can A & R really go back to being AR once again..?

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Posted: 15 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: CZ..

@bold - so?

armaan has been there for her, because he loved her. (although I don't think he loves her now - that's a different issue), but how does that imply that A & R can get back together? is love the only thing you need for a relationship to work?

@red - that's very subjective and depends on how different viewers view their situation/story. can't bank on it as a factual claim, can we?

they won't just have 'issues' - sometimes two people simply can't get back together. it's not the physical distance that they need to cover, it's the distance between their changed personalities, between their experiences, between the changes themselves. A & R are no longer on the same platform now.

@Bold: I sooo agree with that statement. Love isn't the only thing you need in a relationship, there's trust, which is the most lacking thing between AR's relationship. Then there's understanding, have they ever understood each other? Even armaan has said before that ridhima could never understand him, and then the last most important thing is friendship, that's what i never saw in their relationship, the need to share things to each other, or just talk, it can never be like this.

This is my POV

Neetz, AMAZING post baby.

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Akankshaa.

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Posted: 15 years ago

#12

I expect some logical answers from AR fans here.

Armaan and Riddhima can't go back together simply because they love each other. They had a past. But seasons change. The turmoil came, Riddhima took steps forward, started a new life. Armaan came back. He fought with death, came back to see Riddhima is married. That realisation changes everything. In this kind of society, a realisation that the girl is married changes many things.

Okay, lets leave the marriage sacred thing, even if they are in love, what about the steps Riddhima took forward? Can she just reverse them without thinking about her husband, the destructions the steps can make and the lifes it can ruin. No. Riddhima is complicated, confused, but she is not selfish. She is overpowered by guilt, that reason is enough to prove that she is not selfish.

What about Armaan ? He is not selfish either. He might be trying to destroy himself by streetfighting but his intentions have never been wrong. He havent been aware of the pain he was causing others, and when Sid told him, he stopped. He is not selfish either. Do you think Armaan can retrace his steps simply on the cost of a blissful marriage? And Armaan is aware of Riddhima's feelings toward Sid, how can he take such a step ?

Amazing post CZ. I completely agree with you. Retracing your steps on the cost of destruction and ruining people's lives isn't what A and R does. How could they possibly get together?

Edited by Akanksha0701 - 15 years ago

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Kanzy

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Posted: 15 years ago

#13

i completely agree. ridz has experienced d most d change, she's married and though she cares abt armaan, it dnt mean she'll be able to go to him. and technically she has all the freedome wat so ever 2 go bck 2 armaan. Cuz ridz noes dat if she asked sid 4 divorce because she wnts 2 go bck 2 armaan, though he wnt b happy, he wuld eventually give her a divorce for d sake of her marriage, therefore this shows how ridz doesn't wish to go back to armaan cuz she noes dat dere realtionship wnt rekindle. and cumin 2 d society n stuff, well ridz n sid were gona hve divorce b4 as well and dey were ready 2 hve divorce nt caryin abt d society. i noe d rest bt techincallly dey were gona hve it.

and cumin 2 armaan, well even though he still loves her, bt if ridz goes bck 2 him, den dere will defo b a awkwardness frm both sides.

dere relationship jst wnt b lke b4, the way dey were comfortable wid echoder n etc... AR jst wnt get dat spark bck in my opinion. therefore i feel dat dey cant rekindle dere relationship bck again at all.

time has changed, relationships have changed and they have changed. and their relationship has changed.

m sorry if i hve offeneded any1, bt dis is my opinion, i respect urs so plz respect mine. =P

peace x

love kanan

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StarshineHues

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Posted: 15 years ago

#14

Wonderful post. I totally agree with you. According to me, Armaan and Riddhima can never go back to being Armaan-Riddhima, the couple.

There's been too much water under the bridge, and they're two different people entirely. Like Parul said, when Armaan and Riddhima started out, they were these innocent, naive peole, who had a rose-tinted view of the world. They were undamaged, perfect souls, so easy to fall in love with.But now, they've both changed. The change with Riddhima is more evident, maybe because she's married, and has been with Sid a longer time. Anyone can see she isn't the naive, idelaistic girl that Armaan fell in love with. The experiences she's had with Sid, the life she's made with him, can she ever go back to where she started out from ? No.

Similarly, Armaan isn't the perfect Prince Charming that Riddhima once fell in love with. He's a battered, damaged soul, with his share of imperfections and defects. More than love, he needs healing right now. Can Riddhima give him that ? No, she cannot. Also, does he love the new Riddhima-or is he still clutching on to the ghost of the woman he had loved once ? I think its the latter-because the woman he loves no longer exists, just like Armaan isn't the same man anymore.

And thats why Armaan and Riddhima, for me, cannot go back to being AR: Woh waqt koi aur tha, woh daur koi aur tha, aur woh log koi aur the.

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Shilpa.Agarwal

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Posted: 15 years ago

#15

there is doha(couplet) of hindi poet rahim that i really like:
rahiman dhaga prem ka, mat todo chatkay
toote se fir na jure, jure gaanth par jaye

Meaning-the thread of love if broken may be tied again but the knot remains

even when armaan jus returned d only way i cud see AR reunite was by killing sid(uske hote hue it was always insane to break SR marriage for AR) but now both of dem have cum so far now dat for me A n R can't b AR even if sid dies as still ridz will always be sid's widow n AR cannot be restored, even if dey get 2geda(wud b quite stupid) it can neva b d same.....n forget the world, forget the morals, forget all ties what about dem??? their own conscience??? the guilt will always haunt them n be a permanent barrier b/w them.....no love can flourish by breaking a marriage, by ruining lives by shattering hearts......love cannot be so selfish, it is god's gift..... dis ridz belongs 2 sid n is created by him, n now i'm only hopin dat ArSh also find love n comfort in each other......i have loved dmg for AR so obviously i'm an AR fan, n i'll always be ......i really feel sorry for AR n how they have ended in a big failure but i dun want AR now......n now i feel its fair enough, if in so many years of lovin each otha they cud not manage to get themselves 2geda then i guess they were jus not meant to be.....but their love has given dem n us sum beautiful memories dat shud be cherished forever.... .......n who says one can't love 2 ppl in a lifetime???
AR's hearts we knw are large enough to love again.....AR now is emotionally, logically n morally disgusting.....wateva CVs do they cant make AR look correct n convincing.......AR now would ruin AR

Edited by Shilpa.Agarwal - 15 years ago

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ShiningStar18

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Posted: 15 years ago

#16

Fabulous post Neeta.

All AR fans say that they should get reunion but what if they do get it?

Will they be able to go back to those days when Armaan was

Riddhima's everything and looking at any other guy meant death for her? She won't be able to forget Sid or their marriage for that matter.

Coming to Armaan,he has been constantly scarred with pain since he left Riddhima and now he won't be the same Armaan again even if Riddhima decides to come back. Nowadays what the show is displaying between Armaan and Riddima may be affection but it cannot be transformed into love again,ever.

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ShiningStar18

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Posted: 15 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: StarshineHues
Wonderful post. I totally agree with you. According to me, Armaan and Riddhima can never go back to being Armaan-Riddhima, the couple.

There's been too much water under the bridge, and they're two different people entirely. Like Parul said, when Armaan and Riddhima started out, they were these innocent, naive peole, who had a rose-tinted view of the world. They were undamaged, perfect souls, so easy to fall in love with.But now, they've both changed. The change with Riddhima is more evident, maybe because she's married, and has been with Sid a longer time. Anyone can see she isn't the naive, idelaistic girl that Armaan fell in love with. The experiences she's had with Sid, the life she's made with him, can she ever go back to where she started out from ? No.

Similarly, Armaan isn't the perfect Prince Charming that Riddhima once fell in love with. He's a battered, damaged soul, with his share of imperfections and defects. More than love, he needs healing right now. Can Riddhima give him that ? No, she cannot. Also, does he love the new Riddhima-or is he still clutching on to the ghost of the woman he had loved once ? I think its the latter-because the woman he loves no longer exists, just like Armaan isn't the same man anymore.

And thats why Armaan and Riddhima, for me, cannot go back to being AR: Woh waqt koi aur tha, woh daur koi aur tha, aur woh log koi aur the.

Beautifully said Aditi.🤗

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funfan

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Posted: 15 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: Shilpa.Agarwal
there is doha(couplet) of hindi poet rahim that i really like:
rahiman dhaga prem ka, mat todo chatkay
toote se fir na jure, jure gaanth par jaye

Meaning-the thread of love if broken may be tied again but the knot remains

Thanks for this doha. I completely agree with you, CZ.. and others who support this.

Can Armaan forget that during the recent Karwa Chauth, Riddhima had eyes only for Sid?
Can Armaan forget that in the party given by him Riddhima was all over Sid and was completely oblivious to Armaan's presence?
Can Armaan forget that when he bared his soul through fake diary Riddhima's only concern was that the words were not Sid's?
Can Armaan forget SR romance scene on CCTV?

These are just a few examples. There are many more.

Armaan may forget if CVs want it so but not a large section of viewers. In short, I want to say that I agree with you that CVs have gone too far to retrace back to AR without butchering the characters of A & R and ruining the positive impression of their earlier love story.

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Akankshaa.

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Posted: 15 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: mono123
they r made for eac other

But that doesn't explain if they can be the same people they were before the shootout happened. Do you think they could be happy after ruining S and S's lives ?

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Sanskari Troublemaker

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Posted: 15 years ago

#20

thats true that cant be the same but love is more than this m sure their strong bond will cover up all these things and they will never look back in their past thats what AR are..

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