabhi passing .e bbi nahi bola ke she looks pretty caz she wire a specific sari ya specific look banaya even that whole imlie getting her ready for reception too she had to ugalwao ke threefold nahi karoge look how pretty I look all thansk to imlie and he was like yeah yeah whatever get rid if it we will go to parlor 🤣 but uska reason alag Tha then and well reception tha toh tayar toh hona tha na more like in a routine way tha.

Omg yes that aapki moon aapki moon was another big turn off for me.. God can we never get that back plz in any form it just makes me sick the whole moon thing. Aditya can do whatever token stuff he has to do with malini only.. plz no moon sun .. waise that reminds me isne poori galaxy banayi hui thi ghar main moon yeh sun adi then she used to call woh sunny twinkle star and something too.. matlab aur kitni wannabee hogi aap madam it used to sound so ridiculous to me then too bhai seedhe seedhe naam lo sunny twinkle lol

Honestly I was already bracing myself for the worst case scenario of Moon jaap reboot😆.....but so far Babusahib kaayam dikh rahe hain on his refusal to go back to living that delusional existence😆.......mann se nahin bol paa rahe Moon toh bilkul mute ho jaayenge par MOON nahin bolenge🤣

ROFL@ Malini trying to build a whole galaxy with Twinkle and Sunny too😆

As for her fashion parade....lol yes I strongly suspect ki isne khud se imagine kar liya hai ki Adi has a preference for sari mein saji hui traditional looking lady😆.....matlab if he really cared, he'd pucca have commented one time atleast ki aaj aapki sari khubsoorat lag rahi hai ya kuch....but this guy has literally given NO FARAKS.....in like EVER😆.....phir bhi Didi ka delusion so strong ki Aditya usko aise pasand karta hai, waise pasand karta hai😕😆

Oh haha that reception wala makeup look.....lol yes us waqt bhi Adi had limited patience for all the taam jhaam over makeup......and ofcourse then he got upset cuz woh PD wala makeup lagaa diya Malini pe but he never cared about all this anyways.....sab Malini ke dimaag mein hai.

She dresses up for HERSELF.....but wants to imagine she's doing it for Adi😆.....khud se hi imagine karke baat ko sach maan liya hai....what do you do with such a person😕😆

Originally posted by: pamk06

Seconding that point that MB made that do people watch the show.... Didnt Aditya himself gave an explanation why he likes Imlie and nothing in that speech was about the outer beauty... Its about the inner beauty.... In his own words, he find her most beautiful when she fights for her usool....... I think they should start showing the FB so people will remember why Aditya like Imlie and why she like him despite of their rocky start.. Their connections since the beginning that been about right, values and convictions.

Word about the bold. .

To answer that nahi..caz agar show dekhein toh yeh questions uthein hi nahi.. either that or they make the stupid topics just to stay relevant and sound intelligent and oh such profound thinkers but come across as something else 🤣🤣

Most of the people claim themselves they are only basing their opinions on WU or suni Sundays baateim a random clip or promo so like then the whole.purpose is just to get some attention and wanting 2.mins if fame than actual discussion based on content...how.can you keep banging your head to the same deewars than.. discussion ya koi point rakhne ka bhi tab hi koi point hai Jab the other side atleast understands the basics lol🤷‍♀️

Idt FB's would do much jinko yaad rakhna hota hai woh yaad rakh lete hain without FB's too not like 203974u37778e7e8e FB'S OF SHAADI #1 has put the point across still.. as if that still doesn't get labeled all sorts of disgusting things caz people are too adamant on accepting truth caz it is ego battle and righteous dikhna hai 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Honestly I was already bracing myself for the worst case scenario of Moon jaap reboot😆.....but so far Babusahib kaayam dikh rahe hain on his refusal to go back to living that delusional existence😆.......mann se nahin bol paa rahe Moon toh bilkul mute ho jaayenge par MOON nahin bolenge🤣

ROFL@ Malini trying to build a whole galaxy with Twinkle and Sunny too😆

As for her fashion parade....lol yes I strongly suspect ki isne khud se imagine kar liya hai ki Adi has a preference for sari mein saji hui traditional looking lady😆.....matlab if he really cared, he'd pucca have commented one time atleast ki aaj aapki sari khubsoorat lag rahi hai ya kuch....but this guy has literally given NO FARAKS.....in like EVER😆.....phir bhi Didi ka delusion so strong ki Aditya usko aise pasand karta hai, waise pasand karta hai😕😆

Oh haha that reception wala makeup look.....lol yes us waqt bhi Adi had limited patience for all the taam jhaam over makeup......and ofcourse then he got upset cuz woh PD wala makeup lagaa diya Malini pe but he never cared about all this anyways.....sab Malini ke dimaag mein hai.

She dresses up for HERSELF.....but wants to imagine she's doing it for Adi😆.....khud se hi imagine karke baat ko sach maan liya hai....what do you do with such a person😕😆

Rofl kaise bol de sari main pretty lag ragi hai all that talk and looking down upon imlie ke simple suits and how they are this and that but didi ki saris bhi koi bohat kamaal nahi hoti she looks way too aunty aunty in them too and they sometimes looks like tents kaafi zyada hi fabric ajeeb se lipta hota hai but hey that still makes her look more biwi so she is biwj but anyone not wearing a sari is not biwi.. * all aunties not wearing saris drop unconscious on floor* yeh nayi baat pata chali hai mujhe prof and biwi dikhne ke liye sari zaroori hai not your degree and other life skills.. bas ek.sari and problem solved haha