I agree with everything you said but there are more instances where Sai gave priority to others like when Virat on her birthday asked her to listen while gifting the ring in car. She did not stay back..
I agree that Ayesha needed rest, so glad that this overdose of Pakhi was able to get her that.
In terms of Sai not asking Samrat to give Virat a chance. The only reason why Samrat is back in this house is because of Sai's love for Virat. She begged Samrat to come home for Virat. She knows how deeply shiva loves and missed his jeeva. Sai defended Virat to Samrat throughout their bedroom conversation. She told him that he never crossed the line with Pakhi, and as they were walking in the hall, she told him that Virat has been waiting for him this entire year- that not a day has passed by when Virat has not remembered him. She did not directly ask Samrat to hear Virat's side of the story, but everything she did say about Virat clearly shows how she feels about him. But, Sai is also able to relate to Samrat's pain. She is in a very similar situation to him. The past that is haunting her is also the past that is haunting him. Had Virat cleared up everything to her already, of course she would tell Samrat that and ask him to listen to Virat. But, as of now, Samrat's misunderstandings are also her's. So, while she has defended Virat and told Samrat not to doubt him, she is also deeply hurt and confused herself. It is not on her to clear this misunderstanding between the brothers. It has to be in between them.
Virat has always been first on Sai's priority list. Every time he has deeply hurt her and acted unacceptably with her, she has forgiven him. She has always placed him above her own self respect. She has tolerated the abuse of his family day and night just to be able to stay with him. There are infinite examples I can give you that show her care for him in the smaller details too. The reason she acts so harshly outwardly towards him is her own defense mechanism- that is her protecting her heart. She does not act that way with anyone else, because she is not so afraid of losing anyone else.... she is not so confused about the reality of her relationship with anyone else. People always say that her love for Virat is not visible, but to me, it is visible in everything she does. Virat occupies the place of her abba now. He is everything to her.
How could Sai expect him to come back to normalcy? Because that is what has always happened before. They both spew venom at each other in their anger, but they almost immediately forget about it. I have already said this in my original post, but in order for Sai to connect why the anniversary fight hurt him so deeply, she will have to understand that he loves her...that the past is behind him...that the vaada means nothing. These are not realizations that happen overnight. Her realization has already begun, and she needs time. She has no one to guide her...she is navigating this blindly. We cannot expect her to understand everything so immediately....
Anyway that is not a problem since Virat never really got hurt by her behaviour like he did now.
I disagree to keep the anniversary fight followed by hotel room argument with other fights of Sairat barring Ladakh one.
It was really of a different level and Virat never said in any of the arguments that he will cut his relationship with her. Sai should have remembered his words and ponder over the reason behind him declaring so.
I hope she would realise the real reason as soon as possible.
Arjun
