Drashti took me back to my past.... - Page 4

I understand your situation..even my cousin loved a muslim guy and she had to convert her religion to marry him..she left her family bcoz her family didnt approve of it..but after marriage it wasnt as good as she thought,..she faced great problems adjusting and she tried a lot but it didnt work out..her husband was very strict about his religion too and this was the main reason of them aparting later..moreover she said that she was used to ladies being respected equally in her family and it was not the same in his family..ladies were always considered below males and at a point she just couldnt take it..so I guess sometimes its not just love which is needed!..other things we sometimes think are not important and love is what matters the most -sounds good but is not practical always..I guess it depends on person to person but surely love is not easy for all!

thats really sad......

i understand your issue better now. You are right. If he loves you enough...he will venture to understand where you are coming from and respect your wishes. I am personally against conversion of any kind...because that is against the tenets of love and the concept that all religions ultimately lead to goodness and God. If you differ on such a major issue...it will come up to haunt you again and again after you tie the knot. Let him realise what you mean to him. If he comes to you...accepting you for what you are...then your love has won. If not, just let it be...because it was probably not meant to be. You are doing the right thing here...Keep away and keep strong.

heartbreaking story..I admire your courage to share this with us. I really have no words for your story, I think you're going to come very far in your life with your kind of strength.


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Hi..U know im a person who actually dont understand what love really is yet understand it by faceing some situation..So u can tell it,Im in b2in of d word love..For me its mostly attraction n all u can say..Coz At my age when some1 fall for some1 we cant call it more dan an attraction..Coz in todays world Love is nothing more dan timepass to many & u really cant expect true love 4urself.So basically im a confused humen being who never been in love wid some1 bcoz of my such perspective. But said whatever i can understand abt Love as somehow i could connect myself wid ur pains..infact i only can understand d word "Pain"Better dan Love"
I wish,i just wish all ur wishes comes true..& Hope Baghwan ne apke liye kuch accha hi socha hogha" :)As some says-What happens ,happen for goods..
Keep coming here whenever u've time,U'll feel better:)

Piya.

hey piya...hi... thanks for understanding me though you dnt have much experience in love.... but as far as attraction vs love goes.... let me tell you the day you ll fall in love...everything will seem true to you.... and u 'll know its love and not infatuation....n love can happen at any age.... anytime and any place.... you cnt say true love doesn't exist before you fall in love....with someone truly,madly n deeply... I didn't even believe in love but see what happened to me.... whatever it is...I wish whenever you fall in love with someone...he should love u more than you love him and may he do anything for you...all the best....dear... As far as i am concerned....I have closed all doors n love may never enter my life again...coz i want to live with his memories and i dnt think i would ever be able to love someone else like i loved him ....He will always be in me....

Originally posted by: ankita02

hey piya...hi... let me tell you the day you ll fall in love...everything will seem true to you.... and u 'll know its love and not infatuation....n love can happen at any age.... anytime and any place.... you cnt say true love doesn't exist before you fall in love....with someone truly,madly n deeply... I didn't even believe in love but see what happened to me.... whatever it is...I wish whenever you fall in love with someone...he should love u more than you love him and may he do anything for you...all the best....dear... As far as i am concerned....I have closed all doors n love may never enter my life again...coz i want to live with his memories and i dnt think i would ever be able to love someone else like i loved him ....He will always be in me....

ur words r really true i know dat :) but yet..above all luck is matter right😊Love'd be a beautiful feeling as u exprienced it so after whatever happened wid u,u still can feel it so much.. Yeah i hope ur words comes true in my life😳& have faith in God,U never know whats goona happen in ur life in d next moments..whatever happen i hope it happend d way u always wanted or what:)

Originally posted by: kumari3

I totally agree with this post!

My heart goes out to you and I wish you the very best. *hugs*

dear kumari
thank you for your lovely reply
i am happy you understood what i was saying
i wish you all the best too🤗

hey gurl....no worries life is too big for certain things...

now i understand your problem, i am sooooo sorry
unfortunately we ourself trap our life with religion ,society and culture and then we can not escape from what we have made!!!!!!!
i really hope this distance make him realize that love is worldwide not a sin between two different religion or culture and hopefully he will understand what you mean to him and come back to you with open mind before it will be late
believe me i am crying to write this post because i feel so sad, how long and how much we should suffer to learn what is the most important thing in the world (to love and be loved) in this cruel life
just hopping you will get the best as you deserve it with your pure and kind heart