What would YOU do if you were Sumo??? - Page 2

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Posted: 9 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: shalz_123

Preeta might be sweet and all but here we are talking about investors whose yes and no would be deciding my dream project. N pree couldn't even handle a simple party arrangement of sumo's friend Anjali n she had to rush to damage control. So given d serious situation n my entire life's project, i would have gone with her. Practically.

Heck i have seen ppl go for PhD interview in s morning of their marriage. My husband went to office the next day of our marriage, because there was an emergency n he only could handle it, in spite of his team being there.
According to d show, when Shravan can go out for an important work (according to them but actually he just went to pacify his dad) so can she. Rules cannot be different for a girl n a boy.

Honest opinion it is.

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Posted: 9 years ago
#12
well if i was in suman's place, i wouldn't even have said 'yes' for this marriage 😆




Edited by ..BlueBird.. - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#13
If I were in her place I wouldn't have reached the marriage stage all together..
But if i were there, I would have stayed.
If it was a very pressing matter I would have informed the entire clan including shravan before storming out like that...

Edited by orion23 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#14
It depends on how big the work is... We all know preeta is not capable of convincing th investors.. She cant even handle a small party at anjali's house.. We have seen aditya talking to the investor and he is a tough guy... The investors may bot like the fact that the owner of pct herself is not present and tge employees are dealing with them.. They might think sumo is not very serious about the deal..
Maasi was aware that she went ro pct and in a hurry forgot to take the fone.. She might have told maasi that she will come fast...
She wouldnt have gone if shravan was waiting for her outside but no one knows where he is and when will he come...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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she wasn't excited for bidai.. if she is getting opp for distraction then why not..? i would have done same.. sharavan deserve this behavior from sumo.. and sharavan has no right to ask or to get angry on her for this.. double standard is not acceptable right..?😉
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Posted: 9 years ago
#16
The question is very situational and the answer has to be like that too...as there is no blanket answer for these kind of question or situation or for that matter even right or wrong..that's what I feel..

it all depends on the frame of mind...and also what best can b made out of the given situation..so whatever Sumo did can neither b judged that she doesn't give importance to family or gives more importance to work.

Having said that I think I would have stayed back keeping the investors informed that some personal emergency has struck...as according to me if something like this would have happened I wouldn't be in a best frame of mind to talk to investors and take any decision for something like so important as PCT is to SUMO.. let me reiterate that's coz PCT IS IMPORTANT...so may b I would have stayed back to sort things out in my mind..but not to negate also for sake of my family too...probably what Shravan did I wouldn't have stayed back for his sake!...that's what I think...Honest opinion!

Edited by nancyrio90 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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If my marriage happened in court in the span of like an hr, then I would have no choice but go to work and tie up all loose ends. PCT is important and investors are a BIG deal. They are the ones who would be giving me money and if I tell them "Well you know what I got married today. So see you tomorrow!", then there will be no tomorrow for PCT. Sorry but for an investor meeting company head needs to be present for showing the investors the commitment to do full justice to their finances.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Most definitely I would've gone for work, if I don't decide to sit and cry in the room. He had very plainly said, main apne raaste aur tu apne raaste and had ditched her at the court already.
Now he ditches her a second time. It is clear he has no value for the sanctity of the wedding or the people related to her. So I am fully with Suman when she decided to use her time well, instead of waiting for him. She was not doing it to spite him. She needed to take her mind off the unfortunate happenings of the day.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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If I face the same situation then definitely i'll go to work , as chick , glass door & some few mentioned , PCT is sumo's dream & she had to attend a meeting with investors , so I don't find any wrong in going .
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I feel sumo was wrong...and it not being feminist or misogynistic...it being plain human immaterial of your gender. The cvs earlier showed that sumonhas promised herself to work and make this marriage success apart from that nanu also told her the importance of keeping ego aside and making the relationship success. Andmost important young shravan and adult sumo convo where sumo realises how she behaved badly with shravsn and always made him wait for hours...and that trait of sumo is deplorable...and now inspite of realising how much hurt she has caused him yet she says she is not gonna wait for him..this shows that sumo has no regard for shravan because she had the option of saying no to shravan's court marriage...the fact she signed the dotted line she then should consider the relationship...because sumo has the advantage of knowledge which shravan doesnot. Further why shravan is behaving so badly with her... sumo has not introspected even once and on both occasions ehen they tried to show her introspection i.e. after pct kaand and yesterday's her self thought that she is not gonna wait for any one... cvs have shown sorry to say a very selfish and egoist Sumo...and i personally don't like such people girl boy immaterial...it is not question of work...because the reason cvs showed sumo going
with preeta was not unavoidable imp work but after her self talk with young shravan her decision she is not going to wait for him..so she went with preeta only to be one up on shravan...relationships don't work this way...like when they were young shravan used to always bend to keep their friendship...so now sumo should take a leaf and leatn relationship can be nourished if a person compromises and is ready to see the bigger picture...this is my two cents...yesterday Sumo you disappointed me...

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