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dunno

@Mindbender

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Posted: 16 years ago

#41

^^ superb !

That also explains how in love "aankhon hi aankhon mein ishara ho jaata hai"😆

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Posted: 16 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: angie.4u

Let me narrate the foll story

A saint asked his disciples, 'Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?' Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.'

'But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you?' asked the saint. 'Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you're angry?'

Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint.

Finally he explained, 'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.'

Then the saint asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small...' The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.

MORAL: When you argue do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other more, else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.

Awesome!!! Thanks soo much for sharing!!! It just made my day

When my manager is angry at me, he doesnt say anything,,,just gives me that ''look'' and i get the message ...love shove?😆

Xoxo

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_Angie_

@_Angie_

Rocker

Posted: 16 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: clodpolish

^^ superb !

That also explains how in love "aankhon hi aankhon mein ishara ho jaata hai"

Thanx cloddy ! 😊not only ankhon hi ankhon mein but even when one is quite far off There R some mothers who somehow seem to sense when their child is unwell, hurt or in any sort of trouble inspite of the geographical distance separating them. Call it esp or closeness of heart 🤔 But my mom sure does everytime

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casper

@Roadrunnerz

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

#44

Hey angie , now thats a nice explanation about ppl shouting in anger 👍🏼

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purvi

@poooohjjjazzzzz

Navigator

Posted: 16 years ago

#45

it should definitely be taken lightly.

it affects our mind alot.......

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nandini

@Riddikulus

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Posted: 16 years ago

#46

hmm...interesting topic Cloddy...😊

it's quite true...when angry, people do say things they probably would not have if they were not...but the reasons for the same can be different under different circumstances...and it varies with different people...there are those, for instance, who will say things when they are angry with the sole purpose of jabbing the person they're angry wih...i actually have a friend who does that, and she makes it quite clear that she's doing it just for the sake of being vindictive...now with someone like me, who is a friend of hers, i would know that she will regret it once the storm's blown over, and will apologise for having been an absolute jerk...but while she can afford to take that liberty with me, the same might not hold good for someone who does not know her all that well...everyone is not going to wait for an apology...they'll take her statements at face value, and that's all there is to it...in that instance, the heat-of-the-moment argument will not necessarily be so convincing...

this is the reason why anger is healthy only when in one's control, and handled maturely...one can be angry, but one should ensure that one doesn't lose one's senses along with one's temper...

of course, there are also those who end up saying things they would not have said otherwise to spare you the hurt, but would certainly have had them somewhere at the back of their minds...and losing their temper might act as a catalyst, bringing them all to the forefront, until they spit some of them out...that happens too, people spilling very real trains of thought which they might not have wanted to reveal to you for various reasons...

in my opinion, it depends upon the person at the receiving end to figure out what to take seriously and what not to...and the ability to do that, i believe, comes with a certain amount of knowledge of the person who is angry, as well as a general understanding of human nature...

cheers! 😃

Edited by nandinidev - 16 years ago

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dunno

@Mindbender

Sparkler

Posted: 16 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: nandinidev

in my opinion, it depends upon the person at the receiving end to figure out what to take seriously and what not to...and the ability to dothat, i believe, comes with a certain amount of knowledge of the person who is angry, as well as a general understanding of human nature...

true that absolutely !

As with other things, the most important point is to be open minded !