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Posted: 12 years ago
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Roshni, Raj...thanks so much for the insightful comments...I'll be back in a bit to respond!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Walden


@bold 1: A large section of believers do that- yes (the 3rd option that I mentioned in the post😆) but I don't think ALL believers do. So really there is nothing unique or different about Indira here- if you've faced adversity in life, blame god. But what confuses me is that she goes on to say that she does not believe in god but rather believers in her ability tocreate her own fate(or something along these lines...can't remember the exact dialogue). So shouldn't she blame herself for what's happened then? 😆



Walden... I totally agree with you.. Even though I believe that we Must take onus on our own doings, faith has nothing to do with our destiny. We all believe that there is a supreme power who guides us but the ques is it also for our wrong doings...also..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: light_28

Actually, In HD , Indira and rishi , both are firm believers in god ..Rishi .. the direct portray of believer in god and Indira happens to be the Indirect believer in god. There are people lke Indira who blame god for difficult times but are in action of goodness that somehow they have learnt(either from experiences, or previous early lessons of childhood i.e.to do good means to get a reward from god) .. basically they are doers of good deeds.. so unknown to themselves, a part of their thoughts do believe in god, in the sense,they hope for some reward (happiness,appreciation, support) for their good deeds.

There are some who believe in god in the sense, they make god responsible for everything but practically they are doers of nothing..good deed nor bad deeds or some amount of fakeness in both the deeds. like SF members.
Another party of believers are like rishi.. they are basically neutral to such debates.. they do believe in god and pray to him sincerely.. even do their actions that would head towards goodness just like the first group (indira-like) but more lively.. nobody ever bothers them to ask.. do you believe in god ? their appeal is such that it shows their belief in god
Some who do not believe in god and are real bad people..they have never been taught what goodness is.. again.. many varieties ofcomplications lie in such portray of people. Most of the time these lie hidden.. world comes to know about them after they have created some history !

Hi Roshni,
I may be misunderstanding you here (so correct me if I am), but I don't think that "goodness" and belief in god have anything to do with each other. In that regard, I am not questioning Indira's "goodness" because one can be "good" without believing in god.
@bold: I agree with you here...I also think Indira believs in god. But her understanding of what it means to believe in god is very naive, superficial, and contradictory (in my opinion). If you believe that god is responsible for all the adversity in one's life then the flip side is also true and one has to give credit to god for all that is good with you and your circumstances. I also don't understand what she means when she says that she believes in herself, and not god. It seems to imply that belief in god and belief in yourself and your actions are mutually exclusive? Again, it goes to show a very cursory and shallow understanding of faith and religion.
I think you gave a accurate assessment of Rishi's character. I think we should add another category to the 3 Raj mentioned...maybe 1B or something. Actually, I think a lot of people fall in this category. Being human, you tend to get dejected during difficult phases of your life, but overall, you maintain a positive relationship with god/higher power.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: 100raj


it reminds me of amithabh bacchans nastik--

indira character similar to that character--in nastik amithabh pretends to be nastik but in heart he is firm believer of god.

That is my sense as well. She is just "mad" at god because her life has not turned out the way she expected. But here is my problem with that...if you blame god for the bad, then one should really credit him for the good as well. If anything, Indira should credit god for making her the strong, righteous, brave individual that she is. Like I said in the other comment, I think it just goes to show a very cursory and superficial understanding of faith/god etc.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sumitbigfan



Walden... I totally agree with you.. Even though I believe that we Must take onus on our own doings, faith has nothing to do with our destiny. We all believe that there is a supreme power who guides us but the ques is it also for our wrong doings...also..

@bold...Absolutely! It takes most ages to figure that one out. A very profound thought that you penned in very simple words!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Before I start answering your post . I must write that I am non believer . Few things happened in my personal and professional life I learn to believe in my self and my parents . As I was growing up I asked my mom " who is God" she was not able to answer it but one day when I was asking God for something she got very angry and told me" He does not own you any thing but you own every thing to him for giving you your Health and life." This was my first lesson .
Now about Indira. I think most of the people around me are just like Indira. They believe in God but their confusion and ambivalency about God and make them behave the way Indira does. This does not mean they are good or bad people they are just victom of curcutances .so I donot want to pass judgement .
I firmly believe that we make our own destiny and that's our "Nashib" . When we are good we get good rewards. if we are bad we suffer for it and that's our destiny !! Indira wrote her own destiny . She refused to take treatment for BT and she had her own reason ( valid in her own ways! ) she did not tell her family or husband and she suffered herself . She wrote her destiny and suffered for 8 yrs as a result !!so in My POW she does write her own destiny as she told us many times ! This has good and wrong things but in her mind she was right !! Who is responsible for her vanvas ? God or Indira ?,
She believe in God becaused she belived in 7 Pheres . 7 promises and Shindoor and Magelsutra she turned to god 3 times. Before court wedding! After Rishi was kidnaped and after Rishi's prayers for her life .she wend to the temple and ask Mata di questions !! Today she refused to go in the temple but accepted the shindor was given in Prasad and she did not stop Rishi for going in the temple .
So she is just very angery, confused , depressed lady who has to express her anger the way she did . Nothing wrong with it. She should have allowed Indu to go in ( just becaused she was just reunited with her daughter and husband) she should have join Rishi but it was her right as person and mother . She always looks at her life as " Half empty glass" another sing of depression .she should have very appreciative that she was reunited with her family specially her daughter.
Today .I had very strange experience in our hospital . Head on car collision total 6 people involved.
8 doctors and 6 surgons worked very hard for 36 hours without food, No rest, No contact with familes. After every one involved , came out of danger few of us went to tell families that" everyone is out of danger ". First thing came out of every ones mouth that " thank you lord. We knew you will help us " no credit or graduate expressed towards the team who was exhausted ! we were hurt and few nice word would have been great help to our very exhausted bodies and minds . Did God really help those injured? Or Surgeons skills and tireless efforts did ? I have no answer .but I am looking for answer .

For me God is the Super power , which helps us,. Guides us, . Nurtures us, Corrects us. Punishes us when we are wrong and gives us hugs and kisses when we need them . They are my parents. My god us my father and Mata Di is my mother ! This is my POW only .

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: 100raj


no.i dont agree with above lines.
--the persons who really believes god--they will give credit to god--but takes blame on them self only--saying they punished because of there sin and there karma.

it is non believers who blame god when something goes wrong.

believers think--what ever god dose for them is good for them.

bhagwan jo bhi kartha hai hamare acche keliye kartha hai--so there is no point in blaming him.--this exact thought of believer of god.
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above post of TM clearly shows indira is non believer of god--otherwise she should have accepted gods given life gracefully without blaming him.

👏 👏 again clapps to to Raj the philosophiser
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@ underlined 1. . Dia I think we are saying exactly same thing. I also believe Karama is universal but includes every ones action individually . " what's goes around come around " or " Karega yo bharega" are perfect phrases. We are totally control of our actions, every one of them but many times knowing or unknowingly or due to certain cucumstance we do or bad things or wrong things and suffer the concecencuos and when we suffer for it and we tends to blame Karma or Nasib but we did it , who should be responsible ? God or person ?? I hope I am expressing my self to make my point ( which s exactly the same as yours)

@ underlined 2. I remember old movie. Surgeon come out and wanted to talk to family. Family member told him " I will pray to God , he will sure help him" angry and frustrated surgeon , who had heard this statement at least 10000 x turns around and said" I am the GOD start worshiping me it will help you more. He is too busy to help I am working here " my favorite quotes .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Walden

I firmly believe that we make our own destiny and that's our "Nashib" . When we are good we get good rewards. if we are bad we suffer for it and that's our destiny !! I may disagree with you a bit here...I think we have control over our actions (for the most part) but not our destiny and doing good does not always beget good (not in the personal sense anyways). I have always interpreted Karma as a universal principle- not a personal one.


The last sentence...karma as an universal principle and not so much a personal one...not sure I understand what you mean here. How have you interpreted this?

From where I see it, personal karma (whether big, small, important, or unimportant) plays a part in a larger, universal motif. In short, as in most other things in life, personal is a subset of universal and contributes to the making up of the universal. I hope you're able to get my point.

And if your point is that because all good karma does not always result in good and therefore, its not only about personal karma, then one school of thought is that good karma always results in good and will compulsorily come back to you. It will beget good, but may not be in a manner that you would necessarily recognise or expect.

Sorry, did not mean to intrude in a conversation, but just wanted your side of this point.

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Originally posted by: Adhyaay-Chapter


The last sentence...karma as an universal principle and not so much a personal one...not sure I understand what you mean here. How have you interpreted this?

From where I see it, personal karma (whether big, small, important, or unimportant) plays a part in a larger, universal motif. In short, as in most other things in life, personal is a subset of universal and contributes to the making up of the universal. I hope you're able to get my point. Yes, this is exactly what I meant but maybe didn't articulate it as well. I don't think there is a personal record of good karma...i think it ends up in the universal box...but if you think about it, that does matter. The most important way that "good karma" can come back to us is if others around us do good to us- help us out in times of need, are compassionate and empathetic towards us- this is afterall the ultimate good..so this is not our karma, but the others doing good karma. So the more good karma there is in the universe, the more likely we are to encounter good karma coming back to us.

And if your point is that because all good karma does not always result in good and therefore, its not only about personal karma, then one school of thought is that good karma always results in good anwill compulsorily come back to you. It will beget good, but may not be in a manner that you would necessarily recognise or expect. You bring up a really interesting point. I am probably going to do a poor job explaining myself here again but I'll try. @bold: if we take this stance, then it comes down to how humans qualify anything as "good" or "bad." Maybe there is no such thing as "good" or "bad." Even cancer, even the tsunami, death and destruction are all "good," but we just fail to see them that way. So if its not the human interpretation of good and bad that matters, then do "good" and "bad" even exist?

Sorry, did not mean to intrude in a conversation, but just wanted your side of this point. Thanks for writing in and bringing up some really thought-provoking points- may I know your name? btw feel free to intrude anytime:)

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