Is jealousy really a sign of love? - Page 6

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Toxic didi really makes me laugh at times.😆 For someone who talks so much about respecting elders, saying "hamare ghar mein" she was not taught this and that. Haan behen sab ki izzat karlo tum, bas khud ki izzat na karo.🤪 She gets defensive and say she ain't jealous - behen apko kisney kaha ki aap jealous ho? 😳

Oh my holy God! You made me laugh so hard, I don't know how to stop 🤣🤣

Hey bhagwan, thank God Ashwini spoke because I was losing hope with her. Thank you for pointing out that Sai left her life behind because she trusted him and there can be no trust without respect ( I hope that answered Didi's question as to whether Sai respects Virat🤪). Ashwini deserves the greatest apology, because his behavior with her was totally uncalled for. Her heart broke when he said the words he did. Maybe because mothers are always going to love you that we think we can get away no matter what we say. He needs to be called out on this.

Agree. We do take mothers for granted and we treat them like *h*t as well but they don't leave us, unless they are Bhavani Kaku category.

I generally love to see a little jealousy in love but Virat's enormous jealousy stems from the fact that Sai is his only in legal sense. There is that insecurity that she could find happiness without him, while he would not be able to do the same. It all boils down to his vaadas, its all his undoing.

Beautifully said! 👏 Can't agree more. I think in that moment of seeing her flirt (where she did it with even the expressions), he was watching her so closely that he felt she had almost found someone to give her what she should have no "ummeed" for from him. Like, she would leave him right away as Amey said 🤣

But, I cannot free him from his words because it was clear what his family was doing, and Sai said it today, she was just walking and they even had a problem with that. I think he could have handled that outburst better because in his hurt, he is hurting Sai and he is very well aware of that.

He could have handled it. Which is what Ashwini also said but he didn't want to. I think it was on purpose and also in preparation for what is coming tomorrow- the character assassination of the 'biwi'. The family that hasn't spared the daughter who has been really cheated, are they going to believe their unworthy daughter-in-law? Not that it matters, but their words will sting.

Imagine the fire already burning when the Ghee (Amey) arrives!

Oh I think he could see how him shouting at her opened the doors for others to come it and insult her - Karishma. But by that time the damage was done, the moment was lost.

He realised what he had done but he was so, so blinded that he could not do better and then he just kept quiet.

And Bhavani has a Ba? I mean I would lose belief in the University of Maturegadh's education system if that's the case.🤣 This Ba and Ma educated duo need rehabilitation - they need to be brainwashed and re-educated I believe. There is no other way for these two.

Inko kaun re-educate karega? Billiyon ke gale me ghanti .. I don't want dewdrop to expend her energy but if given free hand, she is the only one who can. I fully trust her🤣 🤣

And what should I say about Devi that hasn't been said. Sai thank you for telling her that she will be fine one day, she was legit shocked when Devi said that the others told her that she wouldn't be fine. Don't get me started on the ghar ki betiya comment. 🤬

Why does everyone get so scared when Devi is about to talk? Because they don't know Sai has been godsent to find the truth anyway 😆 I am assuming Virat doesn't know the story either and it is Virat who they want to keep in the dark because this story might have the potential to change his entire approach to the family. The disgust of hearing the daughters being called "grahan". I think on three occasions -- gruh pravesh, admission drama and today, I have seen some kind of disgust he has for Bhavani, which he even knows consciously but then she is "ghar ki badi". 😵

Shivani can take Virat for a coffee and point out to him why he is feeling the way he is. Since he really tends to take the opinion of a third person, and since Sunny bewakoof isn't here, it will do him good.

Bua should do tarot session with him. It would be fun! 🤣She can pick all the wrong cards and tell him Sai will leave soon according to tarot 🤣I am telling you, ek hi din mein he will figure out his bhankas vaada vs saat vachan dilemma

Sai, sai, sai. What should I say about Sai. She owns my heart that's for sure.

Sai deserves an apology too, but at this point I would prefer if she tells him to apologise to his mom instead. There was this article, where it said Sai would ask Virat not to apologise because he's done so much for her that she has no right being upset with him. That indifference would catch him off guard and is bound to hurt. And I want that (sorry Virat, im team Sai. ALWAYS) 😈

Me too. Team Sai. But Virat is welcome to join. 😆

Originally posted by: Sakmen

Janki💛 again thank you for the beautiful analysis! You have the ability to look for positivity in the worst of the things..

Thank you dear ❤️

I haven't watched the episode and honestly don't even intend to as I don't think I will be able to tolerate the shouting screaming and name calling.

But going by all the things I have read on the forum. I'm not sure if virat did everything out of jealousy or this jealousy is his love for her?

I don't think it is love as much as possessiveness right now - knowledge that he may not be able to feel alive without her. He has become too attached to her to even accept her giving that kind of attention to another man. But love is still a way away.

I hope whatever you wrote comes out to be true in tge show as well.. I seriously hope and pray for the love track or realization track starts sooon. This cringy fight is becoming too intolerable. I'm not up for another fight not even the night one in the bedroom where The Tea Maker comes to put spices in the ladai wali chai!!

TV show hai toh happy ending toh hona hai hai. Let's enjoy the journey with coffee! 😆

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Kya post hai, wah, mazaa aa gaya! 😊

Thank you dear 🤗

I watched the episode after reading your post today. And I still felt yesterday's intangible connection between Sai and Virat. I was wondering if it would change after hearing Virat's bitter words towards Sai.

He was hurting, she was hurting. Their constant intense eyelocks in anger, hurt, disappointment...quite well done👍🏼by the actors and the director for getting it out in the midst of the Chawan circus mandali.

It was just well played by the two leads -- the looks, the hurt, the helplessness and the unspoken feeling, disappointment in each other was all there.

And like you said, after a point both subsided into silence, as they watched the uncontrollable Chawan family who were on a roll, almost like a victory run after Virat's argument with Sai and his taunt at Ashwini. Spilling out venom at everyone not on their side!

Oh it was such an ugly spectacle of mass humiliation. Virat had realised what he had done but he just couldn't gather himself. I think he will tomorrow because protective instincts for Sai will overpower his jealousy am sure.

What actually struck me as pathetic was of course, Virat's comment at Ashwini. She didn't deserve it. That too, right after she said aapko lagta hai mera beta chup rahega, so confident that Virat will stand by her.

Totally. Big apology needed but we may not see. 😒

I really hope they see reactions and give us a scene with Virat apologising to Ashwini. That taunt changed his character completely, they had built him up so beautifully so far. I fervently hope the makers do damage control. He can't win 'Best Beta' at Star Parivaar Awards🤢

Kudos to Sai... refusing to apologise, standing up for Shivani, standing up for Ashwini, support for Devi...it's a winner of a character.

And Sairat? I'll reserve my comments till the night fight...voh bhi to baaki hai

Navra Baiko me bhaandan nahi hoga toh kiske beech me hoga. 😆

Originally posted by: Chahat_A_Doshi

Immature bacchi here,

Can we get Veeru on the tanki demanding Baby and Muah from Sai.

Ultan paltan and their favourite Pattharlekha requesting Sai to do it.

🤣🤣 And Maushi can be played by Kaku or you want Usha Maushi in the scene too?

Originally posted by: Zahra15

I feel Virat is kinda fed up of all the daily drama.

I don't say the family is right but as Virat said, Sai will make them get on her tail more. Sai is rightly supporting Bua as well, but it's like Virat who has to hear on both ends.

He supports his wife, knows she is right but also get blamed for this by the family. He talks in favour of the family, asking Sai to change her tone and all, his relation with Sai suffers.

I kinda feel bad for him in some ways xP

Agree. I too understand his exasperation and his dilemma but his action/inaction today was because of the burn he got from Sai's flirting act. It was too hot to handle for his heart.

Originally posted by: BlueJayFire

truly. Only Janki's post made me feel better. It was like sitting in a nice sunshine with my favourite book and a cup of coffee..Else the episode was super blah blah..

That is so sweet and so kind of you! ❤️❤️🤗

I just can't stop myself from writing every morning just because I love this interaction that begins and how everytime I have a dull moment in the day, I can peek in here and have a laugh. What a place this is! God bless!

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

ek baath tho tey hai that virat has started to see 'true colors of his pyaari si family' currently chavan family members are on cloud 9 to see virat shouting sai. but little do they know that virat is only upset with her cuz of the way she talks to his family members. this doesn't mean that he 'supports' everything his family said or did. They will surely start insulting sai even in front of virat now as according to them virat is on their side now, so soon just like pakhi, this kaku and gang will also stoop in his eyes, that is for sure.

abhi virat ki nazron mein his family is 'hum saath saath hai' family.

but soon he will see that his family is 'Rishton Ka Saudagar' family.

virat thinks sai should adjust with his family members even though she doesn't like his family because he thinks zindagi mein 'kabhi khushi kabhie gham' hote rehte hai and this just the 'phase' of a new bahu finding it difficult to adjust in her sasural.

if they keep on insulting sai and other ghar ke aurath in front of him he will soon understand and will himself think 'Maryada: Lekin Kab Tak?'

Wah wah wah 🤣🤣 Kya behetareen likha hai!

I soo wish they would hire you as a writer for this show because I feel like you will know what to write for us viewers to watch!!

I soo wish they would hire you as a writer for this show because I feel like you will know what to write for us viewers to watch!!

Originally posted by: india-tv

Sai as a flirt passed with flying colours!!!

Sai ne Amey se kaha ki mere pati mujhe pyar nahi karte, meri zaroorton ka dhyan nahi rakhte..etc etc...

Just a thought, use add karna chahiye tha.. mere pati mujhe immature and bacchi samjhte hain..kahte hain ki unki best friend ke liye jo unke mann mein pyar/dosti hai woh mein samajh nahi sakti and mujhe usi best friend se maturity ke lessons lene ki salah dete hain..ab mein medical ki padhai karun ya maturity classes lun...

Amey subah ki jagah raat ko hi dauda chala aata.....

And Virat subah zillat arena mein drama hi nahi kar paata...

🤣🤣Chavan saheb would have started wailing phoot phoot ke. Itna pyaar se tumhe ye kiya, wo kiya aur tum...😭