Finally a push back on the guilt trips - Page 11

Originally posted by: nim_var

As for Nishu, he is a just a dumb rock. Totally useless and don't know why he is even here... waste of space.. if you ask me.. doing didi jaap and chowkidaari ki how many times Adi is looking at Imlie... get a life and move on.

this cracked me Up.. Chowkidaari.. indeed he is the newly appointed Chowkidaar on adi ki raakhi 🤣😈

Originally posted by: Happysoul17

Nishant and adi are younger than her, issliye toh they call her rupi di. I think Only Dhruv is older than Rupi Di.

For Rupi di,to call them bhai it's a respect irrespective of age.

thanks for clarifying.. i always get onfused caz her bhai has more bada bhai vibe than cool chota bhai wa.. i wish she'd just call them by name chote bhaiyon ke liye ajeeb lagta hai title hhahah

Originally posted by: Myrah_2020

Kinda expected better out of Nishant after the episode when he was motivating Imlie on her first day. He was keen on trying solve the puzzle but took the easier route of drawing the suspicion on Imlie. But cannot blame him fully because of the way the overall situation was illustrated to him. Had he talked to Adi for once, probably then it would've been better.

Nishant & Dementor Didi are kinda similar in a way that they do not have the courage to confront the truth directly. Just imagine he took the drastic step of staying away from his family & gf for 10 years because he could not tell the truth about his cancer.

Otherwise he would have directly asked Adi whether he has feelings for Imlie after he started suspecting him. Now after Dementor Didi's suicide attempt, Nishant is trying to keep Adi away from Imlie rather than questioning him & getting answers from him. Like Dementor Didi, he also wants to maintain the status quo as it is.

Hellos...So we are trying to find some good moments in all these horrible dark times and it seems forumwasis have found their ray of hope in Rupidi...Rupidi limelight le gai😆

Waise in these episodes two people were proven so so right...

Prakash has been proven right when he told Imlie that these people (The TTTTs) will be good only as long as you will be in the "Naukrani" mould. The moment they realize the truth, they will side with their "Bahurani". Even without KNOWING the truth, they have shown Imlie what do they consider her🤢 ARey bhai if you genuinely thing that your Bahurani has committed suicide because Imlie has applied sindoor in her mang then you along with your pyaari bahurani need a superfast appointment with a shrink and a permanently booked bed in a paagalkhana!!

Even Adibabu was proven right when he said that this is his family and they will side with him over Imlie . Ofcourse, that was a different version of truth he was talking about.. but even now, with all these brouhaha, the only person the T ladies could have blamed was their son!! They chose to ignore that...the same son who was a demon before few days is not off the hook the moment Daadi blamed him...and how they are going to Imlie with a hatchet

Sumbul aced it today. The way she acted today was so super. So underplayed and yet so powerful showing the pain, agony, guilt loneliness of Imlie. The way everything washed over her, the Ts ke taunt, everyone hostile towards her...only one thing roaming in her mind being Didi🤢

Naturally Rupidi rocked as everyone said. She stood strong. Braving every adverse move and blocking every hostile wind towards Imlie. she even stopped both Imlie and Adi drifting away from each other with this mile wide guilt ki nadiyaa between them.!!!

Waise specially for the T ladies. Malini kept on denying the doodh that Imlie made for her too. Ab uske liye bhi dosh doge...because of your doodh she is in better health and didnot die of ths "Nas kato" fiasco?😡

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After so many days got AdiLie ❤️ feels

My thoughts on rest of the epi:

First of all👏 & 🤗 to Rupi Di for being the protective mama bear defending Imlie even against herself. I just ❤️ how fierce she was in trying to make Imlie realise that she should not blame herself for Dementor Didi's suicide attempt. And the way she gave it back to Aparna & Radha for trying to guilt Imlie as a scapegoat was 👏. Dil hi jeet liya. Glad that she was the one who thought that Imlie should not stay there just to take unnecessary blame from anyone & sending her off. Her taking care of Imlie after she returned from donating blood was also so heart warming.

Rupi Di also tried to console Adi & lift the burden of guilt from him as well. I was glad that she had stepped up in place of Adi for Imlie throughout the epi as she knows that he himself was struggling with not only his guilt but also could not openly show support for Imlie in such a situation. This is what is being there for her sibling❤️. Also liked how she tried to nudge him to go to Imlie so that they could get a moment of saath from each other. She is becoming the MVP for me in protecting Imlie & supporting Adi-Imlie relationship.

The Tripathis reacted the way I expected them to react. They have a tendency to blame their own kids rather than the people whom they consider as outsiders even for mistakes that have not been made by them. They do it to Adi, Rupi & Imlie is included as well in this category. If they didn't hold back from blaming Adi, then how could they hold back from blaming Imlie who was at the centerstage of the last Adi-Malini fight.

Aparna & Radha both know that they were being uselessly petty in blaming Imlie but they just wanted to take out their frustration on someone & Imlie was their scape goat. Aparna did look like she realised her mistake when Rupi gave them all a piece of her mind. I believe they will apologise to Imlie when they will cool down.

Aparna does realise the major blame for Dementor Didi's suicide attempt is on Dementor Didi only but they still do not consider her as their own. She is still the Chaturvedi's daughter first to them rather than their own bahu. Their care for her comes more out of responsibility & obligation rather than love. So they do not feel that they have the right to hold her responsible for her mistakes & always bend over backwards to please her.

Also for the Tripathis, I do believe they do give a lot of importance to "log kya kahenge" school of thought. They are very conscious about how society perceives their family & hence try to please outsiders more. Therefore it has become very easy for the Chaturvedis to lord it over them.

The Chaturvedi loser duo Dadi & DC again prove how useless they are in their responsibility towards their kids- be it Dementor Didi or Imlie. This Dadi is the main culprit for all the mess that DC has made of his family's life. They are just plain losers👎🏼.

I especially want to commend Adi for sticking to his stance about revealing the truth to Dementor Didi even after drowning in guilt over her suicide attempt. Hats off man to even manage to uphold his convictions👏👏.

We have to understand that Adi's guilt regarding Dementor Didi committing suicide is not due to him believing that he has made a mistake falling for Imlie or due to his feelings for her. The guilt is because he did not manage to reveal the truth to Dementor Didi in the initial stage itself & still went ahead to marry her in his stubbornness. Hence, the ultimate solution according to him is revealing the entire truth to Dementor Didi rather than hiding it anymore.

The worst thing that could have happened after revelation of truth has already happened with Dementor Didi's suicide attempt due to the distance between them. So why not reveal the entire truth & make her understand in such a way that she can make the right decisions for her life. He anyways is ready to take the entire blame for their relationship breaking in front of Dementor Didi as well as everyone else. So why hide the truth & drag this relationship anymore due to which Dementor Didi took the drastic step of trying to end her life.

We all know that he will be prevented from revealing the truth by someone or the other. It most probably will be Imlie who would force him to hide the truth for Dementor Didi's sake.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

The Chaturvedi loser duo Dadi & DC again prove how useless they are in their responsibility towards their kids- be it Dementor Didi or Imlie. This Dadi is the main culprit for all the mess that DC has made of his family's life. They are just plain losers👎🏼.

I second, third and 100th this one.

Dadi never gave thought that her Malini devi has contemplated suicide on mere apprehention of an affair, whereas Anu has known and is suffering from duplicity and lies shelled by her son. and to top it all...Dadi KNOWS the truth. She never told her son to come out with the truth nor did she told him to take a stand for Imlie. You and your son have lied all over the place and you squarely looking your son in law and blaming him when you know that your grand daughter has been hyper ever since. He might not be blemishless. But then you, of all people, cant tell that...you who has lied through her teeth for her son!!

Originally posted by: Lodestar

I especially want to commend Adi for sticking to his stance about revealing the truth to Dementor Didi even after drowning in guilt over her suicide attempt. Hats off man to even manage to uphold his convictions👏👏.

We have to understand that Adi's guilt regarding Dementor Didi committing suicide is not due to him believing that he has made a mistake falling for Imlie or due to his feelings for her. The guilt is because he did not manage to reveal the truth to Dementor Didi in the initial stage itself & still went ahead to marry her in his stubbornness. Hence, the ultimate solution according to him is revealing the entire truth to Dementor Didi rather than hiding it anymore.

The worst thing that could have happened after revelation of truth has already happened with Dementor Didi's suicide attempt due to the distance between them. So why not reveal the entire truth & make her understand in such a way that she can make the right decisions for her life. He anyways is ready to take the entire blame for their relationship breaking in front of Dementor Didi as well as everyone else. So why hide the truth & drag this relationship anymore due to which Dementor Didi took the drastic step of trying to end her life.

We all know that he will be prevented from revealing the truth by someone or the other. It most probably will be Imlie who would force him to hide the truth for Dementor Didi's sake.

I will see if he finally gathers some courage and reveals the truth in tomorrow's episode. I dont think there is a possibility of him revealing right after didis kaand, but hey this show is unpredictable, so who knows.