Why Sai is not a doormat!!... Part 2 on page 4 - Page 6

An amazing post 👍🏼 where I agree to maximum points mention !!

Starting with equation of Sai with Chavans she never let them get over her, she will give back no matter who ( we saw her giving back to Sam even ) leaving when she was slapped n all bcz she herself was in an emotional dilemma unable to process. I understand ppl's concern who say Sai is letting Chavans taunt her,here I disagree she isn't letting but giving back which ultimately shut up the chavans. Walking away is easy but fighting is not everyone's forte and this surely will make sense in future when it will be Sai only who will change these chavans into good ppl.

Another thing is when we love a character we always wished to see all the dimensions and layers of that character and here being Sai Joshi lover we are somewhere deprived of it. No one is that strong to bear everything without a breakdown and having someone to understand and address it so that person could come out stronger next.

Virat's physical and emotional pain was addressed in last episode when he was somewhere himself responsible for it, similarly I too want to see my character's pain which she has to bear just bcz she believed what was presented to her. This is not the way of showing someone strong by brushing their pain under the rug.

Also coming to main point yes Sai isn't a doormat and I have mentioned it on other app too. For her this Virat is same who left for mission and just returned taking some zimmedari ( I think for Sai it was more zimmedari of pregnant woman than someone's wife). So she is again back to same mode when she entered Virat's room to ask question whether he loves her as wife or what.

But here also poor girl is totally unaware of what happened behind her back how shruti confessed n all and I don't expect Virat to tell her. I agree Virat had no wrong intentions but he was casual in this matter somewhere which I really didn't like.

I would have loved to understand Virat but sorry Neil's acting didn't help. He failed to emote specially when he used to emote previously in the scenes without dialogues even.

Virat's hurt is nowhere making sense to me currently. He is just behaving a self centred human without thinking about what consequences all mess had on Sai even wherever it's exactly opposite for Sai.

For me he is still not redeemed and will only be when he will apologize for his wrongs which he actually did.

Ik storyline is full of loopholes but still I m glad writers still managed to connect me with Sai where I am totally disconnected with Virat.

(For typos mala maaf kara😬)

I found even the show is highly dramatic....Sai is a girl which represents the girl who believed to be modern in Indian society today....they can voice out their opinions, can stand for others, will work outside, chill with friends but the end of the day she wants her marriage to work and her husband's love and care

I don't find Sai as doormats....she neither care at CN words...it hurts her but she forgets it...but this is not the case with virat's words and behavior towards her....she can avoid ashwini but not virat....whether it is a man or girl if you are an honest person...you won't give up your relationship easily....both applies to sai and virat....virat never gave up his efforts until he reached hospital bed and now Sai is in same phase....and I never felt virat had any feelings for shruti .....

Both were at mistake from pulkit lunch fiasco....devkit marriage...in first accident both fell in the trap....Sai is not a girl who allow another man in her private room ...virat over reacted...second accident track....Sai couldn't take virat's ignorance and arrogance....while virat couldn't handle her rejection....coming to shruthi track....Virat had believed Sai understands him and virat can't accept the fact that Sai judged him as a person who keeps relationship with woman in secret....and Sai had given importance to a third person's words than trusting virat...later evidence was before her....virat tried to explain her...but things had gone from his hand .... Sai was not at mistake....time played there....Sai is a girl who want relationship to be made...not to be broken....

Shruthi track would be better if they made shruthi as innocent wife of sada and she didn't fall for virat...sai and virat journey is interesting if we don't compare with kd... here story is revolving around leads....sideys had more role in kd....here they are just hindrance...both their well wishers and haters and coming to virat....he is proud of Sai...and the scene where Sai holds virat's hand and takes to stage ....just before he not even given any affection to his brothers or anyone...but followed Sai ...he trust her but sometimes his jealousy and insecurities overpowers him...I found these couples more close to real word couple than any itv couples....they just want each other...they don't want to be saviour of the word....A person who tries to mend a relationship when she have known her husband didn't had physical and emotional relationship with another woman is not a doormat and I never got emotional ema vibes from virat....completely my pov...If Sai was doormat she never called police or created a fear in minds of cn gang or back answered them or had a separate kitchen...all she wants to be a wife of virat for whom she realised love and an honest girl will go for any lenght to be with him if she believes he too loves her

The same girl didn't create scenes when virat was in hospital ...all she did was to save virat while others was doing blame game and just praying to God with zero efforts...even his father doesn't bothered to get medicine when he found the exact location...but went to home... Sai only cares for virat's happiness and virat too....but they resulted in hurting each other....

Coming to Neil...I don't found him convincing but he has less dialogues compared to other mls...day before he didn't even had more than two lines...all he have to emote with eyes that too with pathetic editing makes it worse...and I don't personally like taking screenshot and making memes....funny till a limit but beyond it it is embarrassing

Its not that easy yo just up and leave when she has no one to support her. Maybe if she was older and independent. She has been conditioned into believing that shes the one who is flawed, difficult to live with and shes lucky to have a home, to have V and to have his support and she needs to be grateful and adjust. And over time she has become way too emotionally invested in V.

I dont want her to regret loving V but I have a feeling that V's evolution is not going to happen unless they majorly deviate from KD. He may melt for a while, confess and be lovey dovey for a bit but until he has a genuine introspection of his errors and consciously fixes it - nothing will change. He thinks he can do whatever he wants because his intentions are good and Sai as his wife should trust him/back him but he forgets that she has feelings too. She has expectations. She needs stability, positivity.

I genuinely think that as core personalities they actually balance each other out and should be good for each other. But unfortunately V's core personality has been compromised too much. He is no longer the old V. And everytime he goes back to the old V, Chavannis/PP influence or his own misjudgements make him the arrogant and insensitive version of V who is insufferable.

Ideally after everything thats happened he should move out with Sai once they reconcile. Sai may wanna be mahaan and tell him to forgive everyone but he should see the reality and take a call. But we already know he won't. And as long as they live in CN he eill always fall prey to the toxicity of that place and its a matter of time before the next kaand.

I am pretty confident he's going to move out alone- maybe get a transfer- Sai will run behind him- confess and then ultimately they'll both be back in CN.

Pertinent points.

About Sai's pain.... emotional not physical.

Prior to Shruti, when she had support of some family members, her pain was addressed to some degree. Sam fought for her with Virat.

Even in this track, initially everyone saw her hurt and pain which is why they were so angry with V.

Sadhika made an interesting point about this.

For Sai, her pain is seeing her position being given to Shruti. That was an emotional turmoil for her because she had fallen in love.

For V, it was being misunderstood by Sai and his family members. That he could even have an affair.

However, when she came to know about the actual circumstances of Shruti and the vaada, her pain disappeared because the bone of contention (of V having an EMA) was eliminated. So for her, she got relief from the pain and therefore she sprung back happily.

However, for V... that pain is yet to get over because according to him, Sai is yet to express her feelings. She is getting there but he is not in a mood to wait because he fears she may go back to being in a deal again.

Here, I would like to point out a particular dialogue I liked. In the recent episode, when Sai says "phirse patni maan lijiye" he looks at her with hope. But the moment she says... "kyunki haq hai" he flips and turns away. That to me was a signal that he wants her all in. Either be in a love relationship or go away... no deal, no friendship. and certainly not because it is a legal relationship.

As a viewer I felt that... but probably it needs a verbal explanation by the characters which I hope might come later.

Thank you so much.

You have mentioned the exact same feelings I had when I saw them walking towards dias.

It looked like he was looking at Pakhi but actually he was looking beyond her and to everyone else in the family that see ... it is Sai who is making the efforts ...

I am hopeful for his apology now.

Originally posted by: Moor278

Pertinent points.

About Sai's pain.... emotional not physical.

Prior to Shruti, when she had support of some family members, her pain was addressed to some degree. Sam fought for her with Virat.

Even in this track, initially everyone saw her hurt and pain which is why they were so angry with V.

Sadhika made an interesting point about this.

For Sai, her pain is seeing her position being given to Shruti. That was an emotional turmoil for her because she had fallen in love.

For V, it was being misunderstood by Sai and his family members. That he could even have an affair.

However, when she came to know about the actual circumstances of Shruti and the vaada, her pain disappeared because the bone of contention (of V having an EMA) was eliminated. So for her, she got relief from the pain and therefore she sprung back happily.

However, for V... that pain is yet to get over because according to him, Sai is yet to express her feelings. She is getting there but he is not in a mood to wait because he fears she may go back to being in a deal again.

Here, I would like to point out a particular dialogue I liked. In the recent episode, when Sai says "phirse patni maan lijiye" he looks at her with hope. But the moment she says... "kyunki haq hai" he flips and turns away. That to me was a signal that he wants her all in. Either be in a love relationship or go away... no deal, no friendship. and certainly not because it is a legal relationship.

As a viewer I felt that... but probably it needs a verbal explanation by the characters which I hope might come later.

Valid point in the current situation......Virat is still in unsure territory

I too felt he was hopefully looking for a declaration of love....deal, haq, friend are allergens now.

Originally posted by: Moor278

Pertinent points.

About Sai's pain.... emotional not physical.

Prior to Shruti, when she had support of some family members, her pain was addressed to some degree. Sam fought for her with Virat.

Even in this track, initially everyone saw her hurt and pain which is why they were so angry with V.

Sadhika made an interesting point about this.

For Sai, her pain is seeing her position being given to Shruti. That was an emotional turmoil for her because she had fallen in love.

For V, it was being misunderstood by Sai and his family members. That he could even have an affair.

However, when she came to know about the actual circumstances of Shruti and the vaada, her pain disappeared because the bone of contention (of V having an EMA) was eliminated. So for her, she got relief from the pain and therefore she sprung back happily.

However, for V... that pain is yet to get over because according to him, Sai is yet to express her feelings. She is getting there but he is not in a mood to wait because he fears she may go back to being in a deal again.

Here, I would like to point out a particular dialogue I liked. In the recent episode, when Sai says "phirse patni maan lijiye" he looks at her with hope. But the moment she says... "kyunki haq hai" he flips and turns away. That to me was a signal that he wants her all in. Either be in a love relationship or go away... no deal, no friendship. and certainly not because it is a legal relationship.

As a viewer I felt that... but probably it needs a verbal explanation by the characters which I hope might come later.

I hope not

Itna buildup karne ke baad kuch nahi mila to Vanku ko jo gaaliyan padengi... cant even imagine 🤣🤣

Vaise, I am hopeful nahi hoga.

V had that sigh of relief at hearing her Mrs. Chavan and then the BTS has him in white kurta. And that holi wala BGM. too many positive hints 😳

Yes they are at an emotional high! If Vanku loses this high point, it doesn’t make sense. One such moment was Diwali night but it still made sense because sai was figuring out her role as wife. Now she crossed that feeling also and is seeing him with raw emotions… just love. Not even legality and responsibility that comes with their relationship. Which is what a love story needs. 😅

I hope he doesn’t postpone and make it look forced later. And no bhang wali holi please. They don’t need it anymore.

Didi will be needing pura bhang ka stock after seeing them together 🤣🤣