Culpability for Mandira's rape?

So, who is ultimately responsible for Mandira's rape? Ofcourse it is Sameer. He alone was responsible for forcing himself on her. We have seen preview of this in his behavior towards Indira - in the car as well as in Rishi's room when he crowded Indira against the wall.

Nice post again. 😊

When it comes to dealing with pyschos (who appear very normal when things are going their way), you need to be intelligent. You need to be emotionally intelligent.

This is where both Rishi and Indira came up short. Like you said, they repeatedly provoked him with taunts/acts which opened up the beast inside him. As far as Mandira goes, her provocation can be accepted because she was known for being immature/foolish.

But Rishi and Indira are supposed to be level-headed. They did'nt deal with Sameer properly.

Most of the times, with pyschos, the best way to deal with them is to avoid them. Simply because they can do anything. Literally.

All said and done, Sameer needs to be taught a lesson which he should not forget for many births.

Wonderful post (may i know ur name plz 😊)

Agree wid each & every point u have put across. wud like to add just one more point. blaming circumstances for whatever one faces is wrong. ultimately its about ones own choices. indira & rishi both provoked sameer. but this provocation wasnt intentional. it was more of a reaction to sameers vile acts! neither of them could have anticipated that this would be the 'way' he chose to 'punish' them. they cannot be blamed for his choices. and even if they could have anticipated his moves how else could they have reacted?

if rishi hadnt brought diwans into the SN deal, would indira have a roof on her head?
if indira hadnt slapped sam when he got all touchy wouldnt indira have across as cheap or weak?
if rishi hadnt kidnapped indira wouldnt it have been indira in mandiras place? would dat be better? or worse?

for me, neither rishi nor indira are to be blamed for what happened to mandira. she was playing a risky game as she always had in the past. this time the difference was she was playing it wid someone who knew the game better & hence she lost out badly.

a personal opinion: when we try to find who else is guilty along with sam, i feel we are granting sam an unfair advantage which he certainly doesnt deserve. he deserves a punishment which he wont forget anytime in the near future.

a normal person is not provoked by this small thing,how can a human nature be changed,if his nature is that he provoked by small things then god save.all the deed done by indra and rishi is done only in the betterment ,but we can deal with normal person but we can't deal with mentally sick person.his character is totally sick ,this character real place is in mental asylum not between the ppl

if indira's taunts and slaps are a reason of provocation, then i think rishi would have done a serious crime ages ago.. indira definitely has slapped and insulted rishi more than she did sameer and also when rishi was not at fault... if i remember correctly, indira thanked sameer when they first met at his office for his (unwilling) help in taking rishi to the hospital... and only afterwards when he started his banter about how he is not suppose to pay his dues and instead she should pay for petrol did she turn defensive..

Originally posted by: raveena2807

if indira's taunts and slaps are a reason of provocation, then i think rishi would have done a serious crime ages ago.. indira definitely has slapped and insulted rishi more than she did sameer and also when rishi was not at fault... if i remember correctly, indira thanked sameer when they first met at his office for his (unwilling) help in taking rishi to the hospital... and only afterwards when he started his banter about how he is not suppose to pay his dues and instead she should pay for petrol did she turn defensive..

I agree with your views in a normal scenario. But when we are dealing with abnormal people, we need to be careful. Everybody should behave responsibly towards the society. We all must do our bit. Inspite of it if bad happens then we can't do anything. Atleast we will have the satisfaction that we did our part properly.

In Sameer's case, he is a proven psycho. His tolerance level is near 0. So Indu and Rishi should have been careful when dealing with him. This is simply because he harms OTHER PEOPLE when he loses it.

Please ... I am not suggesting (even for a moment) that Sameer is not at fault. He and only he is the reason behind this crime. He must be subjected to the highest possible punishment.

Nice post but i am not agree with rishi and indira responsible for mandira rape .sam and mandira is both are the responsible for the rape. sameer is more responsible because he do force to mandira. If indira not slapped sameer there no difference remin between indira,mandira and jumpha character.

NOTHING justifies rape.
I know someone who was a victim of this in real life.
And all I can say is that it is always the raper that is at blame, never the victim. Yes, Mandira had her flaws... but if she indeed got raped, and isn't putting on an act... then there is no one to blame but Sameer. Even a corrupt girl like Mandira doesn't deserve it, nor can she be held accountable for Sameer's demonish acts.

Provocation cannot justify Sameer's act. Surely, there was provocation from Rishi, Indira, and Mandira at various circumstances as pointed out.