Is jealousy really a sign of love? - Page 4

what a post ❤️ Janki🤗

ek baath tho tey hai that virat has started to see 'true colors of his pyaari si family' currently chavan family members are on cloud 9 to see virat shouting sai. but little do they know that virat is only upset with her cuz of the way she talks to his family members. this doesn't mean that he 'supports' everything his family said or did. They will surely start insulting sai even in front of virat now as according to them virat is on their side now, so soon just like pakhi, this kaku and gang will also stoop in his eyes, that is for sure.

abhi virat ki nazron mein his family is 'hum saath saath hai' family.

but soon he will see that his family is 'Rishton Ka Saudagar' family.

virat thinks sai should adjust with his family members even though she doesn't like his family because he thinks zindagi mein 'kabhi khushi kabhie gham' hote rehte hai and this just the 'phase' of a new bahu finding it difficult to adjust in her sasural.

if they keep on insulting sai and other ghar ke aurath in front of him he will soon understand and will himself think 'Maryada: Lekin Kab Tak?'

As usual great analysis dear

Chavan saab ko samjh nehi raha hai aakhi unke dil mein chala kya raha hai isliye apna gussa unpe utar rahe hain jinhe woh pyar karte hain

Sai as a flirt passed with flying colours!!!

Sai ne Amey se kaha ki mere pati mujhe pyar nahi karte, meri zaroorton ka dhyan nahi rakhte..etc etc...

Just a thought, use add karna chahiye tha.. mere pati mujhe immature and bacchi samjhte hain..kahte hain ki unki best friend ke liye jo unke mann mein pyar/dosti hai woh mein samajh nahi sakti and mujhe usi best friend se maturity ke lessons lene ki salah dete hain..ab mein medical ki padhai karun ya maturity classes lun...

Amey subah ki jagah raat ko hi dauda chala aata.....

And Virat subah zillat arena mein drama hi nahi kar paata...

Jaannnkkkkiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!!!! (Yes, it's back to the multiple i's again, kyunki Jaannuuuuuuuu forbidden hai)😉. 'home', the ultimate destination where stories begin, love blossoms and hopes never let your dreams die. Oooohhhhh! Poetry! Stories begin huh?? Tumhara story mujhe pata hi hai... aur agar main by chance kabhi author banungi, toh pehle tumhari story likhungi😉

Trust me babe... even I was actually thinking of posting something along the same lines, the difference between the feeling of jealousy between Virat and Pakhi. Thank god nahi kiya😆

As much as I resented the kind of words he used in today's episode, I didn't hate him for what he said to Sai (let me be specific... what he said to Ashwini was unforgivable in my opinion). He is human after all. And as Ashwini and Sai often point out, he does not speak out about his feelings, and this is taking a toll on him. Especially in this case, when his feelings are all over the place. Even if he wants to speak out, he doesn't know what he should say and what he shouldn't, because he hasn't come to terms with what Sai means to him.

And yeah! He does want Sai to learn the art of tactfully dealing with people, but the jealousy was evident... and the "Mujhe pasand nahi hai." dialogue sealed that.

But whatever happened between the two of them in the room was just between the two of them. He could say anything to her and vice versa, and there is scope for sorting it out properly later. But, that fight in front of the Makad gang was an unfortunate event. He does know that Sai only retorts back when she is provoked, but his jealously blinded him at that moment because he still wasn't over it, and he just acted out... and it is one of the most humane reactions I've seen from Virat after the complaint wala outburst.

And Ashwini👏 After the Mirch peesne wali episode, I was really really mad at Ashwini, but today, she won my respect again! She didn't just try restraining Virat, but she also directly told him that it was the "Ghar ki Bade" who were at fault, not bothering about the repercussions she would face later.

And yeah, about what Virat said to Ashwini, he is supposed to know the consequences of such statements, especially when surrounding by the ever-ready Makad gang. Thanks to this statement, Makad Gang can now harass Ashwini for having a personal vendetta against them and using Sai as a weapon against them. More having a hard time convincing Sai, he should have a hard time convincing Ashwini, because she is the one who has unflinchingly stood by him even when everyone else gave up. Virat, my boy, you have a lot to make up for...

- He noticed that the people with the same set of values (and lack of it) were standing together in the same team and the one moment where Devyani kissed Sai made him smile in the middle of his muddled behaviour (Chavan saheb, don't even think you're going to get the chance to do that yet 😐😑)

^That small scene actually made me feel so warm. That gentle smile that Virat gave, it exuded pride - at the way Sai could handle his Devi Tai, at the way Devi Tai warmed up to his wife out of all people (him included), and at the way Sai handled her with so much love and understanding rather than just shunning her despite everything she was going through.

Really Chavan saheb, I hope you are going to speak tomorrow warna guns are still loaded 😠 not just for Sai but for all those women around you, who have been put in the line of fire because the whole Makad Sena thought another monkey has come home 🐒🙊

^Main toh zyada ummeed nahi rakhungi because another fight is coming up. Sai, please be ready with you pillow, blankets, clutch and everything else. Pack karke Shivani bua ke kamre mein move ho jao. Apna kuch bhi mat chodna room mein. Tadapne do Chavan saab ko.

I felt Sai went overboard with her retorts yesterday until Virat arrived but, today, she was absolutely right in not budging about tendering apology to the Makad Sena. They don't need it. But in the process, Virat has ended up pushing Sai to another space, which she will contemplate only once she's finished the task of handling Amey and proving Shivani innocent -- the adrenaline rush about the act coming up has not allowed her the space to soak in Virat's behaviour entirely yet. It's just come as a 'shock'. I wish Sai uses her calm mind to discern what happened and ask the right questions 😐

^I wonder if Sai would actually contemplate the reason for Virat's outburst, or if it would push her further away from him. Maybe she would think that he thinks of her as a burden or something, because in the SBB segment, she asked him something like "Aapko lagta hai ki aapne mere liya bohot kuch kiya hai?".

Sai, this is exactly what is needed in the rest of the case too, which is what your exasperated husband wants to say, setting aside his jealousy for today. Someone tell the Mallika-e-Maturity that "mere aai Baba ne mujhe sikhaya hai" wala monotonous ghisa pita dialogue is not working with her imaginary husband because he has seen through and felt the indecent vibes coming from his jilted saas-sasur 🤣😅 and decided to keep her at double-arm's length for the sake of his real-deal-wali Baiko's honour.

^Her "mere aai - baba ne sikhaya..." was such a pathetic dialogue. Of course, your aai-baba are the epitome of respect. That's why as soon as his Baiko returned from your house, Chavan saab asked her "Sabne tumse acche se peshaya na?"🤣

I am still hoping that Virat will get a grip of his logical side tomorrow as he already began showing signs towards the end today and his instinct to protect Sai (and him) from the vultures waiting to prey on them will be on the top again. Although if you ask me, he has done quite a bit of damage today to his own team. Kya karoge, Chavan saheb? When sense knocks back into your head, who should you say sorry to first -- Sai, Aai ya Shivani? Yes, I think even Shivani deserves a small apology of courtesy for the outburst you had in front of her. And yes, Sai is Baar sorry Nahi bolegi. Sochna bhi mat. 😑

^I'm giving him time till this week end, kyunki ek aur fight bhi baaki hai. Lekin pata nahi Baiko utna time degi ya nahi. And Sai would never apologise after this. But Chavan saab, you be ready with all kinds of apologies you know. Warna internet pe search karo "Roote piya ko kaise manaun?". Kuch ideas milenge😉

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

Really he wanted her to obey him by calling amay and telling him she will not meet him...Before Virat amay called Sai Baby and told her I love you.

Virat sir thoda late ho gaye..otherwise na ye jhagda hota n insecurity...

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

Still he's dying in jealousy for the frog in the well.

He wants this frog only for himself....

So he better be a well of emotions and security for Sai(the frog) so that she doesn't need the outside world and feels safe in his embrace n ambience

Is it really jealousy ??

He has grown in that household maybe to an extent some type of toxicity is normalised??

Is this it ? How did he question his mother?

All this J in relationships of ITV are silly ..for relationships to really work you need open communication and most imp respect.

Plus respect is earned and not just coz of age. I may be softer and nicer if the person is older but if they say something that is against my principals I will argue my point. I once have beaten up a person who tried to manhandle me in public transport. My mom was like let bro handle it. But bro just stood behind me when I slapped that guy and did not interfere

But maybe some may not agree with me. But person is a build by circumstances and environment they grow.

Respect to agree to disagree,

respect that other person may have a different way if dealing with situations and trust that other person will handle it

Originally posted by: deepthi2014

So he better be a well of emotions and security for Sai(the frog) so that she doesn't need the outside world and feels safe in his embrace n ambience

Originally posted by: deepthi2014

Virat sir thoda late ho gaye..otherwise na ye jhagda hota n insecurity...