Kabhi neem neem kabhi shahad - Page 5

The fact he was in pain was obvious...the wounds were there...it wasn't obvious if he was hungry...and he never said he wouldn't eat...he said he will eat..so ...where was the question of her thinking about ensuring he ate,,.even assuming we consider that's what she apparently thought??

So arzoo ki thinking u can judge as and how it suits to justify her character but sahir had to be thinking at extreme only like raping her? Just because sahir's thinking was not shown doesn't mean he was thinking about rape or all bad things ... same way u r implying that just because arzoo's thinking was not shown doesn't mean she was not thinking 🤔

Originally posted by: prettypri

The fact he was in pain was obvious...the wounds were there...it wasn't obvious if he was hungry...and he never said he wouldn't eat...he said he will eat..so ...where was the question of her thinking about ensuring he ate,,.even assuming we consider that's what she apparently thought??

like i said if she is trying to help him she is trying to help him. She hasnt done this before, She cant be right about how he is feeling or going to react. while the wounds were there joe was still around so its not like no one was their to put ointment on him if he didnt succeed.

Originally posted by: redviolet

that way we can say he must have thought if I just slap her across the face or rape her once she wont come back for further insult and I don't like insulting her continuously so good idea!

Originally posted by: Soaps1

So arzoo ki thinking u can judge as and how it suits to justify her character but sahir had to be thinking at extreme only like raping her? Just because sahir's thinking was not shown doesn't mean he was thinking about rape or all bad things ... same way u r implying that just because arzoo's thinking was not shown doesn't mean she was not thinking 🤔

Also pri did not say sahir thought that she is just saying if you can imply something not shown to justify arzoo behaviour why same parameters can't be used for sahir? 😕 why judge two characters based on different parameters?

im saying we dont know either of their thinking. so its not ok to assume. I gave an extreme example that insulting someone is not the right thing to do if they want you to leave them a lone. extremes help illustrate points better. He has tried to talk to Alvira about Arzoo giving him space rationally. has he rationally discussed this with Arzoo yet? he only behave irrationally around like he did today. maybe if he decides to talk to her about why he needs space she will understand better.

Originally posted by: prettypri

He didn't do any of those things or look like he was going to even remotely so I don't know if we can.

I don't think what he said amounted to these things...that is my opinion...he didn't lift a finger to act like he was going to follow up with action...

If Arzoo stays away after this ,,good!

again i gave analogy why insulting her wasnt the smartest move.

Originally posted by: redviolet

like i said if she is trying to help him she is trying to help him. She hasnt done this before, She cant be right about how he is feeling or going to react. while the wounds were there joe was still around so its not like no one was their to put ointment on him if he didnt succeed.

Originally posted by: prettypri

I thought it was very humane of her to do what she did in tbe ointment scene...one of tbe few things I have liked her doing..empathising when needed..seeing another's POV...thinking beyond herself...and that was before she decided to stay back...I really thought that was one thing that was actually positive that Arzoo has done!

i think there is a very fine line between what humane and what is an invasion of personal space or what can even be considered leading someone on. Unless it was an emergency situation where needed to be rushed to the hospital she shouldnt help some one who keeps insulting her. as we can see he took it quitely once or twice but he eventionally lost his cool with her because he needs space from her while trying to fight his feelings. He reached boiling point trying to fight his emotions long back and this was waiting to happen.

Originally posted by: redviolet

again i gave analogy why insulting her wasnt the smartest move.

Originally posted by: prettypri

I think we really need to see the moves of both characters...hers wasn't the smartest move either...so many of her moves in fact have not resulted in any reaction or atleast the expected reaction from him..just one example..the praiseworthy resignation,,,,so why point out to the one reaction of his only..

When will she learn,,,isn't that important too

and did I not admit that she was really immature in the letter? And Saahir was the much more considerate person there? I can go back and get my review for that episode right now? Similary here I feel there both a fault. And Arzoo has been wrong since day 1 so I expressed it.