Surprising - Page 4

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

Quite an interesting thought.. but when Virat decided to move away, I did not see a person who was willing to give up, but as a person who finally learnt to respect other’s decisions. He has taken decisions in the past thinking it was the best for everyone and those decisions came to bite him on his ass.. Even Pakhi has questioned him before as to why everything must happen as per his will.. right from giving the vaada and making Pakhi marry Samrat, he did not consider her ability to choose her life and he decided the fate of two people, thinking it was good for them. This was his greatest downfall.. finally I felt he was realizing it and let them decide on their own.

Hmm could be the case I guess..May be I am not able to put across what I guessed..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Yeah even I am talking about his impulse and in his impulse he gives up.. Thats why I said when high on emotions...he is ready to let things go rather being plain angry and upset...Thats his character trait..

I guess we are in a way saying the same thing? 🤣

I still think that when he is high on emotions, he is not actually ready to let things go. He just blurts things out and behaves impulsively, only to immediately regret it all once he snaps out of it. I think that he is a fighter for those he loves when it comes down to it.

Originally posted by: tptwi

I guess we are in a way saying the same thing? 🤣

I still think that when he is high on emotions, he is not actually ready to let things go. He just blurts things out and behaves impulsively, only to immediately regret it all once he snaps out of it. I think that he is a fighter for those he loves when it comes down to it.

Assumptions mei hi problem hai na..He thinks Samrat does not wants to come back because he has moved on and is angry, Sai want to leave because he got her to celebrate the anniversary.. So they dont want him around, so I should leave... And then until and unless, someone comes and tell him where he is going wrong, he will keep on blaming himself for that, but would not go on to actually talk to the other person.

So I was watching the last scene where Sai brings up Pakhi again and Samrat says never to bring Patralekha's name infront of him and Virat shaking his head in disagreement.

I am wondering how hard it must be for Samrat to even look at Virat and going back to that same house where he was deceived by the two of them. Imagine listening to your wife confessing love to your brother on your wedding night. Whatever maybe the past he might have forgive, but this also means Virat was also talking to her on her wedding night. This is deception right? I wonder what exactly was Virat even thinking when talking to her when she was screaming I love you with a house full of wedding guests. How was this even friendship and she still continues to declare her love for him and he still was shocked that Samrat wanted to divorce her 🙄. Is Patraleka more important than his own brother who clearly deserves better ?

Pakhi is 90% responsible for Samrats miseries and broken heart but Virat added the much needed 10% to shatter him completely.

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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I was talking about how he was not ready to give her a closure, till was evident that she still has feelings for her.. Since he thought he has moved on, she too will.. Just in case of Sai he thinks, she he forgot the waada the deal..she might/should as well without needing to talk..

Virat tries to not get into confrontations.. thats his character trait.

Ahhh I got it now 🤣🤣. Yes no closures for others around him whose brains he has messed up once he got a closure in his brain🤣🤣. He wants to show Jeeva how his thoughts are wrong too , not that there was something between them and that it no longer exists 🤦🤣

Originally posted by: Rdigest

So I was watching the last scene where Sai brings up Pakhi again and Samrat says never to bring Patralekha's name infront of him and Virat shaking his head in disagreement.

I am wondering how hard it must be for Samrat to even look at Virat and going back to that same house where he was deceived by the two of them. Imagine listening to your wife confessing love to your brother on your wedding night. Whatever maybe the past he might have forgive, but this also means Virat was also talking to her on her wedding night. This is deception right? I wonder what exactly was Virat even thinking when talking to her when she was screaming I love you with a house full of wedding guests. How was this even friendship and she still continues to declare her love for him and he still was shocked that Samrat wanted to divorce her 🙄. Is Patraleka more important than his own brother who clearly deserves better ?

Pakhi is 90% responsible for Samrats miseries and broken heart but Virat added the much needed 10% to shatter him completely.

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I always assumed it was not Pakhi from whom he felt betrayed, but Virat.. What was his relationship with Patralekha anyway....With Samrat despise for Patralekha out on the forum, Virat and Sai's relationship would suffer as well. Sai would have to face her demons again and this time she would come out with openly, hurting Virat more and more..

Originally posted by: Rdigest

Ahhh I got it now 🤣🤣. Yes no closures for others around him whose brains he has messed up once he got a closure in his brain🤣🤣. He wants to show Jeeva how his thoughts are wrong too , not that there was something between them and that it no longer exists 🤦🤣

See what he does works , definitely works but when the relationship has a strong base already.. combined with the act that tremored the relationship not being too deep. So actions might work in this situation, he might not have to spell it out, how and where he went wrong and he is sorry, his actions should convey. But if either is not there , words of assurance, of apology, or reversal is needed..

In Sai's case none of the two are there and in Samrat's the latter was huge.. It changed his life entirely..

Originally posted by: Rdigest

So I was watching the last scene where Sai brings up Pakhi again and Samrat says never to bring Patralekha's name infront of him and Virat shaking his head in disagreement.

I am wondering how hard it must be for Samrat to even look at Virat and going back to that same house where he was deceived by the two of them. Imagine listening to your wife confessing love to your brother on your wedding night. Whatever maybe the past he might have forgive, but this also means Virat was also talking to her on her wedding night. This is deception right? I wonder what exactly was Virat even thinking when talking to her when she was screaming I love you with a house full of wedding guests. How was this even friendship and she still continues to declare her love for him and he still was shocked that Samrat wanted to divorce her 🙄. Is Patraleka more important than his own brother who clearly deserves better ?

Pakhi is 90% responsible for Samrats miseries and broken heart but Virat added the much needed 10% to shatter him completely.

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Completely agree with you about Samrat feeling utterly betrayed by Virat. I don't think Pakhi has much to do with the crux of his pain, to be honest. Yes, he was smitten by her and fell in love with her (in 2 days apparently 🤣)... but he trusted Virat more than himself. When he tells Sai that he does not want to hear Pakhi's name, perhaps the pain is more in that she is a reminder of how Virat (seemingly) deceived him.

In terms of Virat shaking his head, I think he feels responsible for this mess, and out of that guilt, he wants to try to help them give their marriage a second chance. He knows how much Samrat liked Pakhi, and since their relationship was ruined because of him, he wants them to at least try to make it work....

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Neerja I have not seen the episode, but a thought that came in my mind while reading the post was, did we not this Virat earlier.. He is very close to being a quitter when it comes to something that is not his duty..Be it Pakhi, Sai or even Samrat. He will build mountains of emotions around the person , but when it comes to act them, he shirks them off...he gives up... The only person he has been fighting a bit for is Sai...and probably is willing to give her up as well now....

With Pakhi he deserted the much needed talk, till it became obvious that she is still having hopes from her..With Sai probably he would never be having that talk..and is ready to give her up, every time there is a tumult in the relationship...With Samrat he wants to go since Samrat does not want to come..

You know, I had the exact same thought too. I don't generally like labels, so instead of saying that Virat is a quitter ....I'd rather say that "Virat cannot gather emotional strength and fortitude required to put things right...when he finds himself in a situation which is too overwhelming for him emotionally". I think it fits well with Virat's character. What gives us fortitude during tumultuous times? What gives us emotional balance and 'viveksheelta' to put right a messy or difficult situation? It all comes down to EQ - the ability to process emotions. From what we have known if Virat - Virat has always dealt with his emotions by suppressing them or deflecting them. It was so evident when he gave the vaada to Pakhi during Samrakhi wedding - of all the options that were available to him - he took the route that was the "easiest' but also least productive.

Pooja....Virat does fight as much as he can for his relationship with Sai. He sincerely apologizes not caring about his pride(which afflicts lesser men), shows his earnestness in wanting the relationship. And Sai gives in seeing his sincerity because she is his wife.

But Samrat's case is different. Virat being sorry is not going to change Samrat's mind. And he knows that. And the issue between them is huge. He needs to show lot of strength, to be proactive - steps have to be taken, efforts have to be made to clear the MU, difficult decisions have to be made....all these are outside the limit of Virat's emotional quotient.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

See what he does works , definitely works but when the relationship has a strong base already.. combined with the act that tremored the relationship not being too deep. So actions might work in this situation, he might not have to spell it out, how and where he went wrong and he is sorry, his actions should convey. But if either is not there , words of assurance, of apology, or reversal is needed..

In Sai's case none of the two are there and in Samrat's the latter was huge.. It changed his life entirely..

Exactlyyyy actions works where relationships are not so messed up , but here every relation is messed up between the 4 of them except for Sai Samrat🤣. Sai finally found someone who is on the same or even worst relationship than her 🙄.