can A & R really go back to being AR once again..? - Page 5

Originally posted by: ShimzAR4EVER

@lennie.. i don't think u can compare vinraj, sameer, and nandini to the love of AR.. they were together for MUCH longer time and went through a lottttttttttt more than sameer and nandini... the journey of sameer and nandini was.. we met.we fought...we fell in love, we separated cuz of our parents.. it was maybe a few months long...?

but seriously... how can one compare the love of Armaan and Riddhima to the love of Sameer and Nandini??

Read my post, i said imagine the scenerio NOT exactly compare it (but the basis is similar), and i wasnt comparing but the thing that was the same is that both Nandini and Riddhima changed with circumstances and time envolved into a woman

Originally posted by: nikita_88

🤣🤣🤣 Did you watch the Sid and Tammana story?

Umm if you remember the day of her engangment when Sid planned to Kidnap her but then didn't, and they spoke on the terrace Sid was asked to imagine his life and Tammana was not part of his thoughts? 😆

Things will never be the same but so what? People evolve as time goes by. Personally, I still see them as 'AR' even though they aren't together. Armaan will always be there for her and Riddhima will always be affected his actions. If and when they get together, the essence will be the same because the love had never gone and I don't believe it ever will go. Even now they aren't A & R, they are AR! So circumstances may change but that essence of their love is still there and as long as that stays, I don't see why Mrs.Modi can't go back to being Basket.

As I said, its not even A & R for a lot of us. It still is AR!

It's difficult to say at the minute....

If i were to put myself in the situation like Riddhima i would find it awkward and hard to go back to my first love because of everything that has happened.

Yes i'd have the memories of my love with him but then the memories of everything that happend post break up and everything that Sid did would make me feel too guilty to ever be happy with Armaan.

And it's simply because Sid is such a kind hearted pure soul, my conscious wouldn't be able to live with hurting someone like him.

But that's not to say that i would be compromising myself, i think at the minute Armaan believes that there is nothing else beyond him and Riddhima he hasn't give himself the chance to properly move on yet once he does he'll see that he can remember his time with Riddhima fondly yet still be happy with someone else who will give him the love he deserves.

Riddhima to a certain extent has already experienced a little of this with Sid hence her feelings for him, but she's still clinging onto her past somewhat in that nostalgic way because she feels the guilt of leaving Armaan and wants to somehow rectify that and ensure that he too is happy.

The only way i see AR going back is if they decide to kill off Sid and Shilpa (shoud shilpa become a love interest for Armaan) and then AR can reunite destiny wise....Not that i want either Shilpa or Sid dead, i love all four of them.

But in my opinion the beautiful nature of the AR relationship has become slightly tarnished, because of Riddhima's marriage and because of Armaans destruction, it just wouldn't feel right. And both have grown so much that it'll be like taking a step back and life always teaches us to move forward not look back, because if we look back we'll never be able to move forward.

Just my POV, remember i love them all 😊

Originally posted by: CZ..

we're looking at the present scenario in such a grey light - with ArSh being the painful story and SR reflecting the uneven face of the contemporary marriage. but why are we still vieweing AR in a white light? are they so perfect that despite and inspite of all issues, given a chance, they'd jump back together without any qualms?

don't we all wish relationships were so simple?

I JUST WISH THEY WERE BCOZ IN REAL LIFE ITS SO NOT

my personal POV is, all said and done, even if A & R are given a chance, they won't be able to rekindle their relationship now. too much has happened. since the time that they've not been together, both have gone through different experiences, different situations. for armaan, this has been the hardest time of his life - will he be able to forget all the pain that this relationship gave to him? I feel he's become so closed and so numb as a person that even if ridhima came running into his arms, he won't be able to give her any love. and ridhima has been married, that's a different experience altogether. will she be able to erase sid from her memory? what about the feelings that had started blossoming within her, towards sid? her relationship with sid has changed her as a person, as a woman. she's no longer the ridhima that was armaan's girlfriend. I'm not saying that this change has been for the good, or for the bad, for that matter - but it's a change. and once a change happens, it's not so easy to retrace your steps back to when you started out from.

U HIT THE NAIL NEETZ..i soo agree that now armaan n riddhima are changed personalities..i think if they even get back together armaan might be able to forget what happened..but the question is will riddhima be able to forget what happened between him n sid???THE ANSWER IS NO bcoz riddhima n sid are not in a forced relationship now..riddhima now is willingly a female participant in her marriage...she is not the BASKET anymore..he ques is will riddhima be able to forget the love she had for sid,will she able to forget what sid has done for her???,will she able to forget how much sid loved her???THE ANS IS NO...THOUGH I DONT LIKE SR BUT STILL HAVE TO SAY THAT RIDDHIMA WILL NOT BE ABLE TO GIVE UP ON HER MARRIAGE ...bcoz whateve happens she will still be indebited to sid for being therfe with her when she had almost died n lost hope in her life

so basically, my point is that A & R have gone through too many changes to be able to rekindle their relationship once again. too much has happened, between them and around them. what AR fans might claim to be 'love' might just be 'nostalgia' and a human inability to let go of the memories that you once cherished and kept so close to your heart. yes, it is difficult for ridhima to see some other girl with armaan, simply for the reason that she's not used to seeing anyone else with him. it takes time to let go of any habit, and slowly and steadily ridhima will come to terms with the fact that armaan can go out with someone else too. I think even though she has moved on, she always had a certain expectation that armaan will somehow always love her. it's a very humane reaction - you want someone to continue to love you even though you yourself might not love him/her back.

neetz well this is a very controversial thing bcoz armaan still has that love for her..but i agree that wat riddhima has for armaan might be the nostalgia..and yup riddhima definitely feels strange to see armaan with somene else..and to some extent it is jealousy but not all jealousy...its like a new thing for her all together..and i believe slowly riddhima would adjust to it and will be able to see armaan with someone else,,,with time she would accept that ARMAAN CAN AND WILL MOVE ON..and more thing that she still believes she is centre of universe for armaan but wen she sees her image slipping from there so obviously she feels bad n wants that position back...but with time riddhima will also accept this fact....😛😛😛

comments? (:

P.S - yeah yeah anyone can comment. I hate the bullshit disclaimer.

Originally posted by: Lennie

Read my post, i said imagine the scenerio NOT exactly compare it (but the basis is similar), and i wasnt comparing but the thing that was the same is that both Nandini and Riddhima changed with circumstances and time envolved into a woman

Thats what i said in the post as well

okay..my apologiez for not understanding ur post...however.. in the case of sameer and nandini.. Sameer didnt' change much and Nandini did... he wasn't a part of her life anymore... her husband didnt' have conversations with Sameer about Nandini..they were totally cut off and Sameer didn't mature as much as Armaan did.. If Riddhima has evolved then so has Armaan... they both changed due to the circumstances, TOGETHER..whereas Sameer and Nandini were long gone... so it was much easier for Nandini to get to know her husband without Sameer, whereas Riddhima sees them both day and night...she is involved with the lives of both men...so how difficult would it be for her to go back to Armaan?

They can't!

Right now the story is: AR were madly in love and got separated by the circumstances. R married S and then A came back. However, R realised S is her world and chose S over A.

To continue this in AR track, story will read: AR were madly in love and got separated by the circumstances. R married S and then A came back. However, R realised S is her world and chose S over A. ... When SR romance bloomed and their relationship strengthened with good understanding and trust, R suddenly realised that she prefers A over S. R divorced S and married A.

CZ..loved yr sensible post👏👏👏👏👏👏

I feel ridz has changed ..so ha Armaann..They both CA NEVER GET BACK AS THEY CANNOT LIVE THEIR LIFE HAPPILY AFTER DESTROTING A PERSON LIKE SID....

Also it is only this FEW PPL WITH FOREVER THEORY WHO THINK sid IS SELFISSH but ridz will never never go against sid FOR WHAT sr HAVE SHARED..aLSO aRMAAN WILL NEVER THINK THAT sID WILL HARM HIM OR HE IS SELFISH.....

AR ARE FINISHED YES ARMI WILL FALL IN LOVE AGAIN ALSO BUT SLOWLY.........

Originally posted by: funfan

Right now the story is: AR were madly in love and got separated by the circumstances. R married S and then A came back. However, R realised S is her world and chose S over A.

To continue this in AR track, story will read: AR were madly in love and got separated by the circumstances. R married S and then A came back. However, R realised S is her world and chose S over A. ... When SR romance bloomed and their relationship strengthened with good understanding and trust, R suddenly realised that she prefers A over S. R divorced S and married A.

let me continue...