The Seven Year 'Hitch' - Thread 2 link pg 1 - Page 19

There is a restlessness in him trying to find peace or acceptance in the corner that they have created, finding his nirvana. By his own admission he has not been there for a few months since he is so busy. There is always a place that feels like home and I feel bad that he has lost it. Even in the starlit night he is still in repentance for his actions. There is no solace for a mind that is running on guilt. It keeps sucking every last happy thought out of him.

On the counterpart of the argument one would feel for her too. If not an acknowledgement daily of how wonderful you are, everyone needs to be spoilt for at least a day be it a b'day, anniv.. whatever is significant to the person. She would be heartbroken(?) or at least quite saddened if that did not happen, so I can feel her pain too.

Originally posted by: Susegad

Happy Easter Onir.😃

Originally posted by: .Maggie.

I am the first one to reserve, last one to comment. How ironic😳
You're the first one I'm replying to... 😊

Anyway coming to more important and pressing things like the chapter, I would pre warn you that my coment would be more casual and conversational because I chapar chapar-ify a lot and don't make sense many times but hey that comes with the package. What's fun if Maggie doesn't bajaofy you with her talks and kicks?😆
It's me who keeps chapparofying... and giving lame comments. 😊

Maggie I guess has taken on her own the sole rights of bajaofying my band... and kicking me... 😆

It may seem like a mundane thing to forget a mere date, a day which is very important to you otherwise. Frankly speaking, though I never forgot any important days (Only B'days as of now obviously😆) I thought I wouldn't hold grudges with the other person, after all humans are bound to make mistakes and it was okay with me. I never thought it's a big deal. However, after seeing her silent pleas of asking him to sleep early today or her wishing at 12, or her waiting but never voicing out, I now understand what's the big deal really. B'days fir bhi theek hain but a day which two of you share, and is important for both of you, when one forgets, it's normal to feel hurt about it because somewhere you have this feeling that may be you aren't that importan, or maybe the importance is fading.
I'm trying to bring this out in the next part... hopefully which I will be able to update tonight... 😊
He reminded me of HR from Zindagi na milegi dobara. There's this scene where he says he'dretire when he's some 45 something, and later all the time he could spend with his family for which Kat says what's the guarantee that you'll live till that age of yours my friend?
HR... he's my first crush... 😳 Now before I waver...

Yes we need to cherish each moment & day of our lives as there's no guarantee what future holds for us. Live to the fullest this life gifted with friends, family & love...

Frankly that's an interesting thought, there's no "Save it for tomorrow" We all know tomorrow never comes. Just like she takes time in spending some quality moments with you, kids and other family members apart from her work and daily chores, it's only natural for her to expect you to reciprocate the same.
You stated what I want to convey... I'm trying to bring it out in the next aprts... though not a s good as you, but will try in my way... 😊
I am liking this Geet more and more, somewhere she reminds me of me. Two years back on my b'day I was walking home. There was this muh bulawa bhai, mera chota bhai whom i know since he's a child. He wished me good morning and all, but hadn't wished me on my b'day. I replied to hsi wishes sweetly but didn't tell him anything. I waited all day, and next day when he came home I told him it was my b'day y'day and he was like Di, why didn't you tell me yday for which i told it was your job to pick up the hints idiot😆
Even I like this Geet ... as much as I LIKE YOU... 😳

Hopefully, your brother will never forget your birth date ever in life,.. 😉

Thanks for the update Doc🤗 tahnks for being here... 🤗

Originally posted by: mayyo13

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First of all, apologies for the delay in commenting. I've been a bit busy and I wanted to read and comment on everything with a peaceful mind, hence the delay...Hey please no apologies... 😊 I understand very well. you have already been of so much help & have patiently borne all my buggings... 😃

What a chapter! Two different times, two different situations, two different moods of a single man. The way you've written it all is soothing yet it makes me want to read more right at this moment.
Glad you liked this style of going back & forth in time... I was quite apprehensive about it... 😊
We often take things and people for granted. Or so we like to believe. We forget events, we give our loved ones lesser and lesser time, we commit mistakes. But if you see it the other way around, who do we do everything for? Who do we work like a slave for? For them - our loved ones. It's the thought of giving our loved ones a comfortable life that makes us go to the extremes of hurting those very people we slog through day and night for. The same has happened with Maan. It wasn't that he took his family for granted, it was their present wishes that he took for granted. His intentions weren't to hurt them, he probably thought that his family understands it all. But alas, many a times, such cases close with heavy hearts, tears, regrets, guilt and pain. Drowning himself in work to the T was the first mistake Maan did. His second mistake was 'let it go'. He let his instincts take a back seat whenever he felt something wrong. If he had only asked what was on his wife's mind for the three times that he had that feeling, things wouldn't have gone so drastically wring. She might've complained then, be disappointed, cried but at least she would've let it all out. She would've talked about her expectations instead of trying to convince herself that she's fine with her husband's forgetfulness, which later only accumulated inside her heart and burst out at another time.
Yes you stated everything with such beauty that I was trying to put forth through the part. Both of Maan's as well as that of Geet's. I' trying to bring that all out in the next part ... hopefully it will come out as i have visioned it... 😊 I must say truely your QoC... SO WELL YOU SAID ALL THAT I WANTED TO SAY... THANKS...
The pain, the guilt, the regret he feels right now is just very heavy. It's making me feel a little burdened. I'm desperately waiting for that little ray of hope to shine through the dark blanket of sky covered with twinkling stars..Yes there's the ray of hope there but will take time to make its apperance... hopefully you will hold on till then... 😊

Thanks for updating Onir! Will be waiting to read more. 🤗