Finally a push back on the guilt trips - Page 12

Originally posted by: wizardofoz2

I will see if he finally gathers some courage and reveals the truth in tomorrow's episode. I dont think there is a possibility of him revealing right after didis kaand, but hey this show is unpredictable, so who knows.

are nahii kal nahi.. bhul gye kya apni imlie bhukhi pyaasi itni weak bhar bhar ke blood diya h usne bechari ko ksii ne juice nai diya.. meko lag rha.. idhr ye kuch bolne laga udhr usne ho jana behosh..aur bs sch didi sb kuch chod chad k.. imliya ke piche pichee.. haye re meri bechari bchi ko kya hua

Originally posted by: -Srushti-

I second, third and 100th this one.

Dadi never gave thought that her Malini devi has contemplated suicide on mere apprehention of an affair, whereas Anu has known and is suffering from duplicity and lies shelled by her son. and to top it all...Dadi KNOWS the truth. She never told her son to come out with the truth nor did she told him to take a stand for Imlie. You and your son have lied all over the place and you squarely looking your son in law and blaming him when you know that your grand daughter has been hyper ever since. He might not be blemishless. But then you, of all people, cant tell that...you who has lied through her teeth for her son!!

This Dadi is one of the worst Dadis I have ever seen onscreen. I feel like putting a sock in her mouth to shut her up anytime she opens her mouth to give her useless advices🤢. She has known the truth all along but has still not managed to help her son to sort out the mess he made of both AC & Meethi's life. Instead by advising him to hide the truth has just complicated the situation a 100 times more.

I am pretty sure she is the one who must have advised AC to continue on her marriage with her useless son. That is why AC is doubly sensitive about any slight that Dementor Didi receives in her marriage. She has many times given Dementor Didi the right advice about Adi & her relationship, just that her vile nature & how elitist she is makes us angry at her all the time. She doesn't want her daughter to be stuck in a mess of a marriage like she herself has lived. But I am sure that once she knows that Imlie is the one for whom Adi is leaving her daughter than she will do everything in her power to not let Adi break his & Malini's marriage as a punishment.

Dadi & her son DC really do not have any leg to stand on & blame Adi for Dementor Didi's suicide when they have spoiled her so rotten that she cannot even handle not getting something for the first time in her life. Instead of worrying about her mental stability, she is busy blaming Adi & Imlie as well on hearsay. Just pathetic losers the both of them are🤢.

Originally posted by: wizardofoz2

I will see if he finally gathers some courage and reveals the truth in tomorrow's episode. I dont think there is a possibility of him revealing right after didis kaand, but hey this show is unpredictable, so who knows.

He will be prevented from revealing the truth tomorrow that is for sure. Either someone will barge in & the topic will get diverted or Imlie herself might come in & prevent him from telling the truth. Or maybe something else will happen & he will have to leave from there without telling the truth.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

He will be prevented from revealing the truth tomorrow that is for sure. Either someone will barge in & the topic will get diverted or Imlie herself might come in & prevent him from telling the truth. Or maybe something else will happen & he will have to leave from there without telling the truth.

Dr can also come saying we need to do follow up check up😆

Originally posted by: FlowerHater

Dr can also come saying we need to do follow up check up😆

Oh yes....the good tried & tested Dr. interruption for follow up check up😆

Originally posted by: Lodestar

Oh yes....the good tried & tested Dr. interruption for follow up check up😆

Na AC will storm in 🤣

Originally posted by: Lodestar

My thoughts on rest of the epi:

First of all👏 & 🤗 to Rupi Di for being the protective mama bear defending Imlie even against herself. I just ❤️ how fierce she was in trying to make Imlie realise that she should not blame herself for Dementor Didi's suicide attempt. And the way she gave it back to Aparna & Radha for trying to guilt Imlie as a scapegoat was 👏. Dil hi jeet liya. Glad that she was the one who thought that Imlie should not stay there just to take unnecessary blame from anyone & sending her off. Her taking care of Imlie after she returned from donating blood was also so heart warming.

Rupi Di also tried to console Adi & lift the burden of guilt from him as well. I was glad that she had stepped up in place of Adi for Imlie throughout the epi as she knows that he himself was struggling with not only his guilt but also could not openly show support for Imlie in such a situation. This is what is being there for her sibling❤️. Also liked how she tried to nudge him to go to Imlie so that they could get a moment of saath from each other. She is becoming the MVP for me in protecting Imlie & supporting Adi-Imlie relationship.

The Tripathis reacted the way I expected them to react. They have a tendency to blame their own kids rather than the people whom they consider as outsiders even for mistakes that have not been made by them. They do it to Adi, Rupi & Imlie is included as well in this category. If they didn't hold back from blaming Adi, then how could they hold back from blaming Imlie who was at the centerstage of the last Adi-Malini fight.

Aparna & Radha both know that they were being uselessly petty in blaming Imlie but they just wanted to take out their frustration on someone & Imlie was their scape goat. Aparna did look like she realised her mistake when Rupi gave them all a piece of her mind. I believe they will apologise to Imlie when they will cool down.

Aparna does realise the major blame for Dementor Didi's suicide attempt is on Dementor Didi only but they still do not consider her as their own. She is still the Chaturvedi's daughter first to them rather than their own bahu. Their care for her comes more out of responsibility & obligation rather than love. So they do not feel that they have the right to hold her responsible for her mistakes & always bend over backwards to please her.

Also for the Tripathis, I do believe they do give a lot of importance to "log kya kahenge" school of thought. They are very conscious about how society perceives their family & hence try to please outsiders more. Therefore it has become very easy for the Chaturvedis to lord it over them.

The Chaturvedi loser duo Dadi & DC again prove how useless they are in their responsibility towards their kids- be it Dementor Didi or Imlie. This Dadi is the main culprit for all the mess that DC has made of his family's life. They are just plain losers👎🏼.

Totally! It is not like they don't realize they went overboard but in that moment even that felt right to them caz imlie toh aoni hai jisko jhaad bhi sakte hain chahe uski galti hai ke nahi... it was the frustration speaking

They are using Namaks villian as Dr. They can borrow him again for a jealousy track🤣

That skating was something🤣

Saddest part was Imlie banging her head😭

Poor thing need to leave Ts and Cs and go to PG. BS will tag along .

Originally posted by: Lodestar

This Dadi is one of the worst Dadis I have ever seen onscreen. I feel like putting a sock in her mouth to shut her up anytime she opens her mouth to give her useless advices🤢. She has known the truth all along but has still not managed to help her son to sort out the mess he made of both AC & Meethi's life. Instead by advising him to hide the truth has just complicated the situation a 100 times more.

I am pretty sure she is the one who must have advised AC to continue on her marriage with her useless son. That is why AC is doubly sensitive about any slight that Dementor Didi receives in her marriage. She has many times given Dementor Didi the right advice about Adi & her relationship, just that her vile nature & how elitist she is makes us angry at her all the time. She doesn't want her daughter to be stuck in a mess of a marriage like she herself has lived. But I am sure that once she knows that Imlie is the one for whom Adi is leaving her daughter than she will do everything in her power to not let Adi break his & Malini's marriage as a punishment.

Dadi & her son DC really do not have any leg to stand on & blame Adi for Dementor Didi's suicide when they have spoiled her so rotten that she cannot even handle not getting something for the first time in her life. Instead of worrying about her mental stability, she is busy blaming Adi & Imlie as well on hearsay. Just pathetic losers the both of them are🤢.

Thats the beauty of the characters here...The ones who seem so complacent and good, change colours so easily and the ones who are seemingly bad have something good in them.

Like AC...she is vicious and insulting. but her treatment towards others might be outright bad...but her treatment towards her husband and MIL seems to be right on point...and however rude she might have sounded, she seems to have better foreseen that her daughter is marrying wrong.

Daadi might have sounded all good and what not...she has been the sutradhaar of all wrongs. Her son has used his wife as a ladder to success, seduced a tribal woman and left her on her own. not once did he even try to know what happened to Mithi until he came to know about Imlie being his daughter, and then also he has had not the courage to step up...he keeps on fighting with his wife before his daughter..and then both of them blame someone else for Malini's plight!!!

Originally posted by: pamk06

Sahi Pakde hain...all this drama is only going to bring the whole world to her but not the person she wants and if she continues on this path... thoda bahot maan hain Aditya ke mann mein, that is also going go away especially if she targets Imlie... looks like the elders are all going to support Malini..Surprising Aditya is still adamant on telling the truth ..😆... I liked that warna I thought “ sach batana hain” is going to fly away with guilt... it’s another thing that waha uski chop hi honi hain... something is going to stop him... ... and Malini is also like tell me..now . really she did not have the guts to hear it before and now on the hospital bed, she wants to hear it.... and hahah Aditya is all set to tell it to her... there was no you are bimaar and leave it for now, kya chop ho gayi Malini Devi ki 😛

I am so happy that this time the writers did not do our chop with Rupi Di and Aditya. Both brother and sister are still sane..... T’s bale innocent and typical ho but they have taught their kids to support the right... even Nishant is doing what he thinks is right.... but hats off to Rupi Di and how she supported imlie and stood for her. Thank god finally imlie has someone in her corner.. funnily she never needed one when she was fighting her own battle but she needs one because Malini cannot fight her own battle 😆

@bold: Haha this.....yes, Imlie has never really needed anyone to fight her battles...woh kar leti hai jaise bhi manage karna hota hai, sehna hota hai.....but right now, she's dealing with someone who can't fight her own battles but will assemble a proxy army to harass Imlie on her behalf. Imlie is too naive to deal with this proxy war situation toh iske liye Rupi di is needed in her corner....

Once again worth noting ki Imlie never asked for anyone to be in her corner, she didn't do twisted nautanki to milk sympathy out of others like a certain someone does in this story😳......yeh sab khud hi Imlie ko mil raha hai.....Rupi di is Sita Maiyya ki proxy in Imlie's life right now to give a dose to those looking to scapegoat Imlie😆

As for Tripathi elders ka support.....I think it's going to be a mixed bag.....Aparna/Radha will definitely be more hypersensitive to cater to Malini now so quite possible that they will want Imlie to join them in doing ji huzoori of bahurani.....lol....Tripathi Papas I do think will show more kindness to Imlie....Brothers mein toh filhaal Nishant hi hai yahaan Hyd mein to do Didi ki chamchagiri.....lol

Waise yeh sab bhi backfire hi karega on Didi.....lol if Imlie is isolated or neglected by the Tripathi elders, it will just create more scenarios for Adi ka protectiveness for Imlie😆....cuz right now toh he steps back a bit when the rest of the family fusses over Imlie....but if they isolate her, how will he hold himself back from going to her? Rupi di will step in to fill the void and likely keep finding ways to get Adi-Imlie together😆