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Posted: 4 years ago
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It was a good episode. I enjoyed it and it was welcome change to see Virat take a stand for himself .


Coming to emotionally relationship , he never had one with Pakhi in the first place . He had feelings for her but never acted on it so it can’t be termed as emotional infidelity. Feelings are not on and off button which can be turned on and off immediately, it takes time to move on but what’s in ones control is making sure not to cross the line and Virat never did . Inviting her to his wedding is not crossing the line . If he had taken her to a trip to clear things then it’s an issue but inviting her cannot be called as crossing a line .


I understand Samrat is hurt and I can relate to it but Samrat needs to realize that if he was looking for an affair with his wife he wouldn’t have sacrificed his love . Sanest needs to realize Virat did for his happiness whether it’s right or wrong is different but his intention was to save his brother from a heartbreak . If Virat wanted to be in relationship with Pakhi after her marriage then why would he let go off her . I am still hopeful that Samrat will listen to Virat side of story . Passing judgement listening to one sided conversation is unfair . I wish he heard what Virat had said on the other side .


Neither Samrat nor Sau know the complete story so assuming and making comments about Karma looks ignorant and immature . Karma is a very complicated subject and people use it so casually. If Sai doesn’t believe in fate then can we say whatever problems she has faced in life is due to her Karma ? No , it’s not some events in her life was due to fate not her own doing . I wish she spent few mins to read about Karma .

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Naah, Samrat is not wrong. As Sai said "it's only Virat's Karma.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: tptwi

I would not say that Virat crying makes him any less of a man. In fact, I appreciate how vulnerable he is with his emotions. This is very different than the toxic masculinity that is generally portrayed in the media. But, today, his attitude was spot on. He has nothing left to give. He is dead inside.

Virat has been crying a lot more than what was required .. yes some situations are unbearable… like Sai accident and when he thought he had lost her .. but this is so frequently.. it is losing its impact to audience .. I liked the calm detached virat .. which reminded me of his GC self and felt it was a good change


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Exactly none of they are black or white except beast Didi.

But it depends on track to track tbh.

In the previous track we were all pissed at virat and this time sai.

But as I said I feel sad for virat , I really do.

But also overall I side with sai for this track.

She is lost tbh she has no one.And the only one who is his world broke all relations with her.

I mean imagine your self as a 19 year old teenage girl who is till understandable the grey world.

Do you really expect her to understand these bitter words of 30 year old guy.

Even though he is still acting like a kid too how can expect 30 years old experience maturity from her.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

It was a good episode. I enjoyed it and it was welcome change to see Virat take a stand for himself .


Coming to emotionally relationship , he never had one with Pakhi in the first place . He had feelings for you her but never acted on it so it can’t be termed as emotional infidelity. Feelings are not on and off button which can be turned on and off immediately, it takes time to move on but what’s in one control is making sure not to cross the line and Virat never did . Inviting her to his wedding is not crossing the line . If he had taken her to a trip to clear things then it’s an issue but inviting her cannot be called as crossing a line . I understand Samrat is hurt and I can relate to it but Samrat needs to realize that if he was looking for an affair with his wife he wouldn’t have sacrificed his love . Sanest needs to realize Virat did for his happiness whether it’s right or wrong is different but his intention was to save his brother from a heartbreak . If Virat wanted to be in relationship with Pakhi after her marriage then why would he let go off her .


Neither Samrat nor Sau know the complete story so assuming and making comments about Karma looks ignorant and immature . Karma is a very complicated subject and people use it so casually. If Sai doesn’t believe in fate then can we say whatever problems she has faced in life is due to her Karma ? No , it’s not some events in her life was due to fate not her own doing . I wish she spent few mins to read about Karma .




Virat may not have meant to do it .. but the way he acted surely gave the impression.. now we know how his family behaves .. how he thinks .. he felt so bad when ajinkye came to meet Sai in the bedroom.. but did he think he is calling Samrat’s wife to GC to see him .. did he tell her that this is my wedding there will be other people ..


Did pakhi assume it to be a wedding .. she took it as an impression to have some vacay with BFF ..

today we can club virat as sai ka Pati .. but I have been watching the initial episodes of Evebts leading to Sairat wedding thanks to insta .. and his relationship with pakhi is definetely not platonic .. pakhi kept on telling him to come back to Nagpur .. she needs him ..

Will virat tolerate Sai talking like this with any of her make friends .. aniket , ajinkye .. let’s not forget samrat n pakhi we’re not supposed to be in a deal marriage ..



Virat started staying away from pakhi after his attraction to Sai became more pronounced and he saw more of pakhi behaviour during the breakfast dramas .. but samrat has been wronged ..


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin

Virat has been crying a lot more than what was required .. yes some situations are unbearable… like Sai accident and when he thought he had lost her .. but this is so frequently.. it is losing its impact to audience .. I liked the calm detached virat .. which reminded me of his GC self and felt it was a good change


I agree there.. even I am tired of his crying..It's not about man and woman.. it's about also him wallowing in self guilt, on and on with his crying...Calm and detached Virat somehow is the need of the hour as well.. Sai actually needs to know how the marriage was never a deal and how a marriage that is actually a deal looks like .

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin




Virat may not have meant to do it .. but the way he acted surely gave the impression.. now we know how his family behaves .. how he thinks .. he felt so bad when ajinkye came to meet Sai in the bedroom.. but did he think he is calling Samrat’s wife to GC to see him .. did he tell her that this is my wedding there will be other people ..


Did pakhi assume it to be a wedding .. she took it as an impression to have some vacay with BFF ..

today we can club virat as sai ka Pati .. but I have been watching the initial episodes of Evebts leading to Sairat wedding thanks to insta .. and his relationship with pakhi is definetely not platonic .. pakhi kept on telling him to come back to Nagpur .. she needs him ..

Will virat tolerate Sai talking like this with any of her make friends .. aniket , ajinkye .. let’s not forget samrat n pakhi we’re not supposed to be in a deal marriage


Ofcourse they were in an emotional relationship..with him telling her right after his marriage on how his vaada to her is intact and this marriage is just a deal..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I agree there.. even I am tired of his crying..It's not about man and woman.. it's about also him wallowing in self guilt, on and on with his crying...Calm and detached Virat somehow is the need of the hour as well.. Sai actually needs to know how the marriage was never a deal and how a marriage that is actually a deal looks like .

so well put .. 😊.. things said calmly have more impact ..Let us hope both keep quiet when samrat pakhi allegations come out .. I would love it if Sai tells what all pakhi did .. to samrat .. but it will look petty .. but samrat should know .. what a messed up woman he has married and should he continue this marriage


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin

so well put .. 😊.. things said calmly have more impact ..Let us hope both keep quiet when samrat pakhi allegations come out .. I would love it if Sai tells what all pakhi did .. to samrat .. but it will look petty .. but samrat should know .. what a messed up woman he has married and should he continue this marriage


Ideally in Sai's position I would want to let it out somewhere .honestly she has not been able to speak about what she went through ever with anyone... Bottled up emotions do come out in ugly way..and considering this one's brash nature...it would be even more ugly.. Also I am with Samrat there...both his wife and his brother did cheat him... physically not but emotional they did..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Your take on the episode is perfect . Virat is in this situation because of his own deeds , whatever his intentions maybe. He is wrong, left, right and centre and Sai being so stoic and rigid is because of him, his best friend and his family . All thanks to them. And being in such toxic atmosphere and covertly situations too she never faltered and kept herself sane and safe and always stread in right path. And that's what l like about her. Virat took the decision of four lives on his own. Nobody forced him to. Samrat felt cheated and took the decision to leave the house and he left for his own good. Pakhi wanted to be near her boyfriend so she took the decision to marry his brother and when his brother left her uninformed she took the decision of bringing back her love to herself by hook or by crook. This is what it appears to be to at least us the viewers. The only victim of all the four is Sai. Her only family , her father gave up his life by saving Virat and asking him to take care of her. He did not ask him to marry her .The police staff or colleagues and villagers forced Virat to take the charge of her by marrying her. She did not wanted to but was forced . At this situation too she asked Virat to back down but he was firm and furthermore he put forth his conditions , to which Sai agreed. The princess of his father and an angel of her own flight was reduced to being a mere responsibility of a man who married her out of courtesy and promise given to her father and asked her to adjust in his highly orthodox family and never come in between his friendship. The feeling of being dead once and for all ( i.e when she tried suicide) was far more better than the life she is living in the Chawan Niwas .At every step everyday was a hell to her how much ever she tried to collect herself and move on with everybody and toned down herself but with her self respect held high. The silver lines being only aai, shivani bua, mohit, devi taai, pulkit and fluctuating Virat.And they too were not of great help because they too were sufferers of chavan nivas.There are lot of things which I can go on and on. But at the end of the day what I want is showdownfor Sai. I mean as today Virat was shown as victim. In KD it is shown Sai leaves the house early morning without informing anyone and get gets into an accident. I don' t want it to happen here at least please. Before going I want Sai to confront each and every member of Chawan niwas but don' t break down but make them see their brutality and then leave.

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