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Hi everyone 😃
I like the episode 😊 What the parent are doing is not right...but you understand them. Diya's father did a brilliant job of portraying a father that is frustrated, that he cannot control the situation and I like that you could see the pain on his face. He was worried. They want to protect Diya from the world...mostly THEM SELF!
We see this often. Family emotionally blackmailing...Diya is very strong...Honestly...I would properly have give in and not stepped out of the house.
What I also liked is that they showed, how parent think they know best and believe that what ever decision they make, is always the best for their kids. Sometime it is...but the person who has to carry the consequences is the child...so the decision should also be his/hers. As a parent I believe you advise...but not force. You need to trust that you have gave your child the knowledge of what is right and wrong and then believe and trust your child's decisions. If I child make a bad decision and fell...yes it hurt...but he/she is able to stand up again and walk forward. If it is a decision you made for him/her and the child fell...then there is only guilt, resentment and hurt left.
A broken relationship and trust is impossible to build up again. If a child does not feel that it is understood, respected, heard, trusted...then the support the child need is not there. As a parent you do make mistakes because there is no recipe...but if you listen to your child...then you can not go wrong. Diya's family is not listing to her...they are only consumed by there own pain. They are not looking at what she need...but what they need.
Love this dialogue Shaurya said to Diya's mom: "Bhagwan ne budhi dhi hai takat dhi hai, khe sahi or galat ka farak samajh sake sach ke liye larh sakhe". The whole dialogue was on point.
Many give up and believe it is a punishment from God, meant to be, God will punish the guilty ones and make sure justice happen...They just wait and then lose hope. Sometime even get bitter or upset with God or see them self as a victims...I think this dialogue will hit many people and even make them think about how they handle things.
I love when Shaurya said: "Sab ko sade pe rakh ke apni beti ke bare me soche ghe aunty ji. Aap ko uske sath kara rehna chahiye app use darra rahi hai." The words "darra rahi hai"...was perfect!
Then came the hurtful dialogue from her father. He said what was in his heart, but what he did not want to say out loud...it came out in anger. Again his own feelings was involved. The fact that he was not able to handle and control the situation.
Love the whole scene between mom and daughter. Diya's mother do not want to understand or are in denial of the pain Diya is going through. She do not want to accept that something like this you never forget, it stay with you, it change you and the scars never heal. It will always be a open wound. I like Neha's performance and the way she said her dialogue. 😃
Diya believe that getting justice is what is going help her moving on...But is some years in jail enough justice for her? For her to be able to move on she need to let go of the pain and self hate. Now when ever she look in the mirror she will not see a face...it will be like she is in someone else's body and that would be interesting to watch...in case there is a love track.
How will Shaurya be able to make Diya love herself again, because she has to be able to love herself first, to be able to love him and him being a sensitive guy and all that baggage and pain he is carrying...interesting what the whole process is going to do to him.
The coming track is going to be very interesting and upsetting... little predictable too. What I am really looking forward to is the inner struggle with both characters. Both got a lot of baggage and trauma that has change them. They are going to bring that in the relationship and I am looking forward for it.
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