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Posted: 4 years ago
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It was a good episode .. no chillam Chili … obviously nothing good was spoken .. but even if words are spoken they are never understood..

Sairat have made a pact we will not understand each other ..

The first thing that was superb was Samrat 👏👏👏👏👏

I hope he remains like this seedhi baat no bakwas .. he cleared his point in one sitting why he left ,,, who hurt him .. what did he misunderstand…and whether he is blaming anybody or not ..

Virat was definetely guilty in this issue ..Till he had fallen in love with Sai .. which was during medical admission time .. he definitely had an emotional relationship with pakhi ..

So samrat was not wrong in interpreting .. it .. can he deny that he called pakhi to GC with Sunny .. without revealing that he is getting married ..

Pakhi took it as some cosy time spent with virat .. and Sunny aided him .. at that moment wasn’t she samrat’s wife??? .. yes he didn’t mean what he said .. but it was definitely interpreted like that .. Ashwini was offended and sent Mohit n Karishma along ..

today if ajinkye calls Sai like this to kolhapur to attend something .. won’t he take offence .. Hiw is samrat wrong and how has he Misinterpreted????


Virat can calmly say this because the status quo is he has outgrown his feelings for pakhi .. realised it as infatuation and is now deeply in love with Sai his wife ..

so Sai was right when she said it his Karma which has come to bite him .. he has hurt his big brother in a profound way so till that gets sorted he cannot get peace in his marital life ..
his relationship with samrat has to get better .. Samrat has to forgive him then he can build his happily after .. m



Virat was obviously stressed that nobody understands him .. and sai added ghee to the fire .. nothing much was said which had not been said before ..

But virat conveyed the message that he is done with doing things for sai abd getting flak .. she never takes it in the positive way ..so he will stop trying ..

this was the crucial part it was very much needed .. it cannot be a one way traffic where Sai puts him under the bus when things don’t suit her ..

She is trying to be an anupama always giving gyan .. without having the maturity to see both sides .. things are never so black n white ..

Sai has done a lot for his family .. but meeting pulkit n samrat has been by chance.. she didn’t go on a search to find them ..


getting Devyani pulkit married was totally her efforts ..

she has to get the message you have to appreciate your husband as a husband ..right now she has kept him as a mentor or guardian .. expects a lot of things but when it gets clubbed as a hubby thing immediately rejects it ..



Virat is not her father .. even he has expectations from her as a wife .. he has his needs .. has she ever considered what Will virat get by 5 years of platonic marriage..

It’s easy to say you can flirt with anybody which decent girl will agree for a hole in the corner relationship with him when his official relationship is with Sai ..

and why should a 28-29 year man agree to a platonic relationship.. she does not have the maturity to understand this ..



I am glad virat told her stop interfering in my life .. whether he chooses to stay with pakhi z, break up with samrat or have a relationship with someone else .it is life .. since it’s a deal marriage..,stay away ..


I loved it .. that things were said in a calm way without crying or shouting .. hopefully the message was understood



Sai was right that he is stepping on both boats .. because he has not shrugged away pakhi .. she still enters his room..and he cannot hide away saying samrat is not understanding.. Samrat is the only one who got it perfectly… that his wife is a lowlife .. and she’s not worth spending even a day with ..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I actually agree with the Karma dialogue of sai to Virat.who the hell gives him the right to take decisions for other's life.

He didn't wanted to marry but who gave him the right to ruin his brother's life and gave that stupid vaada to Didi.

Just imagine but if virat hadn't married sai and was still single and then Sammy would have asked him why you are single then what would have been his response -i promised a woman to never love anyone except her and that woman is none other than your wife.so let's stay together 3 of us together happily together as if nothing happened and I am the Mahan who sacrifices for everyone.

And also now he has the audacity to still work to bring Samrat and didi together and force them to give their marriage a chance even though he knows that woman will never love his beloved jeeva.

How is this love ? I don't understand ? Who would want their brother to live such a painful life.

Why does he always acts like an almighty guy whom no one understands.its too much.

Atleast for God sake let them decide what they want and where their happiness lies.They are adults and let them breathe.

First he needs to learn stop being hero and learn to clean the mess of his life &stop being so coward.

We all know virat chavan is an amazing guy and understanding guy and loves blindly.

His intentions are always good but his way of doing it sucks which always bites him in the end.

Yes sai is brash and what she said about virat is unacceptable ,infact no body has the right to accuse him like that.But she also mentioned that instead of focusing on what I said ,can you please focus on the reasons why I said that?

She is again and again asking for validation and he is again quiet. She asked him to choose between him or do ,again he was quiet.

See I understand what Sai was insanely rude and she has no right to talk to him like this but you can see the struggle going in her mind.

How she cried when she gave the Karma taunt to virat and he went out and she had tears .Yet she is keeping herself strong

Also when she was talking to virat you can feel the pain in her voice especially when virat told her that he is breaking all ties with her,her pain was visible.

Hence for this episode I do sympathize with Virat bit overall for the entire track I will be siding with sai.

As she is a sad ,scared 19 year old girl who has no body to share her feelings.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: MB1996

I actually agree with the Karma dialogue of sai to Virat.who the hell gives him the right to take decisions for other's life.

He didn't wanted to marry but who gave him the right to ruin his brother's life and gave that stupid vaada to Didi.

Just imagine but if virat hadn't married sai and was still single and then Sammy would have asked him why you are single then what would have been his response -i promised a woman to never love anyone except her and that woman is none other than your wife.so let's stay together 3 of us together happily together as if nothing happened and I am the Mahan who sacrifices for everyone.

And also now he has the audacity to still work to bring Samrat and didi together and force them to give their marriage a chance even though he knows that woman will never love his beloved jeeva.

How is this love ? I don't understand ? Who would want their brother to live such a painful life.

Why does he always acts like an almighty guy whom no one understands.its too much.

Atleast for God sake let them decide what they want and where their happiness lies.They are adults and let them breathe.

First he needs to learn stop being hero and learn to clean the mess of his life &stop being so coward.

We all know virat chavan is an amazing guy and understanding guy and loves blindly.

His intentions are always good but his way of doing it sucks which always bites him in the end.

Yes sai is brash and what she said about virat is unacceptable ,infact no body has the right to accuse him like that.But she also mentioned that instead of focusing on what I said ,can you please focus on the reasons why I said that?

She is again and again asking for validation and he is again quiet. She asked him to choose between him or do ,again he was quiet.

See I understand what Sai was insanely rude and she has no right to talk to him like this but you can see the struggle going in her mind.

How she cried when she gave the Karma taunt to virat and he went out and she had tears .Yet she is keeping herself strong

Also when she was talking to virat you can feel the pain in her voice especially when virat told her that he is breaking all ties with her,her pain was visible.

Hence for this episode I do sympathize with Virat bit overall for the entire track I will be siding with sai.

As she is a sad ,scared 19 year old girl who has no body to share her feelings.


I love ur points .. even though the direction of ghum is shoddy and acting just about average ..,the characters are so grey .. that we cannot side with one person akways abd totally .. today I felt Sai was right in the first half abd virat in the second half .. Real life is like that .. we are all bunch a grey people who make a lot of mistakes and hurt people closest to us


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Yes.. Samrat making clear the reason for leaving was Spot on. I even understood why he wouldn’t want to lend ears to Virat presently. He needs time to assimilate whatever happened in the past year, then he might be ready to listen to Virat’s side of the story.

I however, was not ok with the karma speech from Sai.. She doesn’t know the complete story. It was just mean.

Virat was wrong in leading on Pakhi.. and giving her vaada, deciding two other’s fate thinking it was for their best. He must still clarify the past to Sai and Sammy. He must actually cease all interactions with Pakhi effective immediately.

The decision to stay away sounds good.. but I am not sure for how long.. cos they never stick to their decisions🤣😂 Ghajini syndrome would take over them any moment…

I hope Sammy follows through with his decision to divorce Didi.. it will be for his own good. Nobody deserves a wife with such loose morals.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin


I love ur points .. even though the direction of ghum is shoddy and acting just about average ..,the characters are so grey .. that we cannot side with one person akways abd totally .. today I felt Sai was right in the first half abd virat in the second half .. Real life is like that .. we are all bunch a grey people who make a lot of mistakes and hurt people closest to us


I actually thought that today's fight was one of the best executed SaiRat scenes till date... NeilSha killed it as usual, but the way in which it was filmed and directed was also a treat to watch. No matter how painful the episode was, it was extremely raw and real.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Amor_fati

Yes.. Samrat making clear the reason for leaving was Spot on. I even understood why he wouldn’t want to lend ears to Virat presently. He needs time to assimilate whatever happened in the past year, then he might be ready to listen to Virat’s side of the story.

I however, was not ok with the karma speech from Sai.. She doesn’t know the complete story. It was just mean.

However,Virat was wrong in leading on Pakhi.. and giving her vaada, deciding two other’s fate thinking it was for their best. He must still clarify the past to Sai and Sammy. He must actually cease all interactions with Pakhi effective immediately.

The decision to stay away sounds good.. but I am sure for how long.. cos they never stick to their decisions🤣😂 Ghajini syndrome would take over them any moment…

I hope Sammy follows through with his decision to divorce Didi.. it will be for his own good. Nobody deserves a wife with such loose morals.


Absolutely even if virat stays away for a day .. it will be good .. I loved it .. he did not scream at her or cry u don’t understand me .. when he does that all the ..fire goes out from him .. and Sai becomes mahan to forgive him without realising her own mistakes .. the problem in the relationship is that though virat is more wrong .. Sai is not blameless .. but all her flaws are never looked upon abd she’s not amending it .. it is becoming unbearable now .. so she needs time to reflect .. why is virat stepping away .. why is she feeling bad .. does she need him .. how does she need him .. what can she do to make him interested to stay back


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: tptwi

I actually thought that today's fight was one of the best executed SaiRat scenes till date... NeilSha killed it as usual, but the way in which it was filmed and directed was also a treat to watch. No matter how painful the episode was, it was extremely raw and real.

yes today was very well done unlike the zillat arena screech festz


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin

yes today was very well done unlike the zillat arena screech festz


Yes... also the contrast between Virat and Sai today was portrayed so incredibly. Sai was at her breaking point, mindlessly throwing accusations and insults at Virat. But Virat was deathly calm, restrained, and detached. Both of them were acting in the ways they did out of sheer pain and love for each other.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: tptwi

Yes... also the contrast between Virat and Sai today was portrayed so incredibly. Sai was at her breaking point, mindlessly throwing accusations and insults at Virat. But Virat was deathly calm, restrained, and detached. Both of them were acting in the ways they did out of sheer pain and love for each other.


I like virat like this .. stop crying pls … it does not help the situation at all .. Be a Man and face things head on


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin


I like virat like this .. stop crying pls … it does not help the situation at all .. Be a Man and face things head on


I would not say that Virat crying makes him any less of a man. In fact, I appreciate how vulnerable he is with his emotions. This is very different than the toxic masculinity that is generally portrayed in the media. But, today, his attitude was spot on. He has nothing left to give. He is dead inside.

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