anger ?...

well......we often hear that what one says when angry should be taken lightly thereafter cos it was just said in the heat of the moment

But should we take it lightly. Doesn't the words that come out during the time we are angry also come from our mouth only........so they must be there somewhere in our subconscious no?

So , what exactly do we conclude after a heated argument wherein many disturbing words are spoken by an otherwise kind person?

Btw- you can add your own tangents to the topic as well😊

both things happen...

Originally posted by: sam_84

i agree some of those words are in the mind but we overlook them.

but when in anger, our desires is over our conscience and we say whtwe dont believe in.

which desires?

Originally posted by: sonur15

..but sometimes person dosent mean those words which come out during the anger ..it all about control..the question is do u control the anger or your anger controls u ??

does not mean those words ? hmm well from where do they originate then ? why are these words there in the mind of the person firstly ?

Originally posted by: PhoeniXof_Hades

Anger is a good thing -- but only when kept under proper control. Without anger, you would become a stupid, completely personalityless person.

hmm strong words labib ji !

so you mean to say we should have anger in our heart but not on our face huh?

btw -

you are going to take a lot of time to reach 10000 posts if you continue writing 30 posts in one😆😆😆...........not that anyone cares about post count though😊

Originally posted by: sonur15

They originate from anger just anger..it happense.g when mother scold her kid for something but later she feel guilty for scolding her child unnecissarily.

but she would n't say absolutely ridiculous things to her child even in anger would she ?

i mean sometimes we really hear ridiculous things from angry people........but generally when calm they might not be as rude or say as wrong things......so what to interpret out of those words?

after all they were there in their subconscious

She can if she is frustrated but yeah she wouldn't say anything horrible....but if she says then she'll feel guilty afterwards but if we dont know the person we normally feel ( which i feel somehow is right ) that whatever he/she has said in anger it is in their subconscious mind. we dont feel the same for our friends whom we know very well.