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@sweetviolet
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The reason people were after kesar's life was because of property he had under his name. But upon 'marriage' even if he died all his property would go to gulaal, so therefore any attempts on his life for reasons of greed were useless.
Anyway I think you're missing my main points, gulaal/kesar marriage is illegal, it is not validated in any way and she's extremely lucky that she hasn't been hurled off to jail, along with the rest of the family for condoning this crime. Because that's what it is, regardless of what you or I think as believe it not to some extent my sympathies do lie with gulaal as she has horribly mistreated by both people and life in general IMO. So simply put they are not married.
As far as BV is concerned I couldn't care less tbh if it was the most watched show on earth, trps don't matter to me I watch show for quality acting and good entertainment. And good entertainment for me is not watching any show promoting any sexual/physical relationship between a woman and recently turned adult male, she once deemed as like a son to her. Right now gulaal is doing well and I think the storyline good, the moment though I start getting indications that gulaal is going to be sexually intimate with kesar is the moment I'll stop watching the show. Furthermore I'm not naive, enough to assume by me simply not watching the show, it'll change its track, and either would I expect it to.
Although I think that not all bhabbi/dever see each other in this way I understand what you mean by cultural and social viewings of the bhabbi/devar relation. But my point is that can I can't understand how anyone who saw a child through the eyes of motherly adoration, can ever see them, even when their adults, as an individual who'll rise feelings of a sexual manner.
@sweetviolet
I agree that kesar's life has been screwed up as a result of gulaal's actions. And it's going to him that suffers the most.
But I don't agree that just because the show is fictional that it doesn't matter that viewers are being shown that it's 'ok' to perform child marriage. This is a prime time show, and it can't be seen along with any other show to condone crime. Maybe if they show that there are consequences for such actions, people might be less inclined to commit crime. I'm not saying that there's going to be a drastic change but, if as a result of watching a screwed up kesar and gulaal, even one child marriage is prevented from happening, then surely that's a good thing?
@sweetviolet
I agree that kesar's life has been screwed up as a result of gulaal's actions. And it's going to him that suffers the most.
But I don't agree that just because the show is fictional that it doesn't matter that viewers are being shown that it's 'ok' to perform child marriage. This is a prime time show, and it can't be seen along with any other show to condone crime. Maybe if they show that there are consequences for such actions, people might be less inclined to commit crime. I'm not saying that there's going to be a drastic change but, if as a result of watching a screwed up kesar and gulaal, even one child marriage is prevented from happening, then surely that's a good thing?
for the nth time ........ there is no indecency here.
when gulaal married him , it was not for sexual reasons. infact it was to protect herself from sex, becuase she was sure with kesar as her husband she need never worry about it ......
however the sexual angle has come up now once the child has grown up, he is 20 -22 now. and she is 30. now the relationship is between two consenting adults. there is no child and no paedophilia involved.
Originally posted by: shalini92
okay, I CAN'T TAKE ANY MORE BLAMES ON GULAAL! she's the reason i watch the show and i wouldn't allow you guys to tarnish her image. LOL. š
okay, what most of us are over-looking here is the FACT that gulaal married kesar for the sole reason of protecting him from the other family members who, at that point, were keen to kill him so that they could have his 40% of share of property, namely, jamuna kaki, raman ji, and even sudha bhabhi. she didn't marry him to have him get attracted to her when he grows up. she clearly stated that she would have get married to someone else when he grows up and she will continue to live as vasant's widow in that house as jamuna kaki at that time CLEARLY wanted her to get deeyarvattu-ed to dushyant (whom she OBVIOUSLY hated cos he hit on her!) or else she could leave the house. she obviously didn't want kesar to get hurt so she instead deeyarvattu-ed with him.now, rahi baat kesarji ki, why would gulaal have thought in a narcissistic manner that he would be attracted to her beauty, strong personality when he grows up? he adored her when he was 12 years old when he married her, he still does adore her, but blame his hormones for making his thought slightly impure! I MEAN, WHO CAN CONTROL A HORMONAL GUY'S THOUGHTS? it's nobody's fault that kesar is now attracted to gulaal. you can't assume that it's sexual because we have no evidence. he just says, "tum khule baalon mein acchi lagti ho", not, "oh you're so hot!". LOL. it's just that his love for her has taken a different route. GEDDIT?