The GLORY of being 'SINGLE' !!!! - Page 9

Originally posted by: lalixlili

What's wrong with being confused????Not everyone likes stupid hypocritical fairy tales in which love is just a parody - some just like realistic relationships - they take what they have to take and leave what they have to ...no need to being as openminded as a carebear.....

Ahh Lili.....you are my soul sister! 😊

As for those who called us weird, IMO being confused is weird to those who are sexually repressed goody two shoes virgins.😛 Ofcourse we ain't no virgin flowers so we love our committed and open relationships equally. Oh we shall burn in hell for being such infidels...........nahiiiiiiiiin! 😆



Yup I'm one of those weirdos that picked confused. I'm human, I am allowed to feel confused or like sex just for the heck of it. I won't apologize or provide explanations for the way I feel or act just because I'm a woman. 😆 I don't live under mommy and daddy's roof and neither do I belief in reincarnation/afterlife/hell/heaven so to me I only have one life and I'm alone responsible for it. I will live it the way I see fit according to self-made morals not according to some media fed fairy tale crap or religious mumbo jumbo. 😃

*Mental note* needs to answer the question before throwing off a facetious comment or going on a rant.

Okay so @ OT:

Can one enjoy life like a single when committed? Oh absolutely, you just need to figure your place out in life, know who you are, what you want, be self sufficient and command respect from your partner. If you treat yourself as a doormat, so will your partner. Let him/her know you value your independence despite the committed relationship and he/she will respect that and if he does not, he/she isn't one for you anyway.


Commitment before marriage? Ahh...don't really care for marriage, its not the ultimate goal for a committed relationship. IMO, people should stay together because they understand, value, trust and respect each other not because of some piece of paper. I don't really include love here because the kind of love fairy tales are made up are fleeting. Sure, you can love someone for the rest of your life, but I don't think its possible to be IN love with that person 24/7 for the rest of your life. Committed relatonships are based on much more than something iffy as love. They come out of mutual respect, trust, friendship and understanding and they take a lot of work and time contrary to what movies and books tell us.

Originally posted by: xetaxeta

Ahh Lili.....you are my soul sister! 😊

As for those who called us weird, IMO being confused is weird to those who are sexually repressed goody two shoes virgins.😛 Ofcourse we ain't no virgin flowers so we love our committed and open relationships equally. Oh we shall burn in hell for being such infidels...........nahiiiiiiiiin! 😆 err no, that's not even what I meant. I was of the opinion that confused was a fancy term for being a bi now, there's no need to be religious or goody two shoes , but theres a limit to being totally sordid and lawless 😆



Yup I'm one of those weirdos that picked confused. I'm human, I am allowed to feel confused or like sex just for the heck of it. I won't apologize or provide explanations for the way I feel or act just because I'm a woman. 😆 I don't live under mommy and daddy's roof and neither do I belief in reincarnation/afterlife/hell/heaven so to me I only have one life and I'm alone responsible for it. I will live it the way I see fit according to self-made morals not according to some media fed fairy tale crap or religious mumbo jumbo. 😃

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Originally posted by: xetaxeta

Commitment before marriage? Ahh...don't really care for marriage, its not the ultimate goal for a committed relationship. IMO, people should stay together because they understand, value, trust and respect each other not because of some piece of paper. I don't really include love here because the kind of love fairy tales are made up are fleeting. Sure, you can love someone for the rest of your life, but I don't think its possible to be IN love with that person 24/7 for the rest of your life. Committed relatonships are based on much more than something iffy as love. They come out of mutual respect, trust, friendship and understanding and they take a lot of work and time contrary to what movies and books tell us.

Agreed here, especially with the bolded bit. Additionally, having such high expectations of love also causes marriage or relationship to fall down.

While I wouldn't call marriage a "piece of paper", I don't think a marriage is necessary; it should be a personal choice. I don't see how a committed live-in relationship is any different from a marriage. Simply getting married just for societal pressure or just for the heck of it is no better.

Originally posted by: lalixlili

Translation : in a relationship means you kinda see someone very or more or less frequently....you have sex or you kinda flirt - not committed means that she won't expect the guy to be faithful/lovey dovey puppy type or to ask her hand for marriage....

If I'm wrong...please do enlighten us --- but that's how I understand it 🥱

Sowieee..😆😆......can't enlighten u on this lili.............I didn't have the luxury of having a boyfriend or seeing different people.........so no experience here....................but as I understand you are probably talking about friendship with perks...

Originally posted by: lalixlili

What's wrong with being confused????Not everyone likes stupid hypocritical fairy tales in which love is just a parody - some just like realistic relationships - they take what they have to take and leave what they have to ...no need to being as openminded as a carebear.....

Totally agree with you Lili...we live in a free world....if I want to be confused...who is going to stop me😡

Originally posted by: xetaxeta

I won't apologize or provide explanations for the way I feel or act just because I'm a woman. 😆 I don't live under mommy and daddy's roof and neither do I belief in reincarnation/afterlife/hell/heaven so to me I only have one life and I'm alone responsible for it. I will live it the way I see fit according to self-made morals not according to some media fed fairy tale crap or religious mumbo jumbo. 😃

You totally ROCK girl..👍🏼⭐️😎..........as long as you are true to YOUR morals nothing else matters...that is the way I think too....I never ever cheat with the standards I have set for my self😛

i thought Ice ji was a guy !

Ice-Thinker = Guy
Blue-Ice = Woman
Iceberg = Evil thing that sank the Titanic.