The GLORY of being 'SINGLE' !!!!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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There is an Anonymous saying 😆 😆, "When you're single, your pockets will jingle." 🤣🤣🤣. Well, most of them here as I know love being SINGLE .. 😃 !

SINGLE or in a RELATIONSHIP !!

What do you think you are ?
Can one enjoy life like a Single when Committed ? 😃
Why do you think one should remain Single/ In a Relationship ?

What is your take to commitment to a person before marriage ?
Edited by shaktheback - 14 years ago

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Posted: 14 years ago
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What all does confused entail....please make it clear🤔
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Ooohho ! Now see 😃 .. I was editing all the while !
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Singleeeee.

Everyone just needs to do what makes them happy.
If someone gets happiness out of being single, thats fine.
And if someone gets happiness out of a relationship, thats fine too.

A commitment to a person before marriage is not wrong in my opinion. These commitments before marriage can often lead to marriage itself :)
And it would be nice to know what qualities you want/dont want in your future spouse.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Of course commitments before marriage is not wrong. I don't see the harm in being intimate with someone before marriage (if that is their ultimate aim).

Oh and yes, I am single. 😛 It's much easy that way. 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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In a small town in the US, there is a rather sizable factory that hires only married men.

Concerned about this, a local woman called on the manager and asked him, "Why is it you limit your employees to married men? Is it because you think women are weak, dumb, cantankerous..or what?"

"Not at all, Ma'am," the manager replied. "It is because our employees are used to obeying orders, are accustomed to being shoved around, know how to keep their mouths shut and don't
pout when I yell at them."

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I'm in a relationship but not committed, so I guess I'm half-single. These are the best kinds btw. Its strange, when I was in a relationship, I felt suffocated then when I became completely single, there seemed to be a void somewhere. Finally now I'm in a pristine state. 🥱
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: xetaxeta

I'm in a relationship but not committed, so I guess I'm half-single. These are the best kinds btw. 😳



in todays world, perhaps. 🤔
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I'm in a relationship committed to marriage(as of now)...

To be honest, I really liked being single..Even at the start of my relationship, it was fun..There was freedom, fun....I was not answerable to anyone...I enjoyed a lot..But ever since the marriage has been fixed, things have got bit serious.

Love is altogether a different thing, itz really a very very good feeling..But ah..I miss my single days...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I have to say first - I don't believe in marriage & conventionnal Jodis. I don't believe in love either --- I mean cinematographic love ^^
I was VERY recently in a relationship - but not committed at all..It ended just 1 day ago. The nicest part was being distant & closed at the same time --- knowing how to put things into perspective & accepting the relationship in itself - which was NOTHING extraordinary but at least realistic to my very eyes.
I think I'm too coward and too freedom lover to keep a steady / stable relationship in which I'd pbbly feel oppressed - depressed. I like that my partner has a right to be and the same goes for me.
So yes I'm all for comittements before marriage - all kind..but it depends on what one wants.
If a girl wants to remain virgin for her husband - I think that's just great ---- she'll confront to less douchebags that I already have lol.
Seriously --- I think it's very personal - one has to do according to his heart & mind. I remained a looooong time single (no emotional relationship). And it's really not good for the mood - you end up being a little less careful about your weight & appearance. When you're in a relationhip - you make efforts to socialize, to share things from you - you learn to be happy in your own way - that's very commendable...
Since today --- I'll remain single until I get married. -_-
No serious relationship at all - I've never had anyway..cause I don't like lies & betrayal - it just makes me act like the maddest woman in the world - which I think I am ^^ lol
I think the only thing that matters is to be READY in your mind & heart to endure desillusions - to enjoy the happiness to be intimate/closed to someone - to be grounded & realistic about the partner you have. And of course to be true to yourself.
Now I'm confused. 😕 What stance to keep? I want a mature loving interaction with someone but I don't (want to?) meet them. I want to remain free but I'm more & more not so brave enough to bear the constant loneliness (I remain single & lonely very very often) which is attached to it. I believe in a possible genuine love -- but I have a hard time believing in its effectivity. 😊
Yes, you get it --- I'm complicated lol
Edited by lalixlili - 14 years ago

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