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Posted: 4 years ago
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Samrat's behavior or reaction is perfect and real in this situation. Why would anyone expect that Samrat will embrace Virat in a tight hug and will cry meeting after an year..? He was hurt because of his brother and wife and hence he had to take that decision to stay away from this vaada scenario. Virat still wanted to have a akele me baat with Samrat. Why.? If Samrat is strong enough to reveal the facts in front of Sai, Mohit and Sunny, then why Virat can't say anything.? Specially when his wife is misunderstanding his feelings.? He is the only one who is increasing confusions between those four.

Today's verbal banter between SaiRat was one of the best I would say. Both were right, both were wrong. As already said by everyone, Virat was right to ask Sai to distance from him. While Sai was right too to show a mirror to Virat. But they will never get each other's point. Few episodes back Virat said Sai bohot samajhdar hai yaar, and today he said Sai is immature. I understand in that age she won't be understanding what Virat wants to say indirectly, but if she understands the relationship between Devyani and Pulkit, then why she will not understand her and her husband's now changing relationship. They really needs sometime away from each other. Honeymoon to tha hi nahi yeh, it was only samrat's re-entry sequence. And I don't expect they will show Virat and Sai taking their time to think about their relationship. Because in their relationship they have someone known as Patralekha, and everything is dependent upon her.! How stupid.!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin

It was a good episode .. no chillam Chili … obviously nothing good was spoken .. but even if words are spoken they are never understood..

Sairat have made a pact we will not understand each other ..

The first thing that was superb was Samrat 👏👏👏👏👏

I hope he remains like this seedhi baat no bakwas .. he cleared his point in one sitting why he left ,,, who hurt him .. what did he misunderstand…and whether he is blaming anybody or not ..

Virat was definetely guilty in this issue ..Till he had fallen in love with Sai .. which was during medical admission time .. he definitely had an emotional relationship with pakhi ..

So samrat was not wrong in interpreting .. it .. can he deny that he called pakhi to GC with Sunny .. without revealing that he is getting married ..

Pakhi took it as some cosy time spent with virat .. and Sunny aided him .. at that moment wasn’t she samrat’s wife??? .. yes he didn’t mean what he said .. but it was definitely interpreted like that .. Ashwini was offended and sent Mohit n Karishma along ..

today if ajinkye calls Sai like this to kolhapur to attend something .. won’t he take offence .. Hiw is samrat wrong and how has he Misinterpreted????


Virat can calmly say this because the status quo is he has outgrown his feelings for pakhi .. realised it as infatuation and is now deeply in love with Sai his wife ..

so Sai was right when she said it his Karma which has come to bite him .. he has hurt his big brother in a profound way so till that gets sorted he cannot get peace in his marital life ..
his relationship with samrat has to get better .. Samrat has to forgive him then he can build his happily after .. m



Virat was obviously stressed that nobody understands him .. and sai added ghee to the fire .. nothing much was said which had not been said before ..

But virat conveyed the message that he is done with doing things for sai abd getting flak .. she never takes it in the positive way ..so he will stop trying ..

this was the crucial part it was very much needed .. it cannot be a one way traffic where Sai puts him under the bus when things don’t suit her ..

She is trying to be an anupama always giving gyan .. without having the maturity to see both sides .. things are never so black n white ..

Sai has done a lot for his family .. but meeting pulkit n samrat has been by chance.. she didn’t go on a search to find them ..


getting Devyani pulkit married was totally her efforts ..

she has to get the message you have to appreciate your husband as a husband ..right now she has kept him as a mentor or guardian .. expects a lot of things but when it gets clubbed as a hubby thing immediately rejects it ..



Virat is not her father .. even he has expectations from her as a wife .. he has his needs .. has she ever considered what Will virat get by 5 years of platonic marriage..

It’s easy to say you can flirt with anybody which decent girl will agree for a hole in the corner relationship with him when his official relationship is with Sai ..

and why should a 28-29 year man agree to a platonic relationship.. she does not have the maturity to understand this ..



I am glad virat told her stop interfering in my life .. whether he chooses to stay with pakhi
z, break up with samrat or have a relationship with someone else .it is life .. since it’s a deal marriage..,stay away ..


I loved it .. that things were said in a calm way without crying or shouting .. hopefully the message was understood



Sai was right that he is stepping on both boats .. because he has not shrugged away pakhi .. she still enters his room..and he cannot hide away saying samrat is not understanding.. Samrat is the only one who got it perfectly… that his wife is a lowlife .. and she’s not worth spending even a day with ..

@bold1 This is what we expect from Virat too. Tell clear cut to Sai what is in his heart for her and get the answers from her too.

@ bold2 He told it to Pakhi that he has moved on and now loves only Sai but he did not inform that to Sai in fear of losing her and that is cause of all MU s

@bold3 Sai never asked him to do things which attributes him as a husband but as a guardian because she feels he does things for her as a guardian

@bold4 Sai is a one man army she does not need anybody to make her point . At any point she feels she is wrong she does not hesitate to say it too.This we saw when pulkit was kidnapped and devi was ill , She thought she was wrong and apologised .

@bold5 He should tell it to her loud and clear that he is not her father nor he wants to remain her gaurdian but share his life with her as a husband crystal clear

@bold6 Itoo want Sai to stop interfering in his life and family matters too and just think of herself and her career but will didi and his family allow her too. Didi doesn' t allow her be peacefully in her own room and then his family creates a ruckus when she i s about to go to college or come back from college

@bold7 from her view she is right . But we know that he is not. He only loves Sai and he needs to tell it to her.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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A no-frills, no-nonsense post. Very objective.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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We each can have our own views .. but what I have seen of earlier episodes.. and I love those .. virat did have an emotional relationship with pakhi .. during his marriage time .. those were the initial days .. he was seeing pakhi full time .. he had only met her in yoga resort abd then during wedding functions .. if you reflect the photography session , during his own wedding ,and pakhi entering the Sairat room .. even in vithal complaint incident .. virat n pakhi were more a team and Sai the outsider ..

it was not platonic.. and the respective spouses have valid reasons to show grievances..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin


We each can have our own views .. but what I have seen of earlier episodes.. and I love those .. virat did have an emotional relationship with pakhi .. during his marriage time .. those were the initial days .. he was seeing pakhi full time .. he had only met her in yoga resort abd then during wedding functions .. if you reflect the photography session , during his own wedding ,and pakhi entering the Sairat room .. even in vithal complaint incident .. virat n pakhi were more a team and Sai the outsider ..

it was not platonic.. and the respective spouses have valid reasons to show grievances..

He only stopped after/during the admission that to without letting Patralekha know!!.. He was surely sailing in two boats to an extent when he was attracted to Sai's fringes and also went on to give explanations to Pakhi the next day about lipstick mark.. Sai has dealt with a lot of stuffs, to be the woman she is today!

Edited by asmi_joya - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

He only stopped after/during the admission that to without letting Patralekha know!!.. He was surely sailing in two boats to an extent when he was attracted to Sai's fringes and also went on to give explanations to Pakhi the next day about lipstick mark.. Sai has dealt with a lot of stuffs, to be the woman she is today!



yes the Vaada given to pakhi itself was an admission of emotional relationship.. they both thought they are laila Majnu making the supreme sacrifice … tough luck their spouses don’t appreciate this .. Both the spouses want answers .. as they are no lame ducks ..


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Nicely put yaar, very nicely said from both sides

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin


We each can have our own views .. but what I have seen of earlier episodes.. and I love those .. virat did have an emotional relationship with pakhi .. during his marriage time .. those were the initial days .. he was seeing pakhi full time .. he had only met her in yoga resort abd then during wedding functions .. if you reflect the photography session , during his own wedding ,and pakhi entering the Sairat room .. even in vithal complaint incident .. virat n pakhi were more a team and Sai the outsider ..

it was not platonic.. and the respective spouses have valid reasons to show grievances..

Maybe we differ here . From my perspectives ,it was friendship from his side . Even in the initial episodes , he never had his dinner or encouraged her waiting for him or spent leisure time with her . When he spoke it was always about Samrat or Sai . If it was emotional infidelity, they look for emotional support in other people than their spouses . He never reached to her for any emotional support . Even during Vittal case , he shared his agony when she came to his room seeing them fight . He didn’t reach out to her even when his career was at stake . After this incident, she was always a friend until he knew about her feelings . After that he is treating her as a family member nothing more than that


During first night , he felt bad that Pakhi never got to experience a married life with her husband but not even once he spoke about how she must have felt seeing her ex with his wife or how he felt when he knew she would spend time with her husband on their first night .

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin

We each can have our own views .. but what I have seen of earlier episodes.. and I love those .. virat did have an emotional relationship with pakhi .. during his marriage time .. those were the initial days .. he was seeing pakhi full time .. he had only met her in yoga resort abd then during wedding functions .. if you reflect the photography session , during his own wedding ,and pakhi entering the Sairat room .. even in vithal complaint incident .. virat n pakhi were more a team and Sai the outsider ..

it was not platonic.. and the respective spouses have valid reasons to show grievances..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

He only stopped after/during the admission that to without letting Patralekha know!!.. He was surely sailing in two boats to an extent when he was attracted to Sai's fringes and also went on to give explanations to Pakhi the next day about lipstick mark.. Sai has dealt with a lot of stuffs, to be the woman she is today!

I'm glad we are discussing it. I'm always very uncomfortable with Virakhi relationship. I'm hesitant to call it an emotional affair.....so I don't put any label on it. Saying they had an "emotional relationship" is probably apt.

To think, he gave a commitment of being faithful to Pakhi - his brother's wife. That itself is so inappropriate. On top of that, the way he behaved with her during the initial days - it was a continuation of that emotional commitment......Virakhi conversation during SamrAkhi suhaag raat was just 🤢 ....Boy, Samrat doesn't know of Virat's vaada yet. If he did, he'd probably punch Virat. (I feel like I still see a remnant of that emotional relationship now...in the liberties they take with each other even in anger...please don't throw chappals at me)

@asmi You hit the nail on the head! Yes, he did indeed move on from Pakhi without letting her know that he has moved on! This guy has acted insensitively with both Pakhi and Sai.

I had pointed out something in my discussion with @laksh once. Why does Pakhi feel sooo betrayed, why does she feel entitled to call out his betrayal openly.....it just cannot be that lousy vaada. It was his subsequent continuation of their emotional relationship and also his failure in clearly stating that he has moved on that makes Pakhi have a right to question him. I'm not defending Pakhi, she is crazy. But the original author was certainly trying to convey something through Pakhi's character.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nethraa_99

I'm glad we are discussing it. I'm always very uncomfortable with Virakhi relationship. I'm hesitant to call it an emotional affair.....so I don't put any label on it. Saying they had an "emotional relationship" is probably apt.

To think, he gave a commitment of being faithful to Pakhi - his brother's wife. That itself is so inappropriate. On top of that, the way he behaved with her during the initial days - it was a continuation of that emotional commitment......Virakhi conversation during SamrAkhi suhaag raat was just 🤢 ....Boy, Samrat doesn't know of Virat's vaada yet. If he did, he'd probably punch Virat. (I feel like I still see a remnant of that emotional relationship now...in the liberties they take with each other even in anger...please don't throw chappals at me)

@asmi You hit the nail on the head! Yes, he did indeed move on from Pakhi without letting her know that he has moved on! This guy has acted insensitively with both Pakhi and Sai.

I had pointed out something in my discussion with @laksh once. Why does Pakhi feel sooo betrayed, why does she feel entitled to call out his betrayal openly.....it just cannot be that lousy vaada. It was his subsequent continuation of their emotional relationship and also his failure in clearly stating that he has moved on that makes Pakhi have a right to question him. I'm not defending Pakhi, she is crazy. But the original author was certainly trying to convey something through Pakhi's character.




Yes the way they talk to each other .. always gives out they shared a past relationship and are exes .. So Sai is not wrong in saying He’s sailing on both boats .. Also pakhi cannot hide her feelings or love for you .. and so it’s uncomfortable for Sai to move on and embrace Virat .. the logical way out .. Is Sai n virat shift to a different home .. visit the family on festivals ..like devi n pulkit ..



I feel pakhi is betrayed because she’s stuck in a mess .. what is her life .. she’s making tea and keeping Bk in good humour .. and the object of her affection is busy cavorting with somebody else .. when she had married samrat .. she had wanted to have virat at arms length..

Do you remember how much she used to call virat in GC .. telling him to come back to Nagpur .. because she needs him .. she wanted him at her beck n call .. virat shrugging her off like yesterday’s news is a big insult to her .. and she won’t let him rest easy .. Hell hath no fury than a woman scorned


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