Aditya's restlessness for Imlie - Page 2

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Imlie has already been there for a while now.....all that remains is for her and Adi to see the obvious.

I don't think Malini gets anything😆....atleast I didn't really any signs of that in the epi or in the precap.....the guilt-trip will definitely push back any scope of introspection.

Adi will become focused on the fact that he let down Malini by worrying about Imlie.....so that's how it's likely going to go for a bit again.....Adi always pulls back into himself after a big emotional display for Imlie....lol

Lol at bold. I thought so too while watching but the fact that she recognizes Aditya forgot her for Imlie, even if for a minute, means that the seed that her mom had sown is subconsciously working it’s way no? While this will in all probability lead to a honeymoon (so that those two can get some alone time), her mom will not rest until she nourishes that sapling in Malini’s head and Malini will only allow it to fester; not wrongly so.

Aditya will again open up his vyaakaran kitaab for Imlie and then try to take a break.

Originally posted by: wizardofoz2

I have a feeling the story is moving towards Imlie distancing herself from her babusaheb. He was already missing her in yesterdays episode. Her deliberate attempt to keep the peace between adi and malini would drive him nuts and would manifest as anger against her. I could be wrong but this is where i think the story is headed.

I'm not too sure about that right now.....cuz based on today's epi, Adi hurting Malini so much will now switch his focus fully towards that guilt trip again rather than having any time to miss Imlie😆.....Imlie ko toh tab miss karega jab guilt se niklega....last few days, he had come out of the guilt zone a little so he had started feeling other emotions like missing Imlie.....now he's been thrown fully back into the guilt zone toh wahin rahega😆.

Anyways, we'll get a better picture based on how Adi-Malini's convo goes tomorrow.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Lol at bold. I thought so too while watching but the fact that she recognizes Aditya forgot her for Imlie, even if for a minute, means that the seed that her mom had sown is subconsciously working it’s way no? While this will in all probability lead to a honeymoon (so that those two can get some alone time), her mom will not rest until she nourishes that sapling in Malini’s head and Malini will only allow it to fester; not wrongly so.

Aditya will again open up his vyaakaran kitaab for Imlie and then try to take a break.

Everyone here builds up so much expectation of Malini giving in to her Mom's brainwashing but it never comes to be😆.....instead, the writers continue to make her mahaan and an innocent victim of all situations.....today also bechaari bas chutney banaati reh gayi innocence mein😆.

So I'll believe it when I see if it that sapling grows into anything😆.....today also they showed Imlie speaking up in Malini's defense, so Malini is again not going to suspect Imlie for this.....blame will only go on Adi for neglecting her😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

It's definitely worth noting that it is not Imlie, but Malini who is making this a competition between herself and Imlie. She is the one uttering the exact words ki Imlie ki chinta mein mujhe bhool gaye?😆.......

Even now, her main focus is on how Adi could reduce her importance in his life as a comparison to someone else😆......she is asking for his trust, when there is no understanding😆. If there was any understanding, she would wonder what drove Adi to be so worried about Imlie.....instead she's making it about how he could forget HER😆.

Actually this is again clear insight into what this relationship is.....a constant guilt trip of "how could you".....and maybe that is why Adi bursts out with things like, "In your house, the way people talk to the househelp, in my house, we don't even talk to family members like that"......They are fundamentally in different headspaces but they never want to talk about it.

I just said the same thing ke it is malini who is making it a competition at our adda 🤣 conveniently she didn't see ke adi spoke like this not only to her but her mom too and all that was valid as if she didn't offer to help in first place to not let AC insult imli 🤣 and was unaware ke kya plan hai AC ka. But jab samay aaya toh yeh bholi ban gayi ke mujhe kyon bol dia arre bhai tumhare bharose toh imli ko bheja gaya tha itni choti si baat is too much for her to.understand good or bad it was her maayka and she was responsible for a guest even if "naukrani "from.her Sasural tumhein nahi toh kya Parisi ko bolega adi 🤣 it is again ke mere se uppar inle ko rakha adi ne and yeh kaise ho gaya instead of how come.my mother went to.the extent of.humiliating like this.. sure adi went kaafi overboard with her but his ghussa still had valid reason behind it

This was never about main aur Imlie ... this was about insaniyat at the base of it he took a stand as a fellow human in his words though we know ke yeh sorf yeh nahi tha and he would've never exploded had it been another insaan in place of imlie on that ground too but to him as of now he got so pissed caz ek bachi ko iss tarah insult kia jaa raha yha

maze ki baat hai malini didi even after seeing all that she didn't even asked once ke par kia kya humari Amma ne she was too pissed at how come mere se oopar kisi aur insaan ko rakh dia proved adi ka point right that these guys are so self absorbed ke kisi aur ko insaan samjhte hi nahi hai

Word about mera ghar and tera ghar when it should've been humara ghar.. they are more like in a live in relationship space then actually married married space abhi bhi mera tera chal raha hai but they say they are madly in love hahah... that the basic understanding hi nahi hui.abhi tak malini ko about her sasural and I have pointed it out multiple times ke kitna formality hai and she never tries to break the ice beyond the top.layer and actually get to know anyone.. forget koi aur she toh never have managed to do that with Aditya either... she really know him as much as we know some celebrity or something... literally nothing..

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

yup caz as aparna said too that malini ke bharose bheja hsi ke she wouldn't let it happen and then adi probably had the faith in her too ke even if he is thinking the worst malini would not let it happen but what he saw was totally opposite and again the MU was created rather smartly ke didj was part of it.. aur kuch ho na ho bas inka lack of trust on each other was on public display today along with the a huge ass crack and this also involved society wale woah

I also had to laugh ke ek chutney banane se didi got bruise on her hand haiii kitna kaam kar lia didi neitnj naazuk hai woh

Bruise was strategically added in to dial up Adi Babu ka guilt trip....writers koi kami nahin chhodte guilt ki aag mein ghee daalne ko😆

Re: lack of trust.....yes it was very apparent in that moment. But despite it being a big and very public outburst, I dunno why mujhe kaafi skepticism hai about how much it will change things. Maybe cuz I'm feeling that the questions that Malini is asking will only draw the usual explanations from Adi ki no, he trusts her the most, loves her the most, sab theek hai etc. etc. and Malini will readily accept them also.....lol

Imlie retreating further away....uska bhi I wonder kitna farak padega since Adi will be busy reassuring Malini that his full attention is on her only😆

I guess I just need to see tomorrow's epi to get a better picture.

Originally posted by: wizardofoz2

I have a feeling the story is moving towards Imlie distancing herself from her babusaheb. He was already missing her in yesterdays episode. Her deliberate attempt to keep the peace between adi and malini would drive him nuts and would manifest as anger against her. I could be wrong but this is where i think the story is headed.

Babusahib will soon be listening to doori sahi jaaye na on BK ka radio🥺🤣

Sure he will try to coddle malini once again but imlie distancing herself from him ain't gonna go too well with him.. babusahib is in for a major roller coster ride from both his devi's

The more imlie will avoid the more restless and eager he will become for her even if he 'd for OTT for malini but dil main he will be dealing with a whole lot of growing frustration

Dekhte haain following our mantra of 1 day at a time

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Bruise was strategically added in to dial up Adi Babu ka guilt trip....writers koi kami nahin chhodte guilt ki aag mein ghee daalne ko😆

Re: lack of trust.....yes it was very apparent in that moment. But despite it being a big and very public outburst, I dunno why mujhe kaafi skepticism hai about how much it will change things. Maybe cuz I'm feeling that the questions that Malini is asking will only draw the usual explanations from Adi ki no, he trusts her the most, loves her the most, sab theek hai etc. etc. and Malini will readily accept them also.....lol

Imlie retreating further away....uska bhi I wonder kitna farak padega since Adi will be busy reassuring Malini that his full attention is on her only😆

I guess I just need to see tomorrow's epi to get a better picture.

🤗 yeh le meri jhalli tere liye 🤗

Milega better picture milega but at much wala kachwa speed 🤣

@ bold duh sure but do they mean anything anymore after seeing they are nothing but hollow words 🤣 point toh yehi hai ke he utter all this hollowness formula rata rataya sabak and didi will once again aankhein band karke will beleive it all like a total dumb chick refusing to see anything beyond .. lagein rahein sanu ki if this means adi is gonna feel more strongly for Imlie. 😆 infact he is gonna try harder to dabao that feeling of restlessness by being more sakht but ho na players isse. He may go stronger into I love only malini but does he.🤣

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

I just said the same thing ke it is malini who is making it a competition at our adda 🤣 conveniently she didn't see ke adi spoke like this not only to her but her mom too and all that was valid as if she didn't offer to help in first place to not let AC insult imli 🤣 and was unaware ke kya plan hai AC ka. But jab samay aaya toh yeh bholi ban gayi ke mujhe kyon bol dia arre bhai tumhare bharose toh imli ko bheja gaya tha itni choti si baat is too much for her to.understand good or bad it was her maayka and she was responsible for a guest even if "naukrani "from.her Sasural tumhein nahi toh kya Parisi ko bolega adi 🤣 it is again ke mere se uppar inle ko rakha adi ne and yeh kaise ho gaya instead of how come.my mother went to.the extent of.humiliating like this.. sure adi went kaafi overboard with her but his ghussa still had valid reason behind it

This was never about main aur Imlie ... this was about insaniyat at the base of it he took a stand as a fellow human in his words though we know ke yeh sorf yeh nahi tha and he would've never exploded had it been another insaan in place of imlie on that ground too but to him as of now he got so pissed caz ek bachi ko iss tarah insult kia jaa raha yha

maze ki baat hai malini didi even after seeing all that she didn't even asked once ke par kia kya humari Amma ne she was too pissed at how come mere se oopar kisi aur insaan ko rakh dia proved adi ka point right that these guys are so self absorbed ke kisi aur ko insaan samjhte hi nahi hai

Word about mera ghar and tera ghar when it should've been humara ghar.. they are more like in a live in relationship space then actually married married space abhi bhi mera tera chal raha hai but they say they are madly in love hahah... that the basic understanding hi nahi hui.abhi tak malini ko about her sasural and I have pointed it out multiple times ke kitna formality hai and she never tries to break the ice beyond the top.layer and actually get to know anyone.. forget koi aur she toh never have managed to do that with Aditya either... she really know him as much as we know some celebrity or something... literally nothing..

@bold: WORD.....lol yehi hota hai na when they show Adi's anger bursting out....it takes over the main point of the whole situation and sab main point bhool jaate hain phir. Adi ne Malini ko itna kuch sunaa diya ki uske baad no one even bothered to talk about the baseline issue regarding what Malini's mom and her friends were doing to Imlie. And Malini toh bas apna clueless lamb expression banaake ghumti rahegi toh no wonder Adi was also out of patience in that moment for once😆.

I just feel kinda let down cuz Adi's disgust and exasperation was otherwise bang on with all the chochlebaazi of this crowd.....but since he went to the extent of accusing Malini of being elitist as well that she doesn't have any understanding of common man ke struggles😆....toh topic kahin aur hi chala gaya....haha

I would have liked to see an exploration of where all this was coming from within Adi's mind....that he ended up somehow putting himself in the same category as Imlie.....a working class person😆. Sadly, ab lagta nahin yeh koi discuss karega....it will all become about Imlie ke liye Malini didi ko kaise bhool gaye😆

As you rightly pointed out, Adi ka stance in general was for insaaniyat even though we as the audience are more aware of his fikar for Imlie that made him get so worked up.....lekin now that point has also mostly been lost kyunki husband-wife ka jhagda public hogaya aur uska alag tamasha ban gaya😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

🤗 yeh le meri jhalli tere liye 🤗

Milega better picture milega but at much wala kachwa speed 🤣

@ bold duh sure but do they mean anything anymore after seeing they are nothing but hollow words 🤣 point toh yehi hai ke he utter all this hollowness formula rata rataya sabak and didi will once again aankhein band karke will beleive it all like a total dumb chick refusing to see anything beyond .. lagein rahein sanu ki if this means adi is gonna feel more strongly for Imlie. 😆 infact he is gonna try harder to dabao that feeling of restlessness by being more sakht but ho na players isse. He may go stronger into I love only malini but does he.🤣

LOL thanks for the consolation🤗😆

I'm gonna keep my expectations low only....jab Adi ka kuch emotional development dikhaayenge for Imlie, then I'll believe it....tab tak default expectation is for guilt-driven Malini jaap only😆. I think I just always get irritated when she does these "me me me" waale tantrums and ppl give into them.....😆....anyways, I'll get over it, don't worry😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: WORD.....lol yehi hota hai na when they show Adi's anger bursting out....it takes over the main point of the whole situation and sab main point bhool jaate hain phir. Adi ne Malini ko itna kuch sunaa diya ki uske baad no one even bothered to talk about the baseline issue regarding what Malini's mom and her friends were doing to Imlie. And Malini toh bas apna clueless lamb expression banaake ghumti rahegi toh no wonder Adi was also out of patience in that moment for once😆.

I just feel kinda let down cuz Adi's disgust and exasperation was otherwise bang on with all the chochlebaazi of this crowd.....but since he went to the extent of accusing Malini of being elitist as well that she doesn't have any understanding of common man ke struggles😆....toh topic kahin aur hi chala gaya....haha

I would have liked to see an exploration of where all this was coming from within Adi's mind....that he ended up somehow putting himself in the same category as Imlie.....a working class person😆. Sadly, ab lagta nahin yeh koi discuss karega....it will all become about Imlie ke liye Malini didi ko kaise bhool gaye😆

As you rightly pointed out, Adi ka stance in general was for insaaniyat even though we as the audience are more aware of his fikar for Imlie that made him get so worked up.....lekin now that point has also mostly been lost kyunki husband-wife ka jhagda public hogaya aur uska alag tamasha ban gaya😆

Honey but yeh toh sach hi hai na he belongs to working class only he is patrakar saara din qalam ghista hai😆 idhar udhar bhaagta phirta hai though imlie iss se bhi neecche hai in status but kaam toh yeh bhi sakht hi karta hai na kabhi yahaan kabhi wahan.. hence it was easier for him to link that insult with him and sure mudda kahin aur chala gaya too quick from.imlie it became about his inside frustration and the thoughts he keeps.pushing back over and over again coming out like this but are you seeing the frequency of this very thought ke phir shaadi ki kyon.. in one week this is the 2nd time he has directly questioned that very fact ke shaadi karni hi nahi chahiye thi sure he then soon goes into making up.zone with extra bas ho gaya ab jaane do.mode but they all sound more like.compromises being made to keep.up.with the sab theek tha instead of actually wanting to fix things caz then they pretend ke kuch hua hi nahi instead of solving it.this way it is never gonna go away and har dafah yehi hoga they are just 2 roommates right now not allowing anyone on their space..

While with imlie notice how she has been given a darja of an equal in this rant too he put himself in imli ka.place just like that in a blink.. they belonged to the same class it was easier for him to place himself in imlie's shoes and how.personal that insult was to him... the subconscious is acting more then adi would want it too. While with malini woh gap.keeps widening and hey just can't think of each other on the same level in any possible way..