What would YOU do if you were Sumo???

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey Guys,
This is a genuine question i would like to ask.
Just to know your opinion.


It was her Bidaai and she went with Preeta to PCT. inspite of Preeta telling her that she will manage.

What would have you done if you were in Sumo's place yesterday??
Go to Work ?? Or stay back coz you just got married and there are some rituals to follow and work can wait ??

Honest opinions Please..😊

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sravss thumbnail
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Posted: 9 years ago
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That day I would have stayed back, and planned to give tit for tat to sharvan some other day...As there are lot more emotions of the family than sharvan involved in that ritual. I would have taken it as advantage to spend time with nanu as I really don't know when will I get that opportunity again...as it will take lot if time itself in dealing with PCT, the new family and their thinking and add to it ramnath and This sharvan...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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No. I would've given my family the more priority. Suman surely knows that her family won't like the fact, even not Shravan, but she went to work.

No matter what or how, the truth is Shravan is her husband. She should respect this relationship. Moreover its definitely not an unwanted marriage at all. Both of them wanted it so much.

So se should stop behaving like this🤔
And of course...Shravan too stop behaving like this🤢
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I guess Suman went to PCT only because Shravan wasn't ready at TK for bidaai by that time... she has no idea when he would return or will he return that day itself, given that situation I might act the same way Suman will be shown doing... but still not before getting consent from both maternal and in-laws as the rituals are important which involves the feelings of so many people
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sadia.Ritu

No. I would've given my family the more priority. Suman surely knows that her family won't like the fact, even not Shravan, but she went to work.

No matter what or how, the truth is Shravan is her husband. She should respect this relationship. Moreover its definitely not an unwanted marriage at all. Both of them wanted it so much.

So se should stop behaving like this🤔
And of course...Shravan too stop behaving like this🤢


Originally posted by: sravss

That day I would have stayed back, and planned to give tit for tat to sharvan some other day...As there are lot more emotions of the family than sharvan involved in that ritual. I would have taken it as advantage to spend time with nanu as I really don't know when will I get that opportunity again...as it will take lot if time itself in dealing with PCT, the new family and their thinking and add to it ramnath and This sharvan...



Thanks for being honest... i hope this post helps confused people like me to choose what is right... 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Amulya--

I guess Suman went to PCT only because Shravan wasn't ready at TK for bidaai by that time... she has no idea when he would return or will he return that day itself, given that situation I might act the same way Suman will be shown doing... but still not before getting consent from both maternal and in-laws as the rituals are important which involves the feelings of so many people



ya.. shravan also went saying he has work. but he asked nanaji alteast.. but seems like sumo dint inform anyone..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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the marriage happened in such a haste..and the meeting with investors must have been fixed earlier...
and given the fact that Shravan fled from the court after signing the papers for some imp work...was not answering the phone calls...again same thing before bidai...she is very right in going to PCT...
marriage is highly overrated concept in India...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Preeta might be sweet and all but here we are talking about investors whose yes and no would be deciding my dream project. N pree couldn't even handle a simple party arrangement of sumo's friend Anjali n she had to rush to damage control. So given d serious situation n my entire life's project, i would have gone with her. Practically.
Heck i have seen ppl go for PhD interview in s morning of their marriage. My husband went to office the next day of our marriage, because there was an emergency n he only could handle it, in spite of his team being there.
According to d show, when Shravan can go out for an important work (according to them but actually he just went to pacify his dad) so can she. Rules cannot be different for a girl n a boy.

Honest opinion it is.

Good post. What about u?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: evaviego



ya.. shravan also went saying he has work. but he asked nanaji alteast.. but seems like sumo dint inform anyone..

mami n mausi knew or else they would have said i don't where she is, instead of saying she is in PCT.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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D problem is we generally think, it is the girl's responsibility to uplift all rituals. What rituals r we talking about here? According to her, he made a hasty marriage, asked her to go with preekar to home. Completed his meeting, came to explain nanu, n then again left without telling her. In fact he waa alright with Pushkar taking her home till nanu intervened. So from hee POV does shw even know, he will be back on time? N she had investor's meeting on d other hand which will decide her work life. Work ia equally important for a woman. N here this ia not her work alone, hee life line. Everyone kicks her gut from time to time but not her PCT.

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