What would YOU do if you were Sumo??? - Page 4

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Posted: 9 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: evaviego


thanks for showing the practical side of it... 😊


You've definitely got logic shalz_123

This problem could have been avoided if Suman could share and talk to Shravan and he on the other hand could understand. 🤢

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: evaviego


She has to make shravan understand that PCT is her dream.. and cannot give it up because of ego and family pressure ...
Giving up PCT is not the solution but she will have to balance her family and work both..
Girls are capable of beautifully handling both .. my mother does so.. and any body can.. if she has the will to do so.
She will have to prove Ramnath wrong that carrer oriented women cannot give time to their family.


Absolutely. She can only possibly make Shravan understand that it's her identity and what self-respect truly is for her and how it became a part of her due to the work she has done in PCT. And not because of what Ramnath had been poisoning his mind with. I'm damn sure she can manage both family and work and she'll prove to Shravan and eventually to Ramnath that she is definitely not Nirmala Ahuja!!!And no emotional blackmailing will have any effect on her this time round...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: jassie_17


Absolutely. She can only possibly make Shravan understand that it's her identity and what self-respect truly is for her and how it became a part of her due to the work she has done in PCT. And not because of what Ramnath had been poisoning his mind with. I'm damn sure she can manage both family and work and she'll prove to Shravan and eventually to Ramnath that she is definitely not Nirmala Ahuja!!!And no emotional blackmailing will have any effect on her this time round...


exactly.. self respect is okay... but both of them have to say bye bye to their egos now... high time...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I would have done exactly what Sumo did! It makes sense to me...bidaai can't happen without the bride and groom...with the groom missing and not answering phone calls...what's the point in her sitting at home when there is something important to be taken care of. However, I would have informed everybody at home...even if they protested...I would have gone anyways. This would be my reaction given the current dynamics between Shraman. But, had things between the two been normal...I can guarantee Sumo's reaction would have been quite different.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: puba

I would have done exactly what Sumo did! It makes sense to me...bidaai can't happen without the bride and groom...with the groom missing and not answering phone calls...what's the point in her sitting at home when there is something important to be taken care of. However, I would have informed everybody at home...even if they protested...I would have gone anyways. This would be my reaction given the current dynamics between Shraman. But, had things between the two been normal...I can guarantee Sumo's reaction would have been quite different.


if the reason is genuine the family wont disagree ever... in the show... they even let shravan go... they would have given permission to sumo as well... nanu always support her..
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Posted: 9 years ago
#36
After reading, eveviego, everyone's post; the logic and everything... I myself have gotten in a confused state now. 😳
There are lots of what ifs that's running in my mind that could have ended the next troubles that'll come up before they'd even started.

Like -
Her informing someone?
Asking for advice or help.

But then again I'm not in her shoes and have never faced such a bidaai or any such situation as she has. So who knows what I would have done!!!! (That's kind of contrary to what I said before, I know. And you probably want to throttle me now. lol...)

Most of her problems starts because she doesn't share them, a communication problem.

Sometimes I feel like she should have let Shravan and Pushkar know about Ramnath giving her that cheque and that threat. lol... The end of the beginning of her monster father-in-law's conspiracies. 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: devilaonmoon

After reading, eveviego, everyone's post; the logic and everything... I myself have gotten in a confused state now. 😳
There are lots of what ifs that's running in my mind that could have ended the next troubles that'll come up before they'd even started.

Like -
Her informing someone?
Asking for advice or help.

But then again I'm not in her shoes and have never faced such a bidaai or any such situation as she has. So who knows what I would have done!!!! (That's kind of contrary to what I said before, I know. And you probably want to throttle me now. lol...)

Most of her problems starts because she doesn't share them, a communication problem.

Sometimes I feel like she should have let Shravan and Pushkar know about Ramnath giving her that cheque and that threat. lol... The end of the beginning of her monster father-in-law's conspiracies. 😆



hahahhaha... even i was confused but now i think i am pretty much clear about what to do.. giving our job and dreams priority is not wrong at all.. i would have gone. after informing everyone and telling them how important the meeting for me is.. i am sure my family would understand me.

communication gap is the main problem in any misunderstanding ..
as nanu once said.. there is no problem in this world which cannot be solved by sitting and talking like mature people keeping your ego and anger away..

and i also feel that taking help and advice from others sometimes does not harm ones self respect.. and its better to take help rather than hurting others.

AND I AM NOT AGAINST THE FL OF THE SHOW..
ITS JUST MY OPINION.

you may agree or disagree.. this is what i think..😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
#38
Acha tell me one thing guys, how come u r assuming she didn't inform any one?
As far as i remember in the pre cap yhw dialogue was "sumo is in PCT n forgot her phone n preeta is also not taking calls."

Had she not informed, shouldn't the dialogue be more in the line of "sumo ia not at home, ww don't know where she is and her phone ia also not with her"

Of course for d constraint of not being able to show "sumo" currently taking permission (as nikki is not shooting) , ww r assuming she didn't take permission.

N u honestly think she would go for investor meeting just to spite Shravan.?

The investor meeting thing was a last minute addition sjust like d kidnap, so of course ww shud not try to find too much logic as to why sumo didn't know it earlier.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#39
I would have waited for him with a broom and my pct gang 🤣 🤣
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Posted: 9 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: shalz_123

Acha tell me one thing guys, how come u r assuming she didn't inform any one?

As far as i remember in the pre cap yhw dialogue was "sumo is in PCT n forgot her phone n preeta is also not taking calls."

Had she not informed, shouldn't the dialogue be more in the line of "sumo ia not at home, ww don't know where she is and her phone ia also not with her"

Of course for d constraint of not being able to show "sumo" currently taking permission (as nikki is not shooting) , ww r assuming she didn't take permission.

N u honestly think she would go for investor meeting just to spite Shravan.?

The investor meeting thing was a last minute addition sjust like d kidnap, so of course ww shud not try to find too much logic as to why sumo didn't know it earlier.


its because nanaji and maamiji dint know she was not there.. ( rest of the things will be clear on monday 😆)
she should have told nanu atleast.. he is the senior most member in the family .

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