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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: redviolet

Yeah she was being careless and not using her brain. She should stop listening to Alvira. She is not Joe who is accustomed to Saahir's mood swings. But no matter how care less one might that type of behavior is harassment and not ok.


When u enter in someone's room without knocking several times ... despite them telling u to stay away ... take out their clothes ... force them to do things despite their repeated pleas to leave ... what would u call that? mere carelessness? I don't think so! Arzoo's behaviour can't be written off as innocence and mere carelessness every time!

Its not even about her listening to alvira even ... alvira asked her to be joe na? Joe never behaved like this ... he had a job to take care of his things not shove things down his throat against his will ... so this is not even arzoo listening to alvira ... this is her listening to dont know what!!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Soaps1


When u enter in someone's room without knocking several times ... despite them telling u to stay away ... take out their clothes ... force them to do things despite their repeated pleas to leave ... what would u call that? mere carelessness? I don't think so! Arzoo's behaviour can't be written off as innocence and mere carelessness every time!

Its not even about her listening to alvira even ... alvira asked her to be joe na? Joe never behaved like this ... he had a job to take care of his things not shove things down his throat against his will ... so this is not even arzoo listening to alvira ... this is her listening to dont know what!!!



I agree I was the first one to claim she is behaving dumb for trying to care his despite being insulted several times. I thought it was a stupid idea her moving into the house. I thought it was stupid to become Joe despite Joe retiring. I think its too early for her to become his help baaz. He had made clear to her on several occasions he wants her to stay away from him. SHE SHOULD HAVE LISTENED. But he could have shouted screamed or what not he didnt have to take it too what else happens between man and wife. IMO
Edited by redviolet - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Oh plz. Ab ek baat ko leke baitho mat...
Pehli baat ki arzoo jo hai jaisi hai director ke kehne pe hai...😆...
Cvs ne jaisa kaha usne waisa kiya..ye scene hona tha cvs ne sahir ko irritate karne ko bola arzoo ne kiya...or sahir ko arzoo ko darana tha usne daraya taaki vo bhaag jaaye or vo bhaag gayi🤣.
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Ab rai ka pahad mat banao🤣...

Ye socho agar arzoo bhagti nahi to kya hota🤣...to bhi kuch nahi hota kyunki sahir shariff type ka banda hai...i know arzoo ko leke sahir ko kuch kuch hota hai or miya biwi waaley khayal aatey hain...lekin sahir apne armaano pe control karna jaanta hai jaise aaj kiya🤣
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Posted: 10 years ago
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p.s. It can be argued that in the ointment episode she invaded his space physically even more than she did today where she was just offering her food. He had told her several times to go away there too. But no one had any complaints against Arzoo than because the outcome was different. (I even thought Arzoo was wrong there) So whenever something goes wrong its Arzoo's fault?
Edited by redviolet - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: redviolet

p.s. It can be argued that in the ointment episode she invaded his space physically even more than she did today where she was just offering her food. He had told her several times to go away there too. But no one had any complaints against Arzoo than because the outcome was different. (I even thought Arzoo was wrong there) So whenever something goes wrong its Arzoo's fault?


No i have always complained about her behaviour ... of her entering rooms without knocking ... i have been saying it every single time not just today ... and if we can say this about arzoo then we can say the same about sahir ... just because the outcome is different today people have problem with his behaviour? See it works both ways ... what is wrong for one is wrong for other too ... arzoo pushed all his limit buttons today ... he told her several times to leave politely before reacting didn't he? Problem even today is not her evading physical space but pushing his limits ... you cant shove things down peoples throat and expect the outcome to be as per your desire ... if it is not arzoo's fault and she is not to be blamed for pushing the buttons ... then why is it sahir's fault for reacting the way he reacted?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -ambrosia-

Oh plz. Ab ek baat ko leke baitho mat...

Pehli baat ki arzoo jo hai jaisi hai director ke kehne pe hai...😆...
Cvs ne jaisa kaha usne waisa kiya..ye scene hona tha cvs ne sahir ko irritate karne ko bola arzoo ne kiya...or sahir ko arzoo ko darana tha usne daraya taaki vo bhaag jaaye or vo bhaag gayi🤣.
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Ab rai ka pahad mat banao🤣...

Ye socho agar arzoo bhagti nahi to kya hota🤣...to bhi kuch nahi hota kyunki sahir shariff type ka banda hai...i know arzoo ko leke sahir ko kuch kuch hota hai or miya biwi waaley khayal aatey hain...lekin sahir apne armaano pe control karna jaanta hai jaise aaj kiya🤣


But director aur writers hi characters banatey hien na? if they wont how would we know them? 🤣

All sahir ever dreamt about arzoo is her feeding him ... itna tou sharif hai aur kia chahye 😆 Basically he is hungry ... hungry for good food 🤣
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Posted: 10 years ago
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In the ointment scene too if Sahir had insisted even after Arzoo raised her voice...that he didn't want her help I would have wanted her to leave...
And there is a world of difference between applying medicine to someone's wounds when they are ok with it and ignoring them when they tell you politely to leave them alone...today what she did was bad because he didn't threaten her the first time...he told her three times very very politely to leave him alone..

And besides it's her decision to stay and. 'Know ' him...I don think he ever gave her any indication that he welcomes her interference...she interprets everything her own way and that's where the problem lies!

And ...to top it all she entered his room again after that...will wait for the scene to air of course...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Soaps1


No i have always complained about her behaviour ... of her entering rooms without knocking ... i have been saying it every single time not just today ... and if we can say this about arzoo then we can say the same about sahir ... just because the outcome is different today people have problem with his behaviour? See it works both ways ... what is wrong for one is wrong for other too ... arzoo pushed all his limit buttons today ... he told her several times to leave politely before reacting didn't he? Problem even today is not her evading physical space but pushing his limits ... you cant shove things down peoples throat and expect the outcome to be as per your desire ... if it is not arzoo's fault and she is not to be blamed for pushing the buttons ... then why is it sahir's fault for reacting the way he reacted?



I believe you made a post defending her saying "pyar hota hi pagalpan hai" If she had stopped than things would have never gotton so far. The problem is at times Saahir reacts at times he doesnt react. During the ointment episode he ended up reacting positively at the end. This is sending Arzoo confused signals. Does he really want her help and is putting on a facade or does he really need personal space? In any case Arzoo should have stopped at the time of the first insult and never let things get so far. Peace dear! I hope we can agree to disagree.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: prettypri

In the ointment scene too if Sahir had insisted even after Arzoo raised her voice...that he didn't want her help I would have wanted her to leave...

And there is a world of difference between applying medicine to someone's wounds when they are ok with it and ignoring them when they tell you politely to leave them alone...today what she did was bad because he didn't threaten her the first time...he told her three times very very politely to leave him alone..

And besides it's her decision to stay and. 'Know ' him...I don think he ever gave her any indication that he welcomes her interference...she interprets everything her own way and that's where the problem lies!

And ...to top it all she entered his room again after that...will wait for the scene to air of course...



The thing was he had yelled at her the first time even there and still she insisted putting the ointment on him. I thought that was uncalled from Arzoo. She should have left. He never really consented she just did it anyway.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes i did made a post it was about her decision of staying back despite kurti apa's taunts and all ... it was not in defence of her becoming joe or entering rooms or pushing limits!!! I am not arzoo's enemy ... she is a fictional character and i do defend her when she makes sense to me and not when she doesnt ... same goes for Sahir i can't defend him burning the factory but when i feel he is justified i do defend him

If it sends arzoo mixed signals then she is the one who needs to deal with it ... if she chooses to ignore when sahir tells her to leave because she thinks its a facade then its her judgement and if that judgement turns out wrong she has to bear the brunt too ... sahir never told her he needs her he always told her to stay away... that way arzoo's behaviour is sending sahir signals that she wants to act like his wife ... then how is he wrong if she is not?
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