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Posted: 10 years ago
#31
Nice topic ...
but as a reader ... I can't accept it completely... :-P
Hehehe...
I read all the follow comments of Writers as well... And I read their story ...
and about Geet should be given equal opportunity .. like Maan ...
hmmm ... I used to think why Geet forgive him so easily ... and I have no compliant if Geet leave Maan ...
I think he deserve more...
but I am Okey the way story proceed ..and about ..like and comment ...
I try my best ..to do both.. but sometimes .. whole msg got cleared or it shows error ..and I read in phone ... so I couldn't even check if reply is posted or not...
I read in almost whole update... leaving just 18+ I can't understand that and I skip that ...
but about commenting only for Maaneet ..that I don't do... I read all update... without skipping other characters and I do write about them ..
I enjoy every idea of Writers that they include in the story... and about appreciating their efforts... plot , concept , character sketch , emotions and relationship of characters...
I took them more important ...
and I can't understand a story if it doesn't have prologue and character sketch o_O..
Hehehe...
some sentimental scene have made me cry ... and how it can be possible if I don't like writer unique ideas for their stories ...
I have forget how many times I have cried ...
In my comments I write what I feel instant .. after reading an update ..
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Umm... Even I was thinking to leave reading ..but then... I can't leave reading..greedy me... but the day I won't have access to any story I will ... leave ...
well If any one don't like my comment. then sorry ... I comment What I feel...
I don't know what to speak ..O:-)
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Posted: 10 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: Deepabhargav

I am a reader and not a writer...I am a part of this forum as I am a die hard fan of Maneet and remain connected to their character through this.Kudos to all the writers who are helping us with this.[/DIV]

All ffs are the creative expression of who so ever writes it...absolutely no one and I mean one one has the right to ridicule their perception of what they want to do with their characters, and expect them to change their flow of thoughts about their story as they have perceived it.

We are in an open forum with people from all over the world with various backgrounds they have their perceptions about dos and donts in their lives and the characters they adore...they too have their pov.This doesn't at all give them the authority to bash the writers but at the same time when the writers are asking their pov they are expressing it with full honesty,as writers you need to appreciate their pov without changing ur thought process about your piece.

Personally I appreciate stories where equality is given due respect irrespective of the gender,but how many people actually believe in it even today,inequality is an integral part of our society,however unfair it maybe we still are judgemental about women's characterisation and perceive them as sacrificial lamb at the alter with the highest moral values with not a streak of grey only as pure as white...men however black should always be given a chance to be winged under the purity of a women.
Selfishness sexual desires boldness are given words of wh**e and s**t for women ...this what are society is however right or wrong.
Geet is a character which people have seen as a damsel in distress waiting for her maan so that's what many want to read...I guess.But dear writers don't change the path of your story,somewhere down the line you all might bring the slight change in their minds,don't get disturbed by their thoughts comments are for knowing the people but not getting influenced if you are not convinced
You all want Comments and pov of readers ,take them as an experience and understanding readers so that through your writings you can bring a change.
A small note for my reader friends,if you are looking at a particular type of characterisation for your particular favourite character instead of bashing our writers please abstain from stories which don't fuel your desires.Dont ridicule a writer it's his perception .Try changing your mindset after all we are looking for equality and freedom in every sphere of life

Thanks
I hope I was able to get my point across...
Deepa


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Thank you Deepa for putting forward your honest views.

Until recently even I believed that a writer has all the right to do whatever they want to do with their stories and characters. We readers can either give our honest views in the most civilized way or simply refrain ourselves if we dont like how one story is shaping. But we absolutely do not have any right to bash the writer or send her hate pms.

I myself am very open minded to Maan's character as long as I see room for him to grow and redeem himself if he is shown as a Casanova who hurts Geet, humiliates her, cheats on her or abuses her. (not counting rape for it is unforgivable for me) But the moment I feel he has surpassed his limits in a story I leave it rather than bashing the writer. I do request however to give his redemption track so that I dont find him undeserving of Geet. But again it depends on writer if she wants to take the request into consideration or not.

All I ask the readers is to try to be open minded towards Geet as well if you have easily accepted Maan in all his sinful acts.

I am sure when a writer asks for honest views they expect constructive critism instead of straight away bashing of their writing. Cos I know a character gets bashing if he is wrong but that doesnt mean you bash the writer along with it. I myself bash Maan in Jannat-Fictions and she knows where my bashing is serious and where I am joking. But other than her thread I have tried to be sincere and not hurt the writer with my views.

I agree that we live in a society where women are still looked down upon. They are tagged with names and easily judged.

If you ask me, when I started reading FFs I was 20, hardly mature. I loved every FFs that I read and I enjoyed every Playboy Maan and found him cool and a sacrificial lamb and selfless Geet was admirable for me. However, I do used to find it wrong when Maan wronged Geet in worst way possible. Still I loved it when Geet continued to love him unconditionally. But as I said, I grew mature reading stories on this forum and that is true. Now I dont like to read an emotionally and mentally weak Geet. I dont like when she loves Maan even though he has raped her, cheated on her, used her for his sick pleasures. I dont respect such Geet now when she has unreal goodness and is selfless. I have completely stopped reading such stories where Geet is weak mostly. I like Geet where she is strong, mature, independent, bold, lives her life on own terms and has a spine and knows to stand for herself and her self respect. So if I can realize this by reading stories then I wish that others do it sooner. Nothing makes a woman happy if she is disrespectful and treated like dirt.

What you said about writers not taking readers lashing at heart, I guess we wouldn't understand it until we face similar situation. I am sure the person knows how it feels when they recieves hate pms.

Anyway... Once again thank you for dropping in.

-Sanjana!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Madhuri53

For the second post,


I too enjoy the side character. I don't have any problems that the full update is based on some side couple. But still enjoy MG parts more. Read lot of stories of best writers so sometimes reading other stuff doesn't satisfies my hunger for good story or update. If I loose interest in story then also I stick to that story till end but then my comments are shorter or two liner or sometimes I tell clearly write that update was ok.


Regarding the names I don't stick to MG names only. I read lots of books / stories on Wattpad / novels etc. So MG name is not necessarily important. Still I prefer MG names as I love them immensely and can easily connect to them and prefer MG stories reading first than on Wattpad or novels.


Regarding rape issues. I don't like anybody using such plot for story. If I come to know that it based on rape then I stop reading that story or if it comes in bet the stories then skip such parts. Other violence are ok upto some extent as it was needed for the story.


I hate reading when geet shown as nave, innocent, damsel in distress etc. Agree with you.


Yes, equality should be shown bet maan & geet and same treatment should given to both. But again I am only reader and it is upto the writer what he/she gives us to read. They have freedom to write what they want. We can't blame any writer and go in bad books of them. Some writers don't like bad comments and appreciate few readers or their friends' comments and ignore other readers comments, it happened with me a lot of times.


Only wish this forum keep going. Writers-readers bond well and give good MG stories to read.


Its my POV and sorry if anybody get hurt.




Thank you Madhuri for putting forward your thoughts.

@First Bold: That is something even I haven't done so far. If I loose interest, sadly I leave the story. I know it's totally unfair but then I also dont want the writer to change anything from her own creation so I choose to stay away than poking my nose in her work. It has happened that I think I should give a reason why I am leaving the story but then I also fear that it would hurt the writer so I simply choose to stay quite. This is a very tricky situation where I really dont what to do.

@Second Bold : I agree to that. Fine if a writer doesnt believe in gender equality. They can show Maan superior. I am not here to force them to show Geet standing upto Maan with head held high. All I am asking is why we bash Geet or the writer who gives a bold, carefree Geet? I am not asking a writer should change her way of writing or change whatever concepts and genre she wants to type on. I am asking the readers to change their mindset over Maan n Geet.

My topic is mostly posed towards the readers than the writers who allows anything and everything Maan does but bash Geet for the same.

I wish the same. Seeing how writers shift stories on blog which is totally fair, I feel one day this forum is going to be a bhoot bangla. 😆

-Sanjana!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: Desire6


SANJU...DAT WAS ONE BIG .ONE...HEHEHH!
BT AS I HAV ALWAYS SAID DAT I LOVE READING UR COMMENTS ON ALL UPDATES...

COMMING TO UR QNS... I BEEN A READER ..CAN SAY DAT..OR WAT I PERSONALLY FEEL OR DO IS

WEN A NEW STORY IS STARTED AT D START..I DONT GET TO KNOW WAT D STORY HOLDS..WHAT IT IS ABT...HA SOME EXCEPTION WERE WRITER PUT PROLOGUE..SO WE HAV A GRIP OF WATS IN STORE..
FRANKLY SPEAKING ..ITS ..D TITLE WHCH GRABS MY ATTENTION..EVEN I HAVE BEEN READING STORIES FOR LAST 2 YEARS...ND I HAVE DONE DAT ONLY ...AT START WEN A STORY IS STARTED I USUALLY DONT COMMENT ..OR SAY I JUS WAIT FOR 2 -3 UPDATES
SO DDAT I HAV A GRIP ON D STORY..DEN DER IS NO LOOKIN BACK.COZ TO ME ...WEN I START READING A STORY..I READ IT TILL END...INSPITE OF UPS N DOWNS IN D STORY..
ND DIS UPS N DOWNS ARE WAT MAKES D STORY STRONG...
BT I CANT REALLY COMMENT Y ..PEOPLE..LEAVE IT IN HALF WEN DER IS SOME DIFFRENT PLOT SHOWN ..APART FROM D LEAD...I HAVE NO ANSWER TO SAME...
SANJU I REALLY LOVE WEN DER ARE SIDE CHARACTER ...ND SACHMAIN ..EK STORY SIRF DO LOGO SAY TOH NAHI BANTI HAI..
WE NEEED MORE ..PEOPLE...ND DATS D REASON I LIKE TO READ MANY STORY WIT MANY PARALLEL LEAD...DER MASTI..DER NOK JOK..DER PAIN DER SORROW...
ND I HAVE MANY TIMES ...EVEN REQUESTED ND COMMENTED TO SHOW OTHER CHARACTER ALSO APART FROM D MAIN LEAD...

COMMIN TO MAIN TOPIC...BINGO ..EVEN I HAVE SAME QN...Y IS IT ..EVERYTIME...
IT HAS TO B A GIRL WHO HAS TO B NAIVE..WHO HAS TO BE INNOCENT...WOH KYA KEHTE HAI.ABLA NAARI..DUKH KE MAARI...
TAKE EG of one STORY WERE ...I AM REALLY WANTING .GEET TO MOVE ON...BT HAD READ ..MANY DISAGREEEING WIT D THOUGHT OF HER MOVING OUT..Y...IF A MAN CAN MOVE ON DISRESPECT HER ...GIVE PAIN DEN Y D HELL IT HAS ALWAYS BE A GIRL WHO SHOULD ENDURE ALL PAIN ND KEEP MUM...
ND NOT HAVE FUN OF HER SIDE...

EVEN I HAD READ STORIES..WERE D LEAD IS ABUSED BY PROTOGANIST.. BT DEN U CAN COUNT ME TOO..WERE I AT A POINT SOMETIMES THINK DAT HE SHOULD B FORGIVE..CONSIDERING DAT IT IS A FICTION...BT I LL SAY IN REAL I WOULD NEVER EVER ..FORGIVE D ONE WJHO DONT KNOW TO RESPECT A GIRL..I WOULD NEVER

EVEN I HAD READ AN OTHER STORY WERE INSPITE OF KNOWING DAT MAN DOESNT LOVE D GIRL...GROOMS FATHER MAKES GIRL MARRY ...FOR HE THINGS...SHE CAN CHANGE HIM...ND IT DOESNT MATTER HOW TRASH HE TREATS HER..OR ACKNOWLEDGE HER IN FRONT OF ALL...
BT IF D SAME IS SHOWN VICE VERSA ..DEN GOD KNOWS ..WAT ALL NAME S
GEET GETS,..HERE...
I TOO FEEL SAD WEN A WRITER HAS TO REPEAT EVERYTIME DAT HAVE PATIENCE U LL GET TO SEE MG TOGETHER IN D END..Y DEY HAV TO SAY DAT ..ITS A FICTION AND WE HAVE TO BE OPEN MINDED TO ACCEPT IT..ND IF WE CANT ..DEN DONT READ IT..ITS DAT SIMPLE..Y TO BASH D WRITER LITERALLY THREAT TO MAKE OR CHANGE D PLOT OR SAY MAKE DEM DISCONTINU IT..
I LIKE TO READ ..DIFFRENT STORIES...BT DER ARE MANY TIMES...EVEN I ASK DEM TO GIVE A HAPPY ENDIGN ...AS I AM A SUCKER OF HAPPY ENDING...BT DEN AGAIN DER ARE MANY INSTANCE WERE A STORY REQUEIE ...TO B DIFFRENT ..BT IT SEEMS DAT ONLY COZ IT IS MG ..STORY ..DEY WANT MANEET TO BE TOGETHER AT THE END..
IRRESPECTIVE OF WAT EVER HAPPENS..

ND SANJU I TOTALLY AGREE..WIT U ..DAT IF A READER HAS TIME TO READ A STORY DEN DEFFO DEY CAN COMMENT FOR D SAME..I ALSO WORK ND HAS BUSY SCHEDULE..ND ITS ALWAYS I READ STORIES FROM CELL..ND COMEMNT ONCE I REACH HOME FROM OFFICE ...COZ I REALLY FEEL..A WRITER HAS TAKE DER TIME ..ENERGY INSPITE OF DER BUSY SCHEDULE TO WRITE A 2000+ STORIES...ND DER ARE WRITERS WHO I PERSONALLY KNOW..INSPITE OF DER PERSONAL PROBLEMS ..DEY TEND TO WRITE FOR US..ND WAT DEY ASK IN RETURN ARE 2 LINES OF APPRECICATION

I AM NOT BASING ANY ONE

coz all HAV FREEDOM TO COMMENT N WRITE WAT DEY FEEL..HERE ITS MY THOUGHT...ND I REALLY REQUEST ALL TO COMMENT ON STORIES IF U HAVE D TIME TO READ IT..

SORY FOR SPELLIN ERROR ...CELL SAY TYPE KIYA..GHAR JANE TAK WAIT NAHI KARNA THA...HEHEH!!

HAVE A NICE DAY
DIVYA






Hi Divya. I did warn the post is big 🤣 Took me quite a guts to post it actually.

Well its the same with me as well. The first thing that attracts me is the title. If title is catchy I go to read prologue or the CS. If I get good vibes I continue it or I close the tab. Of course there are 50 writers out there and one reader can't read every writer's work. Especially like me who have anyway started reading stories after three years to the show going off air. So I am lagging behind. 😆

Well I am myself guilty of leaving a story in mid. Not cos the story turned boring but cos I was off from IF for 2 months last year which resulted in me lagging way too behind on that story. Since then I am trying to catch up to that one story but couldn't. Hopefully will start reading it soon. Talking to you about it is already making me more guilty now. I have habit of writing long comments and that actually takes my time and doesnt give me chance to read new stories more often.

I like side characters or second couple too. It makes the story more interesting.

Same here, I too dont mind forgiving the protagonist when he is shown commiting sins. But I do feel he should redeem himself and if that doesn't happen then I lose interest frankly speaking and eventually quit it too. Cos even though it's a mere fiction, it does leaves an impact on me when the writing is strong and evokes emotions in me. Maybe I am also being very unfair here.

Thanks for dropping in Divya.

-Sanjana!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: anmirza

I would agree that readers need to comment n I always do try to comment on all stories that I read over the weekend at least if not during the week! Slacking off a lil bit on aish's stories but hopefully will catch up insha Allah!
All the characters in the story are important and the other characters need to be given importance as well but that also has to do with how the writers present their stories. For example there's a story Badmaash Dil by Sameera...the way she has written each character and the dialogues would make u go crazy about each character...there's more coverage given to other characters as opposed to MG but her way of writing is amazing...not every writer can do that except for some!
Now coming to people being biased towards Geet and not Maan, some people see me in the same category n I am sorry for not being clear because to me being wrong is wrong no matter who does it...Maan having multiple relationships to me is as disgusting as GEET doing the same...I am not biased towards either...but writers demanding readers to not express their displeasure is beyond me...writers can take liberties and these writers should also give enough liberty to all readers to express their views in a civil way. I will NEVER support writers being personally attacked but yes characters can be bashed! I don't want readers to try to implement their will on the writers to take the story forward according to their wishes because all writers are entitled to their creative liberties but writers will have to also understand that not everyone will agree with their POV but disagreement has to be CIVIL as well n no one should be bashed personally!



Hello. Thanks for dropping in.

I am reading Badmaash Dill and it is indeed one of the best written stories which has so so many characters. MG hardly gets a scene in a whole update but still you won't miss them cos side character's life is as intriguing as of MG. So I really love to read that one story and comment on it.

Coming to the rest of the comment, I dont think a writer has ever refrained a reader from expressing their honest views. Take Tanya aka Jannat-Fictions for example, I am sure you came across my comments on her stories. And she is the only writer along with Ash with whom I am free. I have bashed her characters left right center and she is in fact okay with it. She has never taken my comments on heart and I know I even go overboard on her threads. But it's with her I am so free and she truly doesnt mind it as well. On other writer's threads I try to be in control and dont write stuff getting over enthusiastic.

But it is totally different when a reader calls name to one character and is lenient on the other when he is doing the same. So my question is have people ever called Maan as man wh**e like they do to Geet? Calling someone wh**e is too harsh of a word I feel and it doesn't come under civilized way of expressing. It means one is directly attacking on girl's character which is judgmental IMO. I bash characters as well but name calling is something I guess no writer would want read.

-Sanjana!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree with each n everything sanju a much needed post !!
First of all I don't know when ppl Will be out from this dream that not every maaneet story should b lovestory n if it is a love story than it shouldn't b full of romance of maaneet *Period*
A good story means a good story line ,strong characters be it anyone not only maaneet !!It is sad to see writer getting criticised because they dare to write something different !! Why dont ppl understand simple thing "if u dont like it dont read it " simple !! If I dont find story interesting I stop reading I dont discourage writers!! Why discourages writers definitely if they are writing so they have everything in mind how to move story forward !! why demand romance MG always ??
If u want u urself write romantic story on them !!sometimes as a reader I too get frustrated seeing the comment like why Maaneet isn't together plz show some romance even if story doesn't required it !!
Yes Why ppl use this kind of slang wh*** n sl** for a girl this easily?? When on the other hand they demand forgiveness for maan even after he brutally rape geet ?? I myself seen comments like "geet bhao ku kha rhi sahi h hogae galti she should forgive him ppl do change take it as fictional." Maan do one night stand so girls are desperate for him n he is hot! If geet do one night stand so she is sl** n wh*** n desperate wah bhai !! Then where ur fictional rant goes when geet showed as grey shaded do accept characters as the story line don't be judgemental n go on hating writers for writing different story n geet's character in different way !Agree when we can accept maan's character in different shades so why not geet??
Do criticizes but please be polite not every story n character is perfect but they required healthy criticism not an abusive language for characters or even writer's which lead to writers leaving Geet forum or shifting their work on blog n even worse discontinued on story thread !it is heartbreaking for readers like me to see any story get discontinued or incomplete !!
If u r reading some story n liking it plz hit like button do leave ur feedback it encourages write to write more !! We should thank them because even after being in such a tight schedule they took time to write just for us so that we get to see good update !!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: crazy_sweta

first of all

awesome awesome awesomeee post sweety..

we had tried many approaches to make the forum alive but nothing work..

and when it comes to readings ffs..

few readers are little kanjus in terms of comments
i personally never minded one line comments i m a writer too.. but i understand

But when we type one update of 1000 words we too are excited to read ur comments...on the update.. soo yaa i agree we feel a little bad tiny miny bit when they just comment nice update..or so..

And for the 2nd post..

On gf i think we have a mindset of maan being ruthless as he is in the show and we r ready to accpt that ..but not otherwise..

when a story arises of geet having a dark past.. ..the response isnt what we expected..

i have tainted angel as my ongoing story.. there geet's character is strong yet a little naive.. but when i read comments i feel readers already knw maan can never be wrong.. and there was a scene where geet attacks maan.. and i was sure they will like this..

but there were comments..like geet should have listened to maan na ll


I DONT BLAME READERS every one has their own pov.. so tahts okay

but inequality issue is there i agree...

Now..as far as other characters are concerned..nothing can be done.. i guess here they just enjoy maan n geet moments,,
the story requires other characters too...

also one side of the story which isnt still knwon to many of them is.. there are very few readers who try reading a new writer story...

For those writers who are famous..readers assume that their story will be interesting and fab... and they go for it..

example is sangita's story two brothers

the story is too good..really fantastic.. but the likes and comments are really less..


I used to update regularly inspite of my lappy problems personal problems... But now i dont..because i just dont feel like.. the gf envirnoment is deserted types... i dont feel homely now.. Once it was soo lively ya..

Sanjana..baby ur post is just awesome.. i hope people respond to this.. will love to read their views on this



love
sweta





Thank you for commenting on the thread Sweta.

Coming to your comment, I have been saying the same. I dont mind any Maan unless and until he not a cheater and rapist. Rest I can tolerate.

But the same freedom isn't given to Geet. You yourself shared your experience. You tried giving a tainted Geet and response is less and when she stands for herself specially in front of Maan then she has commited the biggest crime. It's like anything against Maan is unacceptable on this forum. The biased reviews is kind of sad I guess.

About readers trying new writers I absolutely agree. Most of the time I get links through FB actually. Whenever I wander on Geet Forum which actually happens once a while in a month, I do try to read new writer's story. But yes, now I have become quite choosy I guess. If I dont get good vibes from the story I dont read it cos I am apprehensive now of being left disappointed. Definitely need to change that mentally of mine. 😆

-Sanjana!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: BrainEaterOwl




Thank you for commenting on the thread Sweta.

Coming to your comment, I have been saying the same. I dont mind any Maan unless and until he not a cheater and rapist. Rest I can tolerate.

But the same freedom isn't given to Geet. You yourself shared your experience. You tried giving a tainted Geet and response is less and when she stands for herself specially in front of Maan then she has commited the biggest crime. It's like anything against Maan is unacceptable on this forum. The biased reviews is kind of sad I guess.

About readers trying new writers I absolutely agree. Most of the time I get links through FB actually. Whenever I wander on Geet Forum which actually happens once a while in a month, I do try to read new writer's story. But yes, now I have become quite choosy I guess. If I dont get good vibes from the story I dont read it cos I am apprehensive now of being left disappointed. Definitely need to change that mentally of mine. 😆

-Sanjana!


being choosy is alright..

but here people read one update or maybe two and then leave...

have u tried sangeeta's two brothers?? its an completely unqiue concept and amazing one..


here people dont respond to new writers.. seriously i m telling u...

and even the famous ones have to shake their readers to get their attention

but not all readers are sleeping out here few of them are really loyal and love gf who responds to every such post...



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...RIDDHIMA...

A big thank u for the post

U told my mind :v
Y this gender inequality ???
U had mentioned torn in between...I was loving that ff so much but coz of those sick minded readers writer had to quit it...I was so frustrated at those readers that at one point I thought to leave reading ffs -_-
Another guzaarish...
Readers r so dishonest that proves there
When writer threatened readers she'll give sad ending suddenly like n comments increased double!!!
N after some days again decrease in comment!!! -_-

Yes everyone can accept maan as every dark character but when it comes to geet everyone starts pointing at geet!!!
Everyone wants maan to be forgiven !!!
But when it comes to geet everyone starts giving abusing languages!!

Come on when maan is wrong every thigthing is OK but when it comes to geet she's getting abused n also writers!! -_-

About silent readers!!
Some even puts on their signature that too busy n temporary nactive ..thats y short comment!!blah blah...
I wanna ask them isn't the writer is also busy???
When she can spare hours to write for us then y can u just give 5more minutes to comment??
Yah when u r reading u have enought free time but when it comes to comment oh u become world's busiest person!!!

Enough silent readers...at least for humanity sake think about writers POV -_-




Hi Riddhima. Thank you for commenting.

About, Torn In Between or the changed name "Tum Meri Ho", well when I read the story it was discontinued already. I was really really left disappointed and angry that such a beautiful concept which had potential to grow into a fabulous story saw such a fate. The summary that was posted was something that made me really want to read more. I really didn't see anything wrong in Geet having relation with her own husband who was no less than an angel in that story. Yet readers didn't accept the story and forced her to end it so abruptly.

And I absolutely agree that readers are dishonest. When a writer threatens to finish the story in rush or shift to blog then every reader will suddenly have time from their busy schedule and post comments so that they can continue to read it. However they are back to square one when a writer continues giving regular update. We do have unappreciating readers.

-Sanjana!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#40
A very Good Post but sorry to say the very first post of yours.. I mean no reader will understand it coz for them a writer is just a person who only writes and has no life of their own.

They have made their motto of never understanding a writer and their problems so thinking from a writer's POV hm,, tats very difficult for them and specially when there's a certain person who feeds useless things about writers and comments on each comment of hers about how bad writers are in updating...So for me you have done a great work with your post but somewhere the desired result..hmm tat i cant see.

And coming to you equality...

Right i too want to know why it is soo.. I being a writer i did have stories about a Maan who is abuser... a rapist in anger.. a possessive lover and wat not but everyone have read and accepted in but very few genuine readers have gone against him and have asked me not to forgive Maan so easily and I have done tat coz tat wat I plan.. This is a fiction and we cant take it seriously but its a truth tat we have to accept equality for both the lead actors so if Maan is being accepted then Geet should be but somewhere someone or the other does not and tat i hate..

If you simply cant accept it then dont read and bash the writer coz you don't have any right. If you are a modern person who believes in equality then accept Geet and Maan as they are in the story or else just leave it.. I do it.. yes I do want Maan and Geet to be in love with each other in each story but tat does not mean i would want Geet to been virgin and Maan to sleep around.. tat will be crazy from my side and if i dont like a certain story i simply stop reading it... like I have done some stories but its not coz of Geet been a casual one night stander or coz of Maan being casanova.. its coz i simply dont like it.


Next..about likes at the start... i have been a writer for almost 3 years now and at the start i had this problem bt not later and now i get good likes at the start and then just after 2 or 3 updated they decrease to such an extent tat i m forced to think why did i start a new story. anyways tats not a issue for me now coz i have decided to quit the forum forever.

And about the side characters..then i would just say tat no story can be completed with side characters and readers should not ask all only MG and MG..coz then it would be waste writing on Maaneet and if you simply want MG then please do not ever read my stories coz my stories are filled with many side characters tat are very much important just like MG


And last...

the double century FF is mine and I'm very much happy with the result after i shifted it to blog coz i have got some genuine readers there who knows wat i want and they know tat watever i give them is the best.. but as you said it was right.. my main reason to shift GUZAARISH was coz of likes and Geet being ruthless.. This ff was the very first FF where i tried a different Geet and you wont believe even after shifting it to blog i was being bashed in my FB inbox and wat not.. at one time i had decided to discontinue but no i continued it.

There was girl who asked me why Geet was given a second chance.. why Maan wasnt married to someone else and heck i was like wat the hell when Maan can be given sceond chance in almost alll stories then why not Geet... the girl was like in real life no person gets a second chance and blah blah and you can just imagine how i was with this... it was a blow coz i myself believe in giving a person second chance and i always tend to use some of my personal experiences in my stories. This girl she almost bashed me for 48 hours and i was fed up and finally asked her tat if you had a family person like geet would you have killed her or thrown out and she said tat i would not give a chance coz no one deserves a second chance and all tat again.. a

and this is not just the case... there was another girl who started to compare the fiction with real life and started to bash me and message me... it was a hard time to even answer such weird readers who don't understand the meaning of real and imagination but in all m happy tat my loyal readers do understand the difference and yes they stand with equality.. if they accept maan then they accept Geet in my stories and now i m much more confident in writing a different geet and experimenting with her character just like Maan...


In all i want to say.. that if you are modern enough and live in this new world then you do need to accept Geet and Maan as they are shown rather then giving names to writers and all tat bashing but it depends on each person coz however much we say we cannot change the stupid mind set of such readers and yeah simply coz you love bashing and giving names to writers.. dont jump into it coz its a fiction and not a real life.. at least think on this truth tat Geet and Maan are fictional characters but when you bash and give names to writers you show who you are in real and how you are brought up...

Hats off to you girl.. you raised up this topic

Edited by sdlife19 - 10 years ago

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