Who am I and Who are you?...And what do you want me to be! - Page 4

Originally posted by: poppinss

Sumo took a call to break her relationship, love friendship with Shravan, thanks to Ramu. All said and done even if they said nothing to each other... they were and are a couple. Thats their unspoken rule.

She I believe should have spoken about it to Shravan at that point in time irrespective of the outcome.

beautiful beautiful thoughts and analysis. you write so welll!!

Chick, beautiful post ! I am and will always be a Sumo person and that is not to say she is right or Shravan is wrong. There is one mistake they both are doing which Adithya pointed out yesterday, they have to look from the other person's perspective. That and only that can help them. They both ask, why Sumo and why Shravan but they both don't introspect. One is feeling pain and the other is numb and they both haven't realized what they are doing when they are hurt. Whom are they hurting ? Hurting Shravan by being rude to him actually hurt Sumo the most and hurting Sumo by what he is doing he is hurting himself more every minute.

About the bashing, I stay away from those threads mostly. Right now most of them are sympathetic towards Shravan and hence his opinion is theirs. But when his opinion starts changing so will theirs.

That said, how we express pain should not be the judge of in his much pain we are. I'll tell you a personal story, my grandma passed away 10 years back. A week before that when she was in the hospital I had a sprained leg and couldn't go visit her, I wasn't even able to walk properly and she was actually recovering. I was working and was in another city. The next week she wasn't there I was too late when I reached. Not a single day has gone by without me regretting what I did. But I don't cry, does it mean that I am heartless ?
Pain cannot and should not be measured by our expressions ever. Shravan loves Sumo for what she is, not what she will be and so does Sumo, that is the beauty of their love. If Shravan's actions are justified, Sumo's inaction is justified too.

"Sometimes we love with nothing but hope.
Sometimes we cry with everything except tears."

The first one is for Shravan and the second is for Sumo. All said 😊

Actually, the problem is not with cvs story (coz this is the story), shravan, or members here on forum and their pov regarding sumo..the problem is with the character named sumo..because the characterization of the sumo is not a easy task to understand..as i said earlier, i m only active on forum so i can say only about environment here..people on this forum can understand shravan's character 100% coz its not difficult to understand him or bringing out justification behind his every action coz we do understand him completely and i appreciate that coz i agree when people gives analysis and comments and justification(for his wrong action) BUT people on this forum fails/failed to understand sumo/suman to 100%or more than that...even the analysis post /comments/justification(for her wrong action) are not upto the mark or equal to 10% as it has to be coz these posts in favour of her also could not justify suman/sumo's character completely ...and i m glad everybody on this forum fails/failed to understand sumo/suman..coz this character is like two sides of coin..sometimes you will see one side of the coin and sometimes you will see another side of the same coin..but you will never be able to see both the sides of the coin together even if you try to see the other side of the coin with the help of the mirror...the only thing which will be in your hand is DEFEAT if you ever try to see both sides of the coin...

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Actually Shravan didn't even find Vandy an ideal woman...She was the best...Of the lot...and it was a poor lot, acc to him. 😆

If Shravan sat down and wrote what he would want in an ideal woman, Suman would satisfy all that...so long as he doesn't ask for rubbish like- should satisfy mere papa's criteria.🤢😆

Basically, he needs to clear his head...But what he said was so shocking...😲

Originally posted by: nith125

Chick, beautiful post ! I am and will always be a Sumo person and that is not to say she is right or Shravan is wrong. There is one mistake they both are doing which Adithya pointed out yesterday, they have to look from the other person's perspective. That and only that can help them. They both ask, why Sumo and why Shravan but they both don't introspect. One is feeling pain and the other is numb and they both haven't realized what they are doing when they are hurt. Whom are they hurting ? Hurting Shravan by being rude to him actually hurt Sumo the most and hurting Sumo by what he is doing he is hurting himself more every minute.

About the bashing, I stay away from those threads mostly. Right now most of them are sympathetic towards Shravan and hence his opinion is theirs. But when his opinion starts changing so will theirs.

That said, how we express pain should not be the judge of in his much pain we are. I'll tell you a personal story, my grandma passed away 10 years back. A week before that when she was in the hospital I had a sprained leg and couldn't go visit her, I wasn't even able to walk properly and she was actually recovering. I was working and was in another city. The next week she wasn't there I was too late when I reached. Not a single day has gone by without me regretting what I did. But I don't cry, does it mean that I am heartless ?
Pain cannot and should not be measured by our expressions ever. Shravan loves Sumo for what she is, not what she will be and so does Sumo, that is the beauty of their love. If Shravan's actions are justified, Sumo's inaction is justified too.

"Sometimes we love with nothing but hope.
Sometimes we cry with everything except tears."

The first one is for Shravan and the second is for Sumo. All said 😊

Originally posted by: nith125

Chick, beautiful post ! I am and will always be a Sumo person and that is not to say she is right or Shravan is wrong. There is one mistake they both are doing which Adithya pointed out yesterday, they have to look from the other person's perspective. That and only that can help them. They both ask, why Sumo and why Shravan but they both don't introspect. One is feeling pain and the other is numb and they both haven't realized what they are doing when they are hurt. Whom are they hurting ? Hurting Shravan by being rude to him actually hurt Sumo the most and hurting Sumo by what he is doing he is hurting himself more every minute.

About the bashing, I stay away from those threads mostly. Right now most of them are sympathetic towards Shravan and hence his opinion is theirs. But when his opinion starts changing so will theirs.

That said, how we express pain should not be the judge of in his much pain we are. I'll tell you a personal story, my grandma passed away 10 years back. A week before that when she was in the hospital I had a sprained leg and couldn't go visit her, I wasn't even able to walk properly and she was actually recovering. I was working and was in another city. The next week she wasn't there I was too late when I reached. Not a single day has gone by without me regretting what I did. But I don't cry, does it mean that I am heartless ?
Pain cannot and should not be measured by our expressions ever. Shravan loves Sumo for what she is, not what she will be and so does Sumo, that is the beauty of their love. If Shravan's actions are justified, Sumo's inaction is justified too.

"Sometimes we love with nothing but hope.
Sometimes we cry with everything except tears."

The first one is for Shravan and the second is for Sumo. All said 😊

lovely wrote up chick
I waited for your post as your view about the episode and of course Sumo POV ..

Now I'm really looking forward to no how Shravan state of mind change about women an suman .. in this stage No for marriage from me or may be from sumo too..

Originally posted by: --Amulya--

Hey, I want to share a similar incident to yours but its too recent... My grandmom passed away this month, I couldn't meet her as I had an important exam which I couldn't afford to miss and I mainly din't expect that the worst would happen... I wept for almost this whole month (missing her) but not once did I regret my choice as whatever be the outcome I felt I'm solely responsible for it and I have accepted that life doesn't always run the way I want it to be...

I think even Sumo accepts the way life has always been... she tries to make her way but if it still doesn't run the way she wants it to be then she tries to cope up... life has taught her this process at a very young age when she lost her parents and I'm here to say that's the right way of living

Originally posted by: zindgidilse

Actually, the problem is not with cvs story (coz this is the story), shravan, or members here on forum and their pov regarding sumo..the problem is with the character named sumo..because the characterization of the sumo is not a easy task to understand..as i said earlier, i m only active on forum so i can say only about environment here..people on this forum can understand shravan's character 100% coz its not difficult to understand him or bringing out justification behind his every action coz we do understand him completely and i appreciate that coz i agree when people gives analysis and comments and justification(for his wrong action) BUT people on this forum fails/failed to understand sumo/suman to 100%or more than that...even the analysis post /comments/justification(for her wrong action) are not upto the mark or equal to 10% as it has to be coz these posts in favour of her also could not justify suman/sumo's character completely ...and i m glad everybody on this forum fails/failed to understand sumo/suman..coz this character is like two sides of coin..sometimes you will see one side of the coin and sometimes you will see another side of the same coin..but you will never be able to see both the sides of the coin together even if you try to see the other side of the coin with the help of the mirror...the only thing which will be in your hand is DEFEAT if you ever try to see both sides of the coin...