The GLORY of being 'SINGLE' !!!!

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_Angie_

@_Angie_

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Posted: 15 years ago

#91

Earlier I used to be confused about Ice thinker and Blue ice too but no longer , now its shaketheback and solid snake 😆

- I need to re check their posts for their ID

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return_to_hades

@return_to_hades

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Posted: 15 years ago

#92

Originally posted by: old-black-joe

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OBJ,

Bisexual is not confused, they are pretty sure about what they like.
Bicurious is somewhat confused, they are trying to figure what they like.

The confused/complicated in relationship statuses is not related to sexual preference, but to the actual status of the relationship.

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blue-ice.

@blue-ice.

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Posted: 15 years ago

#93

Originally posted by: shaktheback
i thought Ice ji was a guy !

Not any more😆...see Sarina's post.....the MOD has confirmed I am a woman.

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Posted: 15 years ago

#94

I value marriage --- pbbly because of my religion --- when you grow up very young being fed by it ^^ - there are some principles that you keep from it. Marriage is sacred for me - it's not a joke - it's not a business deal - it has to do with love (I mean realistic love) trust - respect - and common vision of life.

Marriage can't be ONLY a piece of paper....because it produces rights for both of the partners andtheir children. And it gives you some "social" respect too.

But I have to agree with xeta-ji - one can love forever the certain special someone but not ALL the time..that's just not possible.

I don't think I will get married because I don't want to divorce.....which is sth I REALLY want to avoid....

I know this - cause I don't take cr*p easily and in a relationship - one has to take lots of it - it's called making compromises...🥱lol

But it's true - when you're single -- You think first about yourself your desires & dreams - when you're in a couple life - you have to think "US" all the time and adapt your initial character to the partner's - which is difficult --- because sometimes you may lose your (self) soul in it.

Of course -- human beings aren't made to remain alone all the time -- so one way or another -(in most cases) - we end up in "couple"...but that doesn't mean the couple is married - there is as much diversity in couples than couples themselves.

Edited by lalixlili - 15 years ago

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blue-ice.

@blue-ice.

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Posted: 15 years ago

#95

Originally posted by: angie.4u
Earlier I used to be confused about Ice thinker and Blue ice too but no longer , now its shaketheback and solid snake 😆
- I need to re check their posts for their ID

Angie...I am really bummed when intelligent people like you and Mr. K confuse me with Ice thinker..........Now I consider myself ......having reasonable common sense...though I am off the tangent sometimes 😆...............so if I was icethinker and I had to use a another ID why in the world would I choose an ID with an ICE in it when I can choose from the millions of words from the english/hindi vocabulary..😆.

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Posted: 15 years ago

#96

Originally posted by: blue-ice

Sowieee..😆😆......can't enlighten u on this lili.............I didn't have the luxury of having a boyfriend or seeing different people.........so no experience here....................but as I understand you are probably talking about friendship with perks...

You know at a certain age...to say an example 25 years old..and you've been single a long time --- and you 're in a certain phase of your existence -- you need a partner. Sometimes it's not the RIGHT partner - so you deal with it a certain amount of time.....when you're 25 you're a grown up and you date USUALLY grown ups like you and two grown ups GENERALLY feel the desire to be closed...ok there ar emany ways to be so...to each their own...

I don't see different people - it's just when you date s.o and you realize very soon - it's not the good person for you - so you stop seeing that someone......

I don't date cause I'm rarely asked to ...and I'm too old to act teenage --- so I have let's say very frank relationships --- I know where I go and what I can get form the partner in terms of involvement - so far my only ONE serious relationship was ONLY for me not for my former partner - to bad *2 years sobfest* lol that's life.....

even when I meet so called committed people to each other - it doesn't take long to realize most of the times - the relationship is bullshit - so I'd rather remain "single" unattached officially to someone to show a fake appearance of my love life...😳

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blue-ice.

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Posted: 15 years ago

#97

Originally posted by: lalixlili
so I'd rather remain "single" unattached officially to someone to show a fake appearance of my love life...😳

Is being in a relationship/love/marriage...considered something to be proud of😕....I don't think so..........so why should one show a fake appearance of having a love life anyways......I don't care if one is single or in a relationship or married....or confused for that matter...

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Posted: 15 years ago

#98

Let's say - I know MANY people who are into fake relationships (which doesn't involve love & trust but more money deal & peace of mind acc to their living standard & how can I forget - O'clock emergency --- high time for making babies or to get settled to have some purpose in life )