Aditya's restlessness for Imlie - Page 3

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL thanks for the consolation🤗😆

I'm gonna keep my expectations low only....jab Adi ka kuch emotional development dikhaayenge for Imlie, then I'll believe it....tab tak default expectation is for guilt-driven Malini jaap only😆. I think I just always get irritated when she does these "me me me" waale tantrums and ppl give into them.....😆....anyways, I'll get over it, don't worry😆

Malini didi ki mahaanta jindabaad😆. On a serious note, i want her to be grey shaded, dreading that she will be made completely black because per itv tropes that would be a way to push the adi imlie story forward. Real life mein people divorce for the slightest reason like not having a spark in the marriage or even for lack of a basic connect. So they do not need to make her a diabolical villian, but she need not be sugary sweet either.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL thanks for the consolation🤗😆

I'm gonna keep my expectations low only....jab Adi ka kuch emotional development dikhaayenge for Imlie, then I'll believe it....tab tak default expectation is for guilt-driven Malini jaap only😆. I think I just always get irritated when she does these "me me me" waale tantrums and ppl give into them.....😆....anyways, I'll get over it, don't worry😆

Koi na I know you better 😆

Woh teri baat sahi hai ke saaara muddah ghoom phir ke mahaan malini didi pe hi aa jata hai ke bas main hi exist karti hoon and sab meei seva main juth jao and it does become irritating woh over innocence is just ughhh but we roll with it caz then adi imli bhi saath main kuch toh aage chal rahe hain small baby steps but better than stalling aage malini didi ki sorry story toh abhi kaafi time chalegi 🤣 mere ko toh bas hassi hi aati hai ab malini and adi ke saved jhoots pe ke hum yeh hain hum.woh hain when in real hum mismatch hain

As promised first will check written update ..now rushing to watch episode😆...can't wait to see lions roar on his prey anu😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Honey but yeh toh sach hi hai na he belongs to working class only he is patriarchal saara din qalam ghista hai😆 idjar udhar bhaagta phirta hai though imlie iss se bhi neecche hai in status but kaam toh yeh bhi sakht hi karta hai na kabhi yahaan kabhi wahan.. hence it was easier for him to link that insult with him and sure mudda kahin aur chala gaya too quick from.imlie it became about his inside frustration and the thoughts he keeps.pushing back over and over again coming out like this but ate you seeing the frequency of this very thought ke phir shaadi ki kyon.. in one week this is the 2nd time he has directly questioned that very fact ke shaadi karni hi mahi chahiye thi and they are unfortunately for each other though then he goes into making up.zone with extra bas ho gaya ab jaane do.mode but they all sound more like.compromises being made to keep.up.with the sab theek that instead of actually wanting to fix things caz then they pretend ke kuch hua hi nahi instead of solving it.this way it is never gonna go away and har dafah yehi hoga they are just 2 roommates right now not allowing anyone on their space..

While with imlie notice how she has been given a darja of an equal in this rant too he put himself in imli ka.place just like that in a blink.. they belonged to the same class it was easier for him to place himself in imlie's shoes and how.personal that insult was to him... the subconscious is acting more then adi would want it too. While with malini woh gap.keeps widening and hey just can't think of each other on the same level in any possible way..

*Edited cuz you fixed the typo😆

Yes, he does belong to the working class, especially as compared to Malini's family which is upper class business type, but the level to which he equalized himself with Imlie in this scene was very noteworthy.

All day long he rants about how Imlie ko koi tareeka nahin hai koi bhi kaam karne ka, she is jhalli, she's a mess etc. etc....but today, he was acting like him and Imlie are one unit and he was defending their dignity as working class people against all the elitists in that room - Ms. Malini Chaturvedi included😆. The irony is too hilarious cuz all this time, Imlie has put him at a higher status than her, calling him Babusahib, giving him the regard of someone who is from a higher social strata.....and ek jhatke mein Adi ne sab sweep away karke bol diya ki hum bhi working class hain aur yeh Chaturvedis humein kabhi nahin samajh sakte😆.

@bold: That's a very noteworthy point you made....he keeps trying to put himself in the same space as Imlie, aligning himself with her subconsciously....while simultaneously the gaps with Malini keep widening without him consciously trying to do anything there. Every fight is becoming an escalation on the same class difference topic....if they still don't confront the issue, it is inevitable they will break apart over this.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

*Edited cuz you fixed the typo😆

Yes, he does belong to the working class, especially as compared to Malini's family which is upper class business type, but the level to which he equalized himself with Imlie in this scene was very noteworthy.

All day long he rants about how Imlie ko koi tareeka nahin hai koi bhi kaam karne ka, she is jhalli, she's a mess etc. etc....but today, he was acting like him and Imlie are one unit and he was defending their dignity as working class people against all the elitists in that room - Ms. Malini Chaturvedi included😆. The irony is too hilarious cuz all this time, Imlie has put him at a higher status than her, calling him Babusahib, giving him the regard of someone who is from a higher social strata.....and ek jhatke mein Adi ne sab sweep away karke bol diya ki hum bhi working class hain aur yeh Chaturvedis humein kabhi nahin samajh sakte😆.

@bold: That's a very noteworthy point you made....he keeps trying to put himself in the same space as Imlie, aligning himself with her subconsciously....while simultaneously the gaps with Malini keep widening without him consciously trying to do anything there. Every fight is becoming an escalation on the same class difference topic....if they still don't confront the issue, it is inevitable they will break apart over this.

Wohi toh ☺️ yeh aadmi shaadi karke bhi na khud chaturvedis ka hissa ban paaya hai na malini ko tripathis ka hissa bana paaya hai.. isse bada kya saboot hoga ke how big of a fail this so called mian biwi ka rishta is... meanwhile inli is not only his ghar ka integral part but now on the same level as him too aise hi toh koi kisi ko woh darja nahi deta... kahin na kahin adi aur imlie ka jo rishta hai beyond fellow humans wih ab sar uthane laga hai and itne

Aditya Ka restlessness was worth watching.....last time when he felt like this,imlie got shot... today when he felt restless,imlie was insulted.... somewhere I feel Aditya understood his MIL very well..isliye Baja daali mast AC ki...

In his anger,only imlie could reach him...first he brushed off n told her not interrupt...second time he listened to her.....mast mast.....looked like imlie could read his anger because she is habituated to it....lol

AC told imlie will be responsible for breakup of adi n Malini ...poor soul... doesn't know had imlie not given up her wifely rights, adi n Malini marriage would not have taken place itself...even though adi don't acknowledge his marriage with imlie, the marriage is still there n imlie s his wife no matter wat....until they split, Malini n adi relationship don't hold any rights...

I feel imlie will try to distance herself from adi but that will drive adi more mad..... already he was half mad that she was not at home.....ye ladki usko poora pagal Kar degi......poor chap...!!!!!!!!

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Wohi toh ☺️ yeh aadmi shaadi karke bhi na khud chaturvedis ka hissa ban paaya hai na malini ko tripathis ka hissa bana paaya hai.. isse bada kya saboot hoga ke how big of a fail this so called mian biwi ka rishta is... meanwhile inli is not only his ghar ka integral part but now on the same level as him too aise hi toh koi kisi ko woh darja nahi deta... kahin na kahin adi aur imlie ka jo rishta hai beyond fellow humans wih ab sar uthane laga hai and itne

Adi said some very big things during this fight😆.....how much of it will he be able to walk back that easily ki sirf gusse mein bola and he didn't mean it? Matlab he clearly doesn't consider himself a part of Malini's family truly.....and Malini ko bhi fully apni family ka hissa nahin maan paaya hai warna itni easily uske muh se "Miss Chaturvedi" nahin nikalta.

As you were saying earlier today, gusse mein kabhi kabhi mann ke andar rakhe huye honest opinions come out unfiltered.....and this is what seems to be happening with Adi more frequently these days especially in the case of Moon and her mom.....he seriously believes deep down inside that they look down on him and his family....probably cuz Mrs. C has left no chance to make them feel that way in so many years....but he didn't raise it that much before. Now, he's not being able to hold back and har fight mein yeh point kisi na kisi tarhaan baahar aa raha hai even if Imlie is not the catalyst for it.

This time Imlie was the catalyst but this class difference issue b/w AM is not of her making....woh unke aapas ki baat hai jo kabhi suljhaayi nahin. Still, Imlie will become the easy scapegoat since Adi so publicly lashed out at his own wife for Imlie's sake. And Imlie ne bhi le li hai apne upar baat ki Babusahib ne mere liye Malini DIDI pe gussa kiya.....we all know Imlie ka first lowe DIDI hi hain....lol woh nahin jee paayegi Didi ke dard ka cause banke.

Originally posted by: Anusha7188

Aditya Ka restlessness was worth watching.....last time when he felt like this,imlie got shot... today when he felt restless,imlie was insulted.... somewhere I feel Aditya understood his MIL very well..isliye Baja daali mast AC ki...

In his anger,only imlie could reach him...first he brushed off n told her not interrupt...second time he listened to her.....mast mast.....looked like imlie could read his anger because she is habituated to it....lol

AC told imlie will be responsible for breakup of adi n Malini ...poor soul... doesn't know had imlie not given up her wifely rights, adi n Malini marriage would not have taken place itself...even though adi don't acknowledge his marriage with imlie, the marriage is still there n imlie s his wife no matter wat....until they split, Malini n adi relationship don't hold any rights...

I feel imlie will try to distance herself from adi but that will drive adi more mad..... already he was half mad that she was not at home.....ye ladki usko poora pagal Kar degi......poor chap...!!!!!!!!

@bold: That's true....Imlie did step back at a crucial time or the AM marriage couldn't even have happened....if anything, Imlie has tried to save their rishta at many crucial points. It wasn't her fault that she was forced into marrying Adi, but since then, she has tried her best to keep them together and do what she can from her side to help their relationship.

It is not Imlie's fault that they are incompatible with each other....but she will sadly be blamed for it cuz she is an easy scapegoat for everyone.

LOL@ pura paagal Adi....I hope we do get to witness that.....pura paagal Adi jaise aaj bhi tha to quite an extent is the most honest version of him😆

It was vastly entertaining and cringey to watch the antics of AC. The woman would go to any length to get her ego massaged that has been battered by DC. A diabolical woman, who has never done anything right, harping on about the class difference, who perceived slight insults to her precious daughter when there were none at the T's , when she rushed to her 'rescue'. Has no qualms in treating another person, like dirt and tries to be sophisticated et al, only the crassness and small mentality is outed.

The Chaturvedis might be wealthy and live in a mansion but AC is mean and small minded. I think it was AC who comes from a rich family and DC was someone she wanted, so married him. Wanted to make him her toy, so that he could dance to her tunes. When that did not happen, she became a bitter wife with a twisted mind.

The dynamics of the C household was on full display and it was charming to see the 2 sis bonding with their dad. How Malini dealt with her parents issues is by being non confrontational as AC becomes more vicious when confronted. probably that is why DC is keeping mum, but he does need to grow a spine. He did look relieved when Adi showed up to give taana to AC. So was Imli, she was shocked poor thing and he was the last person she expected to see there.

I think Adi worked himself into a lather and let loose all that he has been bottling inside of him. The fight has now become public. The fact that he has been facing AC's taunts for the last 7 years and he had reached the boiling point, unwittingly bcoz of his wife. He was deeply offended when AC came to his house to inspect their room and criticized everything from the decor to the food etc around their wedding, who saw fault everywhere. Today he poured that out and DC was relishing it, until he directed it towards Mun. Only Imli cut through the red haze of anger and then he was on a guilt trip.. he felt restless so he had to come rescue 'his jhalli'. 😃

Mun is clueless and she is self absorbed, it was about her. Adi did not spare her a thought and never understood his insecurities. I mean the woman is a professor and took the day off to be with her mom, because she was feeling low.. btw loved the earrings that Mun has been sporting the last 2 days, classy pieces. 😉

I saw not one iota of remorse or regret on AC's face after all the tamasha. She wanted Imlie to become a tamasha, instead she became one. This adds to the insult heaped on her daughter by her jamaai babu.

Imlie is going to withdraw into a shell while Adi will be guilt tripping and for a change now Mun will be rebuffing his advances. Maybe Imli will recite another poem... 😂 😂 😂 to manao the happy coupil. 😂🤣

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: That's true....Imlie did step back at a crucial time or the AM marriage couldn't even have happened....if anything, Imlie has tried to save their rishta at many crucial points. It wasn't her fault that she was forced into marrying Adi, but since then, she has tried her best to keep them together and do what she can from her side to help their relationship.

It is not Imlie's fault that they are incompatible with each other....but she will sadly be blamed for it cuz she is an easy scapegoat for everyone.

LOL@ pura paagal Adi....I hope we do get to witness that.....pura paagal Adi jaise aaj bhi tha to quite an extent is the most honest version of him😆

and yehi toh baat hai A 3rd person has to take steps to sav their rishta not once not twice every freaking time... these 2 actually don't take a step either to fix i after they end up fighting.... it's always the T family or Imlie who end up budging and compromising to protect this rishta and to kill their own khushiyan... liek for example even on the shaadi poor T's weren't even allowed to have anythingaccording to them it was all an order that they have to follow.. well That's not what a shaadi is.. shaadi ko aise hi 2 fmailies ka milan nahikehte thoda ladke wale htoda ladki wale ko compromise karna padta hai on their wishes and leeway dena bhi padta hai but mrs C has not even done that Once not even ONce has she allowed and left a chance to humilate the tripathis matlab woh apne bete ki shaadi main darr ke aaye thay jaise koi crime ho gaya ho unse... and the best part is they don't even get the acknowledgement . we know mrs C would never but not even Malini has once acknowledged that very fact ke yeh fair nahi tha on her mm's part to tripathis.. all it came wqas the superficial mom yeh nahi mom woh nahi which also went into hawa pretty fast... all her moves to possible handle the situation lack the emotional connect to tripathis.. sorry i have drifted again

coming back to the point jab tak adi and malini khud iss baat ko samjhenge nahi inka kuch nahi hoga kahin nahi jaane wale le infact they will start feeling suffocated in this shaadi.. caz lack of compatibility and uske baad uspe koi kaam nahi karta they think ke koi na koi sab theek akra dega and hum phir se ok ho jaayenge kitni baar koi karwayega eventually toh everyone eill get tired na..