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Originally posted by: ankita02

I have tried just everything...he loves me a lot....n i love him a lot.... but he says i will have to convert to his religion after marriage... n m totally against it... i respect all religions but m really attached to my own traditions n culture.... Converting to his religion means I cnt put sindoor of his name after marriage,cnt keep karwachauth....n many many things.....i dreamt of with him... but hes too religious n strictly follows the Quran....according to which muslim men cnt marry hindu women.... or the marriage is islamically not accepted... I gave him eg. of srk n gauri....n tht v cn opt for court marriage but he says he ll not commit a sin or shirk by going against Quraan.... I dnt understand how can you make God happy by breaking someone's heart....??? So dear the real problem is this .... n i dnt think it can be sorted out....ever....i cud have convinced my family anyways... n wud have won even his family's heart.....but this was the issue tht v dint agree on.... maybe he didnt love me as much as i do coz otherwise he would never have said this....according to him i can read his scriptures n Quraan n if i like it then i should convert with my own will....but the thing is however good it may be....i cud never have done that coz i dnt beleive in such things....m very secular while he thinks his religion is the best.... I never liked this thing in him.... I told him i can do everything for him to show his family but he should atleast accept me as i am.....but everytime there was no solution to this issue....

heyy ppl... I need your advice... from day before yesterday I again started feeling really down... i had become busy with my life but God knows what happened to me thursday night.... I broke into tears again and then at around 11:55 at night I got 2 calls from an unknown number... I saw it later and without thinking just called back....and there i heard a "Hello" and everything seemed motionless....it was him.... I knew just from the hello... But i had made a decision and i had to be strong...We haven't spoken since past 4 months...I disconnected the call immediately!!!! then i cried and cried to my hearts content and managed to sleep....the entire day in college yesterday wasn't like everyday.....I was lost the entire day... in the evening i went for an outing with my parents... but all the time I was not in with them!!! I kept on crying in the car and hiding my tears from mom... Then again at 10:56 at night yesterday I get a call and this time from his number...his own number!!! I kept looking at the mobile screen flashing his number... Then again I got a short miss call from tht unknown number or his other number at 12:15 am night!!! But i didn't respond!!! Please friends tellme why is he calling me?? And even if i take the call,theres nothing left to talk between us. moreover I get very very disturbed by mere mention of his name and now hes calling!!! I will just mess up my life again if i talk to him thats it!!! What should i do ?? PLEASE HELP ME!!!! PLEASE.....

dear ankita
it must be so hard and sad😭
please be strong
just i think if i was in your shoes next time he call just talk to him very clear that if he accept you as you are just wonderful but if he again asks you his demands tell him that you can not continue this way and for sake of purity of your love just leave it and not disturb you and your feeling more😕
and one more thing tell him that if he really loves you, you are lovable because of what you do or dont , what like or dislike and what you believe or not and if he wants to change you then in the end you are not going to be the same person he fell in love with!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i really hope you will be fine
i wish you all the happiness and success 🤗

Don't go..be strong. If you wanna go..decide if u wanna be submissive, obedient, true follower of ur husband. If not dont struggle urself for freedom, right, bla bla. It is not worth struggling in this small life with these junk rights.

Hey Ankita,

don't worry Ankita... God will always be there for you... if he really loves you that much that he can live without you.... than he will forget everything about his religion and accept you for what you are... i think you should talk to him and see what he has to say...

hi ankita....

okay u ppl r rite i guess... I shud hear wt he wants to say!!! if he tries contacting me again then I'll respond but am not going to take any initiative on my own to return his call... but what 'll I talk to him?? We haven't spoken for months.... It 'll be so wierd!! I wont be able to talk normally no matter what i do... Just tell me,how 'll i keep the conversation??? What if he starts talking about why can't i even answer his calls?? How 'll i change the topic?? I just can't think of a way out... How shud i talk to him?? like i have to seem and act normal n show him that m happy with my life or don't have to give him any details of wts up with me?? or tell him my true feelings???