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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: LadyWhistledown

Jaannnkkkkiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!!!! (Yes, it's back to the multiple i's again, kyunki Jaannuuuuuuuu forbidden hai)

😉.

Niyaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa! Kahan gayab ho jaati ho Mansi ki tarah 😆 (Yes for the bracket😉)


'home', the ultimate destination where stories begin, love blossoms and hopes never let your dreams die. Oooohhhhh! Poetry! Stories begin huh?? Tumhara story mujhe pata hi hai... aur agar main by chance kabhi author banungi, toh pehle tumhari story likhungi😉

Better change the names 😆 And Chavan saheb ke jaisi author mat ban na, atmakatha mat likh dena 🤣 Title please pehle share karna 🤣


Trust me babe... even I was actually thinking of posting something along the same lines, the difference between the feeling of jealousy between Virat and Pakhi. Thank god nahi kiya😆

Arey kyun nahi kiya !?


As much as I resented the kind of words he used in today's episode, I didn't hate him for what he said to Sai (let me be specific... what he said to Ashwini was unforgivable in my opinion). He is human after all. And as Ashwini and Sai often point out, he does not speak out about his feelings, and this is taking a toll on him. Especially in this case, when his feelings are all over the place. Even if he wants to speak out, he doesn't know what he should say and what he shouldn't, because he hasn't come to terms with what Sai means to him.

And yeah! He does want Sai to learn the art of tactfully dealing with people, but the jealousy was evident... and the "Mujhe pasand nahi hai." dialogue sealed that.

It is important to see if they show him introspecting this feeling and the action it resulted in.


But whatever happened between the two of them in the room was just between the two of them. He could say anything to her and vice versa, and there is scope for sorting it out properly later. But, that fight in front of the Makad gang was an unfortunate event. He does know that Sai only retorts back when she is provoked, but his jealously blinded him at that moment because he still wasn't over it, and he just acted out... and it is one of the most humane reactions I've seen from Virat after the complaint wala outburst.

I think if we have a problem with his act today, we would be part of those who say men shouldn't show emotions. He was wrong but he was being honest. He just did not know how to handle himself. When Ashwini tried to show him the mirror, he was in such a mess! And even when Kaku actually started taunting Sai, he was almost going to reply but Sai butted in with "Maine bhi bohat saas dekhi hain..." 😆


And Ashwini👏 After the Mirch peesne wali episode, I was really really mad at Ashwini, but today, she won my respect again! She didn't just try restraining Virat, but she also directly told him that it was the "Ghar ki Bade" who were at fault, not bothering about the repercussions she would face later.

And yeah, about what Virat said to Ashwini, he is supposed to know the consequences of such statements, especially when surrounding by the ever-ready Makad gang. Thanks to this statement, Makad Gang can now harass Ashwini for having a personal vendetta against them and using Sai as a weapon against them. More having a hard time convincing Sai, he should have a hard time convincing Ashwini, because she is the one who has unflinchingly stood by him even when everyone else gave up. Virat, my boy, you have a lot to make up for...

I wish we get to see


- He noticed that the people with the same set of values (and lack of it) were standing together in the same team and the one moment where Devyani kissed Sai made him smile in the middle of his muddled behaviour (Chavan saheb, don't even think you're going to get the chance to do that yet 😐😑)

^That small scene actually made me feel so warm. That gentle smile that Virat gave, it exuded pride - at the way Sai could handle his Devi Tai, at the way Devi Tai warmed up to his wife out of all people (him included), and at the way Sai handled her with so much love and understanding rather than just shunning her despite everything she was going through.

I am sure he would pick up the fact that Devyani has the purest instinct of all and if she feels most comfortable with Sai, Sai must have something in her. He already knows but in that moment too, he did have that sense of pride as you said. 😆 Whatever made him think he would never fall in love. Look at this man


Really Chavan saheb, I hope you are going to speak tomorrow warna guns are still loaded 😠 not just for Sai but for all those women around you, who have been put in the line of fire because the whole Makad Sena thought another monkey has come home 🐒🙊

^Main toh zyada ummeed nahi rakhungi because another fight is coming up. Sai, please be ready with you pillow, blankets, clutch and everything else. Pack karke Shivani bua ke kamre mein move ho jao. Apna kuch bhi mat chodna room mein. Tadapne do Chavan saab ko.

Sai should keep one suitcase permanently ready to leave the room in case of emergency 🤣 He might install automatic locks at the door then to control movement. Thankfully JHD will also remain out 🤣


I felt Sai went overboard with her retorts yesterday until Virat arrived but, today, she was absolutely right in not budging about tendering apology to the Makad Sena. They don't need it. But in the process, Virat has ended up pushing Sai to another space, which she will contemplate only once she's finished the task of handling Amey and proving Shivani innocent -- the adrenaline rush about the act coming up has not allowed her the space to soak in Virat's behaviour entirely yet. It's just come as a 'shock'. I wish Sai uses her calm mind to discern what happened and ask the right questions 😐

^I wonder if Sai would actually contemplate the reason for Virat's outburst, or if it would push her further away from him. Maybe she would think that he thinks of her as a burden or something, because in the SBB segment, she asked him something like "Aapko lagta hai ki aapne mere liya bohot kuch kiya hai?".

I guess she will but she will not make any assumptions until her clarifies his "pyaar-dosti" slip up which was followed by his Sunny conversation 😆


Sai, this is exactly what is needed in the rest of the case too, which is what your exasperated husband wants to say, setting aside his jealousy for today. Someone tell the Mallika-e-Maturity that "mere aai Baba ne mujhe sikhaya hai" wala monotonous ghisa pita dialogue is not working with her imaginary husband because he has seen through and felt the indecent vibes coming from his jilted saas-sasur 🤣😅 and decided to keep her at double-arm's length for the sake of his real-deal-wali Baiko's honour.

^Her "mere aai - baba ne sikhaya..." was such a pathetic dialogue. Of course, your aai-baba are the epitome of respect. That's why as soon as his Baiko returned from your house, Chavan saab asked her "Sabne tumse acche se peshaya na?"🤣

Wahi toh, Didi ko kuch pata hi nahi hai. He hung up on her that night because he was in so much hurry to ask baiko if she was treated well or not. 😆 What baiko told Didi and what Didi will do was not even of concern


I am still hoping that Virat will get a grip of his logical side tomorrow as he already began showing signs towards the end today and his instinct to protect Sai (and him) from the vultures waiting to prey on them will be on the top again. Although if you ask me, he has done quite a bit of damage today to his own team. Kya karoge, Chavan saheb? When sense knocks back into your head, who should you say sorry to first -- Sai, Aai ya Shivani? Yes, I think even Shivani deserves a small apology of courtesy for the outburst you had in front of her. And yes, Sai is Baar sorry Nahi bolegi. Sochna bhi mat. 😑

^I'm giving him time till this week end, kyunki ek aur fight bhi baaki hai. Lekin pata nahi Baiko utna time degi ya nahi. And Sai would never apologise after this. But Chavan saab, you be ready with all kinds of apologies you know. Warna internet pe search karo "Roote piya ko kaise manaun?". Kuch ideas milenge😉

Like the forum is saying, she should reject his apology, treats and chocolates at least five times. 😆

Edited by jankiraghav - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Is it really jealousy ??

Jealousy toh hai hi in this specific context.

He has grown in that household maybe to an extent some type of toxicity is normalised??

And yes, he has internalised toxicity as traditional khayalat

Is this it ? How did he question his mother?

He was following principle of "true love". Hurt people close to them who hurt you 😵

All this J in relationships of ITV are silly ..for relationships to really work you need open communication and most imp respect.

Plus respect is earned and not just coz of age. I may be softer and nicer if the person is older but if they say something that is against my principals I will argue my point. I once have beaten up a person who tried to manhandle me in public transport. My mom was like let bro handle it. But bro just stood behind me when I slapped that guy and did not interfere


But maybe some may not agree with me. But person is a build by circumstances and environment they grow.


Respect to agree to disagree,

respect that other person may have a different way if dealing with situations and trust that other person will handle it

Very well said! 👏 But in a toxic environment with rigid, egoistic wars, there is never respect for disagreement and never the will to see another perspective, even if it is actually the truth.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: Jiss555

Super post janki as always🤗.I also enjoyed todays episode mainly bcoz that chakram fools were dancing with joy thinking virat finally comes to his senses. Little did they know about the actual reason behind chavan Saab outburst.

I saw a parallel bw bhavani and despokhi.please clear it for me sweety.....

Despokhi wanted to take sais place in virats life.likewise bhavani wants to be virats mom.i dont know y but I get this feeling after watching todays episode.Both dont love him but they wants to own him that's they want the right to say he is my IPS son (bhavani)or he is my husband (for pakhi)

You've hit the nail on the head. He is the crowned prince of the family -- one wants absolute control to remain in power through him and the other wants absolute power over his mind, body and soul. Unfortunately for them, humans sense instincts and he does have a strong sense of what it smells like.

We know paakhi is jealous of sai likewise I get a jealous vibe from TMK in 2days episode (may be from the dialog bhavani told virat," virat doesnt listen to anybody aside saas bahu duo.bhavani used saas bahu an indirect relationship instead of using Mother wife when mentioning ashwani & sai.its like bhavani doesn't want to acknowledge ashwani as virats mother.And ashwanis dialog starting with meri beta ....seems like a mothers pride in saying virat is my son not yours bhavani.

It has been like that since the beginning for Bhavani, trying to put down Ashwini in front of him and telling her how Virat chooses her over his own mother. 🤔

Also the way bhavani describes her own daughter is like 🤢she is cursing her very existence 😈.please clear it maybe my mind is playing games with me😔.It got me confused

Looks like that. But i think it is in reference to bringing "shame" to the family because of the "affair" perhaps. I guess we should wait for the story to unfold. I still want Bhavani's layers to come off before we conclude anything about her.

(Like u, I too was traveling. 4 hrs solo driving with bickering 7 and 4 year old kids.For a second I wonder whether whole makkad gang ki aathma came and sit on my cars backseat🤣.)

😆😆I was going to be with my little makad, mau, chimni after a very long time so i could only feel the warmth pulling me there. But I know what you mean. I have been in that situation too many times 😆🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: NrativPro

I soo wish they would hire you as a writer for this show because I feel like you will know what to write for us viewers to watch!!


🤣🤣 na na, I am happy on this side, throwing chappals and firing guns. 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sakmen

@janki she got sai's college mate to her bedroom? Then what happened? Just curious..


Virat comes in and goes in jealousy XXXXL mode and talks rubbish, accuses Sai of having an affair. She tries to commit suicide. I don't want to see that last part here, honestly. 😒

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: jankiraghav


Virat comes in and goes in jealousy XXXXL mode and talks rubbish, accuses Sai of having an affair. She tries to commit suicide. I don't want to see that last part here, honestly. 😒

I don't want a suicide scene either.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: jankiraghav


Virat comes in and goes in jealousy XXXXL mode and talks rubbish, accuses Sai of having an affair. She tries to commit suicide. I don't want to see that last part here, honestly. 😒


I will want to see it if this will put PP and the TMK gang to jail 🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: jankiraghav


Virat comes in and goes in jealousy XXXXL mode and talks rubbish, accuses Sai of having an affair. She tries to commit suicide. I don't want to see that last part here, honestly. 😒

affair hai bhi toh kya galti hai 🤣🤣🤣

Atleast they won't call it best friends ke beech mat aao

Vaise I was watching previous episodes and wondered who actually puts a condition before marriage that " don't interfere between me and my best friend"

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: by_stander


I will want to see it if this will put PP and the TMK gang to jail 🤣

ye toh nahi hoga

Sirf khayali pulao bachega

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ishradivani

affair hai bhi toh kya galti hai 🤣🤣🤣

Atleast they won't call it best friends ke beech mat aao

Vaise I was watching previous episodes and wondered who actually puts a condition before marriage that " don't interfere between me and my best friend"


@bold Mature people do, we won't understand it... will have to get admitted to the University of Matureghardh.

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