Kabhi neem neem kabhi shahad - Page 4

Also Sahir has a past that haunts him ... today he was thinking about zeenat and the deal ... he was all upset ... that is exactly when arzoo chose to walk in ... so why his behaviour is different at different times is because of that ... at other times he was not this rude because he was not pre occupied by his past at that exact moment ... today he was ... bad timing!!! ... of course arzoo doesnt know about his past ... that is why i said she needs to first observe before shoving things on him and getting hurt and becoming judgemental in return bila waja ... its common sense when someone repeatedly asks u to leave ... u leave ... even in close family when we have argument with siblings we sometimes are told to leave ... and we leave we dont stay there and keep pushing all limits to reach a point of no return do we?

Originally posted by: redviolet

To me both times he told her to leave and she decided to stay anyway. I dont understand what his body language was saying. To me a verbal warning is enough for both situations. And she was wrong to stay back in both situations. The Arzoo also ignored his plea when she put ointment on him. Both situation she was trying to help him by ignoring his plea. She cant be sure her method is right and effective all the time. She ignored her self-respect from the very first instant he insulted and she still helped him. This was just a continuation of her putting Sahir before self-respect pushed to extremes.

Originally posted by: Soaps1

Also Sahir has a past that haunts him ... today he was thinking about zeenat and the deal ... he was all upset ... that is exactly when arzoo chose to walk in ... so why his behaviour is different at different times is because of that ... at other times he was not this rude because he was not pre occupied by his past at that exact moment ... today he was ... bad timing!!! ... of course arzoo doesnt know about his past ... that is why i said she needs to first observe before shoving things on him and getting hurt and becoming judgemental in return bila waja ... its common sense when someone repeatedly asks u to leave ... u leave ... even in close family when we have argument with siblings we sometimes are told to leave ... and we leave we dont stay there and keep pushing all limits to reach a point of no return do we?

exactly she is not a psychologist she knows what he is thinking all the time. Thats why she shouldnt have offered him help at all. And he has been asking her to stay away from him before she decided to even help him. so its common sense she stays away from him period.

Originally posted by: prettypri

Well..applying medicine to someone who js quite obviously struggling to do so himself and is very much in pain...is different from what she did today..I maintain that...she did think...he was so concerned about my mother and no one is concerned about him...and that was what drove her to go to him and even shut him up to help him.

And she clearly told him...I am not interfering..I am only helping with applying the ointment.

Today she came with the dinner...what other judgement was required when he asked her politely to leave? She could have left keeping the plate there...because there was no emergency or hurry wrt keeping out the clothes...there is no significance there .

her judgement cant be right all the time. She is trying to help in any case. Here she could have thought this man defended me in front Anam cares so much about me and I cant make sure he has dinner? He seems upset he has always consoled me when I am upset? See had she not decided to help him at all she wouldnt risk the chances of her judgment going wrong.

Arey baap re everyone are on fire lage raho my post gets so many pages shukriya dosto .
Good to read all ur posts .

Originally posted by: Soaps1

agar hum shant ho gae tou chaska meter ranking maintain kaise rahey gi🤣

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Originally posted by: redviolet

her judgement cant be right all the time. She is trying to help in any case. Here she could have thought this man defended me in front Anam cares so much about me and I cant make sure he has dinner? He seems upset he has always consoled me when I am upset? See had she not decided to help him at all she wouldnt risk the chances of her judgment going wrong.

Besides if we are going to talk about what the characters could have been thinking I can say that Sahir could have thought that if he told her this she would be scared enough to stay out of his way so that she didn't run the risk of further insult..because he doesn't like insulting her..that's clearly been shown!

Originally posted by: prettypri

What I stated as her reasoning before tbe ointment scene was SHOWN to us...today what you state wasn't shown...I only say what I see...he asked her to leave...she ignored him and did what she wanted..

Not once...twice...but three times!

Making sure he has dinner is not the same as applying ointment..period.

Getting him something different for dinner was ok...that was what Alvira said as well...she was not shown as thinking what you say she could have thought.and as I said I am commenting on what was shown...that didn't give me any reason to justify her behaviour😊

Just because her judgment wasnt shown doesnt mean it wasnt made. We always make judgement before our actions before we act anyway. It doesnt always need to be elaborate. For me both are invasion of physical and personal space. Both should be done by respective wives not a girl that works in the office. If someone is hungry they can be in just as much as pain as they were when they needed ointment. She was wrong in both cases. She shouldnt be helping him period when he keeps insulting her for it over and over again.

Originally posted by: prettypri

Besides if we are going to talk about what the characters could have been thinking I can say that Sahir could have thought that if he told her this she would be scared enough to stay out of his way so that she didn't run the risk of further insult..because he doesn't like insulting her..that's clearly been shown!

that way we can say he must have thought if I just slap her across the face or rape her once she wont come back for further insult and I don't like insulting her continuously so good idea!