Why Sai is not a doormat!!... Part 2 on page 4 - Page 5

Absolutely...

To me CNwasis have neither a moral/ethical compass nor are they bothered about doing something about it.

It's ajusta random bunch of people enjoying other persons problems. I have always believed that SaiRat would be extremely happy if they move out of CN.

It was a random choice but they do have potential to make the other a better version of themselves.

Nobody is right or wrong. The world doesn't work that way.

That's why i have always maintained that they both did what they felt appropriate at that moment.

It is we as audience (who is privy to more information than characters) and with KD as reference point, are we judging them too much.

They don't look so bad when you look at it without that KD lens. 😊

Originally posted by: Moor278

Thank you for such kind words.

I am glad I could make you feel that way.

Sadhika has been a great sounding board to me. We realised pretty soon that we think in similar fashion. I guess being married gives us a different perspective. 😆

I love Sai. She is a beautiful character. But i don't hate V either.

He has grown in a certain family setup and Sai in completely another. This is their contrast. And this is also why he is in love with her.

I always reflect upon their behaviour in their room as their true characters. They are completely different when talking about themselves.

It changes the moment Pakhi enters or the discussion moves to whatever kaand is happening.

If you remove them from CN, they are perfect companions to each other. They have the potential to make each other a better version of themselves.

It is only because everything happens (and has to happen in ZA because how the show will move forward) that the situation escalates. 🤣

Anyway... Thank you for liking this.

Happy to interact. 🤗

I completely agree with you.

I have mentioned all these points in my writeup too.

If you notice, for Sai mimo track are the memories only worth remembering (dream proposal sequence)... That was her starting point to looking at this relationship in a new way.

Shruti was a spanner in the works.

But as i mentioned earlier, Sai is so apologetic because she came to know that everything V did was to uphold a vaada. And when she has seen firsthand how V is dedicated to his vaada, she can never doubt his intentions.

Thats why she has accepted that it's love and nothing else. And hence getting it back by all the means possible.

And V was always waiting for this conviction from her side .. so yes he will melt now. And he will reciprocate. I just hope it happens soon.

CNwasis are nonsense... They don't really have any relevance. To me it is only SaiRat that matters.

I am happy that this discussion could make you to look at this from a new perspective. 😊

I made that point in the first part. They behave differently in the room. That's their zone.

All the fun loving moments between SaiRat are when they are alone in the room or outside.

Sai is in her element in that room. They would be extremely happy if they are away from CN... But ye show hai aur vo bahar nikal gaye to story main kuch bachega nahi so everyone has to suffer.

CNwasis ka bakwas karne ke alawa koi kaam nahi hai. And it's true that as a 19 year old it's very disturbing. They are horrible. And real life hota to either SaiRat ka patchup hua hota, they might have been living seperately, ya divorce hua hota ya to phir Sai ko maar diya gaya hota. Unfortunately these are rare scenarios. Majority of the women suffer because society is not that progressive and there is almost in every case a child involved. A mother will always first think of a child than her husband.

Isliye bhi i am okay with the positioning of Shruti track here. Sai ke paas abhi bhi time hai to move out. Because they have not consummated the marriage. Agar aisa hua hota to vo kabhi nahi nikal pati. (I used this line in Priya Sai wala FF)..

I have a different feeling as to why CN taunts doesn't bother Sai.

Use farak padta hai thoda bahot. But she managed to get sympathy, love from some of them. So that's a relief in some way.

The other factor is whatever the kaand is... In the end Sai comes out winner. So even if she feels sorry for herself initially, her confidence is restored when everything resolves. CNwasis bas dekhte reh jaate hai.

Moreover she is an honest person. Doesn't have malice. To jo baat khatam ho gai. Sai will forget it.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

We can actually have a poll on this

Whether she is doormat or whether CN taunts hurt her?

Can you start it? 😊

Originally posted by: Lady_Macbeth

Beautiful post.

The post is well-balanced. You have brought out everything about Sai as we know her....and she can never be a doormat.

As I see it, Virat and Sai were victims of circumstances. They both could have reacted to the situation differently...but they chose what felt best at that moment. Virat's hurt has been established in detail....I wish Sai's pain is acknowledged too. They both need to apologize to each other.

Sai is indeed a fascinating character....a rarity in Indian television.

Everyone's point of view regarding a story or a character is different - there is no wrong opinion. If people respected that, there can be many peaceful, though provoking discussions. Do keep such posts coming.

Sadhika... Would you like to comment here about the pain part of it?

Sai is not a doormatc...howcome?? 😆She is literally showing everyone their place and took control of the whole situation..

Virat is dragged because of Sai's actions are influenced by him mostly...

However if she was fierce she would have dared to move out of Virat's life after her first accident.. While I understand Virat's insecurities and jealousy but when his deep pain costed her life she should have moved out.. I know jealousy gives you the feelings of belongingness..If there is true love there will be always a fear loosing the person.. But when it becomes toxic better leave ..

The world is neither black nor white... But the world isn't flat either it's round..

Sai has trapped herself badly.. Because she was almost verge of accepting her Marriage before Virat left for mission..If there was no Shruti in the picture they would have consummated their marriage by now...

Sge has given ample of opportunity to speak the truth but he gave nothing.... God knows till when his Sahi waqt would end...

Her actions are coming across irritating to many because she isn't paying heed to what sada told.Sge unable to see that it always takes two hands to clap.. Hope she regrets her decision soon which she will..

Even if SaiRat lives separately together still the situation would not get any better because we all know what virat is capable of doing.. His hypocrital and egoistic actions will not let them live in peace

In my opinion, Sai is fierce. Fierce is not just action. It is a personality trait. Sai is also focused and go getter. If she has set her eyes on achieving something, she will move mountains to achieve that. That quality is also fierce.

That’s purely my opinion though!

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

In my opinion, Sai is fierce. Fierce is not just action. It is a personality trait. Sai is also focused and go getter. If she has set her eyes on achieving something, she will move mountains to achieve that. That quality is also fierce.

That’s purely my opinion though!

There are big achievers who compromise in their marriage...They don't dare to move out because of social stigma..

We are yet to break the glass ceiling because we are scared of the society may scared of dying alone..

Virat and sai are not compatible for each other.. Because both of them grew up in a different family background.. I'm not saying every relationship is perfect..Because as human everyone has to fight with their own demons..But it becomes toxic and risks someone life better leave..

Girls are always taught to have patience but the same rules doesn't apply to Men.. Sad reality.. This is what vanker wanted show in his story.no one is genuine in their relationship..

Keechad mei hi Kamal khilta hai - I am looking at it in that way. Keechad is Chavannis and apna Sai is Kamal

P.S: Kamal toh Sai ke aaba hai 😆