Live-in Relationships; Staying Together - Page 14

Originally posted by: SWKIA

Dont know if I can add anything to the valid points raised but...

What we lack is to be aware,

whats right, whats not and when to dare,

Choices may go wrong and the blows may be hard to bear,

Lets not cause more anguish, with opinions and judegments in abundance,

Our society is made up of us, lend your heart and make a small difference,

Ttalking and pointing wont help, they dont really need our tuppence,

Lets not decide for others and tell them how to live,

But if they fall, its help and love one must give,

Not for us to count mistakes and follies through our faulty sieve,

There is only one, the one above who has the right to forgive.

Sia, beautifully written👏👏. And you are perfectly right. Who are we to decide and pass judgements? To each his own.

SWKIA: You made me login again ... 🤗 There are advices and comments galore when the need is for understanding and silent support.

An: *hugs* ... was reading skeps "midnight blues"... thora soft rock type reading after this heavy metal post...

we do give lots fo unwarranted advice, some people do it out of love and many other out of spite.. when all they need to do is shut up and give them a hug

Ash: thank you. we have too much opinion floating around. its just so useless really, waste of precious time

Originally posted by: SWKIA

Dont know if I can add anything to the valid points raised but...

What we lack is to be aware,

whats right, whats not and when to dare,

Choices may go wrong and the blows may be hard to bear,

Lets not cause more anguish, with opinions and judgments in abundance,

Our society is made up of us, lend your heart and make a small difference,

Talking and pointing wont help, they don't really need our tuppence,

Lets not decide for others and tell them how to live,

But if they fall, its help and love one must give,

Not for us to count mistakes and follies through our faulty sieve,

There is only one, the one above who has the right to forgive.

Sia, such touching words! One needs a hug than a sermon! Love you for this!🤗

@An @ash @Sia I wish we could close this topic on that emphatic note from Sia!

bri: hugs back at you...

@Sia Good night sweetie!

Yep sometimes it seems like we are all getting into a zone from where we seem like puppets hanging from some Christmas tree!

Whew. Good Topic :)

Well, what Geet and Maan are doing now is so SAFE. They are living together, yes, but at the same time they are not. Which can opt well for both younger and older viewers.
Moving onto the question at hand. I think living together allows many people to avoid, or just understand the future they have in store.
I currently am living with my boyfriend. We dated the first year of our relationship and moved in together in college. We have been living together throughout college. It has been an experience. You get to understand the person better, feel the person better, connect better. It becomes something so genuine, and now though we are planning our wedding, it doesn't make a difference. Weather we marry or not, we still love being together. Marriage is but a piece of paper legally binding you in the eyes of both god and the law. For many, they have been together for years without even getting married. I think that this varies for everyone, many do not want to live together before hand, and many do, I just feel that the idea should not be looked down upon because it allows for both individuals to learn and grow from each other, making them people who are less afraid of the world and what not.

Originally posted by: savitan

If an Indian is not willing to marry you after a live-in relationship then marry a European/African - you do not have to narrow down your choice to India.....don't get bogged down my society/family pressure - believe me when I say - it is not worth it. Live your life the way you want to live. If you are comfortable with the live in arrangement - go for it - duniya jaye tel lagane.....don't care what others think about you.

Sorry guys, I was busy studying for my medschool finals. @Savitan: Dear I am not against live in relationship but, the truth of the matter is that I also love my parents, and their reputation. More than any guy, I will love my parents whether the guy likes it or not because, they have raised me to be who I am. I can hurt anyone, and I mean anyone in this world, "duniya definitely jaye tel lene", but, I cannot see my parents hurt. And whether anyone wants to belive it or not, usually the relationships that are intercast, or interculture end up in divorce. And if you had sex before marriage, and end up having kids, guess what, you are gonna live with kids from one marriage into the other. NOt only will you destroy your life by marryin multiple times, but, you will also damage the kids. Number of my friends in America, have divorced parents, and the trauma that they go through, I dont think I can bare to see my kids go through the same thing. Apart from that currently I do hate indian guys, b/c one just pretended to love me and now its who the hell are you starting yesterday b/c I am not willing to satisfy his ego..First and recent break up....Bloody egoistic jerks..If you sleep with them all is well, if you dont, you are not good enough..This is one of the reasons, I am willing to go through an arrange marriage with a guy with equal education, and gud family...screw the rest, they are not worth it ;(

Originally posted by: doodleberry

Bri, fantastic topic.


Live-in relationships ' Yes when a serial like Hasratein can deal with that ages back then why not now? I just wanna say if any need arises where Geet had to leave Khurana Mansion after the truth being out then I want Maan to be her mental strength and support Geet and walk out of the mansion and they can be each other's support. We can see their struggle to make a mark and create a position for themselves in the world. I have always been fond of doing something different and be an example and I want them to be an inspiration to all those who wants to have a Live-in relationships.

Well put Doodle! I think the production houses seem to think that the viewers are going backwards, which is not the case! i want them to explore all sorts of things! It's time for television "to take the mickey out of the viewers"