Is jealousy really a sign of love? - Page 5

Good Morning Janki! It's early morning here when I read your posts and always such a pleasure reading, your positive posts really make my day these days (ever since I started reading). It honestly feels like drinking that nice warm cup of chai (bc i love chai hehe) on a cold morning - comforting and refreshing.

So I loved the episode today. May be because I am already feeling loved 😆🥰 ya because I am glad we are one day closer to something we are leading to in this story.

(Warning: totally free hoon, being driven to the destination so thoughts are free flowing. Chappals still welcome but in pairs, non-returnable.😅)

I did not watch the episode today! It is for obvious reasons. I wanted to avoid the screaming match so I can take the dose at once instead of everyday haha

Is jealousy to be seen as a sign of love? I know, much as we have been celebrating Virat's disappointment after witnessing Sai flirt with Amey, his anger-hangover is actually out of jealously. Yes, there is a factor of him wanting Sai to learn to use her combat skills more judiciously, and we all agree, but today, he was acting because his jealousy blinded him to a lot of extent. So much that even Ashwini -- thank God she finally spoke when needed and the right words-- had no effect in calming him down.

That is very unlike of Virat. I think in the past when he has needed to vent or yell, he has always called Sunny. Speaking of, I don't see Sunny around, maybe that's why he vented it all out on Sai. He was extremely calm and composed when Sai came to his house to make sure she doesn't feel any discomfort from his side. This changing roop of his is interesting to say the least. We have heard him tell Kaku and in the future Pakhi that times change and people change. Could this be a Virat 2.0? A calm guy who now is bringing out his Shiv (his nickname 'Shiva') side because the woman who affects him so much that he not even aware of what he is doing and maybe even why ... everyone has their own set of problems w Sai and now even him. Is he really upset at how Sai talks w elders or just w him? Maybe both but the trigger was the sweet talk w Amey. His rationale was really confusing even in the room fight, one moment he said watch how you talk w elders and then he changed the topic to how can you tlk like that w Amey!? So was he really affected by how she talks w elders THAT much? It doesnt seem so 😆

There were two jealous people in that room today (many, actually but two arising out of 'love'). One was 'blinded by jealousy' and the other 'delusional due to morbid jealousy'. Which one was better if the two? Aap batao.

Why do I say "blinded by jealousy" - because Virat knew honest-to-goodness that both his mother and Sai cannot be wrong in principle. He could actually even see how the entire Makad Sena pounced on Sai and any one coming to her aid-- aaj toh Karishma ko bhi itna confidence aa gaya, otherwise she is generally scared of opening her mouth in front of Virat. Did Virat not know that Sai must have been provoked? Of course, he knew.

But he was in such a vulnerable state given the insecurity arising out of his own feelings for Sai that he actually ended up giving each one of the undeserving members a chance to have a go at Sai, that piddi karishma included. I always say, the respect accorded to a woman in a household depends on how much respect her husband gives her. It was for Virat to see and acknowledge when he has calmed down what his one moment of anger has done -- it has given everyone the feeling that Sai can now be treated like a doormat.

I feel like in this, he may have shown he is taking a step towards Sai but this might trigger Sai to take 2 steps backwards. He will keep trying to make her understand how she should behave w him or be with him but bc of his behavior and her MU and his vaada, she will not understand. He really needs time to introspect but i think he thinks its nothing so he will not take this time and just keep asking Sai to "behave".

Thank you, Ashwini, for finally speaking up! I wish you had done it earlier and I wish you continue to speak at the right moments. And while you are at it, please also speak facts --- tell your son the truths about the incidents that occurred and also the people he thinks are 'traditional'. Tell him that his spineless father threatened his wife with physical harm and, perhaps, you too have been a victim of it earlier. He needs to know so that he can tell toxicity from traditions -- he is neither unintelligent nor spineless. He is misguided and conditioned to conceal feelings and words. And that is exactly what is ailing him right now -- his inherent conditioning to just supress feelings that may 'go against' something 'virtuous' like holding on to a vain promise.

I'm so glad she finally spoke up! I want a scene where he apologizes to his mom and actually he tells him what Ninad did. I don't understand why they don't show ind scenes w Son-Mom, Son-Dad, Son-Sister, Sister-Mom, etc. I have been craving to see the Son-Mom relationship they share bc it seems like such a sweet one. We know Ashwini understands her son, but he proved that he doesn't understand his mom today. She can tell what's going on w him but has he ever really been there for anyone in the house as a support system? Maybe that's why it's so hard for them to digest this Virat. Had he really ever stood up for his mom or spent time w her, he would know what she thinks about Pakhi and how everyone else is...has this guy lived in a bubble his entire life!?

But wo kya hai na, when the feeling of "oneness" starts progressing towards the feeling of being "the one", jealously is a byproduct of insecurity. Virat has reached that stage. He did not want to make Sai fall in the line of tameez as much as wanting to 'end' the riot in the zillat arena. And he was too tired to take all of them on.

True. He said a few bad things -- to Sai and Ashwini but the most offending of his comments was asking Ashwini if she was backing Sai because she wanted to fire at Ninad and Bhavani over Sai's shoulders! I didn't find the Kamal Joshi remark very distasteful because I am giving it a benefit of doubt : he has seen Kamal Joshi helplessly screaming at Sai to ask her to refrain from her impoliteness in some situations. He was in the same boat -just reminding her that her father also always told her to mind her tongue. But that remark to Ashwini was distasteful. It's almost like a team member suddenly deciding to play a match from the other team 😑

Ashwini asked the right questions : most importantly : "Aaj aisa kya ho Gaya that you cannot see?" I am keen to see how he reacts to this question. 😆

Answer is "petty jealousy" for a feeling he's not even acknowledging. And in that moment, sorry to say, but he turned into a man who wanted to see if his 'wife' was going to follow his instruction.

A part of him was also in despair -- he just wanted to end the assault even if it meant surrendering for once because he knew the bigger storm is about to arrive.

But he also had a couple of moments of realisations:

- He did not miss the desperation with which Despokhi was trying to incite Sai."Bas Karo Dono" was a consolation.

She is irritating on screen but bringing them together unknowingly by saying "tumahri Sai" or "tumhari biwi" hehe

I actually would have wished a better character graph for Pakhi. Right now no one can sympatize or justify her actions. Had she too been a bold but the "sunskari"part, it would have been much more interesting to see Pakhi vs Sai equation w Virat. Maybe even show her liking Sai only for the sake of Virat ...how would Virat handle that and would he still fall for Sai? and how? Why does one woman always have to be negative for the husband and wife to fall in love? Can't they both fall in love despite the other woman being good/grey just because he is simply drawn to Sai? This would have given Pakhi's character such depth

- He did not miss the contempt his family has for Sai or anyone who stands with her -- in his vulnerable state he just wants this to change as soon as it can but it won't. His "Kaku please" for Bhavani calling his Aai a 'barveen' pass and therefore beneath the level of the aadarsh BA Pass and MA Pass was not enough 🤮🤢 This Kaku and her susheel bahu need to go to a de-addiction centre. They are smoking too much power and pretense to be oientated to reality. Did you regret at that moment, Virat? But jealousy was too overpowering today.

Itna jealous that he joined the gang in insulting Sai today? or didn't even try to stop? I find this Virat very shocking and surprising bc that's not who we have seen all this time. He can go to any extent to make Sai listen to him...was it about how she talked w elders or how she talked to him and for once when he did his serious Sai, she still didn't listen..was it about that!? I think a big yes - it was. We have seen her always listen to him when he says Sai, in a serious tone, but yesterday and today- she didn't. Did that hurt his ego? (all speculative questions bc I havn't watched the episode)

- He noticed that the people with the same set of values (and lack of it) were standing together in the same team and the one moment where Devyani kissed Sai made him smile in the middle of his muddled behaviour (Chavan saheb, don't even think you're going to get the chance to do that yet 😐😑)

- Shivani's reminder of his outburst last night --- she's actually the only one who may even tell him someday that he was jealous 😜 because am sure she spotted it right but isn't in the frame of mind now.

- He also cringed at Bhavani's references to the daughters of the house as 'grahan' -- ab ye Susheel bahu ke missing in action Pati and Bhavani ke doosre chaheete bete ki biological gayab mother Mansi kis category wali beti hai? 🤔 Aadarsh ya Grahan? And this Omkar? Isko beti isiliye Nahi di hai bhagwaan be. What is his aukaat? Thank you again, Ashwini!

Really Chavan saheb, I hope you are going to speak tomorrow warna guns are still loaded 😠 not just for Sai but for all those women around you, who have been put in the line of fire because the whole Makad Sena thought another monkey has come home 🐒🙊

Virat will have to apologise to Sai for sure but he should also accord an even bigger apology to his mother, honestly. I really wish that Sai refuses his apology when he has sobered from this hangover until he seeks pardon from his mother --- the only one who really loves him and has stood by him in his worst moments.

They will be fighting again, bhagwan help them haha we are getting into the fighting phase of their relationship..waise honeymoon period kafi short tha haha

How true were Ashwini's words - ye ladki apna gaon, apna Ghar chhodhh Kar tumhare Saath yahan rehne aayi Hai... These are such simple and raw words but not everyone gets the depth of it. A woman is expected to detach herself from her own identity, her family, her individuality just so that she can join in with the man she marries and then carry the burden of the expectations from his family -- deserving or undeserving. She must toe the family lines, respect the disrespectful and always remember that she will be an outsider until the approval from a matriarch or patriarch of the house, no matter what kind of bond she shares with her husband or not. I LOVED how Ashwini reminded him that his 'wife' had come along with him only with the trust she had in him and no one else. That 'trust' did not deserve this kind of sudden shaking off the hand she has been holding.

I felt Sai went overboard with her retorts yesterday until Virat arrived but, today, she was absolutely right in not budging about tendering apology to the Makad Sena. They don't need it. But in the process, Virat has ended up pushing Sai to another space, which she will contemplate only once she's finished the task of handling Amey and proving Shivani innocent -- the adrenaline rush about the act coming up has not allowed her the space to soak in Virat's behaviour entirely yet. It's just come as a 'shock'. I wish Sai uses her calm mind to discern what happened and ask the right questions 😐

This is the second time they sparred in full public view -- the first was when Sai was adamant about going out to meet the DIG, even taange tudwake the son of the house, for Virat. Incidentally, this time too, she's prepared to bear any kind of humiliation, accusations and curses for someone else - this time, it is the daughter of the house. A house that she doesn't even think as her own, yet she does.

It is such an irony that the household that breathes their false sense of pride into your face needed an 'outcast' to defend their actual prestige. Like she told Virat the other day when she defended Shivani: "Pehle Apne Ghar walon ke aankhon par jo patti bandhi hai, wo utaarne ki zaroorat hai humein." And took it upon herself to prove her point. Wasn't it evident today why she thought it was needed. Because her 'chhote chhote kandhe' are also the strongest of them all.

What a contrast it was --- Sai, the hated badtameez bahu wanted to fight for the dignity of the daughter of the house while the aadarsh bahu wanting to pull her down and maintaining "Silence" during ill treatment to every other woman in that house, who doesn't qualify the 'susheelta' parameters. And then the third one, fence sitting and waiting for opportunities to display her wannabe susheelta.

And morbidly Jali Hui Didi ke hallucinations ke baare me toh kya bolein... Ye Nashik yoga camp wali breeze aaj bhi face ko chhu rahi thi but ye kya, expression toh ekdum unchanged tha 😆 waise, Didi badam Nahi khati kya (agli Baar ration list me add Karwa lena Apne liye) She forgot ki last time public me navra Baiko Ka jhagda hone ke baad it was Didi who left the house not Sai 😂🤣... I am actually loving it that she has no idea whatsoever why her imaginary husband is so livid with his Baiko 😅 she doesn't know why his love eyes aren't coming and settling on her susheel face -- they are only eyes of cynicism now. She was not smart at all in her attempt to incite Sai and I am amazed how firmly Sai has resolved to not fall for Despokhi's trap even while shutting her up😎.

"Aur Kitna neeche gir Sakti ho?" She asks 🤣😅

Didi, Didi, don't worry she will not beat you at least in this competition. Wo Kitna bhi neeche gire, aap ke upar bhari padegi 😐

Sai, this is exactly what is needed in the rest of the case too, which is what your exasperated husband wants to say, setting aside his jealousy for today. Someone tell the Mallika-e-Maturity that "mere aai Baba ne mujhe sikhaya hai" wala monotonous ghisa pita dialogue is not working with her imaginary husband because he has seen through and felt the indecent vibes coming from his jilted saas-sasur 🤣😅 and decided to keep her at double-arm's length for the sake of his real-deal-wali Baiko's honour.

Have you noticed she repeats exactly what everyone else says to Sai? When someone says wht did your father teach you, she says my mom and dad taught me blah blah I see a pattern of gaslighting

If the fight happens in front of Pakhi and Virat doesn't tell Pakhi this is between me and her, i honestly think he will need to build his character. Or they are misrepresenting Virat's character from what was shown to what now is...OR has he always been this way and just was showing one side of him? Now his shades are all coming out. Maybe bc he was hiding and doing what everyone else thought he should do or show...now w Sai, we see him coming out alive and showing us who he really is..not really calm and composed when it comes to himself and what he wants..

There is a Marathi saying: Tichya sarv dukhhnyache Karan Pati viyog aahe (She is missing her husband which is the real cause of all her complaints and ills). Patthar-lekha is getting a lot of leeway because of this cloak she has. She will soon let that slip too when she realises how 'blended' Virat and Sai are they the scope for separating one from the other has moved beyond the realm of their physical existence.

I am still hoping that Virat will get a grip of his logical side tomorrow as he already began showing signs towards the end today and his instinct to protect Sai (and him) from the vultures waiting to prey on them will be on the top again. Although if you ask me, he has done quite a bit of damage today to his own team. Kya karoge, Chavan saheb? When sense knocks back into your head, who should you say sorry to first -- Sai, Aai ya Shivani? Yes, I think even Shivani deserves a small apology of courtesy for the outburst you had in front of her. And yes, Sai is Baar sorry Nahi bolegi. Sochna bhi mat. 😑

Hopefully you will get a firm grip of your own emotion just like the collar of that man who's totally swallowed you up after you witnessed that painful flirting by the Baiko. Aamhi vaat baghtoy, saheb 😎 tab tak, one song for you:

Mujhse zyada mere jaisa

Koi hai toh hai tu

Phir na jaane dil mera kyun

Tujhko na de saku

Kuch toh hai jo dil ghabraye

Kuch toh hai jo saans na aaye

Kuch toh hai jo hum hotho se

Kehte kehte keh na paaye

Yahan tak aa Gaye ho toh ye gaana bhi sun lena aur mera heartfelt aabhar bhi accept Karna 🙏🙏 I just heard and so had to use it 😅

wah! which song is this?

Have a lovely day my lovelies! 💞 If you are also waking up with some unresolved issues today, write on your heart that today will be the best day of your life. Go, and own it!

And what better than going at it with a cup of coffee ☕: cappuccino, espresso, latte or mochacinno -- whatever you like. Brew it, smell it, have it and live it. Coffee and kindness ❤️

Hugs, kisses and dher saara pyaar

Love you all

J

OH THANK YOU!!! i need this energy today!! Have ton of work to finish, I will just keep telling my heart that it will be the best day of my life! <3

Originally posted by: BlueJayFire

Lovely sum up as always and I love reading your posts. superbly narrated and the ones in blue are my favourite..I had to literally fast forward when didi spoke up..No one is asking her to speak and Karishma...what the hell was that..Now even she has rights to speak up?? Omi...please go hide in a corner, I have only one pair of chappals and dont intend to lose them by directing at you. With all due respect to elders and even if you are married to the love of your life, my recommendation would be to stand up and fight, settle now.. you are better off. These are for long term. I had to do it and I had done it. Much peaceful life I have now with my husband and two kids. Ofcourse my in-laws also visit, stay with us, with no drame or no instigation. Because they know to what lenghth I can do..

I am on Sai's side, regardless of her short temper, cheek, chillao in room or zillat..Pay less heed to others thoughts or feelings, speak your mind.

Thank you for sharing your experiences. It makes it so much more worthwhile when we hear stories from each other and see how different our experiences may be but how much we can still have in common! And, of course, as women we often walk the tight rope, especially when the woman is expected to balance her individuality with thoughts of those who are unwilling to acknowledge her in the first place. It is unfair but it is also why God has made women stronger than men. Yes, we are! Lots of love to you and also your daughter (I hope i am not mixing up this with some other's post) ❤️🤗

Super post janki as always🤗.I also enjoyed todays episode mainly bcoz that chakram fools were dancing with joy thinking virat finally comes to his senses. Little did they know about the actual reason behind chavan Saab outburst.

I saw a parallel bw bhavani and despokhi.please clear it for me sweety.....

Despokhi wanted to take sais place in virats life.likewise bhavani wants to be virats mom.i dont know y but I get this feeling after watching todays episode.Both dont love him but they wants to own him that's they want the right to say he is my IPS son (bhavani)or he is my husband (for pakhi)

We know paakhi is jealous of sai likewise I get a jealous vibe from TMK in 2days episode (may be from the dialog bhavani told virat," virat doesnt listen to anybody aside saas bahu duo.bhavani used saas bahu an indirect relationship instead of using Mother wife when mentioning ashwani & sai.its like bhavani doesn't want to acknowledge ashwani as virats mother.And ashwanis dialog starting with meri beta ....seems like a mothers pride in saying virat is my son not yours bhavani.

Also the way bhavani describes her own daughter is like 🤢she is cursing her very existence 😈.please clear it maybe my mind is playing games with me😔.It got me confused

(Like u, I too was traveling. 4 hrs solo driving with bickering 7 and 4 year old kids.For a second I wonder whether whole makkad gang ki aathma came and sit on my cars backseat🤣.)

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

I love you for that explanation here hope everyone read it....

This is true whatever he says is only words but in reality he wants to own the woman he's married to.....

His man ego which triggered his jealousy more, he said it to Sai but unfortunately for several valid reasons Sai did not catch what he really intended to say....

instead of asking him why she continued to think about her plan.

Thank you Anju dear 🤗 It's you who started this chain of thoughts with your previous message. But it is true that all men have egos of a different kind. And, i do not generalise any qualities because there are exceptions to the rules but well there is a basic difference in the way men and women deal with things, expect things and react when their expectations are not met.

Sai has not 'completely' understood because, in her mind, she's certain that he cannot live, eat or sleep without Pattharlekha (thanks to her overhearing his side of the conversation with Sunny) but she did catch him trying to "impose his pasand" as a "husband" and so she very deliberately told him she hasn't promised anything like that. If she actually understood what he meant to say, she wouldn't have said it the way she did 😆

Originally posted by: sukri

In a way it makes sense that he wants this fight to be over . He would be like raat bhar I prepared and came down with arguments for a different fight to defend Sai's honor, but now this fight is out of syllabus, so let me fail😆

It would also be nice if he had said Sai , tumhe pata hai na aage aaj kya hone wala hai, so why are you wasting your energy on this.

Oh you summed it up so well He actually did prepare for that Amey drama and the family launching assault at Sai but this was and he was just desperate to end it, whichever way. And for a change he wanted to appear that he wasn't being a blind supporter of the badtameez wife simply because a more vile accusation (character assassination) is on it's way. He won't be able to take it 🤔

So PP is getting bolder it seems, I am actually excited to see if she will actually scheme/ plot anything or just bol vachan.

Bengali version me toh I think she was only able to walk through the passage outside their bedroom all the time and bring one of Sai's college mates to the bedroom while Virat was away and then feign an imaginary pregnancy with the imaginary husband, which the imaginary husband's real medico wife caught immediately 🤣 apni Pattharlekha ka pata nahi uske "aai baba ne aur kya kya sanskaar diye hain"

TBH if its just a quarrel between them I don't mind. (I still have hopes of what we discussed this morning in another post 🤣)

It is also possible that this is the first time he is feels jealous (Though wouldn't he have been like this during Samrat-Pakhi marriage or was it more of sadness than jealously).

A tinge of jealousy but not this much. He was abe to hand over the mangalsutra to Samrat without imagining himself tying it around her 🤣 and he ran away to Gadchiroli at the first chance he got 😆

So Tai giving Sai a kiss makes him smile, so hoping he will stop fighting after that.

I hate that they are milking this bua storyline as much as they can. I was hoping they will wrap it up tomorrow, but looks like its going to last till Thursday.

Originality ko side me rakh diya hai toh phir kya bolein 🥱

Originally posted by: Blackwind

Hey once again an awesome post 👍🏼but going by the reviews for today's episode(haven't actually watched it yet),it doesn't deserve such an awesome post😆 felt so better just by reading this...no need to watch the episode now😛😆

It was a good episode, not what we would want early morning but it was well done by the entire cast.

@bold I think the way PP has been obsessed with Virat, at this point she just doesn't want him to settle with his wife...she is satisfied just by seeing them like this,at loggerheads with each other than being the understanding couple they were since their wedding...this is what has been pissing Sai off since the start...she hate it when PP sees them fighting and seeking pleasure from it

yes that's true. She knows she cannot get him now. So, she won't allow them to settle and be happy "at her cost". She will hurt Sai to hurt Sai and more to hurt Virat.

@janki she got sai's college mate to her bedroom? Then what happened? Just curious..

Originally posted by: Ishradivani

I may also fall in the minority of ppl who actually liked today's episode !!!!!!!

YAY!!!!

Yes I liked it because it was a mirror of all the idiots in that pagal niwas.

Totally, I just loved it for the fact that Virat even knew what must have happened. He knows his chakrams can never be innocent. He actually even told her in his rage the previous night, "Maana ki sab galat hai lekin tum aise baat kyun karti ho..." but she didn't allow him to finish.

Virat was a confused soul who just wanted sai to say sorry so that the matter ends .... Nothing more nothing less

End that petty fight and prepare to welcome "Amy Baby".

His behavior with ashwini is definitely not acceptable.... He needs to set this right

Agree 👍🏼

But amidst all the shouting , I can say that virat mentally made note of all the points the family hurled at sai and ashiwini. His disapproval was clearly evident on his face. If not for the jealousy that has blinded him , today would have been a showdown in chavan niwas.

Obviously, his heart was still on fire but he was still able to gauge every taunt and it was hurting him to see that she was ready to hear all that but not end it. The showdown might still happen, but may be not. It depends on how far the Makad Sena and spokesperson go in character assassinating the 'biwi'.

All the words he used at sai don't have any deeper connect. I felt those were words which he blurted out of impatience . He didn't want this fight to happen in the first place and in the haste of putting the fire down he chose the easy targets who he felt wil actually bow down. Had virat tried to reason with chavans it would have been a much bigger bawal so he chose easy targets. And the jealousy factor definitely topped the entire thing. His face expressed his displeasure at all the remarks of chavans and the susheel bahu ( I actually feel like using ashleel for her bcoz she has officially crossed all limits in her zidd of having virat toy)

Totally 👍🏼

No I don't support virst in anyway . He was downright disrespectful to both the ladies of his life. What I mean to emphasize here is the lack of connect between his words and feelings. I believe he will regret each n every word spoken today . If he doesn't then it's a classical case of butchering ML.

I would not mind this one bad behaviour if he makes up for it to Ashwini. Sai, of course, he will have to. 😆 Because, everyone has emotions and why should we expect the male protagonist to not be vulnerable or 'wrong'.

Also sai should not apologize to them period. Better be if virat apologizes to his mother and wife in front of his family and the A bahu .

Chalo ashwini spoke up today ..... And hope she keeps raising her voice against his lot of idiots. I really loved herevery dialogue today .

In simple words PP just wants " sai virat ek doosre se jhagda kare ya phir donom usse jhagda kare ". There is no redemption for her . It would be cringeworthy if they actually pair her with samrat after his return

Samrat story has so much potential. But copy paste mein kya hoga! 😒

And I am on Sai's side how much ever she shouts and picks battles because that poor soul has been put through a lot in that mad household . The way she takes a stand for herself is commendable !!!!!!

So let's see what's in store for us in the coming days ..... What led to the fight again !!!!!!!

Originally posted by: VioletOrchid123

Well written 👏

Both pp and virat are insecure in their own ways... Pp because she knows she has already lost virat to sai... Now she's desperately trying to make sai fall in virat's eyes... Its more like if I can't have him then noone else can have him too.

Also avenging the "heartbreak" Virat has given her by not fighting for her when she wanted him to.

Virat toh is so insecure that he isnt able to think rationally.... He is doing kuch bhi to hide his frustration and insecurity... Chavaan saab if you keep continuing with this behaviour she will hasten her decision to leave.... Only love and affection can stop her from leaving you.

Sai really needs a hug. Virat also needs one. I mean, can't two people just hug each other without any romantic inclinations? 🤔

Originally posted by: Roch

Very nice post, like someone said it’s better than the actual episode.

Thank you dear 🤗

The episodes have lost all the positivity which your post have

That's a huge compliment

For couple of days I think I will stick to your posts instead of watching the episode

A hurt man, would look for opportunities to hurt the people he loves and that is what is being done

Agree. Hurt man hurting those he thinks he rightfully can.